Throughout the past few years, our country has experienced plenty of grieving. There have been so many terror attacks, mass shootings, random acts of violence throughout the entire world, and a pandemic that has affected us all deeply.
Due to all of this, many people are grieving the loss of a loved one or simply the seeming loss of humanity.
These same people, including you if you are one of them, may feel inspired by some sympathy quotes and words of comfort.
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Sometimes knowing what to say or do for a person who lost a loved one is very difficult and words of sympathy don’t come naturally to a lot of people. You may be worried about saying the wrong thing or saying something that doesn’t help. It can be hard to help someone who is grieving, even when you are trying to find comforting words too.
If you have trouble finding the words or don’t know what to do, sometimes words of comfort and bible quotes can help us help others in times of need.
As long as you understand that sometimes all you can do is offer a shoulder to cry on and maybe some sympathy notes, you will be able to help anyone in a time of sorrow.
There isn’t always a specific thing to say or the right sympathy gifts to bring to someone who is missing a family member, pet, or friend, but comfort quotes can offer us ideas when we encounter those moments.
Here are some uplifting quotes to offer as words of comfort for someone who is grieving, whether in a sympathy card or in person.
1. «It’s the process of grieving that’s important and necessary, not the understanding of it.»
Understand the process.
2. «No rule book. No time frame. No judgment. Grief is as individual as a fingerprint. Do what is right for your soul.»
Do what is best for you throughout the grief process.
3. «You don’t get over it, you get through it… It doesn’t get better, it gets different…Every day, just like me, Grief puts on a new face.» — Wendy Feireisen
Grief changes us.
4. «Grief is like the ocean; it comes on waves ebbing and flowing. Sometimes the water is calm, and sometimes it is overwhelming. All we can do is learn to swim.» — Vicki Harrison
Just keep swimming.
5. «It’s not about getting over it it’s about learning to live with it.» — After Chloe
We learn to live with the grief.
6. «Grief changes us the pain sculpts us into someone who understands more deeply hurts more often appreciates more quickly cries more easily hopes more desperately loves more openly.»
Grief impacts who we become.
7. «Healing takes time and you are doing the best you can and that is perfect.»
Take your time.
8. «I know now that we never get over great losses; we absorb them, and they carve us into different, often kinder, creatures.» — Gail Caldwell
We absorb that loss.
9. “Grief, no matter how you try to cater to its wail, has a way of fading away.” — V.C. Andrews
You will get through it.
Words Of Comfort After The Loss Of A Loved One
10. «Goodbyes are not forever. Goodbyes are not the end. They simply mean I’ll miss you until we meet again.»
They will meet again.
11. «Angels are always near to those who are grieving. To whisper to them that their loved ones are safe in the hands of God.»
They are safe.
12. “Death ends a life, not a relationship.” — Mitch Albom
They’re always with you in spirit, and you have your memories to get you through.
13. “I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories.” — Leo Buscaglia
Your life is forever changed.
14. “I love you every day. And now I will miss you every day.” — Mitch Albom
Think of all of the good times.
15. “The sorrow we feel when we lose a loved one is the price we pay to have had them in our lives.” — Rob Liano
Well worth it.
16. “Loss is only temporary when you believe in God!” ― Latoya Alston
You will meet again.
17. “Memories are all that you have, which help you survive the storms and struggles of your daily life after you lose someone!” ― Nikita Dudani
Your memories can help fill the emptiness that you’re feeling.
18. “Death should not quiet your soul; instead, it should enliven it.” ― Angie Corbett-Kuiper
Life is short, enjoy it while you can.
19. “The memories we have for those who left are our ultimate consolation.” ― Anoir Ou-Chad
You can relive them as often as you need.
20. “The greatest tribute we can give to the deceased is to keep on living. For when we don’t, we too shall die, before our time.” ― Charles F. Glassman
They’d want you to keep enjoying life.
21. “Say not in grief ‘he is no more’ but in thankfulness that he was.” — Hebrew Proverb
Your time together was precious.
Words Of Comfort After The Loss Of A Pet
22. «A loyal companion and best friend. May their memories bring you comfort in this time of loss.»
Photos and memories can provide you with some comfort during this difficult time.
23. «No matter how or when we lose our furry friends, their love lasts a lifetime.»
Their unconditional love will never be forgotten.
24. «Dogs are not our whole life, but they make our lives whole.» — Roger Caras
Our pets are everything.
25. «If there is a heaven, it’s certain our animals are to be there. Their lives become so interwoven with our own, it would take more than an archangel to detangle them.» — Pam Brown
So true.
26. «No amount of time can erase the memory of a good cat, and no amount of masking tape can ever totally remove his fur from your couch.» — Leo Dworken
Every strand of fur will evoke powerful memories from now on.
27. “I guess you don’t really own a dog, you rent them, and you have to be thankful that you had a long lease.” — Joe Garagiola
So lucky to have them in your life for the time that you did.
28. “Sometimes losing a pet is more painful than losing a human because in the case of the pet, you were not pretending to love it.” — Amy Sedaris
The love remains pure even after death.
29. “If you have a dog, you will most likely outlive it; to get a dog is to open yourself to profound joy and, prospectively, to equally profound sadness.” — Marjorie Garber
So worth it.
30. «A pet’s love is never replaced but always remembered.”
Forever and always.
31. “You’ve lost a dog but gained a guardian angel.”
Your best friend is looking out for you.
Uplifting Bible Verses To Offer As Words Of Comfort
32. «The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.» — Psalm 34:18
He is watching over you.
33. «Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.» — Matthew 5:4
You are not alone.
34. «Brothers and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope. For we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him.» — 1 Thessalonians 4:13-14
Your loved one is in a good place.
35. «Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.» — John 14:27
You are in good hands.
36. «Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.» — Isaiah 41:10
You are never alone in your grief.
37. “Therefore you too have grief now; but I will see you again, and your heart will rejoice, and no one will take your joy away from you.» — John 16:22
The loss is painful, but you will get through it.
38. «I can do all this through him who gives me strength.» — Philippians 4:13
You can do this.
Sympathy Messages To Bring Comfort
39. «I made it home I just wanted to let you know that I made it home. Everything is so pretty here, so white, so fresh, so new. I wish that you could close your eyes so you could see it too. Please try not to be sad for me. Try to understand. God is taking care of me…I’m in the shelter of his hands. Here there is no sadness, and no sorrow, and no pain. Here there is no crying, and I’ll never hurt again. Here it is peaceful when all the angels sing. I really have to go for now… I’ve just got to try my wings. PS… I’ll be the first face you see when you get here!»
Remembering your loved one is in a happy place.
40. «Just checking on you and praying God takes extra special care of you today.»
Sometimes checking in is all someone needs.
41. «There is nothing I can say to take away your hurt but you have my shoulder to cry on and my loving hugs. Know that I will be here for you when you need me.»
Having a shoulder to cry on is important when you are grieving.
42. «Maybe I can’t stop the downpour, but I will always join you for a walk in the rain.»
Be by their side while they grieve, even if it means sitting in silence.
43. «A grief blessing may the sun bring you new energy every day, bringing light into the darkness of your soul may the moon softly restore you by night bathing you in the glow of restful sleep and peaceful dreams may the rain wash away your worries and cleanse the hurt that sits in your heart may the breeze blow new strength into your being, and may you believe in the courage of yourself may you walk gently through the world, keeping your loved one with you always knowing that you are never parted in the beating of your heart.» — Native Apache Blessing
A blessing to share for that person grieving.
44. »It’s okay. It’s okay to miss them. It’s okay to cry. It’s okay to laugh. It’s okay to breathe deeply. It’s okay to smile when you think of them. It’s okay to function. It’s okay to be angry. It’s okay to be thankful. It’s okay to love again. It’s okay to remember. It’s okay to hope. It’s okay, to be honest. It’s okay to trust again. It’s okay. It’s okay. It’s okay.» — Lexi Behrndt
Do not feel bad about what you are feeling or doing in your grief.
45. «A dragonfly to remind me even though we are apart your spirit is always with me forever in my heart.»
The spirit of their loved one is always there.
46. «Those we love don’t go away, they walk beside us every day. Unseen, unheard but always near, still loved, still missed, and held so dear.»
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Always nearby us.
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47. «There are some who bring a light so great to the world that even after they have gone the light remains.»
Their light remains here on Earth.
48. «My deepest sympathy as the days continue to pass, I hope you find comfort and support in the people that surround you and the wonderful memories you carry in your mind and in your heart.»
Sharing our sympathy for what they are going through.
49. «Although I know that no words can ease the loss you feel, just know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.»
Let them know you are thinking of them.
50. «Thinking of you at this time of sorrow, with a wish for strength as you face tomorrow.»
They are on our mind.
51. «Whatsoever soothes your spirit comforts your soul and brings you peace … that is what is wished for you at this difficult time.»
Wishing whatever brings them peace will come around.
52. «May your heart find peace and tranquility through the healing power of love, hope, and light, today and always.»
Hoping they find peace.
53. «May the hope of heaven give you peace, and the tender touch of the father bring you comfort with sympathy and prayers.»
The hope of Heaven.
54. «I’m so sorry for your loss!»
A simple sorry.
55. «Comfort for your sorrow … Courage for each new day … Strength to face this journey … His word to light your way … His grace to fill your heart with peace to understand … His love to hold you gently in the hollow of his hand.»
God’s comfort.
56. «There are no tears in heaven, nor grief of any kind. I leave this final teardrop to those I’ve left behind through absent from the body I’m present with the lord the joy of my salvation is now my full reward.»
You can assure them that their loved one is happy.
Words Of Comfort To Help Grieving Friends and Family
57. «Sitting silently beside a friend who is hurting may be the best gift we can give.»
Sometimes words aren’t necessary.
58. «We rise by lifting others.» — Robert Ingersoll
We can lift one another up in times of sorrow.
59. “No one is useless in this world who lightens the burdens of another.” ― Charles Dickens
Your intentions won’t go unnoticed.
60. “A kind gesture can reach a wound that only compassion can heal.” ― Steve Maraboli
That’s really all it takes.
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These days, social media is the norm for staying connected. Everyone sends and receives news updates instantly. Everyone in your network communicates through texting, posting, and responding to online messages.
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- Comforting Texts to Send to a Family Member
- Comforting Texts to Send to a Close Friend
- Comforting Texts to Send to Someone Who Lost a Partner or Spouse
- Comforting Texts to Send to an Acquaintance or Colleague
When news that someone you know has died hits social circles, you may be wondering what is the appropriate response to that news. Should you pick up the phone and call? Should you send fresh flowers or another sympathy plant? Is it OK to send a text offering condolences? How do you comfort someone who is grieving through text? And, how do you console someone whom you only talk to online?
It’s acceptable to send a text if it makes sense for you to do so. If you only talk online or through text, there’s nothing wrong with responding to the news by sending a text. Finding the right words to say to someone whose loved one has died is never easy. Below you will find a few examples of what to say and when it’s appropriate to say it.
Other Ways to Share a Comforting Message
Sending a comforting text or direct message can be a simple and meaningful way to connect with someone who needs support. But you can also use the messages suggested in this article to share a message of comfort in other ways. Here are some ideas for ways to support a loved one with a short message.
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Write an online memorial tribute
If someone has passed away, check to see if the family has set up an online memorial and possibly a memorial fundraiser. If they have, you can write one of these comforting messages in a tribute message to the departed person. If the family hasn’t yet set up a memorial page, you might be able to help them do so using Cake’s online memorial tool. Helping with this process can be a meaningful way to lend support and comfort during a difficult time.
Give a card
Sometimes, sending a physical card or letter can offer more support to someone who’s grieving or in need of comfort. You can hand-write one of the messages below in a beautiful sympathy card like this one.
Give a gift
A sympathy card or simple note can also be paired with a thoughtful gift to offer comfort to your loved one. Consider attaching your comforting message to a bouquet of fresh flowers or a sympathy gift basket.
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Comforting Texts to Send to a Family Member
When one of your family members suffers death in their immediate family, it’s a loss that hits close to home. You might not know what to say to express the sorrow that you’re feeling. You might think that giving them space during this time is the best thing to do. It’s not uncommon to pull away from your loved one.
You might not know how to process death and think that nothing you can say will make them feel better. Yet, the opposite is true. When everyone else has moved on, your words of condolences can have a real impact. A shoulder to lean on during this time goes a long way in helping your family member process their grief. There are several things you can say that will leave a lasting impression.
Here are words to comfort someone who lost a loved one over text:
- «I’m sorry to hear the news of your brother’s passing. Please accept my deepest regrets for your loss.»
- «I was deeply saddened to hear of your mom’s passing. She was such a great inspiration to me. Please let me know how I can help you during this difficult time.»
- «Please accept my heartfelt condolences to you and your family on your uncle’s death. I’m sure that his memory will forever live on in your hearts.»
- «I’m sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family.»
- «I am sorry for the loss of your dear Fluffy, Aunt Mary. I cannot imagine the pain you are going through right now. Please let me know how I can help you during this difficult time.»
1. “I’m sorry to hear the news of your brother’s passing. Please accept my deepest regrets for your loss.”
When expressing your condolences by text, consider the type of relationship you have with your family members.
Decide whether it’s appropriate to follow up with an in-person visit, or if texting is enough. Depending on your relationship, it may be better to offer support in person.
2. “I was deeply saddened to hear of your mom’s passing. She was such a great inspiration to me. Please let me know how I can help you during this difficult time.”
This type of text acknowledges news of death and has a call to action. When a death occurs, there are many end-of-life matters to attend to.
With this message, you are letting your family members know that you have heard the news, how their loved one has impacted your life, and what she meant to you. You’re also offering your support when needed.
3. “Please accept my heartfelt condolences to you and your family on your uncle’s death. I’m sure that his memory will forever live on in your hearts.»
This condolence message doesn’t need to offer any further call to action. Unless you were close to the uncle, a text message is enough.
4. “I’m sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family.”
When a family member has suffered a loss of a person whom you didn’t know or didn’t know well, a simple message expressing your sympathy, like «sorry for your loss,» is both sufficient and respectful in honoring the death of their loved one.
5. “I am sorry for the loss of your dear Fluffy, Aunt Mary. I cannot imagine the pain you are going through right now. Please let me know how I can help you during this difficult time.”
Acknowledging the impact of the death of a beloved pet on Aunt Mary may be able to help during this time. It honors the bond between a pet and its owner while also offering support as you would with the loss of human life. You can even give a pet sympathy gift to provide some comfort as that person grieves.
Comforting Texts to Send to a Close Friend
When a close friend has a death in the family, it’s sometimes difficult to approach him with the right words. Dealing with death takes the fun out of friendship, and your response to the news will depend on your communication style. A text message is generally appropriate while avoiding the use of emojis.
A simple “sorry for your loss” text gets the conversation started. It expresses regret and tells him that you’re thinking of him. Consider following up your text with a phone call or visiting with a sympathy gift basket or care package.
Here are words to comfort a closed friend who lost a loved one over text:
- «My deepest sympathies go out to you, my friend. May you find comfort and peace during this difficult time. Know that I’m here for you.»
- «I heard the news, my friend. I can’t even begin to understand what you are feeling, but I want you to know that I’m here for you. I’m sending you my prayers and condolences. I’ll be checking in on you to see how you are doing.»
- «I was deeply saddened to hear about your brother’s passing. He was like a brother to me. Please offer my sincerest condolences to your family. You have my deepest sympathy.»
- «I’m sorry for your loss. Please accept my sincerest sympathy.»
- «I’m so sorry to hear this sad news. I’m thinking of you and your family at this time. Please let me know how I can help.»
6. “My deepest sympathies go out to you, my friend. May you find comfort and peace during this difficult time. Know that I’m here for you.”
These words let your friend know that you are suffering along with him. Offering your support lets him know that you are reliable in his time of need.
Words of support and encouragement offer some of the greatest comforts to someone who is grieving.
7. “I heard the news, my friend. I can’t even begin to understand what you are feeling, but I want you to know that I’m here for you. I’m sending you my prayers and condolences. I’ll be checking in on you to see how you are doing.”
Your friend might not be ready to talk to you when the news first hits, but they need to know that you are available whenever they are ready.
Do what you say you will, by following up at appropriate intervals to check up on your friend.
8. “I was deeply saddened to hear about your brother’s passing. He was like a brother to me. Please offer my sincerest condolences to your family. You have my deepest sympathy.”
This type of text message honors the death of their loved one, offers condolences to the family as a whole, and also adds a personal touch about what the person who died meant to you.
It’s important not to make this about you, so carefully consider the length of your message and words you choose.
9. “I’m sorry for your loss. Please accept my sincerest sympathy.”
Sometimes less is more. When you don’t know what to say to your friend, a text acknowledging what they’re going through is enough when the message is sincere and heartfelt.
10. “I’m so sorry to hear this sad news. I’m thinking of you and your family at this time. Please let me know how I can help.”
When you offer condolences to someone you know and love, it’s always more meaningful when you attach the offer to help in some way.
Their immediate needs may not be clear to them just yet, but knowing that you have offered to help, and following up with that offer, can lessen their burden during this time.
Comforting Texts to Send to Someone Who Lost a Partner or Spouse
When deciding what message to text to a person who has lost their partner or spouse, keep in mind that they’ve just lost a big part of their support system. They’ve yet to realize the impact of the loss on their everyday lives, or how their future lives have changed. Be especially mindful of the grief they’ll experience in the coming days, weeks, and months.
If it’s your partner or spouse who lost a loved one, it’s also appropriate to send text messages throughout the day to let them know that you’re there for them. A text message offering love and support may come through when a pick me up is needed. You may also want to send a text message to celebrate the life of their loved one on their death anniversary.
Here are words to comfort a partner or spouse who lost a loved one over text:
- «I heard the news about your husband’s passing. Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. He was a great friend to me, and I will forever hold him in my heart.»
- «I am deeply saddened by the loss of your wife. She was a wonderful woman. I will check in on you later to see what you may need.»
- «Please accept my condolences on the passing of your partner. It is an honor to have known such a great person, and I will truly miss them.»
- «I was thinking about your husband on this day of his death anniversary. He has certainly made a positive impact on my life. I hope you are doing well.»
- «Sending you thoughts of love and prayer to let you know that I am here for you.”
11. “I heard the news about your husband’s passing. Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. He was a great friend to me, and I will forever hold him in my heart.”
Social media spreads news fast to everyone connected. If you’ve heard about a death through social media, let the person grieving know how you heard the news.
Assure them that you’re responding privately, and offer your support. If a condolence board has been set up, it’s okay to post a less personal message. Consider posting only after you’ve sent a private message.
12. “I am deeply saddened by the loss of your wife. She was a wonderful woman. I will check in on you later to see what you may need.”
This type of message not only comforts the bereaved but reassures them that you may be stopping by later to help with whatever is needed.
Consider bringing a hot meal and extra home-cooked meals, and maybe even some good coffee or tea to sustain them over the next few days.
13. «Please accept my condolences on the passing of your partner. It is an honor to have known such a great person, and I will truly miss them.”
Condolence messages that are gender-neutral respect the intimacy of the relationship without being too forward in assumptions or leaving a huge question needing to be answered.
14. “I was thinking about your husband on this day of his death anniversary. He has certainly made a positive impact on my life. I hope you are doing well.”
Reminding the person who has lost a loved one that you still hold them in your thoughts and prayers may be one of the most supportive gestures you can make.
While most people have moved on with their lives, you are letting them know that you still remember and honor their loved one who has died.
15. “Sending you thoughts of love and prayer to let you know that I am here for you.”
This simple message can be very impactful when sent at the appropriate time in the grieving process.
It’s not only acceptable but encouraged to send these types of messages to your partner or spouse to let them know that you love and support them.
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Comforting Texts to Send to an Acquaintance or Colleague
Communicating condolences to an acquaintance or colleague can sometimes seem awkward and uncomfortable. These simple phrases below will help you bridge that gap between feeling awkward and offering genuine words of sympathy to someone you may not know very well.
Here are words to comfort an acquaintance or colleague who lost a loved one over text:
- «I heard about your loss. May you find comfort and peace during this difficult time. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help.»
- «I can’t imagine what it feels like to have lost a child. I am at a loss for words to say. Please know that I have you and your family in my prayers, and I’m here for you.»
- «Please accept my condolences on the loss of your pet, Burrito. He was always a joy to have around the office and will be missed.»
- «I heard about your dad’s passing. I’m so sorry about your loss. I lost my dad a few years back. If you need someone to talk to, I’m here for you.»
- «Please accept my condolences on the loss of your spouse. I’m sure that this is a very difficult time for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.»
- «It is terrible to hear about your loss. I express my sincere sympathy to you and your family.»
16. “I heard about your loss. May you find comfort and peace during this difficult time. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help.”
When you hardly know a person, it may sound insincere to offer your deepest sympathies or to say that you feel their pain.
It is appropriate to send an abbreviated message of sympathy with a genuine offer to help. You may offer to pick up the slack at work, help them deliver a project, or fill in for them at work.
17. “I can’t imagine what it feels like to have lost a child. I am at a loss for words to say. Please know that I have you and your family in my prayers, and I’m here for you.”
You don’t have to know someone very well to understand that losing a child can be one of the most devastating things a parent can go through.
Letting them know that you can’t express the level of loss they must be feeling is acceptable, and it is much better than ignoring the death.
18. “Please accept my condolences on the loss of your pet, Burrito. He was always a joy to have around the office and will be missed.”
When your colleague loses a beloved pet, they may be mourning the loss as if they have lost a child. It’s important to recognize this loss and acknowledge it with words of sympathy and condolences.
19. “I heard about your dad’s passing. I’m so sorry about your loss. I lost my dad a few years back. If you need someone to talk to, I’m here for you.”
Offering specific and relatable support to an acquaintance lets them know that you genuinely care about them, and have something of value to add to them during this time of pain and bereavement.
You may want to follow up with another message a few days later to let your colleague know that you were sincere in your offer of support.
20. “Please accept my condolences on the loss of your spouse. I’m sure that this is a very difficult time for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.”
This message validates the loss and the grief that your acquaintance must be experiencing without sounding too pushy or waiting for a response from him.
21. “It is terrible to hear about your loss. I express my sincere sympathy to you and your family.”
Again, this message is short and clear to the point. This is especially appropriate when you don’t have a close relationship with your colleague.
Comforting Texts to Send to a Person Who Is Grieving
Knowing what to say to a person who is grieving is not always easy. Finding the appropriate words to comfort them in their time of need can prove difficult especially when you don’t have much experience with death.
Using some of these suggested words above can help you avoid the silence that follows when you are at a loss for words in many of these situations.
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The rightful Words To Comfort Someone Who Lost A Loved One should be deep emotional messages that would bring comfort and strength to the one who is grieved over losing one that is dear to their heart. These uplifting condolence messages are heartfelt sympathetic quotes to comfort someone who is grieving over the loss of a loved one.
In comforting such a one, what to say should be so thoughtful. You should by all means carefully choose your words in the right sense of it. Your kind of words would either heal or further hurt the already grieving heart. If your friend has lost a beloved one, you can send these words of condolences as a source of encouragement.
When sending such words, let it be a kind of sympathy message that would touch the heart and a comforting word to say when someone dies. If you do not know the right words to put forward, these words to comfort a bereaved friend would bring about so much hope and strength for such a friend to bear the irreparable loss.
Words To Comfort Someone Who Lost A Loved One
Words that comfort bring healing to the mind. These condolence messages are words of encouragement that would strengthen the faith of the family who lost a beloved one. You can send these condolence messages to comfort the bereaved family. Christian Poems of Encouragement and Strength
[1]. It’s well. Very sad, God stays with you all. Please accept my condolences. God will console you beyond words. So sorry for the loss. May the departed soul find eternal rest. My deepest condolences to the family.
[2]. Saddening! May the Comforter Himself comfort the family. May the Almighty God grant the bereaved family the strength to bear this great loss to the family.
[3]. Peace and comfort be your portion at this time of grief. My heartfelt condolences. God knows it all.
[4]. May you receive soothing comfort from the Holy Spirit our dear Comforter. My sincere condolences to the family. God be with you.
[5]. My sincere condolences to the entire family. Our heart-filled prayers are with you. May God comfort your family.
[6]. My heartfelt condolences. May the peace and comfort of God rest upon your family. Lord, please keep them strong.
[7]. God of all comforts will comfort the family. My sincere condolences go to the family. May the Good Lord grant the family the fortitude to bear the loss.
[8]. My heartfelt condolence goes to your family. May the Grace of God comfort you during this period. Condolences!
[9]. Our hearts and prayers are with the family, we pray May God continually strengthen and comforts your family.
[10]. May God grant you the strength to bear the irreparable loss. Rest in peace dear!
Messages of Condolences For The Lost Of A Loved One
If you are comforting someone who lost a loved one, you can send such a person condolence messages that are deeply thoughtful. The condolence messages are words of comfort for a friend who lost a loved one. It is of essence to rejoice with someone and when such is grieved, we should share in their grief. And when one grieves, they more than ever need our support. These messages of condolence are rightfully thought of which you can send to someone you know at their moment of grief for their departed loved one. Here She Laid [An Emotional Tribute to My Grandmother]
[11]. May God receive the departed warmly and also give the family the fortitude to bear the loss.
[12]. May our God bring comfort to your family in such a time as this.
[13]. Lord, please comfort this awesome family. Please, Lord, give them the heart to bear this great loss.
[14]. The God of all comfort, comfort the family and grant them strength in this period of loss.
[15]. God will stand by you and prove himself God over every situation. My condolences to your family. May God grant you the fortitude to bear the loss.
[16]. Oh, my dearest friend, my condolences may be little but really my heart goes out to you dear. May the God of heaven and earth keep you all in good and strong mind to bear such loss.
[17]. What a colossal loss to your dear family. May God comfort your family in this difficult time and may the soul of the departed rest in peace.
[18]. It is well. Our Great Comfort will comfort your home. My condolences and prayers to the family. God will console all the family and rest the soul of the departed in His bosom.
[19]. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family at this trying time. May God bring lasting comfort to you all and may the soul of the departed rest in peace.
[20]. My deepest condolences. God of all comforts will comfort each and every member of the family.
Condolence Messages For a Friend Who Lost A Member In The Family
Here are some sympathy messages for a friend who lost a member of their family. Sometimes, the right words to say might be difficult, but be it as it may, show them sympathy with the right emotional words of encouragement during their moment of grief. Let these sympathy messages of condolence be one of the messages you can send across to comfort a friend who is bereaved. Sad Poems for My Departed Friend
[21]. My condolences to your family. May God grant you the fortitude to bear the loss.
[22]. My deepest condolences to your dear family. May the departed rest in the blossom of the Lord. And may the Lord comfort you and the entire family.
[23]. My deepest condolences to the family and God the Father of all comforts console you all.
[24]. Lord, we pray You to comfort the entire family. May the soul of the departed rest in peace. It is well.
[25]. My solace to the family and strength to bear the tragedy. May the Good Lord grant you the heart to bear this great loss. God be with you and your entire family.
[26]. May the good Lord comfort and strengthen your family. My heartfelt condolences to the entire family. May God comfort you and grant you peace that passes all understanding.
[27]. My deepest condolence to the family, Holy Spirit please envelope them with your comfort and deep understanding now to bear this loss.
[28]. My deepest condolences. May the Holy Spirit comfort the family. It’s well. God grant you the fortitude to bear this great loss.
[29]. May God comfort the family and friends of the departed. It is well.
[30]. May the Almighty God the only and true comforter, comfort you and bring His perfect peace to your mind.
Death Condolence Messages For Loved Ones
The following condolence messages for a loved one’s demise in the family are heartfelt messages you can share with a friend who lost a member of the family. These messages are to strengthen such a one on their faith that after this life, there is life eternal. Sad Romantic [Till Then] Love Poem
[31]. The Lord is your strength at such a time like this. The Lord of Comfort, comfort you all. Shalom!
[32]. Receive comfort through the Holy Spirit, may the gentle soul of the departed rest in peace. It is well. Receive grace to bear the loss.
[33]. It is well. God will comfort the family and give them strength to carry on in Jesus’ name.
[34]. May God comfort the family on every side and may afflictions never rise a second time. It is well and may God comfort the entire family.
[35]. My heartfelt condolences to the entire family. May the departed soul rest in the bosom of the Lord.
[36]. May our good Lord, the most gracious, merciful, loving, caring and benevolent God comfort you and grant you and all the bereaved, the fortitude to bear the loss.
[37]. May the great comforter comfort you and your family in Jesus’ name, Amen. All will be well by God’s grace.
[38]. May the Lord comfort and grant you all peace of mind in the name of Jesus Christ. It’s well with you and your family.
[39]. Dear Lord, please come through for the bereaved family and grant them the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss. My Condolences to the family.
Sad Condolences Quotes For Departed Loved One In The Family
Share these sad condolence quotes with someone who lost a beloved member of their family. If you are not sure of what to say, here are some heartfelt sad condolence messages you can send to comfort a friend over the demise of their loved one. Sad Romantic Love Song Poem [Open Your Heart]
[40]. Our heart goes out to you and the family. May the Holy Spirit encourage your hearts in these trying times.
[41]. God strengthen your family and give you the heart to bear this great loss.
[42]. May God grant tranquillity and solace to those that are left behind and grant the departed soul eternal rest.
[43]. Father your comfort is sufficient for the family of the departed. My thoughts and my prayer are with the family at this painful loss. My condolences.
[44]. My deepest condolences to the family and may the Almighty God give the family the fortitude to bear the loss.
[45]. May the gentle soul of the departed rest in perfect peace and may God help the family to bear the absence for now till they meet to part no more.
[46]. Sorry for the loss. God comforts your soul and fills in the gaps. May the Holy Spirit console the family as the departed sleep peacefully in the Lord.
[47]. May the good Lord comfort your family at this time and heal your wounded heart… and give you joy again.
[48]. Our God whom it pleased to take the departed soul home, will make provision to handle it.
[49]. The presence of the Almighty is with you. Be strong. God is with you and your family. May God comfort your family on this irreplaceable loss.
[50]. Indeed God knows best. It is well with your family. At this trying time may your hearts stay on Him, for He will keep you in perfect peace.
Emotional Messages Of Condolence For The Bereavement Of A Family Member
Here are some of the emotional messages of condolence that you can write on a card or send as a message to a friend who is bereaved. Sad Poems about Death
[51]. May God grant your family the strength to bear the loss. It is well. God will uphold the family.
[52]. May the soul of the departed one rest in peace and may the family find comfort in our Lord Jesus Christ.
[53]. So sorry, but the Holy Spirit will console all related. My condolences to your family. May the Lord Himself comfort your family with His Spirit.
[54]. The soul of the departed is heaven’s gain now. Fare the good saint. Comfort to the family in these trying times. Peace like a river!
[55]. May God take away your pain and heal your grieving heart at this tough moment. It is well with your family.
[56]. My Father, I pray you comfort this lovely family. My condolences. May God’s warm embrace envelope you. It is well with your soul.
[57]. May the Good Lord bring comfort to your family and strengthen your faith in Him. It is well with your household.
[58]. Lord, what can we say when You have decided. How dare we question You. May You Oh God grant the entire family the fortitude to bear the loss.
[59]. My heartfelt condolences to the family. The great comforter will comfort your household and give you the strength to bear the loss. May the soul of the departed be in peace.
[60]. May the Good Lord comfort and console the family. May the departed soul rest in the bosom of the Lord.
Heart Touching Messages Of Condolence To The Family For the Demise Of Their Loved One
Let these heart-touching words of sympathy and condolence be such that would comfort a friend over the demise of their loved one. Choose from here the rightful words to say that would be of comfort to the family of the departed soul. Good Relationship Advice Poems about Depression in Marriage
[61]. The Lord God Almighty comforts your family and replaces the sadness in your hearts with joy. God grants you the fortitude to bear the loss.
[62]. Praying for the comfort of the Holy Spirit. May the Lord comfort you all. Peace like a river, unmovable, unshakable and unhindered fill your heart.
[63]. Let the joy of the lord which defiles knowledge, fill your mind. It is well. May the Lord comfort your heart.
[64]. The Lord comforts and strengthens you. My deepest condolences to your family. May the departed gentle soul rest in the bosom of the Lord. May the Lord comfort the family.
[65]. God comforts and strengthens the family. And cause the departed soul to rest in peace.
[66]. My prayers are with the family. May you be comforted in the Lord.
[67]. The God of comforters will comfort you and your family. May the Lord grant you the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss.
[68]. May the Lord strengthen your family through this hard time and grant you peace of heart and give you the fortitude to bear the loss. My condolences.
[69]. My condolences to the family. May God Almighty grant you the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss. May the Good Lord strengthen and comfort your home at this time.
[70]. Please Lord comfort and console the family. My prayers and condolences to the family.
Messages Of Condolence To Console A Friend On The Death Of Their Family Member
Here are the emotional words of encouragement and strength to say to a friend who is bereaved. The words are heartfelt condolence messages to a friend over the sudden departure of their loved one. Pray for strength from above for them to bear the loss. Relationship Poems, Quotes and Messages for the Family
[71]. Accept my condolences. May God comfort and strengthen you and your family. May the gentle soul of the departed rest in perfect peace.
[72]. May the peace of God comfort and strengthen your family. Our condolences and prayers are with the entire family.
[73]. My heartfelt condolences. God gives you the fortitude to have the loss. Stay strong!
[74]. Comfort to the whole family. Our deepest condolences to you. May the departed soul rest in perfect peace.
[75]. Words may sound empty at this period. My condolences to your family. May The Lord comfort you all in this trying time of bearing a great loss.
[76]. My heartfelt and sincere condolences to your family. God in His mercy gives you the fortitude to bear this great loss and strengthen your faith in Him to stand strong at this time.
[78]. God of all comfort shall comfort your home. Affliction shall not rise the second time in your household.
[79]. My condolences. Indeed to be absent in the body, is to be present with God. I pray for strength and comfort on every side to be upon your family.
[80]. My heartfelt condolences to your family for the loss. My prayer is that God will comfort and console your household throughout this season of trials.
Messages To Comfort And Strengthen A Friend Over The Demise Of A Family Member
These are touching memorial messages of comfort to strengthen a friend over the demise of their beloved family member. These words would comfort and strengthen their faith that someday we would all meet in eternal glory to part no more. Poems about Money and Trust in Marriage
[81]. God will be with you and your family. Your loss is a gain for eternity. Be strong in the Lord. He will comfort you and direct your path.
[82]. May the departed soul rest in the bosom of our Lord. May the Almighty God console you and your family always.
[83]. The Almighty in His infinite love console your family. I pray for God’s blessings, peace and healing in the hearts of your family.
[84]. I feel the absence of someone who is loved deeply. And in this trying time that your family is going through, God will comfort all of you.
[85]. The Lord knows all. I pray for great Grace for your family, to bear this loss. And may the Holy Spirit be with you all.
[86]. May you be comforted in this trying time. My heart goes out to your family.
[87]. My heartfelt condolences to the family. The Lord gives you strength to bear the loss.
[88]. Accept our condolences. Our undeniable joy in all of this is that we are seated with Christ in Heavenly Places far above happenings on earth. It is well.
[89]. May the Lord bring lasting comfort to the souls of every member of this family. Remain strong as we continue to share your grief!
[90]. My condolences to the family, as you go through this period of inexplicable loss. May the God of all comfort heal you all of this pain.
Heartfelt Condolence Messages Of Sympathy For The Demise Of A Loved One
The messages are heart-to-heart sympathy words of encouragement for the demise of a loved one in the family. Send a collection of these messages to a friend who is passing through a moment of grief over the loss of their loved one. Christian Birthday Greetings and Wishes for Brother
[91]. My heartfelt and sincere condolences to your family. We take solace in God our creator. It is well with your soul.
[92]. May the departed soul rest in peace and may God strengthen your family. It is well with you all.
[93]. I feel deeply so sorry for their departed soul. May God strengthen and console the family in this trying time. My condolences.
[94]. Balm in Gilead heals and grants everyone in the departed soul’s family all that they need in this trying time to bear the loss.
[95]. My deepest condolences to the family. God grants you the fortitude to bear this irreparable and sad loss. Please take solace in the fact that the departed are in the heavenly realms.
[96]. It is well with your family. The God of all comfort will comfort you even in this sad moment.
[97]. Father of all comfort. Please grant the family the fortitude to bear their loss. It is well. My condolences.
[98]. My deepest condolences to your family, the Lord will grant you the heart to bear this huge loss. May the Lord comfort you and give you peace of mind in this difficult time. It is well.
[99]. The Lord is your strength. He will Comfort and console you in His hands. He will give you the grace to bear this loss. It is well with you.
[100]. My heartfelt condolence to the entire family. May the Lord strengthen and wipe every tear from your eyes.
What do you say to comfort someone who lost a loved one?
Our condolences.
You have my deepest sympathy on the loss of your father.
Sure, those things are appropriate to say, and even need to be said. But the mourner will hear variations of condolences and sympathy so many times that it almost loses meaning.
Today, we want to explore what the mourner is experiencing and let the reality of grief inform the words of comfort you offer.
At the end of the article, we’ll have plenty of sweet, heartwarming, and meaningful quotes for you to contemplate sharing at the right time.
But let’s first consider this: Is it really even possible for your words to offer comfort to someone who is grieving?
Words of Comfort After Loss
Your grieving friend or family member is going through so much right now. The grieving process takes time and effort from the mourner. Can anything you say even make a difference?
Yes. Absolutely.
It might not feel like it. You won’t cure their grief, or provide an instant salve for the wounds of their heart. You might not even feel like your words have had any effect at all. But your words matter – a lot.
The grieving person has an internal monologue going on. It is very, very easy for that jumble of thoughts and questions to go downhill.
Why me? Why him/her?
I can’t go on.
Will I ever feel anything again?
I don’t want to do anything.
Is this normal?
I just want to die.
Am I messed up? I’m too emotional. (Or…) I’m not emotional enough.
Did this happen because of how messed up I am?
If the internal monologue is all they have, it will be very difficult for them to grieve properly, process their emotions, and begin to clear their head and work through to a place of healing.
Your words can help by turning that monologue into something more of a dialogue. Outside input can break through those cycles that often lead to depression and stagnation.
What is the grieving person thinking and feeling right now?
Grief is an uncomfortable feeling. Your loss and pain can hit very deeply.
Some people have described it as feeling like “being cut in two.” It might feel as if you have lost a piece of yourself. It is natural and normal to grieve and to hurt when someone you love dies.
Some major emotions might be:
- Anger. This might be anger at God, with your loved one, with yourself, or with the doctors. Why didn’t God intervene on your loved one’s behalf? Did you do everything possible to help your loved one? Why didn’t the doctors do more? These are all valid questions, and furthermore, it is “Ok” to be angry.
- Loneliness. The loss of a spouse is devastating. You may not just be losing your spouse, but you may lose friendships as well. You may lose relationships with “couples.” You may also lose friendships with the spouse’s side of the family.
- Regret. You may feel regret for all of the time that you have lost with your loved one. The years that you planned for that will never happen.
Elisabeth Kübler-Ross referenced five stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. The grieving person may or may not go through all of these stages of grief. She may revisit certain stages, skip some, or experience other “stages” (some experts say there are up to twelve).
As her friend, it is important for you to know that all of these feelings are normal and acceptable.
What words of comfort are best for those thoughts and feelings?
What else can be said besides, “I love you, I am here for you, or it’s alright to feel that way?” Try one of these phrases.
For loneliness:
- Can I come by and visit with you?
- Let me take you to lunch (coffee, etc).
- I’m turning off my phone’s “sleep” mode. Call me anytime, day or night.
- I am going to come over and cook dinner for you.
- Would you like to come to stay at our home for a few nights?
When your friend or loved one needs support:
- I don’t know how you feel, but I am here to help you in any way I can.
- I am grieving with you.
- How can I help you? Let me know what you need.
- Take all the time you need.
- I am out running errands. Can I do anything for you? Pick up groceries, pick up your kids or even run to the post office?
Related: How to Comfort Someone Who Is Grieving Through Text
What are some things that someone grieving the loss of a loved one does not want to hear?
Please, be considerate when talking to someone who is grieving.
Don’t say:
- I know how you feel.
- When I lost my….
- Stop crying.
- They are in a better place.
- God needed another angel in heaven.
- Buck up! Chin up!
- You should be over this by now.
- You’ll feel better.
- Time heals all wounds.
- You’re young. You can remarry.
- You can always have another child.
- It was “just” a cat/dog.
Related: What to Say (and What NOT to Say) When Someone Dies
What are some things you can do to comfort someone who lost a loved one?
When there are no words to say, what else can you do?
Offer a hug, a warm hand to hold, or simple eye contact and a listening ear. All of these actions can speak volumes without any words being exchanged.
Be sincere in all you do towards a grief-stricken person. Emotions are heightened, and you do not want to offend them.
Share your favorite photos of their loved one. If you have pictures on your phone, text them with a silly caption or a great memory.
More: 83 Practical Ways to Comfort Someone Who Is Grieving
Specific Words of Comfort
Comforting Text Messages
- I am thinking of you.
- I have no words… But I want you to know I love you and am here for you.
- Holding you close in my thoughts and prayers.
- I wish I could take your pain away.
- Just wanted to share this photo of [name] with you. He had such a wonderful heart and I’ll miss him a ton. [Attach photo]
Words of Comfort for a Friend
- Know that my prayers are covering you.
- I am always here for you, no matter what or when.
- Praying for you to have peace during this difficult time.
- I know this is hard. I love you.
- You can cry, talk, go take a nap, or be silent around me. I won’t be offended, I just want to support you.
Related: 50 Comforting Sympathy Prayers
Words of Comfort for Loss of a Family Member
- He/she was so important to me. I already miss him/her.
- Words can never express how sorry I am.
- There was no one in the world like ___________.
- God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Psalm 46:1 Thinking of you, dear friend!
- [Name] was such a gem. I loved the way he would always joke around with us. I’m going to miss him. Grieving with you!
Words of Comfort for Loss of Mother
- The world will be a lonelier place without your mom.
- Your mom was one of the most beautiful people I have ever known.
- Your mother was a true friend. I will never forget her.
- What an amazing woman. I can’t imagine your grief. I’ll miss her too. Know that I love you and am thinking of you!
Words of Comfort for Loss of Father
- Your father was like a second dad to me. He will be greatly missed.
- There will never be another man quite like your dad.
- Your father always made everyone feel welcome and loved. He was a friend to all.
- The world lost a true man today. I’m praying that the Lord will comfort you as you mourn your father.
Words of Comfort for Loss of a Child
- I am thinking of you during this difficult time.
- Nothing can express the amount of pain you are feeling. Just know that I am praying for the “peace that passes understanding” to be over you and your family.
- We will never forget __________. He/she brought joy everywhere they went.
- My heart aches for you and with you. I’m thinking of you today, and grieving alongside you.
Words of Comfort in the Bible
Psalm 34:18 – The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
Psalm 147:3 – He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.
Matthew 5:4 – Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
1 Thessalonians 4:13-14 – Brothers and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope. For we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him.
More: Comforting Scripture Verses
Finding the right words to offer comfort can be tricky. More than anything, show your grieving friend that you care.
Show them support and understanding at this challenging time. You might feel like you have the right words to say, but you can certainly do the most important thing: Just show up.
Remember, not everything needs to be spoken. A simple gesture can speak so much. Being there is what matters.
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Grieving The Loss Of A Loved One A Devotional Of Comfort As You
May lasting peace fill your grieving heart.
Words of comfort for the loss of a loved one. No matter how brief the statements we make at that moment to comfort them may be. May your loved one rest in peace. Comfort for loss prayer heavenly father thank you that i am never alone your presence calms the troubled sea of my life and speaks peace to my soul.
It comes like a swift wind. Words of condolence to express your sympathy. Button button the spruce.
Dont cry because its over smile because it happened. You should carefully choose your words of comfort for the loss. When someone you care about is grieving its hard to find the right words here are some comforting words to alleviate sorrow.
But take comfort in knowing that heshe is now resting in the arms of our lord. Have you ever had a friend lost a loved one. Let these words of comfort help you to cope with your loss of someone you loved and still love.
When we lose a loved one here on earth we gain an angel in heaven that watches over us. Whether you use this page to find the right words of condolences to others or read for your own peace of mind we hope that it brings you comfort. From a headstone in ireland.
I know that there are no words that can take away the pain or the sadness. Share this quote on facebook send via mail. Dealing with emotions is hard for everyone sometimes written words of condolence can describe your feelings better.
Your word says that my faith will never be put to shame when my trust is in you. Ourmy deepest condolences to you and your family. 100 comforting words of condolence for a loss.
Here is a look at some great prayers for the loss of a loved one. I am very sad to hear about this huge loss. No one can prepare you for a loss.
Knowing what to say to someone who loses a loved one is difficult. May your cherished memories of your loved one bring you moments of comfort. Comfort them and say kind words thatll help them through that trying period.
I know she was a dearly loved one to you. Words of comfort on the death of a loved one. Through the years weve compiled loss of a loved one quotes poems and prayers to offer others.
You should carefully choose your words of comfort for the loss. Grief quotes to comfort you after the loss of a loved one its so much darker when a light goes out than it would have been if it had never shone. Pin share email button search clear search decor.
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When someone we know suffers a loss or is going through a difficult situation, we’re often not sure what to say. Sometimes we ramble or, worse, say nothing and avoid the person. But that doesn’t help at all, and it leaves us dragging around a ton of guilt…and possibly isolating someone we love.
So, how do we show we care? While every heartache is unique to the person going through it, there are universal emotions many of us experience during times of grief and loss. Especially when those we care about are hurting, genuine empathy can guide our words and actions: Try thoughtfully considering what kindnesses would speak to you if you were in a similar situation.
Here are some examples of comforting words to think about the next time you’re struggling with how to help someone going through tough times.
Someone you love is struggling with addiction.
TRY THIS: “I want you to know I’m in this with you. We’re going to fight this together.” Maybe your friend’s child is the one suffering or being treated at a rehabilitation center: You might say, “I care about you and am here to listen if you need to talk.” One more thing—addiction is a sensitive topic. So keeping your conversations confidential will show your friend you respect their privacy and will give them reassurance to express their feelings freely.
AVOID THIS: Offering specific advice. Unless you’re sitting in a counselor’s office and you’re the counselor, kindly keep your opinions to yourself. A few other no-nos:
“Have you tried quitting cold turkey?” or “Just put your mind to it. That’s what I did when I gave up chocolate.” It’s very rare that comparisons from your personal experience will help, especially with something as serious as addiction. One way to look at it: Think about something you love that would be really hard to give up. Then, multiply it by 1,000. Then, consider this battle a matter of life and death. That’s a small glimpse of the pain of addiction.
SHOW YOU CARE: Visit your friend whenever possible or appropriate. Or offer to drive them to the rehab facility to see their child. If they’d like, wait in the lobby as an extra force of support. Take them to lunch afterward or send them home with a care package of comforting things: a cozy throw, a super huggable stuffed animal, some chamomile tea.
Your friend is suffering from mental health issues.
TRY THIS: “You are very important to me and nothing will ever change that.” Or “You’re a wonderful person and I wish I could take away this pain from your heart.” Or simply, “Can I give you a hug?” These quotes also work for a parent of someone struggling with depression, bipolar disorder, or another mental health challenge. Many moms and dads feel ostracized in what is oftentimes a lifelong battle, and saying something kind can make a huge difference.
AVOID THIS: “Are you off your meds again?” Or “Cheer up! The sun’s out!” Or “I don’t understand why you can’t just snap out of it.” Let’s pause and remember that a mental health diagnosis is a medical struggle, not just a little bit of sadness or eccentric behavior. This is a time to practice being judgment-free and accepting of each other.
SHOW YOU CARE: Take your friend out for coffee or drive an exhausted parent to visit their child at a mental health center. Be present for someone who most likely feels very alone. One more tip: Do the conscientious thing when talking to a parent with a troubled child. If you have the perfect kid, avoid humble bragging in front of them. It can feel heartbreaking for a parent whose child may never get better.
Your sister just got a worrying diagnosis for her child.
TRY THIS: “I’m so sorry. I want to be here for you, in whatever way helps you the best.” You could even say, “I’m going to be checking on you more,” then commit to calling or making plans with her on a regular basis.
AVOID THIS: “They’re going to be okay.” Or “My friend’s son got the same thing and he’s totally fine now.” Sadly, as much as we want to predict a happy prognosis, it’s out of our control. Instead, keep that hope inside your heart and your caring will shine through.
SHOW YOU CARE: Drop off some groceries at their front door or order pizza and get it delivered. Pull in their garbage cans on trash day. Send a gift to the family, like movie passes or bring a special treat for the children. Any little thing that can lighten their burden will be much appreciated.
Your brother is going through problems with his adult child.
TRY THIS: “I’m so sorry. It’s really unfair your family is going through so much stress.” When grown up kids are suffering, it’s a very troublesome kind of heartache. Approach your loved ones with gentleness and maybe some extra assurance, “I will always love you and your family.”
AVOID THIS: “They’re too old to be acting like that.” Or “Your kid needs to straighten up!” Or “You should just cut them off.” Tough-love statements aren’t very helpful and can add extra anxiety. You may have excellent points, but someone once said it’s better to be kind than to be right. (And we agree.)
SHOW YOU CARE: Listen carefully to your family member: what they’re saying and what they’re not saying. Just having someone to vent to may be enough. But if you want to go the extra mile, bring over their kid’s favorite childhood meal or dessert. A little reminder of good times might bring some much-needed hope.
Your best friend is moving their dad to an assisted living home.
TRY THIS: “I know this is very difficult for you. How have you been doing?” Let your friend let off some steam—they may have been waiting for this moment to unload everything on their mind.
AVOID THIS: “Why are you so worried? They’ll be well taken care of.” Or “Why don’t you get your siblings to help you more?” From the emotional toil to the financial burden to the frustrations of the parent-child relationship, caring for an aging mother or father is no easy task. Our gift to our friends is to not add an extra layer of complication.
SHOW YOU CARE: A thoughtful note can work wonders when someone is stretched thin, depleted, and sad to see their parent’s declining health. If your friend likes company, offer to run errands with them or take them to a lighthearted movie to get their mind off things for a few hours.
One of your friends is diagnosed with a terminal illness.
TRY THIS: “You’re my friend and I want you to feel supported and loved.” Or “For future reference, I never get tired of giving out hugs, okay?”
AVOID: “I’m going to pray for a miracle.” You can still silently pray for your friend, but your caring presence will make the most difference. Another not-so-helpful response: “Have you tried juicing? I hear it can really turn things around.” In some instances, your friend might like your help researching alternative healing and holistic treatments, but it’s best to follow their lead in this type of discussion.
SHOW YOU CARE: Your friend will need different things at different times, from support during the initial shock to shopping for a nourishing diet to getting dog-walking help on days she feels weak. Get the squad together and brainstorm ways you can help as a group. Maybe you make a rotating schedule of who sits with her at treatments. Maybe it’s a standing date with the girls. Maybe she wants to put together a memory book for her family…and you offer to help.
Your friend recently suffered a miscarriage.
TRY THIS: “I’m so, so sorry. Thank you for telling me. Would you like to come over for some coffee sometime and talk about it?” Or “My heart breaks for you. I know having a baby means the world to you.”
DON’T SAY: “You’ll get pregnant again…you just wait!” Or “Have you thought about adoption?” Or “At least you already have two kids.” Losing a baby creates a deep, aching wound that is often grieved in silence. Try not to fix this for your friend. Just let her cry…just hold her hand.
SHOW YOU CARE: Make a basket of goodies. Here are a few ideas to get you started: a blanket, teas, an oversized mug, her favorite candy, a pedicure gift card. If you’re a cook, bake her a warm dish to enjoy—or bring in sandwiches if you’re more of a takeout girl or guy.
A colleague is going through an extremely stressful time.
TRY THIS: “I wish I had a magic wand to make all of this stress go away. But I do have time to listen.” Or “I know you’re carrying a huge burden right now. I would like to drop off dinner to your house one night.” Or “Mind if I drive you to your appointment? We can grab a chai afterward.”
AVOID THIS: “It could be a whole lot worse.” Or “When I’m stressed, I just get my hubby to rub my back.” Note: Your friend may not have anyone to lean on. That’s why the weight of the world might be so heavy. It’s best not to emphasize that point even more.
SHOW YOU CARE: Offer to drive your friend to the airport, to their car dealership for an all-day repair (so they don’t have to sit forever), or help with another overwhelming errand or task. Get them a chair massage gift card or leave a warm breakfast pastry on their desk. Sometimes it’s the smallest things that really bring light to a dark time.
One of your friends just lost their pet.
TRY THIS: “Losing a pet is so very difficult. They’re family and they’ll always be in our hearts.” Or “I’m so sorry. You two were the perfect pair. I know you loved each other very much.” Or “You gave Sonny a wonderful life and he gave you so much joy. I always liked hearing your stories about his antics and hope you continue to keep telling them.”
AVOID THIS: Comments that downplay the grief. “At least your cat lived a long time.” Or “I think you should get a new puppy!” Or “Oh, really? That sucks.” Fur family is family and being sensitive to that will bring comfort to a very sad time.
SHOW YOU CARE: Find a cute pic on Instagram of your friend’s fur baby and put it in a frame for their desk. Write down one of your favorite anecdotes of their beloved pet. Get a personalized stepping-stone with the sweet pet’s name, and as a bonus, bring a plant that can be added to the garden in their memory.
A friend is going through a messy breakup.
TRY THIS: “Even though things are rough right now, I want you to know you’re a great guy and your friends care about you.” Or “It’s painful for a relationship to end. We want you to know we’ve got your back.”
AVOID THIS: “You’re too good for them anyway.” Or “I always thought they’d be the type to cheat.” Focus your efforts on supporting your friend in a positive way, not cutting down their ex. A good thing to remember: Leave the venting to your friend…they’ll probably be fine taking on that role.
SHOW YOU CARE: Invite your friend to see some live music. Or maybe help them pack up belongings that trigger unwelcoming memories. You could even bring over a pizza and binge watch a thriller or comedy series. They’ll probably like the company more than they know.
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The loss of loved ones brings a lot of sadness to the people within their circles. If a friend is going through such a situation, simple words of comfort can go a long way in consoling him or her.
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Ever wondered how to comfort someone who is grieving? Sometimes you might lack the right words to say to comfort a loved one who is undergoing a difficult moment after a loss in his or her life. Here are some phrases and quotes that you can use in such a situation.
Comforting quotes for particular situations
The best words of comfort come from your heart, and all you need to do is to be compassionate. Simply avoid cliches because you might not seem honest and genuinely sorry.
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- What to say to a grieving friend: Sorry for whatever you are undergoing. If you need any assistance, I will be glad to offer a helping hand.
- When a friend has lost his or her pet: I understand how much you loved (name of the pet) and I know how sad it feels to lose him. I will miss him too and should you need any help, let me know.
- On the death of a friend’s parent: How I wish that there is something I can do or say to make things better. I will genuinely miss (parent’s name). Can I check on you later in the day?
- When a child has lost a parent: Despite everything happening now, I will be here for you. What can I offer you today?
- When a colleague has lost a spouse: It is disheartening to hear the loss of your spouse. In this difficult situation, I will stand by you, and if you want to talk about anything, I will be readily available.
- Consoling a friend who has had a miscarriage: You are a strong and incredible person, and in spite of this tough moment and loss, I believe that you will overcome. How do you do today?
- Soothing words to a friend who has lost a sibling: It is hard to believe that we no longer have (sibling’s name). I will miss him or her too. Let me know how best I can assist.
Comfort quotes by famous people
If you want to send comforting quotes to a bereaved friend, you can opt for any of the following quotes by famous people.
- “Like a bird singing in the rain, let grateful memories survive in times of sorrow.” — Robert Louis Stevenson
Memories are all that is left after the death of a loved one.
- “You don’t get over it; you just get through it. You don’t get by it, because you can’t get around it. It doesn’t ‘get better’; it just gets different. Everyday grief puts on a new face.” — Wendy Feireisen
It takes considerable effort and time to get through the sorrowful moment.
- “The guardian angels of life fly so high as to be beyond our sight, but they are always looking down upon us.” — Jean Paul Richter
No matter how difficult the situation might be, always be contented by knowing that guardian angels are looking out for you.
- “Death leaves a heartache no one can take away, love leaves a long lasting memory no one can steal.” — From a Headstone in Ireland
The loss of someone is truly painful, but you can overcome it by sweet memories of the good things the person did while alive.
- “They say love beyond the world cannot be separated by it. Death cannot kill what never dies.” — William Penn
Love is endless, and even if one dies, it remains in our hearts forever.
- “Wherever you are, you will always be in my heart.” — Mahatma Gandhi
We might not be sure of where people go after death, but one thing remains unchanged; they remain in our hearts.
- “Until one has loved an animal, a part of one’s soul remains unawakened.” — Anatole France
You are not a complete being if you do not have a love for pets.
- “One day, He’ll answers all questions that now plague our mind, When our journey on earth has been ended, and our hardships are all left behind.” — Greta Zwaan
- “The best way to mourn the dead is to take care of the living who belong to them.” — Edmund Burke
Pay tribute to the dead by showing love to the ones he or she left alive.
- “While we are mourning the death of someone, others are rejoicing to meet him behind the veil.” — John Taylor
When one dies, it is believed that they start a new life elsewhere, and they get a warm reception wherever they are.
Comforting words from the Bible
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The Bible is an abundant source of words of comfort, and for a long time, it has been used to help people overcome grief. If you are looking for Bible verses with comforting messages, here are some of them applicable for different situations.
- «Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.» — Mathew 5:4
- «Do not let your heart be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me.» — John 14:1
- «He will wipe every tear from your eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.» — Revelation 21:4
- «The people dwelling in darkness have seen a great light, and for those dwelling in the region and shadow of death, on them, a light has dawned.» — Mathew 4:16
- «The people dwelling in darkness have seen a great light, and for those dwelling in the region and shadow of death, on them, a light has dawned.» — Isiah 25: 7-8
- «For if we have been united with him in a death like his, we shall certainly be united with him in a resurrection like his.» — Romans 6:5
- «I am hard-pressed between the two. My desire is to depart and be with Christ, for that is far better. But to remain in the flesh is more necessary on your account.» — Philippians 1: 23-24
The right comforting words can help a bereaved person through a difficult moment and help them start a steady recovery process. If you cannot think of the appropriate words to use, then you can use any of the above quotes rather than make a statement that would aggravate the situation.
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