Word for not understanding someone

Learning a new language can be a tricky business; but you want to get it right. Right?

When you are learning English, a lot of effort is put into picking up vocabulary, spelling, reading and writing.

However, the area where your learning becomes most crucial is when it finally gets put into practice – not just in the classroom, but in real life. In the classroom, be it online or in a school, someone is at hand to listen, to support, to test you and shape your learning.

But how can you make sure you understand what’s going on once you go out into the world and begin to practice your English? Often as we begin to practice our new-found language skills, we realize that the way words sound in conversation can be very different from how we learned originally. Accents, speed, slang and idiomatic variances can mean we feel very lost – almost as if the other person isn’t speaking English at all.

Here is the EF English Live guide to helpful phrases and words to use when you’re not quite sure what someone is telling you…

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Formal

These short phrases are polite ways to communicate that you didn’t hear or don’t understand something in the English language.

  • Sorry?
  • Excuse me?
  • Pardon?
  • I beg your pardon?
    [this is particularly formal and now mostly used in England]

Longer formal sentences

These sentences will help you when you don’t understand something even though you have heard it.

  • Sorry, I’m afraid I don’t follow you.
  • Excuse me, could you repeat the question?
  • I’m sorry, I don’t understand. Could you say it again?
  • I’m sorry, I didn’t catch that. Would you mind speaking more slowly?
  • I’m confused. Could you tell me again?
  • I’m sorry, I didn’t understand. Could you repeat a little louder, please?
  • I didn’t hear you. Please could you tell me again?

Informal

These are more common, casual, conversational ways to ask someone to repeat themselves, or communicate your lack of understanding. Some are more informal (i.e. rude!) than others.

  • Sorry? – most useful for when you simply didn’t hear
  • Sorry, what? – useful for not recognizing the sound you heard
  • A little more informal (can be rude)
  • ‘Scuse me? – a more casual version of ‘excuse me’
  • Huh? – not quite a word but a sound; careful how you use it as it can sound rude; as a sound is more commonly associated with ‘I don’t get it’ or ‘I don’t understand’ rather than ‘I can’t hear you’
  • What? – sometimes this can seem aggressive, be careful!
  • Eh? – a sound usually used to communicate that it is difficult to hear/decipher someone
  • Hmm? – a sound used when you are a bit more absent-minded or maybe not listening so hard

Slang

  • Come again?
  • Say what? – this is particularly American English
  • Pass that by me again?
  • You what? – this is more common in the United Kingdom
  • I don’t get it… not a question but a statement, meaning simply ‘I don’t understand’

Idioms

Idioms are sayings particular to their language of origin. Here we take a look at three that you might use if you wanted to find a more creative way of saying something that sounds complicated, unclear or difficult to understand.

  • I can’t make head nor tail of what you’re saying.
  • This is all Greek to me.
  • Sorry this is as clear as mud to me.

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What is another word for not understanding?

What is another word for don’t understand?

don’t know don’t comprehend
don’t realize don’t recognize

What’s the word when you can’t understand what someone is saying?

Anomic aphasia – you have trouble using the correct word for objects, places, or events. Global aphasia – you can’t speak, understand speech, read, or write.

How do you say you don’t understand professionally?

When You Don’t Understand Someone

  1. I’m sorry, I didn’t catch what you said. Could you repeat it (more slowly)?
  2. I’m sorry, I didn’t understand that? Would you mind repeating it?
  3. I’m sorry, I didn’t hear you clearly.
  4. I’m sorry, what was that?
  5. Could you say that again, please?
  6. Could you repeat that, please?
  7. I’m sorry?

Is it rude to say here you go?

“Here you go” and “There you go” are quite informal. If you say this to your teacher or your boss, they might think you’re being rude or impolite. So use the more formal “Here you are” or “There you are” instead.

How do you say I am not sure formally?

Synonyms

  1. perhaps. adverb. used for saying that you are not certain about something, or that something may or may not be true.
  2. maybe. adverb.
  3. presumably. adverb.
  4. reportedly. adverb.
  5. rumour/word/legend has it that. phrase.
  6. it/that depends. phrase.
  7. not that I’m aware of. phrase.
  8. I dare say. phrase.

What to say when you’re not sure what to say?

What to Say When You Know But You are Not Sure

  1. As Far As I Know! This is a very useful term.
  2. To The Best of My Knowledge! This phrase works in the same way as “as far as I know” but it is a lot more formal.
  3. Correct Me if I’m Wrong… This is a different type of phrase.
  4. I thought… This is a very useful phrase.

Is sure formal or informal?

“Surely” is traditional, formal, correct. “Sure” is colloquial, informal, common, and also correct (at least it is in America.)…

Why do I keep making grammar mistakes?

But, at the same time, it makes us prone to grammatical mistakes no matter how well we can write. Typos aren’t usually a result of stupidity or carelessness, Dr. Stafford explains. Instead, they often happen because trying to convey meaning in your writing is actually a very high-level task….

How do you avoid common mistakes in writing?

Below, we have identified for you the top 13 writing mistakes and tips on how to avoid making these mistakes in your own writing.

  1. Avoid Incorrect Subject/Verb Agreement – Make Sure Your Subjects and Verbs Match!
  2. Avoid Long/Confusing Run-On Sentences OR Sentence Fragments.
  3. Avoid Incorrect Use of Commas.

Why is it important to not make mistakes in letters?

Avoid mistakes at all costs Interrupts flow: Whether you’re writing to a friend or a professional contact, mistakes stick out like a sore thumb. It’s jarring to the reader and will take him or her out of the story you were trying to create….

What should you avoid in writing?

Here are the top five worst writing mistakes and how to avoid and correct them.

  1. 1 Incorrect verb forms — 51%
  2. 2 Subject-verb disagreement — 20%
  3. 3 Run-on sentences — 10%
  4. 4 Comma splices — 6%
  5. 5 Pronoun-antecedent disagreement — 5%

Why is it important to spell correctly?

Spelling is important for three reasons: Communication: Spelling is a critical component of communication. Literacy: Spelling and reading skills are closely related and help develop overall literacy. Employment: Spelling quality has a direct impact on employment opportunities….

A lack of interest, intelligence or understanding in a given topic or subject. blankness. bewilderment. confusion. incomprehension.

What is the synonym and antonym of understand?

understand . Antonyms : misapprehend, miscomprehend, ignore, misinterpret, declare, state, enunciate, express. Synonyms : apprehend, comprehend , know, perceive, discern, conceive, learn, recognize, interpret, imply.

What is the antonym of understanding?

What is the opposite of understanding?

ignorance unfamiliarity
stupidity misunderstanding
nescience disregard
oblivion foolishness
incognizance insensitivity

How do you describe someone who is understanding?

Empathetic Someone who has the ability to understand and share someone’s feelings and emotions. … Sympathetic Someone who is concerned about somebody and cares about them and what they feel.

What is a synonym of understanding?

SYNONYMS . comprehension, apprehension, grasp, grip, mastery, perception, discernment, appreciation, interpretation, cognizance, ken, conception, digestion, assimilation, absorption. knowledge, awareness, consciousness. insight into, familiarity with, acquaintance with.

What is a synonym for a deeper understanding?

Synonyms . savvy self-knowledge appreciation brainstorm hold smattering grasping discernment hindsight apprehension comprehension realisation realization insight brainwave recognition grasp knowing. Antonyms.

How do you develop deep understanding?

Compare Show how things are alike or not alike Explain Give the meaning of a topic clearly. Relate Show that the ideas are connected to each other. Analyze Examine in detail the elements of a topic and how they relate to each other. Apply Make use of specific knowledge or concepts to solve a problem.

What is another word for understanding?

SYNONYMS. comprehend , apprehend, grasp, see, take in, perceive, discern, make out, puzzle out, recognize, keep up with, master, get to know, follow, fathom, get to the bottom of, penetrate, divine, interpret, unravel, decipher, see the light about, envisage.

Professional English_ What to Say When You Don't Understand

This lesson was originally published in 2015.
In 2020, it was updated with new content and a video lesson.

Have you heard the idiomatic expression, “like a deer in headlights?” To feel like a deer in headlights means to be so frightened or surprised that you can’t think, move, or speak. It’s the perfect idiom to use when you don’t understand someone in English.

Have you ever felt like a deer in headlights when speaking English?

Maybe they used a new word. Maybe it was their accent or how fast the spoke. Maybe it’s a new situation and you’re feeling nervous. 

But when someone asks you a question in English and you don’t understand, what do you do?

Many of us freeze. We don’t know what to say. The conversation stops. And we feel silly.

If that happens to you sometimes, let’s talk about how to fix it.

Today you’re going to learn the same expressions native speakers use when they don’t understand someone. 

Plus, I’ll include pronunciation tips so you’ll also learn how to say them more naturally.

Today’s lesson is focused on professional expressions in English, but these are also perfect to use when you’re talking to someone you don’t know very well.

But I did include a little bonus section with slang and information expressions as well.

Find out what native speakers say when they don’t understand so you can use the same expressions.

What to Say When You Don’t Understand Someone in English 

When You Don’t Understand Someone

The questions below are always polite and professional to use in a conversation when you don’t understand someone or didn’t hear them clearly.

Be sure to watch the video lesson to get some useful pronunciation tips so you sound more natural when you use these questions.

  • I’m sorry, I didn’t catch what you said. Could you repeat it (more slowly)?
  • I’m sorry, I didn’t understand that? Would you mind repeating it?
  • I’m sorry, I didn’t hear you clearly. Could you say that again?
  • I’m sorry, what was that?
  • Could you say that again, please?
  • Could you repeat that, please?
  • I’m sorry?

When a Word or Expression is New

Use these the questions below when you don’t know the meaning of a specific word or expressions.

Be sure to watch the video lesson to get some useful pronunciation tips so you sound more natural when you use these questions.

  • I’m sorry, I’m not sure I understand what you meant by [insert word or expression]?
  • That’s a new word/expression for me. Could you explain it?
  • What does [insert word or expression] mean?*

*Careful with this question. I often hear a mistake with the word order and structure of this sentence. For example, I hear: “What does it mean, deer in headlights?

To fix this, remove “it” and replace it with the word or expression that is new, for example: “What does ‘deer in headlights’ mean?

English Slang and Idioms to Use When You Don’t Understand Someone

Of course, with friends, family members, and close colleagues, it’s 100% okay to be more informal. So let’s look at a few examples of what you can say when you don’t understand another person.

Be sure to watch the video lesson for pronunciation tips and to learn more about how we use the idioms below.

  • What did you say? (Be sure to watch the video lesson for a pronunciation tip!)
  • What was that?
  • Excuse me? (Be sure to watch the video lesson for a pronunciation tip!)
  • What?
  • Huh?
  • Hmm?
  • I can’t make heads or tails of what you’re saying.
  • I think our wires are crossed.
  • Everything you said is just a word salad.
  • That was as clear as mud.

If you’d like to learn more about connected speech — which I highlight in this lesson — be sure to watch:

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I’d love to hear from you and learn about your experiences! Please share your stories and advice in the comments section below:

  1. What is one question or idiom you learned in this lesson that you can use the next time you don’t understand someone? Try using it in your own example for practice. 
  2. Do you have a favorite question or phrase that you already use? If so, share it here. It might be perfect for someone else in the Confident English Community.

Thanks so much for joining me.

~ Annemarie

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Эта статья окажется полезной, без сомнения, для всех изучателей английского языка. Знаете, какая самая востребованная фраза для изучающих иностранный язык? Правильно, «Я не понимаю». Ну хорошо, допустим, вы знаете, как выразить свое непонимание. А как быть дальше? Как переспросить? Или попросить уточнить? Мы решили вам помочь и предусмотрели наиболее возможные варианты развития событий. Надеемся, они вам помогут!

Как переспросить?

Таблица 1.

I beg your pardon?

Простите? (Как правило, используется, если вам показалось, что кто-то сказал что-то неприятное или обидное)

Excuse me?

Простите?

This is confusing, I don’t really see what you’re getting at.

Я запутался, не понимаю, к чему вы ведете.

I’m sorry but I don’t understand.

Простите, но я не понимаю.

I don’t quite understand you.

Я не совсем вас понял.

don’t understand you very well.

Я не очень хорошо вас понимаю.

I don’t really understand what you mean.

Не совсем понимаю, что вы имеете ввиду.

I don’t understand a single word of it.

Ни понимаю ни слова.

What I don’t understand is why he decided to do that just the other day?

Чего я не понимаю, так это, почему он решил это сделать только на днях.

I don’t follow you.

Не понимаю тебя.

I don’t get it!

Не пойму!

I’m completely lost!

Я совершенно запутался!

I’m totally confused!

Я совершенно запутался!

I am a little bit puzzled.

Я в небольшом замешательстве.

I’m afraid it’s beyond my understanding!

Боюсь, это за гранью моего понимания.

I’m sorry but it’s too vague.

Простите, но это слишком неопределенно.

I’m sorry but I don’t see the point.

Простите, но я не понимаю смысла.

I’m sorry but I don’t follow your train of thoughts.

Простите, но я не могу проследить за вашим ходом мыслей.

What puzzles me is the way the committee decided to select a winner.

Что мне непонятно, так это то, каким образом комитет решил выбирать победителя.

Как попросить дать разъяснение?

Таблица 2.

What do you mean?

Что вы имеете ввиду?

What’s that supposed to mean?

И что это значит?

What does he mean by this phrase?

Что он хочет сказать этой фразой?

What’s the meaning of that word?

Каково значение этого слова?

Would you be more specific?

Вы не уточните?

What are you aiming at?

К чему вы ведете?

I don’t see what you’re driving at.

Я не понимаю, что вы хотите сказать.

Could you explain it in detail please?

Вы не могли бы подробно объяснить?

Could you clarify this point, please?

Вы не могли бы пояснить этот момент, пожалуйста?

Could you write that down for me, please?

Вы не могли бы это написать для меня?

I’m a bit confused. Would you mind explaining that?

Я немного запутался. Вы не могли бы объяснить?

Can you start again please, it was too quick.

Вы не могли бы начать заново? Это было слишком быстро.

Can you repeat please?

Не могли бы вы повторить?

Can you speak up please?

Не могли бы вы говорить погромче?

Does that mean that you failed to explain her behavior?

Это что, обозначает, что тебе не удалось объяснить ее поведение?

Just to check that I haven’t misunderstood anything: was the answer yes or no?

Просто чтобы проверить, что я все правильно понял: ответ да или нет?

So, in other words, are you saying that we won’t be able to offer better conditions to our customers?

То есть, другими словами, ты хочешь казать, что мы не сможем предложить нашим клиента условия получше?

I’m afraid my English is not very good. Could you say that again more slowly, please?

Боюсь мой английский не на очень хорошем уровне. Вы не могли бы еще раз это сказать, но помедленнее?

Sorry, I didn’t understand that word. Could you spell it for me, please?

Извините, я не понял это слово. Не могли бы вы произнести его по буквам?

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What is the word for not understanding?

A lack of interest, intelligence or understanding in a given topic or subject. blankness. bewilderment. confusion. incomprehension.

What defines a failure?

Failure is defined as an absence or lack of success. This is a pretty general purpose definition. It allows us to personally define success so we can know whether or not we have failed.

What is a synonym for fail?

Synonyms. go bad pass away break go down blow out die pass give-up the ghost go give out choke kick the bucket cash in one’s chips crash exit decease perish misfire malfunction pop off give way buy the farm croak snuff it break down blow conk burn out conk out misfunction change expire drop dead. Antonyms.

What is another word for better understanding?

What is another word for better understanding?awarenessinsightunderstandingappreciationapprehensioncomprehensiongraspapperceptioncognitionconception17

What can I say instead of understanding?

10 great ways to say “I understand”To catch on. Example: I tend to catch on fairly quickly.To catch one’s drift. Example: It’s Ok, I catch your drift.To grasp something. Example: I am able to grasp things pretty quickly.To get something. To get the idea. To get the picture. To get the hang of something. To catch/get the gist of something.

How do you say I can understand?

You can do that by saying:OK / Alright / Sure.Got it.OK, I get it now / That’s clear, thank you.Fair enough / I see where you’re coming from / I take your point / That makes sense.Of course / Absolutely.I appreciate why you think that, but…I hear what you’re saying, but…When You Understand Someone’s Feelings:

How do you say no problem in a formal way?

No Problem SynonymsYou’re welcome (F)Sure thing (I)No worries (I)Cool (I)It’s all gravy (I)It’s all right (I)Certainly (F)Of course (F)

What to say instead of I understand how you feel?

What to Say Instead of ‘I Know How You Feel’ After a DeathI’m here if you want to talk.You’re so strong, and I’m proud of you.Tell me how you’re feeling.I’m sorry you’re going through this.Please accept my sincere condolences.I know you’ll get through this.You’re always in my thoughts.

How do you express empathy in text?

Use this inspirational empathy words list to express your feelings:Things are tough right now, but I’m here.I understand how hard this is for you.What you’re saying makes so much sense to me.I wish I had been there with you when that happened.That must have hurt your feelings.I hear what you’re saying.

What is a good example of empathy?

Imagine your beloved dog is dying. You try to keep her happy and comfortable for as long as possible, but a day comes when she is in too much pain to enjoy her life. You take her to the vet and have her put to sleep. This is a choice made out of empathy.

What are good empathy statements?

So, here’s a handy list of empathy statements to get you started on the road to better service.“If I am understanding correctly…” “I would feel X too in that situation” “You’re right” “I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with this…” “I’ve experienced this issue recently too” “Thank you for getting in touch about this”

How do you sympathize?

Show sympathy with your wordsContinue to reach out. Even if many weeks or months have gone by, keep reaching out and offering your friendship. Share a memory. Share a sweet memory of the person who has passed away. Provide a listening ear. Showing sympathy can go the other way as well.

What not to say to someone who is grieving?

The Worst Things to Say to Someone in GriefAt least she lived a long life, many people die young.He is in a better place.She brought this on herself.There is a reason for everything.Aren’t you over him yet, he has been dead for awhile now.You can have another child still.

How do you sympathize someone in pain?

Examples of Empathetic ResponsesAcknowledge their pain. Perhaps the best thing you can do is to acknowledge how the other person feels. Share how you feel. Show gratitude that the person opened up. Show interest. Be encouraging. Be supportive.

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You could say ‘unconscious competence’.

https://medium.com/the-philosopher-s-guide-to-startups/unconscious-incompetence-ad5583abf646

  1. Unconscious incompetence — when you’re doing something wrong and you don’t know you’re doing it wrong

  2. Conscious incompetence — when you’re doing something wrong but you know you’re doing it wrong

  3. Conscious competence — when you’re doing something right but you have to consciously focus on doing it the right way

  4. Unconscious competence — when you’re doing something right and you don’t even have to think about it

(And, in 4. You have forgotten the steps you took to learn it).

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