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If you’re anything like we are, checking a task off of your work to-do list can feel like an Olympic-level success. (And don’t get us started on the relief we feel when we complete our whole to-do list.) But what about the days when you don’t get everything completed — the days when, no matter how hard you try, or how much you hustle, the universe continues to pile responsibilities onto your plate? On those days, leaving the office with unchecked items on your to-do list can leave you feeling guilty, or even ashamed. What then?
Firstly, know two things: 1. You’re not alone and 2. There are ways to push back against the guilt. How do we know that? Because we talked to an expert who knows a thing or two about how to stop feeling guilty in the workplace and in general. Below, we’ll share her tips, along with other insights into work guilt, so you can get rid of the guilt. For real.
How Many of us Experience Work Guilt?
Before we jump into ways to handle work guilt, let’s take a look at how common it really is.
According to an online study, more than 4 in 10 millennials consider themselves “work martyrs,” clocking long hours, making themselves constantly reachable, and feeling guilty if they don’t. Sound familiar?
Other research also shows that one in four Americans feels guilty requesting time away from the office, and one in five people cite guilt as the reason they don’t take regular breaks throughout their week. Altogether, one-quarter of Americans say their job is the number one biggest stressor in their lives.
Why Are so Many of us Feeling Guilty?
Okay, we get it. When it comes to work, we’re feeling guilty at the office, at home, and basically all the time. But that begs the question: Why?
Much of these deep-seated feelings are rooted in the value Americans place on work ethic and the overarching cultural belief that hard work and success are mutually inclusive.
According to a survey from the Pew Research Center, 73 percent of Americans think it is “very important to work hard in order to get ahead in life”, a value that’s notably greater than the rest of the world, which only clocks in at 50 percent. This ultimately encourages Americans to hustle hard on a daily basis.
And the stats speak for themselves. It’s estimated that the average American will spend 90,000 hours at work in their lifetime.
The Effects of Feeling Guilty about Work
We know that a lot of us are putting in long hours in and out of the office. But that’s just the American way, right? Well, yes, but that doesn’t mean we’re not affected by it.
Here are some negative effects of those extended hours:
- Your health takes a hit: Over time, a longer workweek can cause an increased risk of heart disease, generally poor health, and exhaustion. (Bet we didn’t have to point out that last one, did we?) In fact, one study found that “those who work more than 55 hours a week have a 33 percent increased risk of stroke compared with those who work a 35- to 40-hour week”. Overworked employees were also found to have a 13 percent increased risk of coronary heart disease.
- Your productivity tanks: What’s more, increased office hours don’t boost your productivity. More like the opposite. Studies show that working longer hours actually results in diminishing returns. In other words, beyond a certain point, each additional hour you stay at the office becomes less productive than the last.
- Other countries find us absurd: Okay, this isn’t really that crucial. But we found it amusing that European workers think our tendencies to work after hours, eat at our desks, and send weekend emails are ridiculous.
Are There Benefits?
Maybe.
It can, sometimes, be a motivating factor for us to get ahead in our careers. In fact, a paper published by the Journal of Applied Psychology showed that those who experienced work guilt were routinely rated highly in performance reviews and considered more capable leaders than their peers who didn’t.
Feeling guilty can also increase a person’s likelihood of being cooperative.
But even with some of those benefits, feeling guilty on the job isn’t worth it, especially if it’s coming from deeper issues about adequacy. Dr. Mildred Borras, a licensed psychologist practicing in New York, points out, these feelings of guilt are essentially futile. “Guilt should only be [felt] when we have done something morally wrong,” she says.
Dr. Borras goes on to explain that this collective guilt so many Americans experience may actually be more related to shame, or the looming feeling that our work performance isn’t up to par. “The question is to find out what’s under that guilt,” she says.
So how do we do that? If you’re struggling with feelings of not being good enough at your job or in general, it’s best to call in the professionals. Reach out to a counselor or therapist in your area to get started.
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4 Ways to Deal with Feeling Guilty at Work
As Dr. Borras suggests, much of the work guilt we’re feeling may actually point to an underlying worry about how we’re stacking up.
Here are a few tips to keep that work guilt in check and make us feel better about our overall performance.
1. Set up regular check-ins with your boss
Some of the guilt you’re feel at the office may be rooted in the feeling you are not performing at the level your boss expects. But by scheduling a regular 1:1 meeting with your boss, you can find out exactly where you stand, rather than spend your days guessing. If your boss tells you that you’re doing a great job, you’ll be able to shoo away feelings of guilt that imply you’re not doing “enough.”
Conversely, if your boss gives you some areas to work on, you’ll leave the meeting with actionable ways to improve your performance, rather than proceeding blindly and simply clocking more hours.
What’s more, regular 1:1 meetings have been shown to produce a 529 percent return on investment. (I.e. they’re good for your employer, too!)
2. Establish an end-of-workday routine
You know we’re big on routines around here. And for good reason — routines can help you curb stress and anxiety.
Research has shown that routines can make our lives feel more meaningful. And one study found evidence that maintaining a daily routine can improve your mental health — and your cognitive functioning.
So how do you apply that to your workday? Place a reminder on your calendar 30 minutes before you need to leave for the day, and then embark on an end-of-day routine to get into the mindset that it’s time to leave soon.
For example, you might: Organize your desk and plan tomorrow’s to-do list. This will help you be prepared for the day ahead and feel like you have a plan to take on the tasks you didn’t finish.
Need help building your best routine? Panda Planner’s got you covered.
3. Make the most out of your schedule
One key way to stop feeling guilty for not accomplishing “enough” is to make your work days run as efficiently as possible. To do this, you may need to reevaluate your daily schedule.
First, try finding black holes in your day. Are there any meetings that suck a lot of time out of your schedule that you don’t actually need to attend? What about the countless hours you spend on email? See if you can condense your meetings or make some of them optional, and work on an email strategy that doesn’t eat up your precious productive hours.
Try to block off time slots to work on urgent and important projects or dedicate chunks of time to similar tasks, like answering those emails. This is called task batching, and it’s a good way to take control of your schedule. If you need help figuring out what’s important and what’s not, the Eisenhower Matrix is a good place to start.
4. Place a hard stop on your calendar
The old adage known as Parkinson’s Law says that “work expands so as to fill the time available for its completion.” In other words, the more time you have to work on a project, the longer it will take you to complete it.
When you don’t have a particular time you need to leave the office on a given day, you may be less likely to finish a particular task more quickly. Now what?
Try placing a hard stop on your calendar for the end of each day, so that your brain acknowledges the small window of time you have to finish a task. This can help you work more quickly and efficiently to complete it before you leave.
To sum it all up…
Overall, Dr. Borras emphasizes that “it is important to encourage ourselves” rather than be critical of our efforts. Feeling guilty, and guilt in general, is all about emotion and it shouldn’t influence our decision-making at the office, she says.
By setting up regular check-ins with your boss, maximizing your calendar, and creating an end-of-day routine, you can give yourself permission to feel good about what you have accomplished — and less guilty about what you haven’t.
Your turn: When you find yourself feeling guilty about work, what do you do to cope? Tell us your work-guilt relief strategies in the comments below.
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Author: Jennifer Lance
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How to Stop Feeling Guilty For Not Getting “Enough” Work Done
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What are the right words or phrases that describe a person who is pretending to be working hard or contributing to a team effort, actually doing nothing but waiting to get a (undeserved) share of reward?
I tried to look it up in a dictionary from my mother tongue to English, and I did not find any words or phrases, only full sentences.
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One term that could be used is coaster.
It was hard to find a dictionary that listed this meaning of the word, but I managed to find one on the Wordnik page. One of Wordnik’s cross-listed definition reads:
coaster (n.) A loafer.
In my experience, the word is often used when a member of a team is relying too much on others, and not contributing enough. This could be a sports team, or a team working on a project in school or the workplace. The verb form was used in a headline earlier this year, when a reporter wondered:
Dwyane Wade: Is Miami Heat Star on the Decline or Just Coasting?
As a synonym, you could probably use slacker. NOAD defines the word as:
slacker (n.) A person who avoids work or effort.
If the context makes it clear that the slacker is a member of a team, I think the word can carry the meaning you want.
answered Aug 16, 2013 at 22:56
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I’m not sure there’s a word or simple phrase that incorporates «pretending to be working hard or contributing», but someone who isn’t contributing while expecting to share in rewards could be called a «free rider» or, more pejoratively, a «straphanger».
answered Aug 16, 2013 at 21:13
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The word that I would use is «shirker.» In your (Chinese) language, this word would correspond to the ideogram of a woman talking, while carrying (or pretending to) a stack of grain.
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Fudgel is an old (18th century?) English word that means “to pretend to be busy while actually doing nothing.”
A Huffington Post article reads:
To fudgel is an eighteenth-century term meaning “Pretending to work when you’re not actually doing anything at all.” Modern offices are full of it, largely because when somebody is staring intently at a computer screen and typing it’s hard to tell whether they’re busily putting together this year’s accounts or busily updating their Facebook status or buying something on eBay. “Stop fudgelling” should be the catchphrase of every efficient office manager.
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Goldbricker has the meaning you want
person who gets paid a wage, or salary, for work that is not done, despite the appearance of working.
but is unusual. And possibly old-fashioned — I’ve found it in writing from the WWII era.
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I like the phrase coat-hanger myself, someone who hovers around actually doing nothing is only really fit to hold your coat.
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It seems that suitable words for this sense are a freeloader and a hanger-on.
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Boondoggle:
verb (used without object), boon·dog·gled, boon·dog·gling.
to do work of little or no practical value merely to keep or look busy.
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“Why Microsoft Word won’t let me edit?”
Word documents are very important in an office setting as a lot of official work and reports are done in Microsoft Word. Microsoft’s Productive Suite is very easy to work in, with Microsoft Word being one of the best text editors available in the market. But what if for some reason you can’t edit Word document all of a sudden? It can be especially problematic for office workers.
We definitely understand how distressing this problem can, which is why in this article we have discussed several ways that can be used to diagnose and troubleshoot this problem.
We have shown a VIDEO walk through at the end of the post for easy solution.
There can be various reasons that can stop you from editing your Word document, let’s look at the causes of this problem:
- If the trial version of the office program that you are running expires, then you can face this issue.
- The Word file may be set to open in read-only mode, which is why you are unable to edit it.
- If editing the Word document has been restricted, then this problem can occur.
- The Protected view feature is enabled can restrict editing documents that can potentially harm your computer.
- If more than one user has the document open in a shared network, then you cannot edit the Word document.
- The the file may not be a Word document (.docx) but rather converted to .doc, which is why Microsoft Word won’t let you edit it.
What To Do When You Can’t Edit Word Document
Now that you know the various causes of this problem, it’s time to troubleshoot them one by one.
Solution 1: Check Some Basic Issues
This problem can occur if you are using a trial version of the Office program and the trial period has expired. The first thing that you need to do if you are using a trial version is to check if the trial period has finished.
Next, if the document you want to edit is in any removable device, then copy it and paste it in your hard disk and then try editing it.
Then, check if the Word is asking for a password when you are trying to edit the document. If yes, then ask the owner of the document to give you the password.
Finally, check if the document you are trying to open is really a .doc file. Sometimes this problem can arise when other file formats are converted into .doc, which Microsoft Word may not allow to be edited.
Solution 2: Disable Read-Only Mode
This problem can also occur if the document has been opened in read-only mode. In this scenario, disabling the read-only mode should fix this problem.
To disable the read-only mode, follow the steps given below:
- Locate the Word document you want to edit and right-click on it.
- Click on the Properties option from the pop-up menu.
- Uncheck the Read-only attribute in the General tab.
- Now, select the Security tab and see if the elements in the Group or user names section have been allowed the Full control, Modify, Read & execute, Read, Write permissions.
- If they are not allowed then, click on the Edit option below the Group or user names section and select the boxes for the options given above.
- Finally, click on Apply and OK to save all the changes.
Now, check if you still can’t edit Word document. This solution should fix this problem.
Solution 3: Change the Restrict Editing Settings
As mentioned above, documents can be restricted to edit. If this is the case, then changing the Restrict Editing settings should fix this problem.
To change the Restrict Editing settings, follow the steps given below:
- First, open the document in Microsoft Word and then click on the Review option.
- Click on the Restrict Editing option. If any of the restriction boxes are selected, then uncheck them.
- Close down the document and reopen it.
Disabling the Restrict Editing feature should solve this issue.
Solution 4: Disable The Protected View Feature
The Protected View feature in Microsoft Word basically opens the potentially malicious documents in a restricted mode. Thus, this security feature can stop you from editing the Word document if it considers the document as malicious or a threat to your computer.
To disable Protected view, follow the steps given below:
- Open the document in the Microsoft Word and click on the File option.
- Scroll down and click on the Options It will open the Word options panel on your computer.
- Now, click on the Trust Centre option and then click on the Trust Centre Settings.
- Click on the Protected View option.
- Now, uncheck all the options related to Protected View and then click on OK.
Close the document and then reopen it. Check if you are able to edit it or not. If you still cannot edit Word document, then try the next solution.
Solution 5: Remove The Owner Of The File
If you are trying to open a word document that is available in a shared network and you are unable to edit it, then most likely someone else has the file opened and already editing it. If that’s the case then the file will only open in Read-only mode, unless you remove the file owner.
To remove the file owner, follow the steps given below:
- First, save the word document that you are unable to edit and then close down all the programs, including the document.
- Press the Ctrl + Shift + Esc keys on your desktop to open the Task Manager.
- In the Processes tab, locate and right-click on the exe process and then click on the End Process option in the pop-up menu.
- If any dialog opens up asking to close down the program because it’s not responding, then click on Ok.
- Close the Task Manager and navigate to the folder in which the Word document is located.
- Locate the file named as ~$cument.doc and delete it.
- Now, open the document in Microsoft Word. If any dialog appears asking to load changes made to the template, then click on No.
This solution should fix this problem.
Wrapping Up
So, now you know what to do if you can’t edit Word document. The troubleshooting methods given above should help you fix this problem. Feel free to share your thoughts on the article in the comment section.
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A telephone call, a wife to the husband:
— So, are you getting any work done?
— Yeah, I’m working.
Fatal Attraction, movie
Does that mean Are you finishing any of your works?
Thanks.
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Not quite. I can say «I’ve gotten a lot of work done,» meaning «I’ve accomplished a lot today,» without meaning that I’ve actually finished any of my projects.
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Not quite. I can say «I’ve gotten a lot of work done,» meaning «I’ve accomplished a lot today,» without meaning that I’ve actually finished any of my projects.
Yes, «a lot of work» is clear… But she says «any work»… How do you understand this phrase?
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«any work» means any part of what you are supposed to be doing at work.
Are you getting anything done?
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«Have you eaten any food today?»
«Yes, I’ve had scrambled eggs and some orange juice.»
«Are you getting any sleep, with a new baby in the house?»
«Only about five hours a night.»
«Are you getting any work done?»
«Yes, I’m getting some work done.»
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That is, «any work» is in the sense of «any (amount of) work», right?
And if so, does «getting (any) work done» have anything to do with finishing work? Or is «are you getting any work done?» just «are you working at all? / are you doing anything?»?
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It’s not specific at all. It’s a very general question.
Are you making progress?
Are you having a satisfactory day at work?
any and all of the above
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No, I don’t want to be specific… Look at this, please:
any
some or even the smallest amount or number: Have you got any money? Do you need any further information?
Is this meaning of «any» in the OP quote?
And the second thing that’s confusing me here is a progressive verb (get) with «done» in one phrase. I mean: «Have you done anything?» — this would be clear…
But «are you getting (something) done?»… I just can’t understand this collocation… Why not just «Are you working?», «Are you doing anything?»…
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Maybe you misunderstood me. I meant that «are you getting any work done» is not specific.
and yes, — some or even the smallest amount or number — that’s what I was trying to get across in post #4 — any part of your work, amount of work
The progressive form gives the sense that it is work that is continuing, that the person is in the process of doing something at the time of the conversation.
Saying it any other way would change the meaning.
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The progressive form gives the sense that it is work that is continuing, that the person is in the process of doing something at the time of the conversation.
Saying it any other way would change the meaning.
Are you getting any work done?
Would saying it in this way change the meaning anyhow?:
Are you doing any work?
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Are you getting any work done?
Would saying it in this way change the meaning anyhow?:
Are you doing any work?
No, that is different and means merely are you working on something and is not the same as joanvillafane points out in post #9 and #7 and as she says, you cannot change it.
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No, that is different and means merely are you working on something and is not the same as joanvillafane points out in post #9 and #7 and as she says, you cannot change it.
It seems like it’s about the difference between «to do something» and «to get something done», right?
get
to do something, or to have it done for you
get something done: You need to get your hair cut. I should be able to get the first chapter finished by tonight. They tried to get Marly sent to prison.
Macmillan dictionary
The first and third example are about «having it done for you» and the second is similar to ours. We can rephrase it this way without changing the meaning:
I should be able to finish the first chapter by tonight.
Am I right?
What I’m trying to say: I really don’t understand the difference between
Are you getting any work done?
Are you doing any work?
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Are you getting any work done?
~ Are you managing to do any work ie be productive/successful in the tasks that you are working on (even if none of them is finished)?
Are you doing any work?
~ Are you working on something or are you relaxing or pretending to work?
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Are you getting any work done? = Are you accomplishing anything at all?
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I see. That is tricky.
You need to get your haircut=You ought to have a haircut, I think your hair is too long and needs to be cut by persons unknown, either yourself or another person. You nave a need. Finishing or completion is not part of my statement and cannot be because this is just statement of opinion.
I should be able to get the first chapter finished/done (read to completion, done with my reading) = I believe I will be capable of accomplishing this task.
to get Mary sent to prison = to arrange for, see to it that, Mary goes to prison.
to get work done = to
manage to finish an entire task to completion.
to get some work done = to manage to finish just some parts of the entire task, more parts remain.
Are you getting any work done (at all) ? Have you managed/are you managing to work at all on this task, give me a progress report, and let me know if you have at least completed parts of it.
to do work not usual at all, clumsy at best, one works, not «does» work. I should retract my comment in post # 11 a bit. But one can say, «I do all kinds of work» to mean I’m multifaceted and can do many different jobs. «Are you doing any work» does not make too much sense.
Are you working? = Are you doing something/ are you employed?
Are you getting work? Are you having work assignments sent to you, are you finding jobs?
(cross-posted with Linkway and Parla)
Last edited: Aug 30, 2015
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Hi Vik, in effect, in the context you describe, I would say there isn’t any difference in meaning between are you getting any work done? and are you doing any work? Both could be translated the same way in Russian using the present-tense imperfective verb. I think it’s because the «work» here is undefined, it’s not a specific task, and this is reinforced by the use of «some work», it’s just undefined activity. If you do anything at all, but don’t necessarily complete a specific task, then you have done something. Whatever you did, something was done, you got something done.
Yesterday I did some work = yesterday I got some work done. [undefined, nothing specific, no task necessarily completed]
Yesterday I did some reading = yesterday I got some reading done.
Today I’m doing some reading = today I’m getting some reading done.
Today I’m doing some work = today I’m getting some work done.
Tomorrow I’m going to do some reading = tomorrow I’m going to get some reading done.
Tomorrow I’m going to do some work = tomorrow I’m going to get some work done.
In your context, because he replies «yeah, I’m working», it’s clear that this is nothing to do with the causative «get something done».
[Cross-posted]
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I have another question. Suppose the situtation is: The wife calls her husband at 6pm and she knows that her husbands ends the word and leaves the office at 5pm. Then is it more appropriate for the wife to ask: » Have you gotten any work done?»
Because the progressive aspect (i.e. be doing) in English usually refers to the future (e.g. I’m going to NYC this weekend.) or present (She’s drinking water). So I guess the propriate situation for «Are you getting any work done?» must be that the husband is still working in his office and his wife knows that he has been working.
Am I right?
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Thank you everyone a lot
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If the Keyboard shortcuts and hotkeys are not working in Microsoft Word, then you can try the solutions mentioned in this article to fix this issue. Keyboard shortcuts enable you to perform specific commands quickly without going through various options. However, some users have reportedly encountered this issue where they are unable to use keyboard shortcut keys in the Word application. If you are also facing the same problem, here are some fixes that you can try to resolve the issue.
The solutions to fix the keyboard shortcut keys not working problem in Word are:
- Check if the Keyboard Shortcuts are working or not elsewhere
- Reset Keyboard Shortcuts.
- Check by running Word in safe mode and disable add-ins.
- Repair Microsoft Word application.
Let’s discuss these in detail!
1] Check if the Keyboard Shortcuts are not working anywhere else in Windows 10
Are the keyboard shortcuts not working only in Microsoft Word? Or, are they not working in other applications too in Windows 10? Use hotkeys in Windows 10 generally and see if they are working fine or not.
If not, you can see this post to fix keyboard shortcuts. To begin with, run the Keyboard troubleshooter, check the keyboard physically, reset the keyboard, etc.
2] Reset Keyboard Shortcuts
If no standard keyboard shortcut is working in Word, try resetting keyboard shortcuts. It may help you fix the issue. To do so, you can follow below steps:
Launch Word and go to the File > Options menu. In the Options window, move to the Customize Ribbon tab. Here, you will see Customize button present beside the Keyboard Shortcut option. Click on this option and then in the next dialog window, tap on the Reset All option.
Next, confirm the reset process and all your keyboard shortcuts will be reset to default. Then, check if you are able to use your standard hotkeys in Word.
You can reassign the shortcut keys for commands in Word using the same Customize option.
3] Check by running Word in Safe mode and disable add-ins
Sometimes the bugs in applications arise due to problematic add-ins that you have installed. The same can be the reason for keyboard shortcuts not working in Word. So, restart Microsoft Word in safe mode and then see you are able to use the keyboard shortcuts.
To start Word in safe mode, open Run (Windows+R) and then type and enter winword /safe
.
If you are able to use keyboard shortcut keys in Safe mode, the problem is most probably with an installed add-in. So, launch Word normally and then disable add-ins using below steps:
- Go to the File menu and click on Options.
- Select the Add-ins tab and press the Go button present beside the Manage COM Add-ins option.
- Now, uncheck the installed add-ins to disable them and then click on the OK button.
- Restart Word and see if you are able to use keyboard shortcuts like before.
4] Repair Microsoft Word application
If nothing seems to work to fix this issue, repair the Microsoft Word application. If the problem lies with the app installation or module update, this method should work.
Just open the Settings app and then click on the Apps category. Now, from Apps & features tab, scroll down to the Microsoft Office app and then tap on it. You will see a Modify option below it; click on it and then choose from Quick Repair and Online Repair options and press the Repair button to start the process.
After the Windows repairs the Office applications, check if keyboard shortcuts are working or not.
Hope this article helps you fix the keyboard shortcuts not working issue in Word.
Read next: How to customize Keyboard Shortcuts for Word.
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