Word for i love you in italian

Ciao! If you’re interested in learning how to express your love for someone in Italian, you’ve stumbled onto the right blog. In this post, we will explore four ways to express the sentiment “I love you” in Italian, just in time for Valentine’s Day (San Valentino). Whether you’re in a romantic relationship, a friendship, or simply wish to express your affection for someone special in your family or circle of friends, you can bet your bottom dollar that these four phrases will come in handy.

how to say i love you in italian

1. Ti amo!


The most traditional way to say that you love someone romantically in Italian is Ti amo. Amo is the first person singular form of the verb amare, meaning “to love”.

Unlike the English “I love you”, ti amo is normally only used towards people in whom you have a romantic or sexual interest such as your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife.

Beautiful young couple having fun while visiting Venice
Ti amo, amore mio! = I love you, my love!

2. Ti voglio bene!


Ti voglio bene may sound like a strange phrase to English ears: it literally translates as “I want you well”. However, it is actually another way to say “I love you“ when the sentiment is platonic. As a parent, you could say ti voglio bene to your children, or you could direct it towards a special family member or friend.

It is also possible to say it to your romantic partner on occasion, but don’t overuse it! If you do, they might think you’ve lost interest in them.

Happy daughter embracing her mom, enjoying time together
Ti voglio bene, mamma. = I love you, mom.

3. Mi piaci!


If you’ve only just gotten into a romantic relationship with someone, you may wish to steer clear of the ti amos until you are sure that he or she returns your affection. In this case, a good alternative phrase is mi piaci which means I like you.

Of course, if you want to be a little more emphatic, you can add on adverbs like tantissimo or moltissimo, both of which mean “a lot”.

Happy young african couple hugging and laughing outdoors.
Mi piaci tantissimo! = I like you a lot!

4. Ti adoro!


While mi piaci allows you to play down your emotions, ti adoro is definitely a transparent display of affection. Adoro is the first-person singular of the verb adorare, meaning “to adore”, and despite being a pretty intense statement, you can use it towards romantic partners, children and even extremely good friends. Heck, even a pet is the perfect candidate for the occasional ti adoro!

Grey adorable kitty held by a woman standing in a background.
Ti adoro, mio dolce gattino! = I adore you, my sweet kitten!

Did you know that in Italian, there are two different ways to say “I love you”?

But they’re not interchangeable. If you use the wrong one with the wrong person, you might end up saying something embarrassing by accident!

Learn how Italians say “I love you” to different people in this episode of 5 minute Italian.

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Today’s Italian words

Come si dice “I love you” in Italiano = How do you say “I love you” in Italian?

Dipende = it depends

Ti amo = I love you (romantic love) lit. “you I love”

Il fidanzato = the boyfriend

La fidanzata = the girlfriend

Il marito = the husband

La moglie = the wife

Ti voglio bene = I love you (between family or close friends) lit. “you I want well”

TVB = acronym of ti voglio bene

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Transcript

Please note, this is not a word for word transcript.

Katie: Ciao a tutti e benvenuti a 5 Minute Italian, I’m Katie

M: And I’m Matteo.

Did you know that in Italian, there are two different ways to say “I love you”? But they’re not interchangeable. If you use the wrong one with the wrong person, you might end up saying something embarrassing by accident! Learn how Italians say “I love you” to different people in episode 45 of 5 minute Italian.

Katie: Ciao a tutti e benvenuti a 5 Minute Italian, I’m Katie

Matteo: And I’m Matteo

Katie: And in today’s episode, you’ll learn 2 ways to say “I love you” in Italian, and more importantly, how to distinguish between them, so you don’t say the wrong one to the wrong person. We’ll have a mini chat about it in Italian, so you can practice your listening, then we’ll break it down in English.

K: Matteo, come si dice “I love you” in Italiano?

M: Dipende. Se parliamo dell’amore romantico, diciamo “ti amo”. Però, se parliamo dell’amore in famiglia, o tra amici, diciamo “ti voglio bene”.

Katie: So you first heard the question:

Matteo: Come si dice “I love you” in Italiano.

Katie: Which means: “How do you say “I love you” in Italian”. Then you heard:

Matteo: Dipende.

Katie: Which means it depends. So what does it depend on? Did you catch Matteo’s explanation?

Matteo: Se parliamo dell’amore romantico, diciamo “ti amo”.

Katie: If we speak about romantic love, we say “ti amo”. Ti means “you” and amo means “I love”.

Matteo: In Italian we literally say “you I love”. Ti amo.

Katie: Interestingly, Italians have 2 different ways of saying I love you. Ti amo is reserved for romantic love, so something you’d say to your romantic partner.

Matteo: Yes. You could say it to your fidanzata o fidanzato

Katie: Girlfriend or boyfriend

Matteo: Or your marito o moglie

Katie: Husband or wife. What would you say if you wanted to say I love you to someone in your family? Well, in the dialogue at the beginning, we heard Matteo say:

Matteo: Però, se parliamo dell’amore in famiglia o tra amici, diciamo “ti voglio bene”

Katie: But, if we speak about love in the family or between friends, we say: ti voglio bene.

Matteo: We know that ti means “you”. Voglio means “I want” and bene means “well”. So the literal translation is “you I want well”.

Katie: That’s right, ti voglio bene = “you I want well”. Which probably sounds a little strange! With these kind of phrases, I find it’s best not to worry to much about the logic behind it – because it’s so different to in English. You can just learn it as a fixed phrase – if you want to say “I love you” to family or close friends, stick with “ti voglio bene”.

And sometimes you might even come across TVB, which is the acronym of ti voglio bene. It’s kind of like LOL, so it’s a bit silly, but I sometimes use this in a jokey way with my friends from uni.

Matteo: The word voglio has the “gli” sound in it. If you want to learn more about how to pronounce it, you can go back and listen to episode 5: how to pronounce gli.

Katie: And you’ll find all of today’s words along with the spelling in the show notes. If you’d like to go into more depth and make sure you remember what you learnt in today’s lesson, head over to our website where you’ll find bonus materials including a quiz and flashcards – joyoflanguages.com/how-to-say-I-love-you-in-Italian (hyphen between each word). You’ll also find the link in the show notes.

And finally, if you like the idea of learning Italian with music, there’s an Italian song by Vasco Rossi called “ti voglio bene”, which goes nicely with today’s episode, so you’ll find a link to that on our website.

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i love you in italian

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February 22, 2023

There might only be two main ways to say “I love you” in Italian, but there are lots of other ways to express love to everyone you know without actually saying it outright.

Let’s take a look at the options.

Contents

  • The 2 Main Ways to Say “I Love You” in Italian
    • Ti amo.
    • Ti voglio bene.
  • How to Say “I Love You Very Much”
  • 11 More Expressions Used to Declare Love
    • Ti amo più oggi di ieri ma meno di domani.
    • Ti amo, amore mio.
    • Ti adoro.
    • Ho bisogno di te.
    • Sei la mia anima gemella.
    • Tu mi completi.
    • Senza di te, la vita non ha significato.
    • Il mio cuore è tuo.
    • Da quando ti conosco la mia vita è un paradiso.
    • Sei la mia polpetta.
    • Ti amo più di quanto Botticelli amasse la sua Venere.


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The 2 Main Ways to Say “I Love You” in Italian

In Italian, the two main ways to say “I love you” aren’t interchangeable. That is, you can’t just choose one and use it any time you want to express feeling love for a person.

But why not just scatter one phrase the way you might sprinkle grated cheese on your pasta and be done with it?

Unlike cheese, which is yummy on both linguine and fettuccine, Italian “I love you” phrases aren’t suitable for everyone.

The familiarity, affection and status of a relationship matter. A lot!

One expression is used with family and friends. The other phrase is exchanged only between people in serious relationships. It’s saved for dating, marriage and deeply committed couples. So don’t mix the two up!

Here are the two main ways to say “I love you” in Italian:

Ti amo.

Ti amo is the Italian superstar of love expressions. It’s used to express that blissful, romantic love that we all hope to experience.

It’s shared between spouses and engaged couples.

It’s not for friends or siblings.

Remember, this is the completely committed, romantic expression that makes hearts beat faster!

Ti voglio bene.

This is the phrase to choose when you’re showing love to family members, friends or other uncommitted relationships. It translates to “I love you,” but its literal meaning is “I want you well.” 

Your aunt gets this one.

Your best friend does, too.

And the person you’re dating casually but who may be on the way to becoming a serious partner? He or she should hear ti voglio bene—at least until you move forward in your relationship.

How to Say “I Love You Very Much”

Italy is well known for its warmth. The climate, food, drinks, landscape and sights attest to that.

Angel hair pasta can have some heat when it’s made Italian-style. Hot chocolate gets a kick in The Boot. And the landscape literally steams in Italy. Think about Mount Etna, Mount Vesuvius or the miles of sun-kissed beaches.

In Italy, love can also be heated up. In fact, with one tiny word, it can be spiced up nicely!

To add depth to ti amo or ti voglio bene, tack on molto (very) to either phrase. This small word brings each declaration up a notch.

Just remember how Italian sentences are structured and add molto after the verb:

Ti amo Ti amo molto
(I love you → I love you very much)

Ti voglio bene Ti voglio molto bene
(I love you → I love you very much)

11 More Expressions Used to Declare Love

Italian culture is super romantic but with only two expressions that say “I love you,” is it possible to go beyond this basic declaration? Yes, it certainly is!

A quick disclaimer: Use discretion when speaking these romantic expressions. They aren’t casual, so don’t toss them around like confetti at everyone around you. Instead, add a couple to your sweet murmurings and make your partner sizzle.

Ti amo più oggi di ieri ma meno di domani.

Meaning: I love you more today than yesterday but less than tomorrow.

This is what romantic dreams are made of, isn’t it? I don’t know about you but I’d melt if someone said this to me!

Ti amo, amore mio.

Meaning: I love you, my darling.

Adding a term of endearment always takes a sentiment up a notch.

Ti adoro.

Meaning: I adore you.

 Who doesn’t want to be adored? So sweet!

Ho bisogno di te.

Meaning: I need you.

Needing is different from simply wanting. When someone says they need you it’s almost as if your presence is essential to their well-being.

Very romantic, no?

Popular Italian singer Eros Ramazzotti shows how spicy this declaration can be with his song “Ho bisogno di te.”

Sei la mia anima gemella.

Meaning: You’re my soul mate.

The phrase anima gemella (soul mate) elevates romance to the heavens, doesn’t it?

Tu mi completi.

Meaning: You complete me.

A declaration that turns two into one. Così romantica! (So romantic!)

Senza di te, la vita non ha significato.

Meaning: Without you, life has no meaning.

An undying declaration of love like the kind you’d hear in an incredibly emotional movie scene!

Il mio cuore è tuo.

Meaning: My heart is yours.

This is another way to admit that your heart belongs to another.

Da quando ti conosco la mia vita è un paradiso.

Meaning: Since I met you my life is a paradise.

Remember the Italian proverb about how it’s not good to solo in paradise? This expression shows that with the right person, life itself is paradise!

Sei la mia polpetta.

Meaning: You’re my meatball.

Consider the Italian meal of pasta with meatballs. Many would say that without the meatballs, the pasta or meal isn’t worth eating. They’d assert that it’s incomplete on its own.

This expression is one that my elderly aunt and uncle pass between them as often as they hand the grated cheese across the table. It’s old-fashioned and loving and for those two, it’s a testament to decades of married life.

Veramente romantico! (Truly romantic!)

Ti amo più di quanto Botticelli amasse la sua Venere.

Meaning: I love you more than Botticelli loved his Venus.

I heard this in a small restaurant in Rome on a warm summer night. No, I wasn’t on the receiving end of this incredible declaration but it made such a profound impression that I’ve never forgotten it.

I’ve seen the Botticelli exhibit so I understood how much love had gone into the masterpiece. I can’t look at it anymore without being pulled back into that moment in that restaurant.

I hope you hear a similar wonderful declaration of love… and may it be directed at you!

Italians sure do know how to speak of love. It’s such a wonderfully vivid, beautifully romantic language. And there are so many ways to show affection for loved ones that it’s easy to immerse yourself in the romance.

To really make sparks fly between you and an Italian-speaking significant other, try bridging the language gap! The FluentU Italian program shows you authentic clips from Italian movies, songs and shows so you can learn romantic phrases and other common expressions as used by actual native speakers. Each clip includes interactive subtitles and transcripts:FluentU Italian Clip

Share the love—and remember, even in a paradise as gorgeous as Italy, it’s not good to be alone!


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Do you often feel lonely and sad? Do you long for romance and are willing to do whatever it takes to meet that special person? Speaking another language could revolutionize your love life! So, why wait? Learning how to say ‘love’ in Italian could be just what you need to find it.

Or perhaps you were lucky, and have found your Italian partner already. Fantastic! Yet, a cross-cultural relationship comes with unique challenges. Learning how to speak your lover’s language will greatly improve your communication and enhance the relationship. At ItalianPod101, our team will teach you all the words, quotes and phrases you need to woo your Italian lover with excellence! Our tutors provide personal assistance, with plenty of extra material available to make Italian dating easy for you.

Table of Contents

  1. Common Phrases You’ll Need for a Date
  2. The Most Romantic Ideas for a Date
  3. Must-know Valentine’s Day Vocabulary
  4. Italian Love Phrases for Valentine’s Day
  5. Italian Quotes about Love
  6. Marriage Proposal Lines
  7. 15 Most Common Break-Up Lines
  8. Will Falling in Love Help You Learn Italian Faster?

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1. Common Phrases You’ll Need for a Date

So, you have met your Italian love interest. Congratulations! Who knows where this could take you…?! However, the two of you have just met and you’re not ready to say the Italian word for love just yet. Great, it is better to get to know him/her first. Wow your prospective love by using these Italian date phrases to set up a spectacular first date.

Italian Date Phrases

Would you like to go out to dinner with me?

  • Ti piacerebbe andare a cena con me?

The important question! In most cultures, this phrase indicates: ‘I’m romantically interested in you’. Flirting in Italian is no different, so don’t take your date to Mcdonald’s!

Are you free this weekend?

  • Sei libero questo fine settimana?

This is a preamble to asking your love interest on a date. If you get an immediate ‘Yes’, that’s good news!

Would you like to hang out with me?

  • Vuoi uscire con me?

You like her/him, but you’re not sure if there’s chemistry. Ask them to hang out first to see if a dinner date is next.

What time shall we meet tomorrow?

  • A che ora ci vediamo domani?

Set a time, and be sure to arrive early! Nothing spoils a potential relationship more than a tardy date.

Where shall we meet?

  • Dove ci vediamo?

You can ask this, but also suggest a place.

You look great.

  • Stai benissimo.

A wonderful ice breaker! This phrase will help them relax a bit – they probably took great care to look their best just for you.

You are so cute.

  • Sei così carino.

If the two of you are getting on really well, this is a fun, flirtatious phrase to use.

What do you think of this place?

  • Cosa ne pensi di questo posto?

This another good conversation starter. Show off your Italian language skills!

Can I see you again?

  • Posso vederti ancora?

So the date went really well – don’t waste time! Make sure you will see each other again.

Shall we go somewhere else?

  • Vogliamo andare da qualche altra parte?

If the place you meet at is not great, you can suggest going elsewhere. It is also a good question to follow the previous one. Variety is the spice of life!

I know a good place.

  • Conosco un bel posto.

Use this with the previous question. However, don’t say if you don’t know a good place!

I will drive you home.

  • Ti riaccompagnerò in macchina a casa.

If your date doesn’t have transport, this is a polite, considerate offer. However, don’t be offended if she/he turns you down on the first date. Especially a woman might not feel comfortable letting you drive her home when the two of you are still basically strangers.

That was a great evening.

  • E’ stata una serata fantastica.

This is a good phrase to end the evening with.

When can I see you again?

  • Quando posso rivederti?

If he/she replied ‘Yes’ to ‘Can I see you again?’, this is the next important question.

I’ll call you.

  • Ti chiamerò.

Say this only if you really mean to do it. In many cultures, this could imply that you’re keeping the proverbial backdoor open.

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2. The Most Romantic Ideas for a Date

You learned all the Italian phrases to make a date – congratulations! Now you have to decide where to meet, which can be tricky. Discuss these options with your lover to gauge whether you like the same things. Check out romantic date ideas in Italian below!

Date Ideas in Italian

museum

  • museo

If you’re looking for unique date ideas that are fun but won’t break the bank, museums are the perfect spot! You won’t be running out of things to say in the conversations.

candlelit dinner

  • cena a lume di candela

A candlelit dinner is perhaps best to reserve for when the relationship is getting serious. It’s very intimate, and says: “Romance!” It’s a fantastic choice if you’re sure you and your date are in love with each other!

go to the zoo

  • andare allo zoo

This is a good choice for shy lovers who want to get the conversation going. Just make sure your date likes zoos, as some people dislike them. Maybe not for the first date, but this is also a great choice if your lover has children – you’ll win his/her adoration for inviting them along!

go for a long walk

  • andare a fare una lunga passeggiata

Need to talk about serious stuff, or just want to relax with your date? Walking together is soothing, and a habit you can keep up together always! Just make sure it’s a beautiful walk that’s not too strenuous.

go to the opera

  • andare all’opera

This type of date should only be attempted if both of you love the opera. It can be a special treat, followed by a candlelit dinner!

go to the aquarium

  • andare all’acquario

Going to the aquarium is another good idea if you need topics for conversation, or if you need to impress your lover’s kids! Make sure your date doesn’t have a problem with aquariums.

walk on the beach

  • camminare sulla spiaggia

This can be a very romantic stroll, especially at night! The sea is often associated with romance and beauty.

have a picnic

  • fare un picnic

If you and your date need to get more comfortable together, this can be a fantastic date. Spending time in nature is soothing and calms the nerves.

cook a meal together

  • preparare da mangiare insieme

If you want to get an idea of your date’s true character in one go, this is an excellent date! You will quickly see if the two of you can work together in a confined space. If it works, it will be fantastic for the relationship and create a sense of intimacy. If not, you will probably part ways!

have dinner and see a movie

  • cenare e vedere un film

This is traditional date choice works perfectly well. Just make sure you and your date like the same kind of movies!

3. Must-know Valentine’s Day Vocabulary

Valentine's Day Words in Italian

Expressing your feelings honestly is very important in any relationship all year round. Yet, on Valentine’s Day you really want to shine. Impress your lover this Valentine’s with your excellent vocabulary, and make his/her day! We teach you, in fun, effective ways, the meanings of the words and how to pronounce them. You can also copy the characters and learn how to write ‘I love you’ in Italian – think how impressed your date will be!

4. Italian Love Phrases for Valentine’s Day

So, you now have the basic Valentine’s Day vocabulary under your belt. Well done! But, do you know how to say ‘I love you’ in Italian yet? Or perhaps you are still only friends. So, do you know how to say ‘I like you’ or ‘I have a crush on you’ in Italian? No? Don’t worry, here are all the love phrases you need to bowl over your Italian love on this special day!

Valentine's Day Words in Italian

I love you.

  • Ti amo.

Saying ‘I love you’ in Italian carries the same weight as in all languages. Use this only if you’re sure and sincere about your feelings for your partner/friend.

You mean so much to me.

  • Sei così importante per me.

This is a beautiful expression of gratitude that will enhance any relationship! It makes the receiver feel appreciated and their efforts recognized.

Will you be my Valentine?

  • Vuoi essere il mio Valentino?

With these words, you are taking your relationship to the next level! Or, if you have been a couple for a while, it shows that you still feel the romance. So, go for it!

You’re so beautiful.

  • Sei così bella.

If you don’t know how to say ‘You’re pretty’ in Italian, this is a good substitute, gentlemen!

I think of you as more than a friend.

  • Penso a te come a più di un amico.

Say this if you are not yet sure that your romantic feelings are reciprocated. It is also a safe go-to if you’re unsure about the Italian dating culture.

A hundred hearts would be too few to carry all my love for you.

  • Un centinaio di cuori sarebbero troppo pochi per racchiudere tutto il mio amore per te.

You romantic you…! When your heart overflows with love, this would be the best phrase to use.

Love is just love. It can never be explained.

  • L’amore è solo amore. Non può mai essere spiegato.

If you fell in love unexpectedly or inexplicably, this one’s for you.

You’re so handsome.

  • Sei così bello.

Ladies, this phrase lets your Italian love know how much you appreciate his looks! Don’t be shy to use it; men like compliments too.

I’ve got a crush on you.

  • Ho una cotta per te.

If you like someone, but you’re unsure about starting a relationship, it would be prudent to say this. It simply means that you like someone very, very much and think they’re amazing.

You make me want to be a better man.

  • Mi fai venire voglia di essere un uomo migliore.

Gentlemen, don’t claim this phrase as your own! It hails from the movie ‘As Good as it Gets’, but it is sure to make your Italian girlfriend feel very special. Let her know that she inspires you!

Let all that you do be done in love.

  • Lasciate che tutte le vostre cose siano fatte con amore.

We hope.

You are my sunshine, my love.

  • Tu sei il mio sole, il mio amore.

A compliment that lets your lover know they bring a special quality to your life. Really nice!

Words can’t describe my love for you.

  • Le parole non possono descrivere il mio amore per te.

Better say this when you’re feeling serious about the relationship! It means that your feelings are very intense.

We were meant to be together.

  • Siamo fatti per stare insieme.

This is a loving affirmation that shows you see a future together, and that you feel a special bond with your partner.

If you were thinking about someone while reading this, you’re definitely in love.

  • Se stavate pensando a qualcuno durante la lettura, siete sicuramente innamorati.

Here’s something fun to tease your lover with. And hope he/she was thinking of you!

5. Italian Quotes about Love

Italian Love Quotes

You’re a love champ! You and your Italian lover are getting along fantastically, your dates are awesome, your Valentine’s Day together was spectacular, and you’re very much in love. Good for you! Here are some beautiful phrases of endearment in Italian that will remind him/her who is in your thoughts all the time.

6. Marriage Proposal Lines

Italian Marriage Proposal Lines

Wow. Your Italian lover is indeed the love of your life – congratulations! And may only happiness follow the two of you! In most traditions, the man asks the woman to marry; this is also the Italian custom. Here are a few sincere and romantic lines that will help you to ask your lady-love for her hand in marriage.

7. 15 Most Common Break-Up Lines

Italian Break-Up Lines

Instead of moving towards marriage or a long-term relationship, you find that the spark is not there for you. That is a pity! But even though breaking up is never easy, continuing a bad or unfulfilling relationship would be even harder. Remember to be kind to the person you are going to say goodbye to; respect and sensitivity cost nothing. Here are some phrases to help you break up gently.

  • We need to talk.
    • Dobbiamo parlare.

    This is not really a break-up line, but it is a good conversation opener with a serious tone.

    It’s not you. It’s me.

    • Non sei tu. Sono io.

    As long as you mean it, this can be a kind thing to say. It means that there’s nothing wrong with your Italian lover as a person, but that you need something different from a relationship.

    I’m just not ready for this kind of relationship.

    • È solo che non sono pronto per questo tipo di rapporto.

    Things moved a bit fast and got too intense, too soon? Painful as it is, honesty is often the best way to break up with somebody.

    Let’s just be friends.

    • Restiamo solo amici.

    If the relationship was very intense, and you have sent many ‘i love u’ texts in Italian, this would not be a good breakup line. Feelings need to calm down before you can be friends, if ever. If the relationship has not really developed yet, a friendship would be possible.

    I think we need a break.

    • Penso che abbiamo bisogno di una pausa.

    This is again honest, and to the point. No need to play with someone’s emotions by not letting them know how you feel. However, this could imply that you may fall in love with him/her again after a period of time, so use with discretion.

    You deserve better.

    • Tu meriti di meglio.

    Yes, he/she probably deserves a better relationship if your own feelings have cooled down.

    We should start seeing other people.

    • Dovremmo iniziare a vedere altre persone.

    This is probably the least gentle break-up phrase, so reserve it for a lover that doesn’t get the message!

    I need my space.

    • Ho bisogno del mio spazio.

    When a person is too clingy or demanding, this would be an suitable break-up phrase. It is another good go-to for that lover who doesn’t get the message!

    I think we’re moving too fast.

    • Penso che ci stiamo muovendo troppo velocemente.

    Say this if you want to keep the relationship, but need to slow down its progress a bit. It is also good if you feel things are getting too intense for your liking. However, it is not really a break-up line, so be careful not to mislead.

    I need to focus on my career.

    • Ho bisogno di concentrarmi sulla mia carriera.

    If you feel that you will not be able to give 100% in a relationship due to career demands, this is the phrase to use. It’s also good if you are unwilling to give up your career for a relationship.

    I’m not good enough for you.

    • Io non sono alla tua altezza.

    Say this only if you really believe it, or you’ll end up sounding false. Break-ups are usually hard for the receiving party, so don’t insult him/her with an insincere comment.

    I just don’t love you anymore.

    • È solo che non ti amo più.

    This harsh line is sometimes the best one to use if you are struggling to get through to a stubborn, clingy lover who won’t accept your break up. Use it as a last resort. Then switch your phone off and block their emails!

    We’re just not right for each other.

    • Semplicemente non siamo fatti l’uno per l’altro.

    If this is how you truly feel, you need to say it. Be kind, gentle and polite.

    It’s for the best.

    • È la cosa migliore.

    This phrase is called for if circumstances are difficult and the relationship is not progressing well. Love should enhance one’s life, not burden it!

    We’ve grown apart.

    • Ci siamo allontanati.

    Cross-cultural relationships are often long-distance ones, and it is easy to grow apart over time.

  • 8. Will Falling in Love help you Learn Italian faster?

    Most people will agree that the above statement is a no-brainer – of course it will! Your body will be flooded with feel-good hormones, which are superb motivators for anything. ItalianPod101 is one of the best portals to help help make this a reality, so don’t hesitate to enroll now! Let’s quickly look at the reasons why falling in love will speed up your learning of the Italian language.

    Three Reasons Why Having a Lover will Help you Learn Italian Faster!

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    1- Being in a love relationship with your Italian speaking partner will immerse you in the culture
    ItalianPod101 uses immersive methods and tools to teach you Italian, but having a relationship with a native speaker will be a very valuable addition to your learning experience! You will gain exposure to their world, realtime and vividly, which will make the language come alive even more for you. The experience is likely to expand your world-view, which should motivate you to learn Italian even faster.

    2- Having your Italian romantic partner will mean more opportunity to practice speaking
    Nothing beats continuous practice when learning a new language. Your partner will probably be very willing to assist you in this, as your enhanced Italian language skills will enhance the relationship. Communication is, after all, one of the most important pillars of a good partnership. Also, you will get to impress your lover with the knowledge gained through your studies – a win/win situation!

    3- A supportive Italian lover is likely to make a gentle, patient teacher and study aid!
    With his/her heart filled with love and goodwill for you, your Italian partner is likely to patiently and gently correct your mistakes when you speak. This goes not only for grammar, but also for accent and meaning. With his/her help, you could sound like a native in no time!

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    1- All the Resources and Materials Will Help Both of You
    Falling in love with a man or woman speaking Italian is an opportunity for both of you to learn a new language! For this reason, every lesson, transcript, vocabulary list, and resource at ItalianPod101 is translated into both English and Italian. So, while your partner can help you learn Italian faster, you can potentially also help him/her learn and master English!

    2- Lessons Are Designed to Help You Understand and Engage with Italian Culture
    At ItalianPod101, our focus is to help our students learn practical vocabulary and phrases used by everyday people in Italy. This means that, from your very first lesson, you can apply what you learn immediately! So, when your Italian partner wants to go out to a restaurant, play Pokemon Go, or attend just about any social function, you have the vocabulary and phrases necessary to have a great time!

    3- Access to Special Resources Dedicated to Romantic Italian Phrases
    You now have access to ItalianPod101’s specially-developed sections and tools to teach you love words, phrases, and cultural insights to help you find and attract your Italian soul mate. A personal tutor will assist you to master these brilliantly – remember to invite him/her to your wedding!

    Want to learn how to say “I love you” in Italian? Si, si, of course you do.

    Italian is a beautiful, lyrical language that has charmed visitors for centuries. But, here’s the thing. There are are few rules you need to know before you say those sweet words. In English, “I love you” is used in all situations. But in Italian you’ll need to learn two different phrases or face some embarrassment!

    The phrase I love you in Italian is said differently depending on who you are addressing – a romantic partner or family members and friends.

    Ti amo – the Italian way to say I love you to a serious romantic partner

    Ti voglio bene – say I love you to your family and friends in Italian

    If you want to take it up a notch to: “I love you very much”, you can add ‘molto’. So Ti amo molto and Ti voglio molto bene. But just make sure to choose the right expression. Ti voglio bene will seem a little cold to a romantic interest. And ti amo is simply not quite suitable for your parents, brothers and sisters.

    Read on to discover some other words to express your love the Italian way. And the right way to pronounce them! After all, getting the accent right is part of the allure.

    10 more ways to say I love you in Italian

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    Let’s face it, a simple “ti amo” is sweet but you could take these words a little further and really sweep your lover off their feet. Italians use some beautiful phrases to express their love in a romantic way. Here are some suggestions to take your words beyond a cheeky “Ciao bella/bello!” (hello beautiful/handsome).

    • Amore mio – my love
    • Cuore mio – my heart
    • Tesoro mio – my darling
    • Baciami! – kiss me!
    • Sei tutto per me – you’re everything to me
    • Ti penso ogni giorno – I think about you every day
    • Sei il grande amore della mia vita – You’re the love of my life
    • Ti amerò sempre – I’ll always love you
    • Sono innamorato(a) di te – I’m in love with you
    • Sei sempre nel mio cuore – You are forever in my heart
    • Sei la mia anima gemella – You are my soul mate

    Expressing love and appreciation to your family in Italian

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    Family is very important to Italians so it follows that there are also many ways share your love for your family with them in Italian. Whether it’s a special occasion like Festa de la Mamma (Mother’s Day) or just a friendly chat with nonna (grandma), here are some sayings to make your family feel special the Italian way.

    • Ti voglio tanto bene – I love you so much
    • Tanti auguri Mamma / Papà – best wishes Mom / Dad (for Mother’s / Father’s Day)
    • Mamma / Papà / Nonna / Nonno sei migliore – Mom / Dad / Grandma / Grandpa you’re the best
    • Mia cara mamma / figlia / nonna – my darling mom /  daughter / grandma
    • Mio caro papà / figlio / nonno – my darling dad /  son / grandpa
    • Dammi un abbraccio – give me a hug
    • Dammi un bacio – give me a kiss
    • Vita mia! – my life
    • Cucciola / cucciolo – puppy / little one (term of endearment for kids)
    • Tesoro mio – my treasure
    • Polpetta/Polpetto – my little meatball! (very affectionate)

    Perfecting your Italian accent

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    Now you know what some loving words are in Italian, it’s a good idea to know how to say them. No doubt these phrases sound much more beautiful with a charming Italian accent.

    Here is the basic pronunciation of ti amo and ti voglio bene

    • Ti amo – tee ah-moh – listen to the words
    • Ti voglio bene – tee vol-yo ben-eh

    If you want to spend a little more time on this about then you could try practising with the free resources from Duolingo or listening to a podcast like 5 minute Italian.

    But if you really want to learn to speak Italian and create your own phrases of love then it’s a good idea to use a structured program like Rocket Italian. This is a three stage self-paced course – beginner, intermediate and advanced – that uses a variety of techniques to help you to speak and read Italian quickly. The online platform and app have inbuilt voice recognition technology that helps you to perfect your accent.

    We like the way you can learn at your own pace with easy to digest 20 minute lessons. But, everyone learns differently, so it’s a good idea to test out what works for you. You can access the Rocket Italian free trial and try it for yourself or read our detailed Rocket Italian review.

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    So now you know how to say I love you in Italian, are you inspired to learn more? If you have planned a trip to Italy you might want to brush up on these common phrases that are useful for travel. Or why not check out our guide to the best resources for learning Italian?

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    What’s more special that looking someone in the eyes and telling them that you love them? Doing it in Italian, of course! If you’re wondering how to express your love—either for a romantic partner or in a platonic relationship—we’ve got you covered. We’ve put together this comprehensive guide on how to say “I love you” in Italian, along with other romantic phrases and pet names you can use to show your affection.

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      “Ti amo” (tee AH-mo). Use this phrase to express deep love for a romantic partner. This is the direct translation of “I love you” into Italian, and indicates that you’ve taken your relationship to the next level.[1]

      • To make this expression stronger, say “ti amo così tanto” (tee AH-mo coh-SEE TAHN-to), or, “I love you so much.”
      • To sound even more romantic, you can even say, “Ti amo con tutto il cuore” (tee AH-mo con TOO-to eel KWO-reh), or, “I love you with all my heart.”
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      “Ti voglio bene” (tee VOL-yo BEN-eh). This phrase signifies a deep relationship, although not necessarily a romantic one. Although this expression directly translates to “I want good things for you,” it’s also how you would say “I love you” to a friend or family member.[2]

      • Make this expression even stronger by saying, “Ti voglio un mondo di bene” (tee VOL-yo oon MON-do dee BEN-eh), which could be translated into English as, “I want a world of good things for you.”
      • Keep in mind that some long-term spouses will also use “Ti voglio bene” with each other—this expression doesn’t always mean that a relationship isn’t romantic.

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      “Sono innamorato di te” (SO-no een-ah-mo-RA-to dee teh). This sentence directly translates to “I’m in love with you.” Like in English, saying you’re in love with someone is a strong declaration of your feelings, so use it carefully.[3]

      • Italian is a language that uses grammatical gender. If you’re a woman, say “sono innamorata di te” (SO-no een-ah-mo-RA-ta dee teh), instead of “inamorato.”
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      Italian is full of sweet phrases to show your affection. If you’re looking to impress your significant other with a romantic Italian phrase, try out one of these popular Italian expressions:[4]

      • “Significhi molto per me.” (see-nee-FEE-key MOL-to per me): “You mean a lot to me.”
      • “Ti penso sempre.” (tee PEN-so SEM-pray): “I think about you always.”
      • “Ti amerò sempre.” (tee am-er-OH SEM-pray): “I will always love you.”
      • “Sei la mia vita.” (say la MEE-ah VEE-ta): “You’re my life.”
      • “Sei la luce dei miei occhi.» (say la LOO-che day MEE-ay yoh-KEY): “You’re the light of my eyes.”
      • “Sei la mia anima gemella” (say la MEE-ah ah-NEE-ma ge-MELL-ah): “You’re my soulmate.”
      • “Non posso vivere senza di te.” (non POSS-oh VEE-ve-re sen-tsa dee teh): “I can’t live without you.”
      • “Voglio passare il resto della mi vita con te.” (VOL-yo pass-AH-rey eel RES-to DELL-ah me VEE-ta con teh): “I want to spend to rest of my life with you.”
      • “Ti do il mio cuore.” (tee do eel MEE-oh KWO-reh): “I give you my heart.”
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      Italian also has plenty of terms of endearment. You can always be creative with what you want to call your romantic partner—the important thing is that both of you like the name you come up with. But if you want a classic option in Italian, try one of these:[5]

      • “Caro mio” (CAR-oh mee-oh): “My dear” (referring to a man)
      • “Cara mia” (CAR-ah mee-ah): “My dear” (referring to a woman)
      • “Amore mio” (am-OH-rey mee-oh): “My love”
      • “Vita mia” (VEE-ta mee-ah): “My life”
      • “Tesoro” (tez-OH-ro): “Treasure” or “Darling”
      • “Bello” (BELL-oh): “Handsome” (referring to a man)
      • “Bella” (BELL-ah): “Pretty” (referring to a woman)
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      Try out these non-romantic pet names and sweet phrases. If you’re looking to show your affection to someone in a platonic way, try out one of these phrases or terms of endearment:[6]

      • “Sei migliore.” (say meel-YOR-eh): “You’re the best.”
      • “Sei un angelo.” (say oon an-JEL-oh): “You’re an angel.” (especially used to show gratitude)
      • “Piccolo” (pee-KOL-oh): “Little one” (referring to a male child)
      • “Piccola” (pee-KOL-ah): “Little one” (referring to a female child)
      • “Cucciolo” (KOO-cho-lo): “Puppy” (referring to a male child)
      • “Cucciola” (KOO-cho-la): “Puppy” (referring to a female child)

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    100 Ways to Say ‘I Love You’ in Italian

    Updated on September 13, 2019

    Whether it’s an operatic aria, a love poem, or whispered sweet nothings, many think the phrase «I love you» is best said in Italian. There are many ways to express your true feelings in this ancient language. Some are simple and straightforward, others poetic and passionate. Either way, this list of 100 ways to say «I love you» in Italian is sure to help you find the right words.

    100 Ways to Say ‘I Love You’ in Italian

    1. Ti amo: I love you
    2. Ti voglio bene: I love you a lot
    3. Ti voglio molto bene: I love you very much
    4. Mi piaci molto: I really like you
    5. Ti adoro: I adore you
    6. Ti ammiro: I admire you
    7. Sei importante per me: You are important to me
    8. Sei tutto per me: You are everything to me
    9. Sono innamorato / innamorata di te: I’m in love with you
    10. Ho bisogno di te: I need you
    11. Ti voglio: I love you
    12. Ti desidero: I want you
    13. Mi sento attratto / attratta da te: I’m attracted to you
    14. Mi sono infatuato di te: I’m infatuated with you
    15. Ho un debole per te: I’m weak for you
    16. Significhi tutto per me: You mean everything to me
    17. Mi sono affezionato / affezionata a te: I’m fond of you
    18. Sposami: Marry me
    19. Voglio essere sempre con te: I always want to be with you
    20. Senza di te non posso più vivere: I can’t live without you
    21. Ti voglio baciare: I want to kiss you
    22. Sono tuo / tua: I’m yours
    23. Sei la mia anima gemella: You’re my soul mate
    24. Senza di te non sono niente: Without you, I am nothing
    25. Sei l’uomo / la donna dei miei sogni: You’re the man/woman of my dreams
    26. Sei l’uomo / la donna della mia vita: You’re the man/woman of my life
    27. Per te farei di tutto: I’d do anything for you
    28. Sono pazzo / pazza di te: I’m crazy about you
    29. Sono abbagliato da te: I’m dazzled by you
    30. Sei il grande amore della mia vita: You’re the love of my life
    31. Senza di te la vita non ha più senso: Without you, life has no meaning
    32. Il mio cuore è solo tuo / tua: My heart is yours
    33. Hai conquistato il mio cuore: You’ve won my heart
    34. Giorno e notte sogno solo te: Day and night, I dream only of you
    35. Mi hai incantato / incantata: You’ve charmed/enchanted me
    36. Sei il sole della mia vita: You’re the sunshine of my life
    37. Sei tutto ciò che voglio: You’re everything I want
    38. Ti voglio un mondo di bene: I want a world of good for you
    39. Con te voglio invecchiare: I want to grow old with you
    40. Ti voglio sempre avere al mio fianco: I always want you by my side
    41. Senza di te la vita è un inferno: Without you, life is hell
    42. Da quando ti conosco la mia vita è un paradiso: Since I met you, my life is paradise
    43. Resta sempre con me: Stay with me always
    44. Mi hai stregato / stregata: You’ve bewitched me
    45. Potrei guardarti tutto il giorno: I could watch you all day
    46. Solo tu mi capisci: Only you understand me
    47. Sono ubriaco / ubriaca di te: I’m drunk with you
    48. Nei tuoi occhi c’è il cielo: Heaven is in your eyes
    49. Se non ci fossi dovrei inventarti: If you weren’t (real), I’d invent you
    50. Tu sei un dono del cielo: You’re a gift from Heaven
    51. Voglio passare tutta la mia vita con te: I want to spend my entire life with you
    52. Il nostro amore è la cosa più importante nella mia vita: Our love is the most important thing in my life
    53. Quando chiudo gli occhi vedo solo te: When I close my eyes. I see only you
    54. Entra nella mia vita: Come into my life
    55. La tua bocca mi fa impazzire: Your mouth drives me crazy
    56. Vorrei annegare nei tuoi occhi: I want to drown in your eyes
    57. Tu sei la mia vita: You’re my life
    58. Nessuno / nessuna è come te: No one is like you
    59. Sei il mio tesoro: You’re my treasure
    60. Ardo di amore per te: I burn with love for you
    61. Ti ho chiuso nel mio cuore: I’ve closed you in my heart
    62. Il mio cuore dipende da te: My heart depends on you
    63. Ho preso una sbandata per te: I have a crush on you
    64. Sono tutto tuo / tua: I’m all yours
    65. Ti penso sempre: I always think of you
    66. Mi manchi: I miss you
    67. Come sei bella: How beautiful you are
    68. Voglio vederti stasera: I want to see you tonight
    69. Tu sei una stella…la mia stella: You are a star…my star
    70. Cara mia, ti voglio bene: My darling, I love you
    71. Mi hai fatto perdere la testa: You made me lose my mind
    72. Brucio per te: I’m on fire for you
    73. Ti ho regalato il mio cuore: I gave you my heart
    74. Il mio cuore batte solo per te: My heart beats only for you
    75. Sei irresistibile: You’re irresistible
    76. Sei la mia Venere: You’re my Venus
    77. Mi hai rubato il cuore: You’ve stolen my heart
    78. Solo con te riesco ad essere felice: Only with you can I be happy
    79. Mi hai conquistato / conquistata: You’ve won me
    80. I miei sensi sono pieni di te: My senses are filled with you
    81. Voglio che tu sia solo mio / mia: I want you to be only mine
    82. Dai un nuovo senso alla mia vita: You give new meaning to my life
    83. Sei un gioello: You’re a jewel
    84. Per te faccio di tutto: I’d do anything for you
    85. Giorno e notte penso solo a te: Day and night, I only think about you
    86. Mi accompagni ovunque io vada: You’re with me wherever I go
    87. Sei la cosa più cara che ho: You’re the dearest thing I have
    88. Sei tutto ciò che desidero: You’re everything I want
    89. Mi fai sognare: You make me dream
    90. Ecciti i miei sensi: You excite my senses
    91. Senza di te sono solo metà: Without you, I’m only half
    92. Sei il mio angelo: You’re my angel
    93. Con te dimentico il tempo: With you, I forget time
    94. Non ho occhi che per te: I only have eyes for you
    95. Sei il mio pensiero preferito: You’re my favorite thought
    96. Sento qualcosa di forte per te: I have strong feelings for you
    97. Non voglio perderti: I don’t want to lose you
    98. La tua bellezza mi toglie il fiato: Your beauty takes my breath away
    99. Potrei fissare i tuoi bellissimi occhi in eterno: I can gaze into your beautiful eyes forever
    100. Per favore, ricordati di me: Please remember/think of me

    Italy is known for its rich culture, history, and romance. Italian is often considered one of the most romantic languages in the world, and for a good reason. The way Italians express their love is not only beautiful but also unique.

    Suppose you plan a trip to Italy or desire to learn more about the language and culture. In that case, knowing how to express love in Italian is important. In this blog post, we will guide you through the various ways to say “I love you” in Italian, depending on the person and situation.

    When it comes to expressing love in Italian, there are several ways to do so. Depending on the person and the situation, the words used may differ. The most common phrase to express love is “Ti amo,” often used in romantic love. However, Italians also use other terms to express love for family, friends, activities, and ideas.

    In Italian, expressing love is a beautiful art, and there are different ways to do it. Here are some romantic phrases to say “I love you” in Italian, including the famous “Ti amo” and other endearing common phrases like “amore mio” that uniquely convey love and affection.

    1. Ti amo (I love you). This is still the most popular and best way to express romantic love.
    2. Sei tutto per me (You are everything to me)
    3. Ti voglio bene (I care about you)
    4. Mi piaci molto (I like you a lot)
    5. Ti adoro (I adore you)
    6. Sei unica/unico per me (You are unique to me)
    7. Ti ammiro (I admire you)
    8. Sei speciale per me (You are special to me)
    9. Sei la mia vita (You are my life)
    10. Sei la mia anima gemella (You are my soul mate)

    Listen to the examples above in Italian.

    Before we dive into how to say “I love you” in Italian, let’s review some essential Italian vocabulary words related to love. These words will come in handy when expressing romantic feelings to someone in Italian.

    • Amore: Love
    • Baciare: To kiss
    • Abbracciare: To hug
    • Dolcezza: Sweetness
    • Cuore Mio: My Heart
    • Passione: Passion
    • Affetto: Affection
    • Tenero: Tender
    • Carezza: Caress
    • Fascino: Charm

    How to Say “I Love You” in Italian to a Romantic Partner

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    The most common way to express love to a romantic partner in Italian is “Ti amo.” This phrase translates to “I love you” in English and is the most direct way to express your love. “Ti amo” is a powerful phrase that carries a lot of weight and is reserved for expressing intense feelings of love.

    Other common romantic phrases used to express love to your partner are:

    • “Sono pazzo/a di te.” (I’m crazy about you). This phrase is often used in casual settings and is a playful way to express your love.
    • “Sono innamorato di te” or “Sono innamorata di te” (I’m in love with you).
    • “Sei il grande amore della mia vita” (You are the great love of my life).
    • “Sei tutto per me” (You are everything to me)
    • “Ti adoro” (I adore you)
    • “Sei la mia vita” (You are my life)
    • “Sei la mia anima gemella” (You are my soul mate)
    • “Sei il mio tesoro” (You are my treasure)
    • “Sei il mio pensiero preferito” (You are my favorite thought)

    Further Reading: Famous music is important in Italy’s culture, and the best Italian love songs have a special place in people’s hearts.

    How to Say “I Love You” in Italian to a Friend

    When expressing love to a friend, the most common phrase used in Italian is “Ti voglio bene.” This phrase translates to “I care about you” or “I love you” in English. It is a more casual way of expressing love and is commonly used among close friends and family members.

    Another way to express love to a friend is by saying “Ti voglio un mondo di bene,” which loosely translates to “I want the best for you” in English. This phrase is often used to express affection and support for a close friend.

    How to Express Love in Italian to a Parent, Grandparent, or Child

    When expressing love to a family member, the most common phrase used in Italian is “Ti voglio bene.” This phrase translates to “I care about you” or “I love you” in English. It is a way of expressing platonic love for family members.

    Another way to express love to a child is by saying “Ti voglio un mondo di felicità,” which translates to “I want a world of happiness for you” in English. This phrase often expresses a parent’s love and desire for their child’s happiness.

    How to Express Love for an Activity or an Idea

    When expressing love for an activity or an idea, the most common phrase in Italian is “Mi piace molto.” This phrase translates to “I like it very much” in English.

    “Mi piace molto” is often used to express appreciation and enjoyment for an activity or idea. It is a way of saying you have a strong affinity for something, but it is not as intense as saying “Ti amo” to a romantic partner.

    Difference between “Mi Piaci” (I Like You) and “Ti Amo” (I Love You)

    Italians also use the phrase “Mi piaci” to express attraction or interest in someone. This phrase translates to “I like you” in English and is commonly used when someone is attracted to another person. However, “Mi piaci” is not as intense as “Ti amo” and is often used in the early stages of a romantic relationship.

    Difference between “Ti Voglio Bene” and “Ti Amo”

    Italians use “Ti voglio bene” to express love and affection for family members and friends. This phrase translates to “I care about you” or “I love you” in English. It expresses appreciation and love for someone but is not as intense as saying “Ti amo” to a romantic partner.

    “Ti amo,” on the other hand, is the better way to express intense feelings of love. It is a powerful phrase that carries much weight and is commonly used in romantic relationships.

    The Italian Expression “Mi Manchi”

    The Italian expression “mi manchi” translates to “I miss you” in English, but it more literally means “you are missing from me.” This phrase reflects the deep longing and absence one experiences when separated from someone one cares about.

    Conjugation of the Verb Amare (Present Tense) with English Translation

    The verb “amare” means “to love” in Italian. Here’s the present tense conjugation of the verb “amare” with English translation:

    • Io amo – I love
    • Tu ami – You love (informal)
    • Lui/lei ama – He/she loves
    • Noi amiamo – We love
    • Voi amate – You love (formal or plural)
    • Loro amano – They love

    Say “Ti Amo” and Embrace Italian Culture

    elope in Italy

    Knowing how to use Italian love phrases is helpful and a way to appreciate and embrace Italian culture, especially if you have an Italian partner or friend. Italians have a unique way of expressing their love through their rich history and tradition, and learning an Italian word or two can make your communication more meaningful and romantic. You can even learn from Italian songs or Italian movies, often filled with expressions of love and passion.

    Expressing love in Italian is a beautiful way to connect with the language, culture, and native speakers. Italians have a unique way of expressing their love, and using the Italian way to communicate your feelings can make your message even more special.

    The universal language of love can be expressed in many ways, including Italian phrases, which can be a great addition to your Valentine’s Day celebrations. So, take the time to learn these essential Italian vocabulary words and phrases and start expressing your love in a way that transcends cultural boundaries.

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    February 14th is a day dedicated to love and lovers. Italians call it La festa degli innamorati, the feast of lovers. In this guide, you’ll find everything you need to know about how to say ‘I love you’ in Italian, plus Italian terms of endearment and the most important day for love in the calendar: Valentine’s Day!

    Valentine’s in Italy is a big deal. We’ll look at how it’s celebrated, how to say ‘Happy Valentine’s Day’ in Italian, what to write in a Valentine’s Day card, how to express your feelings to your family or partners and some typical Italian phrases of love and beautiful Italian terms of endearment.

    Italians have often been represented by modern media, and in history as well, as passionate lovers and seducers: just think of Casanova, a Venetian writer and adventurer who lived in the 18th century famous for his gallant adventures with women and whose name is nowadays synonym for an unscrupulous man dedicated to amorous adventures.

    So, it’s no wonder then that Valentine’s Day is a big deal in Italy! Alongside other important celebrations, such as Christmas, Easter and Carnival, San Valentino is another important occasion to spend time with your sweetheart (or simply get your fill of chocolate!).

    Cominciamo! Let’s get started!

    The history of St Valentine

    The origin of Valentine’s Day has actually more than one explanation. One of the most accredited versions is that it originated in the Roman Empire as a holiday held on the 14th of February to celebrate Juno, the queen of Roman gods and goddesses and protector of women and marriage.

    Another legend says that Valentine’s Day was created as a religious holiday established by Pope Gelasius I to replace the previous pagan festival of Lupercalia (during which the god Lupercus was invoked to protect fertility, and which involved all kinds of sacrifices and rituals such as the pairing off of women with men by lottery). And so it was that in 496 AC the Pope, with the aim of Christianising the Roman holiday, turned Lupercalia into a Christian festival and Lupercus was replaced by the martyr Valentine.

    Who exactly was this Valentine is not completely certain. As a matter of fact, in the third century AC Emperor Claudius II executed two men, both named Valentine, on the 14th February of different years: a Roman priest who was allegedly beheaded on the Via Flaminia in 269 or 270 for having defied the Roman emperors’ order banning marriage between lovers during wartime and by secretly marrying them (hence the connection between the saint and couples), and a bishop of Terni beheaded in Rome in 273 (who according to the legend, was the first to celebrate the union between a Roman legionnaire and a Christian woman).

    Whatever the question of the identity of the two homonymous martyrs, what we know for sure is that the cult of St Valentine has very ancient traditions in Rome and the martyrdom was honoured by the Catholic Church with the celebration of St. Valentine’s Day on the 14th February. Later on, however, the Church itself removed this feast from its calendar, considering it to be non-essential for religious purposes.

    An interesting folkloric interpretation of the feast of St Valentine being the patron saint of lovers is the one also based on the belief (widespread in the Middle Ages especially in France and England) that on the 14th February birds begin to mate.

    Finally, there is also a literary origin: Geoffrey Chaucer, the author of the Canterbury Tales has the modern merit of having consecrated St Valentine as the patron saint of love. At the end of the 14th century, in honour of the wedding between Richard II and Anne of Bohemia, he wrote “The Parliament of Fowl”, a poem in 700 verses where he associates the character of Cupid with the martyr St Valentine.


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    Valentine’s Day traditions in Italy

    First things first, this is how you can say “Happy Valentine’s Day” in Italian: Buon San Valentino (bwon sahn vah-len-tee-noh) or alternatively Felice San Valentino (feh-lee-cheh sahn vah-len-tee-noh).

    Here are some regali (presents) that are normally given on Valentine’s Day in Italy:

    • un mazzo di fiori (a bunch of flowers)
    • un mazzo di rose (a bunch of roses)
    • i gioielli (jewellery)
    • un anello (a ring)
    • un orologio (a watch)

    If you want to surprise your sweetheart with one of these gifts accompanied by un biglietto (a card) written in Italian, you can use these phrases to start:

    • al mio caro Massimo (to my dear Massimo)
    • alla mia amata Beatrice (to my beloved Beatrice)
    • al mio amore Roberta (to my darling/love Roberta).

    Keep reading to see a few suggestions on what to write on a card and make a declaration of love or express how you feel about someone!

    Besides flowers and gifts, chocolate sure plays an essential role on this romantic day: every year, around the time of celebrations, supermarkets and stores fill up their shelves with cioccolatini (chocolates) of various sorts.

    Among the most famous ones, Perugina (the famous Italian chocolate maker based in Perugia, central Italy) creates a rich collection with many gift ideas such as soft toys, rose-shaped packages, cups and heart-shaped boxes, all containing the famous Baci (literally: kisses), which are none other than the company’s best-known chocolate.

    This year also marks the centenary of this sweet invention! In 1922, was when the inimitable Baci Perugina chocolate was first made: a special praline with gianduia, hazelnut grains and a crunchy whole hazelnut centre all wrapped in fine dark chocolate. What makes it unique though, is the message that you find inside, with phrases about love and life.

    Another quite recent tradition is the one of lucchetti dell’amore (love padlocks): many couples like to meet up near a bridge, they write their initials on a padlock, lock it to the bridge railing (or sometimes even on a lamppost) and then throw away the key, as a way to show the eternal and unbreakable nature of their love for each other. This custom is getting more and more popular and widespread to the point that on some bridges, you can hardly see the railings anymore and some cities have placed bans on having these locks on bridges due to safety concerns and protection of the architectural and structural beauty.

    If you’re planning to surprise your dolce metà (better half, literally: sweet half) with a trip to Italy on this occasion, you might wonder what the best place to spend Valentine’s Day in Italy is.

    Florence and Venice are traditionally considered to be two of the most romantic places in Italy, that’s true, but don’t forget about the city of Romeo and Juliet, Verona!

    During the week of Valentine’s Day, there are many events, parades, and themed guided tours to make your time in Verona truly unforgettable. Verona’s squares, streets and shop windows are decorated with large hearts of all shapes and sizes. In some museums and restaurants, couples in love benefit from discounts and promotions. After all, what could be more romantic than spending Valentine’s Day in the city where Shakespeare’s set his most tragically romantic play?

    How to say ‘I Love you’ in Italian

    Here is a list of the top most used phrases (and their variations) to say “I love you” in Italian and other ways to express your feelings.

    1. Ti amo vs. Ti voglio bene – I love you

    Interestingly, Italian has more than one way to say “I love you”: “ti amo” (from the verb “amare”, to love) and “ti voglio bene” (from the verb “volere bene”, to love – in the sense of caring for someone). Be careful, though! Those phrases cannot be used interchangeably.

    The former expresses a very strong and deep feeling. It is something you would say when you’re in a romantic relationship. This is how you can express your love to your soul mate on Valentine’s day. Variations of “ti amo” are: ti amo da morire (I love you so much, lit. “I love you to die/death”) and quanto ti amo (I love you so much, lit. “how much I love you”).

    On the other hand, “volere bene” indicates a slightly different kind of love. It’s loving someone in a non-romantic way, where you care a lot about them. You can say “ti voglio bene” to a dear friend, to your parents, children or siblings.

    When a relationship ends or when the romantic spark has faded, there is an expression used to describe this kind of feeling: “ti voglio bene, ma non ti amo più” (I love you, but I don’t love you anymore).

    2. Sono innamorato (male) di te / Sono innamorata (female) di te – I’m in love with you

    If you want to describe the early stage of being in love, then you can use the phrase “essere innamorato di qualcuno” (to be in love with someone). The ending of the word “innamorat-” change according to the person saying the phrase: -o if it’s said by a man, -a if it’s said by a woman.

    On a slightly different note, the process of “falling in love with someone” is expressed in Italian with the phrase “innamorarsi di qualcuno”, for instance: mi sono innamorato/a di te (I fell in love with you).

    3. Sono pazzo di te / Sono pazza di te – I’m crazy/mad about you

    Like the previous one, but even more intense: if you’ve completely lost your mind for someone, you can use the expression: sono pazzo (male) di te or sono pazza (female) di te.

    4. Siamo fatti l’uno per l’altra – we are made for each other

    Here’s another phrase you can say to your anima gemella (soul mate) or write on a Valentine’s card.

    5. Amore a prima vista / Colpo di fulmine – Love at first sight

    How did you and your sweetheart meet? Was it love at first sight? Then in Italian you can say: è stato amore a prima vista! / è stato un colpo di fulmine! (Literally: It was a strike of lightning), meaning it was love at first sight!.

    6. Sei la mia anima gemella – You’re my soul mate

    Found your soul mate? Then you should let them know! Use this romantic phrase in Italian to say that someone is your “twin soul” (this is how we literally translate this expression!).

    6 Romantic Italian terms of endearment

    Let’s have a look at some Italian terms of endearment you can say to your partner on Valentine’s day (and not only). Note how some of them are also used with children.

    1. Amore (mio)

    English translation: (My) love
    How / When to use it: This is a direct, hearfelt (and probably the most popular) term of endearment in Italian, it can be used in a romantic way but also when talking to children.

    2. Tesoro (mio)

    English translation: Sweetheart, honey, darling – lit. “(my) treasure”
    How / When to use it: It can be used both in a romantic and in a non-romantic way, to call the persons you really cherish.

    3. Patato/a, patatino/a

    English translation: (lit.) Little potato
    How / When to use it: In the Italian language, the word “patata” only exists in the feminine and means “potato” (or “chips”, “fries” in the version “patatine”). However, these nicknames are used both in the masculine and in the feminine versions as terms of endearment especially for children (whereas it sounds a bit cheesy if said to a partner).

    4. Piccola, piccolina

    English translation: (lit.) Little one (female)
    How / When to use it: The adjective “piccolo/a” means “small” or “little”. Here it is used in the feminine as a nickname for a girlfriend (romantic partner). The male version (‘piccolo’) doesn’t carry the same affectionate meaning so it can’t be used in this context.

    5. Cucciolo/a

    English translation: Baby – lit. “baby animal”
    How / When to use it: Besides indicating a “baby animal” (such as a joey, a cub, a puppy, a kitten, etc.) it is used as a term of endearment both in the male and female versions to affectionately call a boyfriend or girlfriend (or even to call children).

    6. Amo’

    English translation: Love
    How / When to use it: It’s short for “amore” and it’s used among close friends (especially teenage girls and young women) in an affectionate way.

    Romantic Promises

    Here are a few ways you can make a romantic promise to your sweetheart:

    • voglio stare con te per sempre (I want to be with you forever)
    • voglio passare il resto della mia vita con te (I want to spend the rest of my life with you)
    • ti amerò per sempre (I will always love you),
    • con te voglio invecchiare (I want to grow old with you)

    Phrases with “bello/a” (beautiful)

    Here are some phrases with the word “bello/a”:

    • sei bellissimo (male) / sei bellissima (female) meaning “you’re so beautiful”
    • sei la cosa più bella che mi sia mai capitata (you’re the most beautiful thing that ever happened to me)

    Phrases with “vita” (life)

    Here are a few very romantic ways to express your love to someone:

    • mi hai cambiato la vita (you changed my life)
    • sei la mia vita (you are my life)
    • senza di te la vita non ha senso (without you life has no meaning)
    • sei l’amore della mia vita (you are the love of my life)

    Use these Italian phrases to let your loved one know how much they mean to you.

    Phrases with “cuore” (heart)

    Here are some phrases containing the word “heart”:

    • mi hai rubato il cuore (you stole my heart)
    • il mio cuore batte solo per te (my heart beats only for you)
    • sei sempre nel mio cuore (you are always in my heart)
    • il mio cuore è solo tuo (my heart is yours)

    Phrases with “sole” (sun/sunshine)

    Use this beautiful Italian word to say:

    • sei bello (male) / sei bella (female) come il sole (you’re beautiful like the sun)
    • sei il sole della mia vita (you’re the sunshine of my life)

    Short but powerful

    To conclude, here are some more typical short but meaningful phrases:

    • mi manchi (I miss you)
    • ti penso sempre (I always think about you)
    • abbracciami (hug me)
    • baciami (kiss me)
    • ho bisogno di te (I need you)
    • mi rendi felice (you make me happy)
    • ti adoro (I adore you)
    • sei il mio angelo (you’re my angel)
    • sei tutto per me (you’re everything to me)

    Conclusion

    Despite being at first a religious feast, nowadays the 14th of February has lost its original meaning and has become an occasion to celebrate romantic love all around the world (or almost).

    Whether you’re hoping to meet l’amore della tua vita (the love of your life) in Italy or you just want to surprise your dolce metà (better half) with a little Italian romance, here you’ve found everything you need to know about spending Valentine’s Day – Italian style! I wish you un buon San Valentino!


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