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You may think that having self-confidence is like having blue eyes. Either you’re born with it or you’re not. Well, if you have that kind of mindset and you lack self-confidence, then you’re bound to accept failure. It’s time to shed the idea that not just anyone can develop confidence and to work on changing your mindset, as well as your actions, to be on the way to developing the faith and trust in yourself that you have been lacking. If you want to know how to be more self-confident, see Step 1 to get started.

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    Be proud of your strengths.[1]
    If you want to be self-confident, then the first thing you have to do is to think about all of the things you already have going for you. You may feel like there’s nothing good about you, that you have no redeeming qualities, and that everyone around you is somehow better-looking and more impressive than you are. Well, all of that has to go out the window if you’re determined to change! Make a list of all of the things you’re good at, from being a good listener to having a great singing voice. Then, write them on sticky notes and put them on your mirror or somewhere you’ll see them every day.[2]
    These qualities may not mean much to you, but you have to think about the fact that you do have plenty of things to be proud of.

    • If you really like the list idea, then you can even keep the list handy. Add to it whenever you think, «Oh, right, there’s something else I’m good at…» When you’re feeling low or like you’re not worth much, read it over and you’ll feel better.
    • Talk to a close friend about it. Ask your friend what he or she thinks your strengths are. Your friend may come up with something that you never even considered because it was right before your eyes![3]
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    Work to be an optimist. Of course, optimism, like Rome, cannot be built in a day, but that doesn’t mean it’s not worth it to start building a foundation of positive thinking and an expectation for the best. Optimism and confidence often go hand in hand, because people who are hopeful for the future and expect good things to happen tend to think that good things will happen to them if they go out into the world or just try hard enough. Practice monitoring your thoughts to see how many of them are negative, and work to counteract every negative thought with at least three positive ones. With enough hard work, you’ll soon be able to see the world in a more favorable light.

    • The next time you’re with your friends, practice talking about the exciting things in your life or the things you have to look forward to, and you’ll see that people will respond better to you, and that you’ll find yourself in a better mood.

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    Be prepared. Being prepared for any situation — within reason — can also help you be self-confident.[4]
    If you’re walking into a math test, you better have put in the hours of studying necessary to succeed. If you’re giving a presentation in front of class, you should have practiced until you got it down cold. If you’re going to a party, you should learn as much as you can about it, such as who will be there, when it starts, and other details, so you feel like there are less X factors when you walk into the room. While it’s impossible to be 100% prepared for any situation — which is part of the fun and mystery of life — it can certainly help to feel like you have a sense of what you signed up for.

    • If you’re in a group setting and feel like you have something to contribute, then you’ll feel more self-confident than if you just hang back, listening to everyone else’s opinions. You don’t have to chatter constantly to build your confidence, but you should talk often enough that you feel like you have many worthwhile things to say.
    • You can cultivate things to contribute by reading interesting articles, watching the news, or doing research about current events or things that interest you. Bring up a topic that you have researched in a conversation and see where it goes. Having information to back what you say will help you feel more confident in a conversation.
    • If you know something or have a particular skill— anything from how to build furniture to how to choose the right pair of shoes for prom— people may turn to you for help. You can build a lot of confidence by helping others and seeing that they have something to gain from you.
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    Stop comparing yourself to other people. You need to focus on yourself and how to reach the goals you want to reach instead of peeking over at your neighbor and wondering why you can’t be as attractive/smart/confident as he is. Be kind to yourself and focus on your own dreams and goals, and be proud of yourself for accomplishing them.

    • Realize that it’s common to idealize the lives of others from what you see.[5]
      In other words, you don’t see the whole picture of a person’s life from casual interactions.
    • If you begin comparing yourself to someone else, stop and refocus on yourself. Identify ways in which you are successful, happy, or improving your situation.
    • People who lack confidence are constantly questioning themselves and the world around them. Leave less room for doubt by feeling capable of the task that lies ahead of you.
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    Get rid of as many sources of negativity as you can. Unfortunately, it may be impossible to get rid of every little thing that is making you feel down about yourself, but you can definitely make an effort to surround yourself with positive people and situations where you feel good about yourself. Here are some things to consider:

    • If you feel bad about your body or general appearance because you’re always flipping through celebrity magazines or watching television, then try to divorce yourself from that culture as much as you can.
    • If you spend time with a friend, family member, or significant other who is always making you feel worthless, then it’s time to question your relationship. You can try to make changes to your relationship by using assertive communication to address the way the person makes you feel.[6]
      If the relationship doesn’t or can’t improve, you may need to make the decision to end or limit your time with the person.[7]
    • If you play a sport that you really hate and feel like you’ve put in all of the effort you can and still nothing works out, then it may be time to find another club that suits your needs better; this is not to say that you should quit whenever the going gets tough, but that you should learn to recognize when something’s just not working for you.
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    Embrace the unknown.[8]
    If you have trouble with self-confidence, then doing something completely new and different probably doesn’t exactly excite you. Well, it’s time to be brave and venture forth to do something you never expected to do. This could be introducing yourself to a new group of people at a party, signing up for a dance class though you have two left feet, or applying for a job that sounds fantastic but overwhelming. The more you get into the habit of trying new things, the more secure you’ll feel, because you’ll get the sense that you can handle any curve ball life may throw at you. Here are some other great ways to embrace the unknown:

    • Start small. Strike up a conversation with someone you see a lot but never talk to, such as the guy who sits next to you in math class or your neighbor.
    • Plan a trip to a new place, even if it’s just a city 50 miles (80 km) away from your hometown. Get in the habit of going new places and seeing new things.
    • Try your hand at learning a foreign language. Doing something that feels completely unfamiliar to you is fun and can build your confidence.
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    Take more risks. Taking (reasonable) risks is related to embracing the unknown and asserting yourself as an individual.[9]
    If you want to be more self-confident, then you have to not only try new things, but you have to be up for doing something that feels a little bit scary or uncertain to you. Not every risk you take will lead to something great, but it will get you into the habit of putting yourself out there and seeing what happens. Taking risks will make you feel like you aren’t confined to the small set of things you already feel comfortable with and that you are capable of anything.

    • Step out of your comfort zone at least once a day. This could mean talking to your crush — or even asking him or her out, if you’ve worked up the courage!
    • If you’re unhappy at work but feel afraid to leave, try applying to just one job. Even if nothing comes of it, you’ll see that the risk you took wasn’t all that scary.
    • Confront your fear, while you’re at it. While you don’t have to bungee jump if you’re afraid of heights, you can take an elevator to the top of a ten-story building and look out a window. You’ll see that you really can overcome whatever is holding you back.
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    Spend time with people who make you feel good about yourself. Maintaining positive influences can be even more beneficial to building your self-confidence than cutting out negative influences. If you spend a lot of time with people who are supportive and offer stress- and drama- free social support, you will benefit by feeling more confident about yourself and dealing with your emotions more effectively.[10]
    Make a habit of spending as much time with people who treat you well as you can.

    • Hanging out with people who are self-confident can also be a big help. Instead of being jealous of those people, study them and ask yourself, «What do they do differently than me, and how can I cultivate a similar manner?» You’ll find that the people who are confident aren’t necessarily «better» than you in anything — except having a positive outlook about themselves.
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    Cultivate a hobby. Having something that you’re good at—or better yet, passionate about—can help you feel well-rounded and happier. This can give you a boost in confidence. Having a hobby can stimulate your creativity,[11]
    which translates to other situations such as the workplace and your social interactions as well. Furthermore, a hobby can help cultivate the social support that is beneficial to your emotional well-being.[12]

    • Be sure that you allow yourself to set aside time for your hobby or activity that makes you happy. This can be difficult for people who have a lot of work or familial commitments, but it is important.[13]
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    Show confidence in your body language. Stand up tall; having great posture can go a long way in making you appear and feel more confident.[14]
    If you slouch all the time, that’s sending yourself and the people around you a signal that you’re not happy with who you are and want to be smaller than you appear to be. Instead, keep your back straight and your shoulders pulled back with your chest out.

    • Don’t cross your arms over your chest, either. Keep them at your sides or use them to gesture. This will make you look more approachable and to feel more open.
    • Make natural eye contact when you talk to people. If you look people in the eye, that’s sending a message that you’re comfortable talking to them on an even level, and that you’re open to new ideas.
    • Making eye contact with people can also help you keep your head up. Looking down at the ground or at your feet all the time is another thing that can make you both look and feel less confident.[15]
    • You should also walk with strong, confident strides instead of shuffling or dragging your feet. This will help you look and feel more confident as well.[16]
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    Put time into your appearance. If you spend enough time on your appearance to show that you care about yourself, you will see that you’ll start to view yourself more positively. If you want to be more self-confident, then you should make sure to practice good hygiene,[17]
    to shower daily, to comb your hair, and to wear clothes that are clean and free of wrinkles.[18]
    If you don’t care for your physical appearance, you’re communicating to yourself and others that you do not feel as though you are worth the time it takes to practice self-care.

    • If you look in the mirror and see a person who is well-groomed, you’ll be much more likely to value yourself.
    • Wear clothes that make you feel good about yourself.[19]
      This likely means clothing that fits you (at your current size) and has a flattering look that fits with your personality.
    • This doesn’t mean you should put on a ton of makeup or wear clothes that make you feel like you’re being someone else. You should always be yourself — just a clean, hygienic version of yourself.
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    Learn from failure.[20]
    People who are self-confident are not a wild success at everything they try. But the people who are self-confident do embrace failure and learn from their mistakes instead of giving up on anything that doesn’t go their way. The next time you don’t do well on a math test, don’t get hired after an interview, or get rejected by a date, don’t let this discourage you from asking yourself what went wrong and how you can learn from it. Of course, some of the time, you may just be a victim of bad luck, but it’s important to feel as in control of every situation as you can so that you can do better the next time.

    • The mantra, «If at first you don’t succeed…» really is true. Think of how boring life would be if you were the best at everything you tried. Instead, look at failure as an opportunity to prove yourself the next time around.
    • The important thing is to learn where you went wrong along with accepting when something was just dumb luck.
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    Exercise more. Though exercise alone won’t make you feel like a million dollars, getting in the habit of exercising for at least 30 minutes daily, or just a few times a week, can go a long way in making you feel both mentally and physically better about yourself. Exercise builds endorphins and will physiologically make you feel better about yourself and the world, while also providing your body with valuable benefits. It’s a win-win situation, and making a goal of exercising as much as is comfortable for you can help you feel more self-confident.

    • You can even use exercise as an opportunity to step out of your comfort zone and to try something new. Maybe you’ve been scared about trying yoga or taking a Zumba class, but once you sign up, you’ll find that it wasn’t as scary as it sounded.
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    Smile more. It’s been proven that smiling will not only make you happier, but it will make the people around you react more positively to you.[21]
    Smiling, even when you feel like it’s the last thing you want to do, can also make you feel more confident when you approach people and go about your day. Smiling will also make people feel more able to come up to you, and you could be inviting a new friend or a new opportunity to come your way just by moving your lips. There’s no reason not to smile more, no matter how down you’re feeling!

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    Don’t be afraid to ask for help.[22]
    Being self-confident doesn’t mean you have to be a jack-of-all trades who is amazing at every little thing he does. But it does mean that you’re the kind of person who can admit when you can’t do something on your own. There’s a pride and confidence that comes from knowing when you’re out of your element, and if you ask for help when it’s needed, you’ll not only be able to accomplish more, but you’ll feel proud of yourself for making the effort to approach someone and asking for guidance.

    • If you ask people for help, they’ll be more likely to ask you for help in return, and you’ll see how needed you really are.
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    Learn to live in the present.[23]
    If you lack self-confidence, you may find yourself dwelling on actions of the past or worrying about the outcomes of future actions. Living more in the moment can help you be at-peace with the way things are now. This can help you feel happier and more relaxed, but it can also be a difficult habit to cultivate.[24]

    • Learning to let go of worry for the future and accept what has happened in the past can help you live in the present.[25]
    • Practice yoga or mindful mediation. This can also help you live in the present.
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    How can I improve my self-confidence and positive thinking?

    Leah Morris

    Leah Morris is a Life and Relationship Transition coach and the owner of Life Remade, a holistic personal coaching service. With over three years as a professional coach, she specializes in guiding people as they move through both short-term and long-term life transitions. Leah holds a BA in Organizational Communication from California State University, Chico and is a certified Transformational Life Coach through the Southwest Institute for Healing Arts.

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    Try saying positive affirmations to yourself in the mirror each day. It may feel silly at first, but these can actually build your self-confidence over time. You could say something like, «You’re smart and capable.» or «You’re a great friend.» Also, be aware of all the hidden capacities inside you. Try to always be your best self by figuring out what goals you want to achieve.

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    How can I be more confident in my strengths?

    Leah Morris

    Leah Morris is a Life and Relationship Transition coach and the owner of Life Remade, a holistic personal coaching service. With over three years as a professional coach, she specializes in guiding people as they move through both short-term and long-term life transitions. Leah holds a BA in Organizational Communication from California State University, Chico and is a certified Transformational Life Coach through the Southwest Institute for Healing Arts.

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    Try asking a friend what your best qualities are to boost your confidence. You can also say positive affirmations to yourself in the mirror. For example, you could say, «I’m smart and capable.» or «I’m creative.» to yourself. With time, you’ll start to realize these things are true!

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If you have days, weeks, months, or even years when your confidence is low, please know you’re not alone.

Whether it’s circumstantial or chronic, low self-confidence impacts all of us at different points in our lives.

Even those born with a more positive personality type have times when they doubt their abilities or feel incapable of success.

Lacking faith in our abilities, our attractiveness, or our relationship skills is a common theme in human drama.

Self-confidence isn’t developed by escaping these difficulties, but rather it’s nurtured and strengthened by the way we respond to life challenges and how we view ourselves in spite of them.

The foundation for self-confidence is embracing your inherent value and capacity for success, even as you recognize you’ll meet challenges and failure along the way.

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How Confidence Quotes Can Boost Your Self-Esteem

There’s nothing better than the feeling of kickass self-confidence. Not the self-absorbed, boasty, I’m-better-than-you kind of confidence (which really isn’t confidence at all).

I’m talking about the confidence that exudes from a certain inner knowing that you are capable, interesting, attractive enough, and worthy of love and respect.

  • Confident people are able to be humble without appearing meek.
  • They can admit mistakes without feeling like failures.
  • They can have a beginner’s mindset without seeming like fools.

We all need confident sayings and quotes to remind us of this truth about ourselves.

We need something to jar us into positive confident thinking so we can retrain our brains to accept the truth about our potential to have unfettered confidence in ourselves.

Can Anyone Have Confidence In Themselves?

You don’t have to be wildly successful, the smartest, drop-dead gorgeous to have great confidence in yourself.

You just have to feel comfortable in your own skin.

“Easier said than done,” says you. “Not necessarily,” says me.

Yes, it does help if you are attractive, skilled, and have a naturally outgoing personality.

But these aren’t requirements for confidence.

Confidence is a skill that can be learned by anyone, even those who see themselves as shy, socially awkward, or unattractive.

In fact, have you ever noticed how a physically attractive person who is rude, narcissistic, or otherwise unpleasant or disengaged suddenly isn’t so attractive anymore?

Self-confidence is trusting that ultimately you have what it takes to be who you want to be.

51 Self-Confidence Quotes to Remind You of Your Greatness

1. “Always be yourself, express yourself have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.” ~Bruce Lee

2. “Don’t wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what. Get started now. With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, more and more skilled, more and more self-confident and more and more successful.” ~Mark Victor Hansen

3. “Low self-confidence isn’t a life sentence. Self-confidence can be learned, practiced, and mastered — just like any other skill. Once you master it, everything in your life will change for the better.” ~Barrie Davenport

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4. What you do makes a difference, and you have to decide what kind of difference you want to make. ~Jane Goodall

5. “Trust yourself. Create the kind of self that you will be happy to live with all your life. Make the most of yourself by fanning the tiny, inner sparks of possibility into flames of achievement.” ~Golda Meir

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6. “One important key to success is self-confidence. An important key to self-confidence is preparation.” ~Arthur Ashe

7. “The way to develop self-confidence is to do the thing you fear and get a record of successful experiences behind you.” ~William Jennings Bryan

8. “You either walk inside your story and own it or you stand outside your story and hustle for your worthiness.” ~Brene Brown

9. “I have gone ahead despite the pounding in the heart that says: Turn back.” ~Erica Jong

10. “It is confidence in our bodies, minds and spirits that allows us to keep looking for new adventures.” ~Oprah

11. “To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

12. “But failure has to be an option in art and in exploration – because it’s a leap of faith. And no important endeavor that required innovation was done without risk. You have to be willing to take those risks….” ~James Cameron

13. “Confidence is contagious. So is lack of confidence.” – Vince Lombardi

14. “People are like stained-glass windows.  They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is light from within.”  ~Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

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15. The ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world are the ones who do. ~Steve Jobs

16. “Argue for your limitations and, sure enough, they’re yours.”  ~Richard Bach

17. “The courage to be is the courage to accept oneself, in spite of being unacceptable.”  ~Paul Tillich

18. “You have brains in your head.
You have feet in your shoes.
You can steer yourself in any direction you choose.
You’re on your own.
And you know what you know.
You are the guy who’ll decide where to go.” ~Dr. Seuss

19. “If we all did the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.”  ~Thomas Alva Edison

20. “Shyness has a strange element of narcissism, a belief that how we look, how we perform, is truly important to other people. ” ~André Dubus

21. “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.  Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.  It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.  We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?  Actually, who are you not to be?” ~Marianne Williamson

22. “Talk to yourself like you would to someone you love.” ~Brene Brown

23. “Embracing your true self radiates a natural beauty that cannot be diluted or ignored. Confident, powerful, untamable, badass you!” ~Steve Maraboli

24. “True beauty is the flame of self-confidence that shines from the inside out.” ~Barrie Davenport

25. “Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do.” ~Dr. Benjamin Spock

26. “You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, ‘I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.” – Eleanor Roosevelt

27. “Each time we face our fear, we gain strength, courage, and confidence in the doing.” – Theodore Roosevelt

28. “Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit.” ~E.E. Cummings

29. “Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.” – Helen Keller

30. “Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.” Dale Carnegie

31. “If you hear a voice within you say ‘you cannot paint,’ then by all means paint, and that voice will be silenced.” ~Vincent Van Gogh

32. “Confidence comes from knowing your competence but acknowledging it’s not solely responsible for creating your world. When you take that weight off your shoulders and realize that sometimes the twists and turns have nothing to do with what you did or should have done, it’s easier to feel confident in what you bring to the table. ~Lori Deschene

33. “While it may not seem so, if you are low in self-confidence, I strongly believe that you can do things to increase your self-confidence. It is not genetic, and you do not have to be reliant on others to increase your self-confidence. And if you believe that you are not very competent, not very smart, not very attractive, etc. … that can be changed.” ~Leo Babauta

34. “I have spent way too much time in my life worrying that I was doing my life wrong. But now I see that I can change. Right now. Right now I can be someone who assumes I am making good decisions. Because we each have to make decisions. So we may as well assume they are good. There’s not really anything else to do.” ~Penelope Trunk

35. “The most important step in building self confidence is simply to take action. Working on something and getting it done. Sitting at home and thinking about it will just make you feel worse.” ~Henrik Edberg

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36. “Calm mind brings inner strength and self-confidence, so that’s very important for good health.” – Dalai Lama

37. Power’s not given to you. You have to take it. ~Beyoncé Knowles Carter

38. When we speak we are afraid our words will not be heard or welcomed. But when we are silent, we are still afraid. So it is better to speak. ~Audre Lorde

39. Noble and great. Courageous and determined. Faithful and fearless. That is who you are and who you have always been. And understanding it can change your life, because this knowledge carries a confidence that cannot be duplicated any other way. ~Sheri L. Dew

40. I do not try to dance better than anyone else. I only try to dance better than myself. ~Arianna Huffington

41. Life is not easy for any of us. But what of that? We must have perseverance and above all confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we are gifted for something, and that this thing, at whatever cost, must be attained. ~Marie Curie

42. Sometimes, if you fake confidence long enough, you’re going to be confident. ~Elle King

43. Don’t you dare, for one more second, surround yourself with people who are not aware of the greatness that you are. ~Jo Blackwell-Preston

44. I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. Twenty-six times I’ve been trusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed. ~Michael Jordan

45.  Take criticism seriously, but not personally. If there is truth or merit in the criticism, try to learn from it. Otherwise, let it roll right off you. ~Hillary Clinton

46. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. ~A. A. Milne

47. Confidence is key. Sometimes, you need to look like you’re confident even when you’re not. ~Vanessa Hudgens

48. “Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong.”  ~Peter T. Mcintyre

49. It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all – in which case, you fail by default. ~J. K. Rowling

50. It is never too late to be what you might have been. ~George Eliot

51. Remember, you’re not half of anything, you’re twice of everything. ~Viet Than Nguyen

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The dictionary defines confidence as “the feeling or belief that one can rely on someone or something; firm trust.”

When we feel confident in others, we know and trust in their ability to do what they have promised.

When we feel confident in ourselves, we are able to trust in our own abilities, qualities, and judgement.

Self-confidence is important to both your physical health and your psychological well-being. When you believe in yourself you’re more likely to try new things, devote your time and energy to tasks that matter, make good lifestyle choices, and foster healthy relationships.

Many of us struggle with confidence issues. In an age of social media, it can be difficult not to compare ourselves with other people. We might lack confidence at work, in public speaking, or in meeting new people, which makes us fear that we aren’t taken seriously or that we won’t meet new friends or a significant other.

But the great news is, we can do many things to help boost our self-confidence levels. From taking better care of our bodies to journaling, quitting social media and reading confidence-boosting quotes, there are plenty of ways to build trust in ourselves.

Here at keepinspiring.me, we want to help you reach a whole new level of self-confidence!

Sabrina Carpenter quote "Confidence is the most beautiful thing you can possess"

“Confidence is the most beautiful thing you can possess.” – Sabrina Carpenter

In fact, the confidence of the people is worth more than money.

Carter G. Woodson

When you have a lot of confidence and you feel like nobody can beat you, it’s game over for everyone else.

Jason Day

As is our confidence, so is our capacity.

William Hazlitt

Confidence is contagious. So is lack of confidence.

Vince Lombardi

When you have confidence, you can do anything.

Sloane Stevens

Mark Twain confidence quote "All you need in this life is ignorance and confidence, and then success is sure"

“All you need in this life is ignorance and confidence, and then success is sure.” – Mark Twain

Faith is a living, daring confidence in God’s grace, so sure and certain that a man could stake his life on it a thousand times.

Martin Luther

Confidence is everything. Confidence is what makes that simple white tee and jeans look good.

Ciara

Confidence is a lot of this game or any game. If you don’t think you can, you won’t.

Jerry West

Skill and confidence are an unconquered army.

George Herbert

Confidence comes from hours and days and weeks and years of constant work and dedication.

Robert Staubach

The most beautiful thing you can wear is confidence.

Blake Lively

Norman Vincent Peale Quote "Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy"

“Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.” – Norman Vincent Peale

Confidence is that feeling by which the mind embarks in great and honorable courses with a sure hope and trust in itself.

Cicero

Confidence is a very fragile thing.

Joe Montana

Confidence comes from discipline and training.

Robert Kiyosaki

Confidence… thrives on honesty, on honor, on the sacredness of obligations, on faithful protection and on unselfish performance. Without them it cannot live.

Franklin D. Roosevelt

Confidence is when you believe in yourself and your abilities, arrogance is when you think you are better than others and act accordingly.

Stewart Stafford

Peter T. McIntyre quote "Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong"

“Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong.” – Peter T. McIntyre

Confidence isn’t optimism or pessimism, and it’s not a character attribute. It’s the expectation of a positive outcome.

Rosabeth Moss Kanter

When you have confidence, you can have a lot of fun. And when you have fun, you can do amazing things.

Joe Namath

Experience tells you what to do; confidence allows you to do it.

Stan Smith

Confidence. If you have it, you can make anything look good.

Diane Von Furstenberg

Marcus Garvey Quote "With confidence, you have won before you have started"

“With confidence, you have won before you have started.” – Marcus Garvey

If you don’t have any confidence, you’re not going to do anything.

Stefon Diggs

Success gave me confidence as an artist. And now I’m able to do what I want without anybody thinking it’s dumb.

Amy Lee

The circulation of confidence is better than the circulation of money.

James Madison

Richard Kline quote "Confidence is preparation. Everything else is beyond your control"

“Confidence is preparation. Everything else is beyond your control.” – Richard Kline

Confidence Building Quotes

Now we know what some of the world’s great and good have described confidence as being, it’s time to start boosting those confidence levels!

Confidence means believing in yourself, feeling comfortable with who you are, and recognizing that you have worth.

When you feel confident, the way you present yourself to the world changes. People believe in you. You are more likely to be successful in work, sports, or other activities.

What’s more, the way you present yourself can have a profound impact on the new opportunities that come your way.

These quotes are all about building confidence and adopting the “get up and go for it” mentality.

Wendy Wasserstein confidence quote "Don’t live down to expectations. Go out there and do something remarkable"

“Don’t live down to expectations. Go out there and do something remarkable.” – Wendy Wasserstein

Get more confidence by doing things that excite and frighten you.

Jessica Williams

Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profoundness. Kindness in giving creates love.

Lao Tzu

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

Eleanor Roosevelt

Doubt can motivate you, so don’t be afraid of it. Confidence and doubt are at two ends of the scale, and you need both. They balance each other out.

Barbra Streisand

Eleanor Roosevelt quote "You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along'"

“You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, ‘I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.’” – Eleanor Roosevelt

A fit body gives you confidence. And there’s nothing more impressive than a great attitude, which you can wear on your sleeve. But you’ll have to remember the difference between being rude and being confident.

Virat Kohli

Action is a great restorer and builder of confidence. Inaction is not only the result, but the cause, of fear.

Norman Vincent Peale

I have a confidence about my life that comes from standing tall on my own two feet.

Jane Fonda

Find what makes you feel comfortable. The confidence you wear your clothes in is what’s really going to shine.

Hayley Hasselhoff

The level of confidence women are able to build in women-only groups is important.

Mae Jemison

Katy Perry self-confidence quote "If you’re presenting yourself with confidence, you can pull off pretty much anything"

“If you’re presenting yourself with confidence, you can pull off pretty much anything.” – Katy Perry

Confidence is the most important single factor in this game, and no matter how great your natural talent, there is only one way to obtain and sustain it: work.

Jack Nicklaus

I’ve always had confidence. It came because I have lots of initiative. I wanted to make something of myself.

Eddie Murphy

I think about trust and confidence as something that you earn every day, and we will keep at it, earning it every day.

Lynn Good

For if you train hard and responsibly your confidence surges to a maximum.

Floyd Patterson

Rosalynn Carter self-confidence quote "You have to have confidence in your ability, and then be tough enough to follow through"

“You have to have confidence in your ability, and then be tough enough to follow through.” – Rosalynn Carter

There’s a confidence and sense of self that comes with age that I didn’t anticipate.

Jillian Michaels

Successful people often exude confidence – it’s obvious that they believe in themselves and what they’re doing. It isn’t their success that makes them confident, however. The confidence was there first.

Travis Bradberry

Whether you think you can or think you can’t, you are right.

Henry Ford

Do you ever wish you were more confident? If so, don’t forget to see our Guide on How to Be More Confident and see how to start building confidence through easy-to-implement steps.

For me, so far, confidence has been a journey, not a destination.

Jessica Williams

Along with age comes more confidence, so it kind of works out.

Leslie Mann

Diego Maradona quote "When you win, you don’t get carried away. But if you go step by step, with confidence, you can go far"

“When you win, you don’t get carried away. But if you go step by step, with confidence, you can go far.” – Diego Maradona

Confidence is one of the sexiest things in guys and girls.

Danica McKellar

Concentration comes out of a combination of confidence and hunger.

Arnold Palmer

Sometimes, if you fake confidence long enough, you’re going to be confident.

Elle King

I think the best way to have confidence is not to allow everyone else’s insecurities to be your own.

Jessie J

Confidence comes with maturity, being more accepting of yourself.

Nicole Scherzinger

Conor McGregor quote "If you are surrounded by your competition and you are outworking these people, outmaneuvering these people, it’s hard not to let your confidence take over. It just builds and builds and builds"

“If you are surrounded by your competition and you are outworking these people, outmaneuvering these people, it’s hard not to let your confidence take over. It just builds and builds and builds.” – Conor McGregor

Confidence comes from knowing what you’re doing. If you are prepared for something, you usually do it. If not, you usually fall flat on your face.

Tom Landry

Through my education, I didn’t just develop skills, I didn’t just develop the ability to learn, but I developed confidence.

Michelle Obama

I taught myself confidence. When I’d walk into a room and feel scared to death, I’d tell myself, ‘I’m not afraid of anybody.’ And people believed me. You’ve got to teach yourself to take over the world.

Priyanka Chopra Jonas

For me, it’s always been about preparation, and the more prepared I can be each week, the less pressure I feel and the more confident I am. As your confidence grows, it’s only natural that the pressure you feel diminishes.

Aaron Rodgers

Lillian Helman quote "It is best to act with confidence, no matter how little right you have to it"

“It is best to act with confidence, no matter how little right you have to it.” – Lillian Helman

You just have to be yourself and go full with confidence and be courageous.

Gabby Douglas

Life is not easy for any of us. But what of that? We must have perseverance and above all confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we are gifted for something and that this thing, at whatever cost, must be attained.

Marie Curie

You are the only person on earth who can use your ability.

Zig Ziglar

Confidence is key. Sometimes, you need to look like you’re confident even when you’re not.

Vanessa Hudgens

Nothing builds self-esteem and self-confidence like accomplishment.

Thomas Carlyle

Helen Keller quote "Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence"

“Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.” – Helen Keller

It takes a lot for you to find your confidence, but you shouldn’t let someone else be the person to find it for you.

Justine Skye

Have confidence that if you have done a little thing well, you can do a bigger thing well too.

David Storey

Dalai Lama confidence quote "A calm mind brings inner strength and self-confidence, so that’s very important for good health"

“A calm mind brings inner strength and self-confidence, so that’s very important for good health.” – Dalai Lama

Self-Confidence Quotes

It is certainly true that confidence is attractive. A person who believes in themselves and what they are doing is definitely more attractive than a person who cowers on the sidelines hoping no one will notice them.

There is, however, a fine line between confidence and arrogance.

Psychology Today tells us: “the best kind of confidence is like a classical virtue: it strikes the “golden mean” between self-doubt and arrogance, allowing a person to embody his or her positive traits without bragging about them.”

While some of us are much quieter and less open than others, it doesn’t mean that we can’t work on becoming more confident in ourselves. These quotes are all about finding self-confidence, facing the fear, and doing it anyway.

Teddy Roosevelt quote "Each time we face our fear, we gain strength, courage, and confidence in the doing"

“Each time we face our fear, we gain strength, courage, and confidence in the doing.” – Theodore Roosevelt

Because one believes in oneself, one doesn’t try to convince others. Because one is content with oneself, one doesn’t need others’ approval. Because one accepts oneself, the whole world accepts him or her.

Lao Tzu

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

Marianne Williamson

Anna Freud quote "I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence but it comes from within. It is there all the time"

“I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence but it comes from within. It is there all the time.” – Anna Freud

I never had confidence – never. The hardest thing to know is your own worth, and it took me years and years to find out what mine is.

Peggy Lipton

If you have no confidence in self, you are twice defeated in the race of life.

Marcus Garvey

People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within.

Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do.

Benjamin Spock

Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit.

E.E. Cummings

Bruce Lee confidence quote "Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it"

“Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it. ” – Bruce Lee

I’ve studied the lives of the 20th century’s great businessmen and concluded self-confidence was instrumental in all their success.

Alex Spanos

You’ve got to put in the work. And you’ve got to play with confidence. You’ve got to believe in yourself.

Paul Pierce

Self-confidence is the first requisite to great undertakings.

Samuel Johnson

You have to expect things of yourself before you can do them.

Michael Jordan

Trust yourself. Create the kind of self that you will be happy to live with all your life. Make the most of yourself by fanning the tiny, inner sparks of possibility into flames of achievement.

Golda Meir

Eleanor Roosevelt quote "You wouldn't worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do"

“You wouldn’t worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.” – Eleanor Roosevelt

Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.

Dale Carnegie

If you hear a voice within you say ‘you cannot paint,’ then by all means paint, and that voice will be silenced.

Vincent Van Gogh

It is confidence in our bodies, minds, and spirits that allows us to keep looking for new adventures.

Oprah Winfrey

Always remember, you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.

Christopher Robin

One important key to success is self-confidence. An important key to self-confidence is preparation.

Arthur Ashe

Buddha confidence quote "You, yourself, as much as anyone in the entire universe deserves your love and affection"

“You, yourself, as much as anyone in the entire universe deserves your love and affection.” – Buddha

Noble and great. Courageous and determined. Faithful and fearless. That is who you are and who you have always been. And understanding it can change your life because this knowledge carries a confidence that cannot be duplicated any other way.

Sheri L. Drew

Want to appear more confident? See the 6 Ways Body Language Affects How You Think and learn how to start feeling and appearing more confident in your daily interactions.

To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

Don’t wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what. Get started now. With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, more and more skilled, more and more self-confident and more and more successful.

Mark Victor Hansen

To love yourself right now, just as you are, is to give yourself heaven. Don’t wait until you die. If you wait, you die now. If you love, you live now.

Alan Cohen

David Storey confidence quote"Self-confidence is the memory of success"

“Self-confidence is the memory of success.” – David Storey

It’s all about confidence and how you feel about yourself. There’s no such thing as a perfect woman. I like imperfections – that’s what makes you unique.

Hayley Hasselhoff

Whatever we expect with confidence becomes our own self-fulfilling prophecy.

Brian Tracy

Don’t take anything for granted. If you don’t believe in yourself, nobody else will. Have a little more confidence.

Cathy Moriarty

With the realization of one’s own potential and self-confidence in one’s ability, one can build a better world.

Dalai Lama

Oprah Winfrey self-confidence quote "Think like a queen. A queen if not afraid to fail. Failure is another stepping stone to greatness"

“Think like a queen. A queen if not afraid to fail. Failure is another stepping stone to greatness.” – Oprah Winfrey

Life is ten percent what you experience and ninety percent how you respond to it.

Dorothy M. Neddermeyer

Wouldn’t it be powerful if you fell in love with yourself so deeply that you would do just about anything if you knew it would make you happy? This is precisely how much life loves you and wants you to nurture yourself. The deeper you love yourself, the more the universe will affirm your worth. Then you can enjoy a lifelong love affair that brings you the richest fulfillment from inside out.

Alan Cohen

Don’t you dare, for one more second, surround yourself with people who are not aware of the greatness that you are.

Jo Blackwell-Preston

We have to learn to be our own best friends because we fall too easily into the trap of being our own worst enemies.

Roderick Thorp

If you put a small value on yourself, rest assured that the world will not raise your price.

Anonymous

Venus Williams self-belief quote "Just believe in yourself. Even if you don’t, pretend that you do and, at some point, you will"

“Just believe in yourself. Even if you don’t, pretend that you do and, at some point, you will.” – Venus Williams

A man cannot be comfortable without his own approval.

Mark Twain

If you are insecure, guess what? The rest of the world is, too. Do not overestimate the competition and underestimate yourself. You are better than you think.

T. Harv Eker

Self-Belief Quotes

A big part of being and feeling confident is believing in yourself! Self-esteem, self-value, self-respect, self-love… they all start with you!

Believing in yourself, having the confidence to live the life you’ve always imagined, is the ultimate goal for many people. But a journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step. If believing in your own abilities, qualities, and judgement isn’t something that comes naturally to you, start small.

Challenge yourself to do something new.

Whether it’s getting off the sofa to go out for a run, making friends with a stranger you see everyday, jumping into charity work, or even starting a new business… you don’t have to get it right first time. What matters is that you stick with it and have faith in yourself.

These quotes are all about finding a sense of self-belief, and valuing and loving yourself for exactly who you are.

Roy T Bennett quote "When you start living the life of your dreams, there will always be obstacles, doubters, mistakes and setbacks along the way. But with hard work, perseverance and self-belief there is no limit to what you can achieve"

“When you start living the life of your dreams, there will always be obstacles, doubters, mistakes and setbacks along the way. But with hard work, perseverance and self-belief there is no limit to what you can achieve.” – Roy T. Bennett

Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.

Lucille Ball

Life is too short to waste any amount of time on wondering what other people think about you. In the first place, if they had better things going on in their lives, they wouldn’t have the time to sit around and talk about you. What’s important to me is not others’ opinions of me, but what’s important to me is my opinion of myself.

C. Joybell C.

Love who you are, embrace who you are. Love yourself. When you love yourself, people can kind of pick up on that: they can see confidence, they can see self-esteem, and naturally, people gravitate towards you.

Lilly Singh

Johann Wolfgang von Goethe quote "As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live"

“As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.” – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being.

John Joseph Powell

Believe it can be done. When you believe something can be done, really believe, your mind will find the ways to do it. Believing a solution paves the way to solution.

David J. Schwartz

Depression weighs you down like a rock in a river. You don’t stand a chance. You can fight and pray and hope you have the strength to swim, but sometimes, you have to let yourself sink. Because you’ll never know true happiness until someone or something pulls you back out of that river–and you’ll never believe it until you realize it was you, yourself who saved you.

Alysha Speer

Maddy Malhotra quote "It doesn't matter if thousands of people believe in you, unless You believe in You"

“It doesn’t matter if thousands of people believe in you, unless You believe in You.” – Maddy Malhotra

The person in life that you will always be with the most, is yourself. Because even when you are with others, you are still with yourself, too! When you wake up in the morning, you are with yourself, laying in bed at night you are with yourself, walking down the street in the sunlight you are with yourself.What kind of person do you want to walk down the street with? What kind of person do you want to wake up in the morning with? What kind of person do you want to see at the end of the day before you fall asleep? Because that person is yourself, and it’s your responsibility to be that person you want to be with. I know I want to spend my life with a person who knows how to let things go, who’s not full of hate, who’s able to smile and be carefree. So that’s who I have to be.

C. Joybell C.

Self respect, self worth, and self love, all start with self. Stop looking outside of yourself for your value.

Rob Liano

The best lightning rod for your protection is your own spine.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

Stephen Richards confidence quote "If you think you can then you can"

“If you think you can then you can.” – Stephen Richards

Role models are only of limited use. For no-one is as important, potentially powerful and as key in your life and world as you.

Rasheed Ogunlaru

Believe that you can make your way. Or don’t. Either way, you are right.

Jennifer Donnelly

Never let success go to your head, and never let failures go to your heart.

Anthony Joshua

We established most of our self-beliefs during our childhood, but they were based on our limited understanding of the world around us. They are either flawed or have become outdated. We can’t take these beliefs at face value anymore.

Yong Kang Chan

Self-belief is not self-centred. We can only fight effectively for others if we already believe in ourselves.

Carla H. Krueger

How strongly you believe you really can will play the biggest part in determining if you actually will.

Lorri Faye

Benjamin Kofi Quansah self-belief quote "If you are to succeed in life, you must believe that you can succeed. That self-belief lifts you up"

“If you are to succeed in life, you must believe that you can succeed. That self-belief lifts you up.” – Benjamin Kofi Quansah

We hope these confidence quotes have inspired you to believe in yourself, get out there, and try something new.

I hope this post full of confidence affirmations helps alleviate any sense of self-doubt you might have right now.

I hope this post full of confidence affirmations helps alleviate any sense of self-doubt you might have right now.

Self-confidence is a bit like wealth, happiness, and 6-pack abs.

Everyone wants it.

But it can be bloody hard to get your hands on!

This is something I struggle with quite a bit.

Frequent bouts of doubt, anxiety and questions of self-worth rattle around my head on a regular basis (often outside my conscious awareness).

…So I’ve started talking to myself in the shower.

Things like “I am enough”, “I am capable”, “I am confident”, and “I am worthy”.

I say these kinds of confidence affirmations over and over, as the cold water hits my skin and clears the dregs of sleep from my brain.

It sounds strange, I know, but I’ve heard so much about the Law of Attraction, the power of manifestations and positive affirmations that I figured I’d give it all a shot.

Time will tell if they make a difference!

In the meantime, I figured I’d share a big long list of affirmations for confidence that could prove useful for anybody else in need of a similar boost in self-esteem.

Give it a read and, with any luck, we can work through our confidence issues together!

Let’s start by talking about the potential power of an affirmation on confidence.

Let’s start by talking about the potential power of an affirmation on confidence.

How Can a Simple Confidence Affirmation Help?

No matter who we are, where we’re from, or what we do for a living, the way we talk to ourselves matters.

Consciously or unconsciously, we can say (to ourselves):

  • You suck

  • You could never do that

  • You don’t deserve to succeed

  • Your opinion doesn’t matter

…Or:

  • You’re trying really hard right now

  • You’re a good, kind-hearted person

  • You’re worthy of love

  • You’re not good enough at that particular task yet.

One voice knocks you down. The other picks you up.

Importantly, though, that inner voice tends to arise from our underlying beliefs about who we are.

If we believe we’re unworthy, useless, or totally inadequate, then that becomes the lens through which we interpret the world and the message we tell ourselves.

And that, like a self-fulfilling prophecy, eventually impacts our actual reality.

I was listening to a podcast just this morning where this came up.

Jay Shetty was interviewing Marie Forleo (if you haven’t come across either of these inspiring people before, then I definitely recommend checking them out!).

At one point in the conversation, Marie said:

“Our beliefs create our thoughts and our thoughts create our feelings and our feelings create our behaviour and our behaviour creates our results.

And so if you want anything to change at the results level…we need to go deeper to our beliefs, because if we can handle that, everything changes.”

That, ultimately, is where confidence affirmations come into play.

By interrupting the usual negative messages with something positive and encouraging, over time our brain chemistry begins to shift.

Unhelpful neural pathways give way to new ones and our core beliefs about who we are as people take on a different light.

Simply put, we talk ourselves into becoming a more confident person!

Affirmations for confidence are for anyone! But they may prove particularly helpful in certain situations…

Affirmations for confidence are for anyone! But they may prove particularly helpful in certain situations…

Who Could Benefit from Affirmations for Confidence?

Anyone who’s struggling with self-doubt.

Anyone who’s lacking self-esteem.

Anyone who’s suffering from imposter syndrome.

Anyone who has an obstacle to overcome.

Anyone who has a habit of letting anxiety get in the way of opportunities.

Anyone who wants to achieve something.

Anyone who wants to make a positive change in their life.

Anyone who knows they’re capable of more, yet struggles to take on responsibility.

Anyone who feels shy, timid, and meek in social situations.

Anyone who questions the validity of their opinions.

Anyone who wants more from life.

Anyone who worries about sounding stupid.

Anyone who cares too much about other peoples’ opinions.

Anyone who constantly compares themselves to others.

Anyone who wants more swagger.

Anyone who simply wishes to feel more self-confident!

Anyone.

In the next section I’ll go through how to reap the rewards of self-confidence affirmations.

In the next section I’ll go through how to reap the rewards of self-confidence affirmations.

How to Use Self-Confidence Affirmations and Self-Esteem Affirmations

Affirmations sound too good to be true.

I mean, say something enough and you can make it happen? It seems unrealistic, right!?

Throw in the usual Law of Attraction ideas around the universe, frequencies, and energy vibrations, and you’d be forgiven for calling bull**** on the whole thing.

But you start reading a little more on the topic and breaking the process down into its constituent parts, though, and it starts sounding far more reasonable!

There seem to be three core components of using self-confidence affirmations (or any affirmation, for that matter) and seeing results:

1. Repeat positivity

Affirmations a) are positive and b) operate in the present tense.

So, “I will no longer be low on confidence” won’t be as effective as “I love how confident I feel these days”.

Once you’ve picked your affirmation, you’re then meant to repeat it to yourself (out loud is best) over and over again throughout the day.

This is how and where we start to reframe our underlying narratives.

2. Emotionalize

Just saying something isn’t enough though.

The real magic happens when you feel it as well.

You have to emotionalize as you say the affirmation; to let the words impact your physiology. Otherwise they’re empty sounds.

Try to feel your heart rate increase, shivers up and down your spine, and tingles in your toes.

The more emotion behind the words, the greater the impact they’ll have on your life.  

3. Take Action

As Jim Carrey once said: “You can’t just visualize then go eat a sandwich”.

This principle’s one of the main reasons I really started to have some faith in the whole Law of Attraction/manifestation thing.

You’re not leaving anything up to fate.

Nor are you expecting or asking for a miracle.

You have to do the work.

The last and most pivotal part of any confidence affirmation, then, is to take steps (however small) to welcome confidence into our lives.

We’ve said the affirmation, shifted our perspective, and now reinforce it all through action.

So, all told, affirmations involve altering our stories, changing the way we feel, and then behaving in line with what we desire.

That, to me, sounds like a trifecta of how to bring positive change into our lives!

Ready for the affirmations for self-esteem? Let’s go…

Ready for the affirmations for self-esteem? Let’s go…

100 Affirmation on Confidence Ideas and Self-Esteem

Here we go then:

100 self-confidence affirmations to boost self-esteem, alleviate self-doubt, and welcome the myriad benefits of high confidence levels into our lives.

1. I am confident.

2. I am capable.

3. I am worthy of peoples’ time.

4. I can do this.

5. I am a positive, happy person.

6. I have gifts to share with the world.

7. I can overcome any obstacle.

8. I am my best source of inspiration.

9. I’m trying my best and growing every day.

10. Every day I become a better version of myself.

11. I’m grateful for all of my gifts.

12. I love receiving compliments from people and gratefully accept them.

13. I am great person who’s worthy of respect.

14. I respect myself and my intentions.

15. My ideas are worth listening to.

16. I am a creative, ambitious person who can overcome any obstacle.

17. I have everything I need already.

18. I embrace all of my attributes and areas for growth.

19. I can achieve everything I set out to.

20. Negative thoughts fall from me like water off a duck’s back.

21. I am strong and full of self-belief.

22. I walk with my chin up and shoulders back.

23. I love uncertainty and the opportunities it represents.

24. I am braver than I give myself credit for.

25. I love who I am.

Do it right and an affirmation for confidence can make you feel on top of the world!

Do it right and an affirmation for confidence can make you feel on top of the world!

26. I am on my way to great things.

27. My life is a gift and I choose to celebrate every second of it.

28. I believe in my abilities.

29. I knock all challenges out of the park.

30. I see setbacks as learning opportunities.

31. My faith is unshakeable.

32. I release my self-doubts into the ether.

33. I acknowledge my insecurities but choose to push forward anyway.

34. Thoughts are not facts.

35. My future seems bright, positive, and full of success.

36. I have incredible potential.

37. I choose to beautify all things.

38. I’m going with the flow and enjoying myself.

39. I easily overcome all obstacles.

40. Life’s full of abundance.

41. I’m saturated with self-confidence and humility.

42. My self-confidence is growing by the day.

43. I control my destiny.

44. I’m in full control of my life.

45. I love and respect who I am.

46. I embrace the suck.

47. I’m grateful for my potential.

48. I am capable and worthy of more.

49. I ace my days.

50. I am kind, caring, compassionate, and strong.

A good confidence affirmation can help us attain our big life goals.

A good confidence affirmation can help us attain our big life goals.

51. I deserve greatness and am willing to work for it.

52. I invite confidence into my life.

53. I’m beautiful on the inside and out.

54. I compare myself to who I was yesterday instead of other people.

55. I purge myself of negativity.

56. My goals and ideas are valid and worthwhile.

57. My potential is limitless.

58. I am assertive.

59. I am always self-assured in my daily dealings.

60. I assert myself when it’s appropriate.

61. I make my opinions, viewpoints, and ideas known.

62. I can’t wait to overcome this challenge.

63. I accept myself for who I am, imperfections and all!

64. I am great decision-maker.

65. My self-talk is as positive as this affirmation.

66. I let go of all negative self-talk.

67. Success comes easily to me.

68. Confidence and positivity drip from my pores.

69. I always reframe negatives to positives.

70. People love and respect me as much as I love and respect myself.

71. I am a bad ass mother******.

72. I see confidence when I look in the mirror.

73. I bow to nobody but my maker.

74. I seize opportunities when they present themselves.

75. I deserve the position in which I’ve put myself.

I hope these self-esteem affirmations will help you overcome any self-doubts and insecurities you’re feeling right now!

I hope these self-esteem affirmations will help you overcome any self-doubts and insecurities you’re feeling right now!

76. I am strong enough to embrace rejection and failure.

77. I am living my best life.

78. I am virtuous.

79. I have attributes and positive qualities in abundance.

80. I’m an attribute to any team.

81. I have the power to accomplish everything I set out to.

82. I’m making a positive difference.

83. The world’s better off with me in it!

84. I have earned the self-confidence that emanates from me.

85. I glow with self-confidence.

86. I am the embodiment of self-confidence.

87. I’m authentic, genuine, and deserving of success.

88. Every day takes me a step closer to achieving my goals.

89. I radiate positivity.

90. I have enough confidence for everyone in the room.

91. I am in control of my emotions.

92. I trust my gut.

93. My intuition is my north star.

94. Each passing day I see my confidence levels grow.

95. I love the positive boundaries I’ve set for myself.

96. I respect my needs, feelings, and desires.

97. I pick myself up. I can always improve.

98. I am a savage.

99. I thrust myself into challenges and come out unscathed.

100. I am ambitious. I’m a go-getter. I am a warrior.

Time to Try These Confidence Affirmations

I tend to feel a little envious when I meet someone who exudes confidence.

Not the arrogant kind.

The authentic, humble variety; the gentle, quick-witted, calm under pressure, self-accepting, look-you-in-the-eye-without-blinking kind of confidence! Without the burden of crippling self-consciousness, everything seems easy for these people.

But then I remind myself: I can be like that too!

Heck, I am like that.

I just developed a nasty habit of telling myself the opposite and did a convincing job of it.

With patience, insight, effort, and yes, confidence affirmations, we can all enjoy the perks of high self-esteem! If you’re in a position where need a boost in this regard, then I really hope the affirmations for confidence in this post will make a difference.

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Confidence is a feeling of trust in your abilities, qualities, and judgment. The American Psychological Association defines self-confidence as «a belief that one is capable of successfully meeting the demands of a task.»

It can refer to a general sense of trust in your ability to control your life, or it might be more situation specific. For example, you might have high self-confidence in a particular area of expertise but feel less confident in other areas. Research suggests that confidence is important to health and psychological well-being.

Having a healthy level of self-confidence can help you become more successful in your personal and professional life. Research has found, for example, that more confident people tend to achieve more academically. Your level of confidence even affects how you present yourself to others.

Ways to Be More Confident

Fortunately, there are several ways you can increase your self-confidence. Whether you lack confidence in one specific area or struggle to feel confident about anything, these nine tips can help you be more confident.

Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

Do you compare how you look to people you follow on Instagram? Or maybe you compare your salary to what your friend earns. Social comparison theory explains that making comparisons is natural. But it isn’t likely to help boost your self-confidence. It may even have the opposite effect. 

A 2018 study published in Personality and Individual Differences found a direct link between envy and the way we feel about ourselves. Specifically, researchers noted that when people compare themselves to others, they experience envy. And the more envy they have, the worse they feel about themselves.

How do you build self-confidence when you notice that you are drawing comparisons? First, remind yourself that doing so isn’t helpful. Everyone is running their own race and life isn’t a competition.

If you’re feeling envious of someone else’s life, it’s also helpful to remember your own strengths and successes. Keep a gratitude journal to better recall the areas in life where you are blessed. This can help you focus on your own life versus focusing on the lives of others.

Surround Yourself With Positive People

Take a moment and think about how your friends make you feel. Do they lift you up, or do they bring you down? Are they constantly judging you, or do they accept you for who you are? 

The people you spend time with can influence your thoughts and attitudes about yourself, perhaps more than you realize. So, pay attention to how others make you feel. If you feel bad about yourself after hanging out with a particular person, it may be time to say goodbye. 

Instead, surround yourself with people who love you and want the best for you. Seek out others who are positive and can help build your confidence. Self-confidence and a positive attitude go hand-in-hand.

Take Care of Your Body

This tip for how to be more confident is based on the idea that it’s hard to feel good about yourself if you’re abusing your body. When you practice self-care, you know you’re doing something positive for your mind, body, and spirit—and you’ll naturally feel more confident as a result.

Here are a few self-care practices linked to higher levels of self-confidence:

  • Diet: Healthy eating comes with many benefits, including higher levels of confidence and self-esteem. When you fuel your body with nutrient-dense foods, you feel healthier, stronger, and more energized, which can result in feeling better about yourself.
  • Exercise: Studies consistently show that physical exercise boosts self-confidence. For instance, a 2016 study found that regular physical activity improved participants’ body image. And when their body image improved, they felt more confident.
  • Meditation: More than just a relaxation practice, meditation can help boost self-confidence in several ways. For one, it helps you to recognize and accept yourself. Meditation also teaches you to stop negative self-talk and disconnect from unhelpful mental chatter interfering with your confidence.
  • Sleep: Skimping on sleep can take a toll on your emotions. Conversely, good-quality sleep has been linked with positive personality traits, including optimism and self-esteem.

Caring for yourself is important to self-confidence. Make sure you are getting what you need to feel good about yourself and your abilities.

Be Kind to Yourself

Self-compassion involves treating yourself with kindness when you make a mistake, fail, or experience a setback. It allows you to become more emotionally flexible and helps you better navigate challenging emotions, enhancing your connection to yourself and others.

A 2015 study connects self-compassion with self-confidence. So the next time you’re in a challenging situation, recognize that being imperfect or falling short at times is a part of being human. Do your best to navigate these experiences with compassion toward yourself.

Practice Positive Self-Talk

Negative self-talk can limit your abilities and lessen your self-confidence by convincing your subconscious that you «can’t handle» something or that it is «too hard» and you «shouldn’t even try.» Self-talk that is optimistic, on the other hand, can foster self-compassion and help you overcome self-doubt and take on new challenges.

The next time you begin to think that you have no business speaking up in a meeting or that you are too out of shape to work out, remind yourself that your thoughts aren’t always accurate. Then find a way to turn those thoughts around into more positive self-talk.

Here are a few examples of ways to challenge pessimistic self-talk and reframe your thoughts into a more positive way of thinking, increasing your self-confidence along the way:

  • «I can’t handle this» or «This is impossible» becomes «I can do this» or «All I have to do is try.»
  • «I can’t do anything right» becomes «I can do better next time» or «At least I learned something.»
  • «I hate public speaking» becomes «I don’t like public speaking» and «Everyone has strengths and weaknesses.»

Face Your Fears

Stop putting things off until you feel more self-confident—like asking someone on a date or applying for a promotion. One of the best ways to build your confidence in these situations is by facing your fears head-on.

Practice facing some of your fears that stem from a lack of self-confidence. If you’re afraid you’ll embarrass yourself or think that you’re going to mess up, try anyway. A little self-doubt can even help improve performance. Tell yourself it’s just an experiment and see what happens.

You might learn that being a little anxious or making a few mistakes isn’t as bad as you thought. And each time you move forward, you gain more confidence in yourself. In the end, this can help prevent you from taking risks that will result in major negative consequences.

Do Things You’re Good At

What happens when you do things that you are good at? Your self-confidence starts to soar. Your strengths become even stronger, which helps improve your belief in yourself. Taking this approach also has another benefit: it can increase how satisfied you are with your life.

One study found that believing in your ability to build on your personal strengths is moderately related to life satisfaction levels. This starts with identifying what those strengths are. Then, work to make them stronger by engaging with them regularly.

If you’re good at a certain sport, for instance, make it a point to train or play at least once a week. If you’re good at a particular task at work, try to do that task more often. Building on your strengths can also help you build your self-confidence.

Know When to Say No

While doing things you’re good at can give your self-confidence a boost, it’s equally important to recognize situations that can cause your confidence to plummet. Maybe you find that every time you participate in a certain activity, you feel worse about yourself instead of better.

Saying no to activities that tend to zap your self-confidence is okay. Certainly, you don’t want to avoid doing anything that makes you feel uncomfortable because discomfort is often part of the personal growth process. At the same time, there’s nothing wrong with knowing your boundaries and sticking to them.

Setting social and emotional boundaries enables you to feel safer psychologically. It can also help you feel more in control. Self-confidence is, in part, feeling like you have control over your life. Boundaries help establish this feeling of control.

The next time someone suggests doing something that you know will lower your self-confidence, respectfully decline. You don’t have to avoid that activity forever either. Once you learn how to be more confident, you may feel strong enough to try it again—without hurting the confidence you have in yourself.

Set Realistic Goals

Pursuing your goals often involves failing several times until you figure out what works. This can make you wonder if you have what it takes to succeed. It can also leave you questioning how to be more confident while still achieving your dreams. The answer lies in setting realistic goals.

Setting high-reaching goals and failing to achieve them has been found to damage confidence levels. Conversely, realistic goals are achievable. And the more you achieve your goals, the greater your confidence in yourself and your abilities.

To set realistic goals, write down what you want to achieve. Next, ask yourself what chance you have of attaining it. (Be honest!) If the answer is slim to none, the goal may be a bit too lofty. Dial it back so it is more realistic and more achievable.

This may require doing a bit of research on your part. For instance, if you have a goal to lose weight, experts recommend losing one to two pounds per week for healthy, long-term weight loss. Knowing this helps you set a goal in line with this guideline, boosting your self-confidence when you hit it.

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Confidence vs. Insecurity

When learning how to be more confident, it can be helpful to understand how someone with self-confidence is different from someone who is more insecure. Here are just some of the differences between the two.

Confident People

  • Celebrate other people’s success

  • Open-minded

  • Optimistic

  • Willing to take risks

  • Laugh at themselves

  • Decisive

  • Always learning and growing

  • Admit mistakes

  • Accept responsibility

Insecure People

  • Judge and are jealous of others

  • Close-minded

  • Pessimistic

  • Afraid of change

  • Hide flaws

  • Indecisive

  • Act like a know-it-all

  • Make excuses

  • Blame others

Benefits of Confidence

Being confident in yourself just feels good. That said, having self-confidence can also bring many additional benefits at home, at work, and within your relationships. Here’s a look at a few of the positive effects of learning how to be confident:

  • Better performance: Rather than waste time and energy worrying that you aren’t good enough, you can devote your energy to your efforts. Ultimately, you’ll perform better when you have more self-confidence.
  • Healthier relationships: Having self-confidence not only impacts how you feel about yourself, but it helps you better understand and love others. It also gives you the strength to walk away from a relationship if you’re not getting what you want or deserve.
  • Openness to try new things: When you believe in yourself, you’re more willing to try new things. Whether you apply for a promotion or sign up for a cooking class, putting yourself out there is a lot easier when you have confidence in yourself and your abilities.
  • Resilience: Believing in yourself can enhance your resilience or ability to bounce back from any challenges or adversities you face in life.

Recap

Learning how to be more confident can have a range of positive effects on your life. In addition to helping you feel better about yourself and your abilities, self-confidence can make your relationships stronger and make you more resilient to stress.

A Word From Verywell

Everyone struggles with confidence issues at one time or another. Fortunately, there are several things that you can do to boost self-confidence. In many cases, learning how to act confident can actually help you feel more confident.

Sometimes low self-confidence is a sign of a mental health condition such as depression or anxiety. If your self-confidence interferes with your work, social life, or education, consider talking to a mental health professional. A therapist can help you better understand the issue, recommend treatment, and work with you to develop skills to build your self-confidence.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • How can you be more socially confident?

    If your confidence tends to lag in social situations, try to change your perspective. Instead of looking at group interactions as a stressor, view them as an opportunity to work on building your self-confidence. Taking someone with you who makes you feel confident can also give you the self-belief needed to feel more comfortable around groups of people.

    Creating the social event yourself may help as well because you will know what to expect and have some level of control. If social situations cause you great anxiety along with reduced self-confidence, talking to a mental health professional can help.

  • How can you be more confident in a relationship?

    One way to develop self-confidence in a relationship is to recognize your worth. When you know the value you bring to others, it helps you feel more confident in yourself. It can also be helpful to stay in the present and not worry about the past or the future.

    If your lack of confidence in relationships is due to a fear of being rejected, remember that not everyone is compatible. Just as you might not be for them, they might also not be for you—it’s nothing personal.

  • How can you be more confident at work?

    If your lack of confidence in the workplace is tied to concerns about your performance, check in regularly with a superior to see how you’re doing. Ask for feedback about areas where you can improve, then work on them to feel more confident in your duties.

    It can also be helpful to consider where you excel at work and perform these activities as often as possible. If you do make a mistake, admit it, learn from it, and move on. No one is perfect, so you shouldn’t expect yourself to be either.

  • How can you be more confident about your body?

    If your self-confidence is tied to your physical appearance, developing a more positive body image can help. Instead of focusing on areas of your body that you dislike, spend more time appreciating the areas you feel good about.

    Another tip for how to become more confident is to not compare your body to anyone else’s. No two bodies are the same and each has its own strengths. Remember that there is room in this world for people of all shapes and sizes.

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Affirmations are positive statements we tell ourselves in order to reprogram our brains. This is in an effort to let go of negative thoughts and start thinking more clearly and productively.

Self-confidence positive affirmations allow us to use the science of brain reprogramming to help us learn to face the world with less fear.  Today, we’re going to examine why this practice is so important to our happiness and success.

Why Affirmations are Important for Self-Confidence

We are often so ready and willing to say positive things to others… yet many of us tend to resort to negative thoughts when it comes to how we view ourselves. This can wreak havoc on our self-esteem and, thus, derail our goals and dreams in life.

The longer this goes on, the more difficult it becomes to recognize our good qualities. While there are many ways we can increase this positivity, affirmations work to literally change the pathways in our brains. This means that, eventually, we can and will become adept at pushing aside the negative thoughts that cause us to doubt ourselves and what we are capable of achieving.

You can even give kids a head start on building self-esteem and self-confidence with affirmations. The earlier one starts this practice, the easier it will be to master.

To get you started, here are 121 self-confidence positive affirmations to begin reciting TODAY!

  1. My intuition is always reliable. I trust my gut.
  2. I am happy and confident.
  3. I cherish all of my life.
  4. The Universe has my back at all times.
  5. My soul radiates love, peace, and confidence.
  6. I am crushing this thing called life.
  7. I honor myself and my place in this world.
  8. I speak with confidence and convince others to see my point.
  9. My confidence is strong and can’t be crushed by others.
  10. I am one awesome person and can do all I attempt.
  11. I learn new skills easily.
  12. I swim easily through life’s waves and dance in the rain.
  13. I bounce back easily when things don’t go as planned.
  14. I know what I need to say inside and out and won’t falter.
  15. I am my favorite person.
  16. Dead ends just create a place to turn around.
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  1. I willingly accept my role in forging a new path.
  2. I naturally gravitate toward my best choice.
  3. Confidence is my birthright.
  4. I have a good sense of humor and cheer others up easily.
  5. I create the path I walk and will do so confidently.
  6. People are drawn to me.
  7. I am a good person who deserves all the good I receive.
  8. I always see the best in myself and others.
  9. I am self-sufficient in all areas of my life.
  10. I don’t overthink my choices and interactions.
  11. Confidence is my strongest trait.
  12. I have no need to fear failing – or succeeding.
  13. I have no need to second-guess myself.
  14. I learn from my mistakes and see them as tools for growth.
  15. I am proud to be me.
  16. I am smart and capable of achieving whatever I want.
  17. I am an inspiration to others.
  18. I am a natural leader and others willingly follow my lead.
  19. I am persistent and don’t give up.
  20. I am more than enough.
  21. I bring my best to the table.
  22. I willingly share my gifts with others.
  23. I won’t allow others to limit me.
  24. My inner light shines brightly.
  25. My past does not define me. I live in the now.
  26. I deserve the compliments I receive.
  27. I attract only those that radiate with my energy.
  28. I am my biggest cheerleader.
  29. I navigate detours effortlessly.
  30. I am safe and protected.
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  1. I react with empathy and patience and deserve the same treatment.
  2. I relish opportunities to learn new things.
  3. I deserve the best treatment and will accept nothing less.
  4. I am the best person for me to rely on.
  5. I can easily get everything I need.
  6. I trust myself completely.
  7. I am the most qualified person to decide for me.
  8. My intuition is something to be trusted.
  9. I make well-informed decisions.
  10. I am the creator of my own world.
  11. I am motivated to succeed.
  12. The unknown is just another adventure.
  13. I walk confidently with my head held high.
  14. I am a kind and supportive person.
  15. I am fun to spend time with.
  16. My imperfections make me unique.
  17. I can cut ties in toxic relations without guilt.
  18. My journey is worth the destination.
  19. Expressing my emotions is easy.
  20. My true self is worthy of showing the world.
  21. I need only my own validation, not that of others.
  22. I banish negativity from my thoughts.
  23. I am stronger than what makes me afraid.
  24. I can get around every roadblock.
  25. I celebrate all I have done and will do.
  26. I let go of anxiety and self-doubt.
  27. My body and mind are stress-free.
  28. I empower myself and others.
  29. I release all self-judgment and forgive myself.
  30. Others have confidence in me.
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  1. The world needs me and I will meet that need.
  2. I am calm and collected.
  3. I am becoming my greatest self.
  4. I can conquer all I set out to do.
  5. I choose to take a leap of faith.
  6. I choose to accept love and praise.
  7. My presence makes a difference in the world.
  8. I have unlimited potential.
  9. Others respect my boundaries.
  10. I honor my boundaries.
  11. I will reach my goals.
  12. I love interacting with people and they love me.
  13. I am courageous.
  14. I can let negativity roll off me without effort.
  15. Others see my confidence.
  16. I appreciate each and every part of myself.
  17. I am intelligent and can show this with confidence.
  18. I have come far and I celebrate all my successes.
  19. Life is an adventure and I learn more every day.
  20. I give my best at all times.
  21. I am flexible and can embrace change without fear.
  22. I am beautiful inside and out.
  23. I am strong enough to get through any and all adversity with grace.
  24. I am ready and willing to step out of my comfort zone.
  25. I am blessed in so many ways.
  26. I deserve to succeed and have earned every success I have achieved.
  27. People respect me and seek out my advice.
  28. I make my needs known without fear.
  29. I am comfortable speaking up no matter what the situation.
  30. I am worthy of all I ask for and receive from the Universe.
  31. I am whole and complete just as I am.
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  1. I am loved and appreciated.
  2. I have claimed my power and will not give it away.
  3. I am capable and will succeed.
  4. I believe in my ability and strength.
  5. Others genuinely like me.
  6. I respect all aspects of myself and behave accordingly.
  7. I honor my existence on this earth.
  8. I am unique and have special ideas.
  9. I have an amazing life.
  10. I have much to be grateful for.
  11. I am competent and skilled.
  12. I am prepared and will not falter.
  13. People listen when I speak.
  14. My ideas are great ones.

How to Use Affirmations

Just like other habits, building self-confidence takes time and practice. Once you have in mind the affirmation that resonates with you, make sure you practice saying it several times a day. Some people even make a point of writing the statement 3-10 times every morning in a journal.

It may seem strange to you at first, given many of us are unaccustomed to giving ourselves positive encouragement. If it helps, have a trusted friend repeat these to you every day… until you’re ready to recite them on your own.

You could also create an affirmation board. Place your daily affirmation there and stop every time you see it to repeat the words.

Affirmations are a great deterrent for when you begin noticing that negative thoughts are entering your mind.

At that moment, take a deep breath and practice mindfulness by bringing awareness to the surface. Keep breathing deeply and repeating your affirmation until the negative thought disappears.

Final Thoughts on Self-Confidence Positive Affirmations

It never hurts to consider various ways to build self-confidence. In fact, you may find it useful to use a number of methods when it comes to increasing self-esteem and awareness. 

That said, utilizing these self-confidence affirmations is a great place to start. It only takes a few simple words to start believing and, eventually, these affirmations will place speed bumps along the path your negative thoughts take… slowing them down immensely.

And before long, these speed bumps will be replaced with red lights, stopping negativity in its tracks. With the increased self-esteem and confidence you gain, you can literally do anything you set your mind to.

Finally, if you need help with building habits, then check out this nine-step blueprint that walks you through the entire process of creating lifelong habits.)

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How to boost your self confidence : 10 simple ways

Do you question your abilities and feel less of a person when surrounded by other people? Do you feel the need to boost your self-confidence? Don’t worry you are not alone.

We all have our bad days when our confidence level reaches the lowest possible. But if you feel this way most of the time, then your feeling is not limited to bad days, rather it is an indication of low self-confidence.

So here comes the big question – WHAT IS CONFIDENCE?

Confidence is being in peace with yourself. It is the ability to love yourself for who you are.

It is a feeling. How you feel about yourself, how you respond to the feelings of others about you, is nothing but confidence.

Confidence means you trust yourself and you value your opinions. It’s the shield which protects you from negativity.

No one is born confident (YES! The person that exudes confidence and makes you feel uncomfortable, was not born that way). The good news is, you can become confident too, as confidence is an acquired trait.

Confidence is built over time by taking control of your feelings.

Come in terms with your own self and see the magic unfold.

Today I’ll share with you 10 ways to boost your self-confidence from scratch. These tips can be easily implemented in your life and are great to upscale your confidence level. A little shift in the mindset and habits can help you cultivate confidence and live the life of your dreams.

WHY IS IT IMPORTANT TO BOOST YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE?

” When you have a lot of confidence and you feel like nobody can beat you, its game over for everyone else.”– Jason Day

Confidence can completely change the way you look at life. An increase in Self-confidence can bring different results in every person’s life, but we can all agree to the following benefits:

  • Improved self-confidence means improved life.
  • You will feel more powerful than you have felt ever before.
  • You can do things you were too afraid to try.
  • Ability to make decisions.
  • Increased self-respect.
  • Feeling in charge of your life.
  • Courage to take a stand for yourself.
  • Life will be more beautiful.

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1. DO NOT BE YOUR OWN CRITIC

You cannot change the way people talk to you, but you can definitely change the way you talk to yourself.

Words hurt, so please be nice to yourself. Understand that it’s OK to make mistakes and learn from them.

Words such as –

  • I am good for nothing.
  • They are better than me.
  • I deserve to suffer.
  • Everyone hates me.
  • I hate my life.

are upsetting and don’t you think you should be the last person on this earth to hurt your feelings?

Learn to comfort yourself and stop being your own bully.

If you ever find it tricky to comfort yourself, imagine a friend at your position and say what you would say to a friend.

If you cannot say “You are good for nothing” to a friend, then why do you use such a language when it comes to you. You deserve respect and a second chance just like everyone in this world.

Be your friend and not an enemy.

Next time whenever your inner critic tries to tell you something, stop it right there. Just say the opposite of what your critic says to you. If possible go in front of the mirror and tell your inner critic to SHUT UP.

For example – If your critic says “don’t attempt it, you will fail”. Tell your critic “I AM GOING TO DO IT AND I WILL SUCCEED”.

If you try this, I am sure your critic will leave your mind within a few weeks.

2. LEARN SOMETHING NEW

“Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.” – Mahatma Gandhi

No matter what age you are, what profession you belong to, learn something new.

Learn anything which amazes you, and you find interesting. Learning something is the perfect way to remain engaged and stay away from self-destructive thoughts, which is one of the major reasons for low self-confidence.

It could be anything from learning to cook or learning a new language to doing a technical course. Remember, it is never too late to learn.

Learning empowers you and gives you a feeling of attainment. It makes you creative and provides you with new opportunities. When you achieve something after learning, it gives you a sense of pride. And confidence is all about how you feel.

3. ACCEPT YOURSELF

Be comfortable in your skin. You are perfect just the way you are.

Your skin colour, hair and every part of your body are gorgeous.

Don’t be fooled by the images you see on social media. They only show you what they want you to see. What happens behind the scenes is not that rosy.

Love your body and the way you look.

Wear what makes you feel confident. Have a few favourite dresses reserved in your closet, especially to wear on the days when you feel low. Wearing your favourite dress instantly brightens up your mood and makes you feel more confident.

Dress up!

4. ASK QUESTIONS

Confidence has a different meaning for every person.

For some people, confidence means public speaking, while to some it means taking a stand or making their point.

Understand why you feel unconfident and what confidence means to you.

Ask yourself:

  • Why do you feel the need to boost your Self-Confidence?
  • What makes you think you are not confident enough?
  • If given a chance what you wish, you could do?
  • What holds you back?
  • When do you feel the need to be more confident?  Is it around your boss, colleague or a family member?

At the end of the day, write down any situation you encountered, where you wished you were more confident. Do this for a few weeks.

Most of the times, you’ll find that the situations are similar. Look for a pattern and find out what confidence means to you. Find out what you want to become.

It is very important to know, what exactly you expect from yourself because you can only achieve something when you know what you are chasing.

5. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

” If you can imagine it, you can achieve it. If you can dream it, you can become it “-William Arthur Ward

Nothing is impossible in this world.

Think about what is stopping you from becoming the most confident person in this world.

The answer is simple – Self-doubt.

Do something out of your comfort zone. Try something new that you have never done before.

Do not fear failure. If you fail, try again, make mistakes and learn from them. The more you learn, the better.

Failure is not an outcome. It is a second chance to do better.

The only forces that are holding you back from becoming a person you want to be, are your fear and your lack of belief in your potential.

Trust yourself and aim for the sky.

6. PRACTICE GRATITUDE

Be thankful for the things you have. Shift your focus from what other people have, to what you have.

Lack of confidence often stems from comparing your life with other people.

You are unique. There is no one like you in this entire universe so stop comparing.

Do not try to become someone else. You are amazing the way you are.

Your uniqueness is your strength. Don’t waste your time and energy in losing your strength.

You cannot become a confident person by wishing “you were like someone else” or by counting your failures. Confidence comes when you are aware of your capabilities.

Unearth your true potential and show the world what you are made of.

Remind yourself each day of how much you have to be grateful for. Look for things around you which you take for granted and start appreciating them.

Acknowledge little things that make you happy. Do not ignore those happy moments just because you believe that is how it is supposed to be.

Maintain a gratitude journal and keep a record of all the great things in your life.

Every day, write about three things that you are grateful for and three amazing things that happened during the day. You can download your free printable journal from below.

Do this every day for a month and at the end of each week read your journal. You’ll be surprised to see, how many beautiful things happen to you each day and how much you have to be thankful for.

7. LEARN TO SAY NO

NO!

It’s that simple. Just say no to things, you don’t like or don’t want to do.

Stop people-pleasing. The only person you should be pleasing is you.

Saying Yes to people to save your relationship is a harmful habit which kills your confidence slowly.

There is a difference between helping others and being used. It is vital to know the difference between the two in order to honour yourself.

Every time you say no to something insignificant, you say yes to your priorities.

It is necessary to set boundaries within which you can grow. Say no to everything that tries to interfere with your growth and success.

8. GIVE COMPLIMENTS

We all can agree on one thing. Complements are amazing, and it makes a person feel so special.

You compliment other people. Right?

But do you compliment yourself or pat your back when you do something great?

I believe not.

It’s never too late to start complimenting yourself for every little thing you do. You have every right to feel special.

Be the first person to acknowledge your hard work and compliment yourself.

Whenever someone else compliments you, accept it with a smile and believe in it. Take every complement very seriously.

Confidence is not about gaining something new, it is about respecting what you already have.

9. USE POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS

Lack of confidence feeds on negative thoughts and negative self-image.

Challenge the negativity around with positive affirmations.

In the beginning, these affirmations may seem a little too much but with time as you repeat them over and over again, they will become a part of your subconscious mind.

Believe in what you are saying and your world will change for good.

Some of the positive affirmation to boost your self-confidence are –

  • I am a confident person
  • I love my life
  • Each day I am improving
  • I respect myself
  • Success will come my way
  • I won’t give up
  • I deserve happiness

Repeat these affirmations several times a day until they become a reality. Have faith in yourself and trust your potential. You can do anything as long as you believe in your dreams.

10. ELIMINATE TOXIC PEOPLE

“You need to associate with people that inspire you, people that challenge you to rise higher, people that make you better. Don’t waste your valuable time with people that are not adding to your growth. Your destiny is too important.”-  Joel Osteen

If there are people around you that do not treat you the way you deserve, leave them or try to spend as less time as you can with them.

Surround yourself with people who genuinely care about you and who dare to support you in every situation. Your company affects the way you think and perceive yourself.

A good friend will always give you an honest opinion but would never be mean and disrespectful to you. A true friend will always be there to boost your self-confidence.

Choose your company wisely.

We all have toxic people in our life and they are called toxic for a reason. They shrink our wealth, confidence, mental peace, health and a lot more. They basically take your life away from you.

If you are surrounded by people who are negative, no matter how hard you try, they will always find something to complain about. They will find flaws even when you are at your best.

Do not let such people decide your fate.

You cannot boost your self-confidence, when there are people who are constantly putting you down.

No one is more important than your self-esteem and self-confidence. Choose yourself over toxic relationships.

Don’t let anyone decide what you deserve and what you don’t. It’s your life and you take charge of it.

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While some people appear naturally confident with themselves, most of us are not. Luckily, self-confidence can be developed.

I hope the following 20 quotes on self-confidence can inspire you a little to start developing your self-confidence, so you can create the happiness and success you wish for.

20 Inspiring Quotes on Self-Confidence…

  1. “Each time we face our fear, we gain strength, courage, and confidence in the doing.” ~ Theodore Roosevelt
  2. “Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit.” ~ E.E. Cummings
  3. “Because one believes in oneself, one doesn’t try to convince others. Because one is content with oneself, one doesn’t need others’ approval. Because one accepts oneself, the whole world accepts him or her.” ~ Lao Tzu
  4. “Don’t be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth.” ~ Rumi
  5. “If you hear a voice within you say ‘you cannot paint,’ then by all means paint, and that voice will be silenced.” ~ Vincent Van Gogh
  6. “One important key to success is self-confidence. An important key to self-confidence is preparation.” ~ Arthur Ashe
  7. “If you really put a small value upon yourself, rest assured that the world will not raise your price.” ~ Author Unknown
  8. “Always be yourself, express yourself have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.” ~ Bruce Lee
  9. “Trust yourself. Create the kind of self that you will be happy to live with all your life. Make the most of yourself by fanning the tiny, inner sparks of possibility into flames of achievement.” ~ Golda Meir
  10. “People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is light from within.” ~ Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
  11. “You wouldn’t worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.” ~ Eleanor Roosevelt
  12. “You yourself, as much as anyone in the entire universe deserves your love and affection.” ~ Buddha
  13. “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sail. Explore. Dream. Discover.” ~ Mark Twain
  14. “You are the only person on earth who can use your ability.” ~ Zig Ziglar
  15. “With realization of one’s own potential and self-confidence in one’s ability, one can build a better world.” ~ Dalai Lama
  16. “Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.” ~ Dale Carnegie
  17. “Wouldn’t it be powerful if you fell in love with yourself so deeply that you would do just about anything if you knew it would make you happy? This is precisely how much life loves you and wants you to nurture yourself. The deeper you love yourself, the more the universe will affirm your worth. Then you can enjoy a lifelong love affair that brings you the richest fulfilment from inside out.” ~ Alan Cohen
  18. “It is confidence in our bodies, minds, and spirits that allows us to keep looking for new adventures.” ~ Oprah Winfrey
  19. “Always remember you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.” ~ Christopher Robin
  20. “You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You’re on your own. And you know what you know. You are the guy who’ll decide where to go.” ~ Dr. Seuss

Reflection –

Which quote was your favourite? Do you have any other favourite quotes on self-confidence? Feel free to share the best one(s) you have found below in the comments section.

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