Это значит- я знаю что ты была больна, но ты единственный кто не спрашивает меня постоянно в порядке ли я.
She knows it’s not
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that her mom
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sad all the time.- Sad?
Она знает, что это ненормально, что ее мама все время расстроенная?
Ради всего святого, мне это не нравится, но я все время оказываюсь прав.
I‘m right almost
all the time
and I have no patience for
the
slow-witted.
Я почти всегда права, и у меня нету лишнего терпения на бестолковых.
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List of top 34 famous quotes and sayings about being right all the time to read and share with friends on your Facebook, Twitter, blogs.
Top 34 Quotes About Being Right All The Time
#1. Being right half the time beats being half-right all the time. — Author: Malcolm Forbes
#2. I hate being right all the time. So, — Author: Susan Ee
#3. He who acquired all his wealth by *being at the right place at the right time* is hypocritical by being angry for losing all his wealth because of his *being at the wrong place at the wrong time.* — Author: Mokokoma Mokhonoana
#4. I miss him all the time.» I shook my head, disgusted at my own mopiness. «It’s like being haunted or something. And I don’t have the luxury of being haunted right now. I need to think about myself … — Author: Jennifer Weiner
#5. You’ve got an answer for everything… It’s one of the side effects of being right all the time. — Author: Rachel Spangler
#6. People hurt each other all the time just by being. What matters is that when you hurt someone, you do what you can to make it right. — Author: Amy Lane
#7. Time, time,» Toot complained. «Is that all you mortals can ever think about? Everyone’s complaining about time! The whole city rushes left and right screaming about being late and honking horns! You people used to have it right, you know. — Author: Jim Butcher
#8. I really like my life right now. I have friends around me all the time. I’ve started painting more. I’ve been working out a lot. I’ve started to really take pride in being strong. I love the album I made. I love that I moved to New York. So in terms of being happy, I’ve never been closer to that. — Author: Taylor Swift
#9. I have two choices in life: I either try to do the right thing and get accused of being selfish, or I just do what is right for me and get called selfish anyway. This time, it’s all about me. — Author: Dawn O’Porter
#10. On top of all that, you’re naked. And while I’m going to hate myself for this later, could you put on some clothes? At least just for a little while, so I can think. Then you can go right back to being naked. All the time. With my full blessing. — Author: Lish McBride
#11. All that is harmony for you, my Universe, is in harmony with me as well. Nothing that comes at the right time for you is too early or too late for me. Everything is fruit to me that your seasons bring, Nature. All things come of you, have their being in you, and return to you. — Author: Marcus Aurelius
#12. But on stage you’re able to just take the character from one point to the end and it’s a fluid, organic piece. It’s about being completely present all the time, right there in the moment. — Author: Renee O’Connor
#13. It’s scary being loved. Because life is complicated and all too often it throws you off balance by sending you the right person at the wrong time. — Author: Guillaume Musso
#14. People think that being famous is just about having your picture taken all the time and being rich rich rich, and you know what? … They’re absolutely right. — Author: Madonna Ciccone
#15. Before I finished another level of Scientology auditing, I had a very hard time with being wrong and I always had to have my own way — and not in a good sense. After auditing, I was able to have my thoughts, communicate them and not have to be right all the time. — Author: Danny Masterson
#16. Being an entrepreneur is a mindset. You have to see things as opportunities all the time. I like to do interviews. I like to push people on certain topics. I like to dig into the stories where there’s not necessarily a right or wrong answer. — Author: Soledad O’Brien
#17. Being infinitely patient means having an absolute knowing that you’re in vibrational harmony with the all-creating force that intended you here. You know that everything will happen at just the right time, at just the right place, with just the right people. — Author: Wayne Dyer
#18. I liked making people laugh, and I decided I was an atheist early on. My Dad was all right with that. We argued about it all the time, but it was good-natured. He was the most open-minded human being I’ve ever known. — Author: Dave Barry
#19. I had felt no hatred in all the years when they rejected me. If my work was new, I had to give them time to learn, if I took pride in being first to break a trail to a height of my own, I had no right to complain if others were slow to follow. — Author: Ayn Rand
#20. She didn’t understand people who thrived on argument and being right all the time. Her mother was that way, and what did that get her? Nothing but unhappiness, dissatisfaction, and anger. — Author: Amy Tan
#21. We all often feel like we are pulling teeth, even those writers whose prose ends up being the most natural and fluid. The right words and sentences just do not come pouring out like ticker tape most of the time. — Author: Anne Lamott
#22. My career’s consisted of all of those things that you hope would one day lead to being a series regular, and then your dreams grow from there. My career has been very steady, and I’ve been blessed in that I’ve been given everything that I can handle, at the right time. — Author: Kimberly Quinn
#23. I propose a toast. Here’s to being right all the time. May God and history forgive us. They all clinked glasses to that. — Author: John Scalzi
#24. It’s like being an athlete; you get into a certain shape where you really have the right wind, because it’s all to do with breath. Because singing and dancing at the same time is not easy! — Author: Liza Minnelli
#25. Being right is actually a very hard burden to be able to carry gracefully and humbly. That’s why nobody likes to sit next to the kid in class who’s right all the time. One of the hardest things in the world is to be right and not hurt other people with it. — Author: John Ortberg
#26. To be honest, I was unaware of the huge frat-rap scene that was taking over the blogosphere until I found myself right in the middle of it. But there are really a ton of talented dudes out there doing this, and I’m just having a great time making music and being a part of it all. — Author: Mike Stud
#27. I’m sorry about … .ever letting you go. I’m sorry for all the time we wasted. I’m sorry for being here with you right now when we can’t do a damned thing about it. — Author: T. Torrest
#28. Having waited my entire life to get an award for something, anything … I now get awards all the time for being mentally ill. It’s better than being bad at being insane, right? How tragic would it be to be runner-up for Bipolar Woman of the Year? — Author: Carrie Fisher
#29. I tuck a strand of my dyed blonde hair behind my ear. It’s waist-length and has a habit of being everywhere all the time. Like right now. I am pretty much swaddled in it. I empathize greatly with Rapunzel. She had it rough. — Author: Krista Ritchie
#30. Fog is somewhere under the Golden Gate Bridge waiting to eat us all, but it’s staying there, invisible, for the time being, waiting for the right hour to cover and consume us. — Author: Logan Ryan Smith
#31. Jovinderpihainu breaks it. You are right to ask, Shari. But there is a difference between being honest and being right. Honest men lie all the time, believing that they tell the truth. Much evil is borne on the back of honest — Author: James Frey
#32. We say that a lot to each other. You and me. It’s always I’m sorry. I’m tired of being sorry. Why can’t we just be nice to each other so we don’t have to say it all the time? he asked and I was struck mute by his statement. Because he was right. — Author: A Meredith Walters
#33. Sometimes, he thought wryly, a reputation for being right all the time could be a heavy burden. — Author: John Flanagan
#34. Love isn’t about saying cute things and being praised all the time. It’s right after a long argument that drains the life out of both of you, and getting
over it the next day. — Author: Auliq Ice
Is there a word for someone that always has to be right? The person gets angry if they are not.
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A «dogmatist» is always right. The dogma says «It is like this» and then it is like this. This does not cover the part about getting angry, of course.
answered Jan 21, 2012 at 19:58
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There are many words to describe someone who always needs to be right, including indomitable, adamant, unrelenting, insistent, intransigent, obdurate, unshakeable, dictatorial.
To convey more the sense of getting angry when disagreed with, strident or truculent — eager or quick to argue or fight; aggressively defiant, bad-tempered and always willing to argue with people:
a truculent attitude.
answered Jan 21, 2012 at 21:06
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I’m not sure there is a word that describes exactly that, but the closest ones I found are (both definitions come from the NOAD):
- Smart alec (also smart-alec, smart aleck, smart-aleck): a person who is irritating because they behave as if they know everything.
- Know-it-all (also know-all): a person who behaves as if they know everything.
They don’t seem to include the «angry» factor, but certainly «the conviction of being right» is there.
answered Jan 21, 2012 at 21:16
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You can say such a person is contentious or argumentative.
answered Jan 22, 2012 at 2:36
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This kind of person can be described as self-righteous.
(MW) Self-righteous — having or showing a strong belief that your own actions, opinions, etc., are right and other people’s are wrong
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The adjective «pedantic» comes to mind — negative connotation of being concerned with a superficial, rather than a deeper, sense of what is correct.
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I was wrong.
I picked the book “Being Wrong: Adventures in the Margin of Error” by Kathryn Schulz, and it sounded like a good choice for the Science of People book club. I was wrong.
This post is all about how to be really good at being wrong.
Yes, I tricked you.
I titled this post “How to Be Right All the Time” to lure you into clicking on it and learn something really cool. This post is not about being right. It’s about being wrong. Actually, I’m going to teach you how to:
Be really, frickin’ good at being wrong.
Or be a badass at being wrong. Or be a wrong ballah.
Being right is boring. Being wrong—ahh, well, that’s where the magic happens. On top of that, being right all the time is impossible. The statement: ‘I often ride unicorns to work’ is as ludicrous as trying to be: ‘Right all the time.’ Yes, it’s a ridiculous idea—I work at home, I only ride my unicorn on weekends.
Two things I want to share in this post:
First, I’m sorry. I really, really tried to finish this book. But I didn’t. I got to 22%. Ok, I actually got to 17% and I skimmed to 22%. If you finished it—I’m so sorry I didn’t read it with you. (But will you send me an email with the highlights?)
Second, since this is a book about being wrong and I was wrong about reading it, I decided to write a post about the science of being wrong using this experience as an example.
How to Be Really Good at Being Wrong
Let’s talk about the pernicious little thoughts that keep us unjustifiably right and gloriously unwrong.
#1: I told you so
Mmmmmm, don’t those 4 little words feel delicious? Just say it out loud a few times. Righteous, right? Do you get a warm and fuzzy feeling thinking about the last time you were right? When you are right and you can prove it, doesn’t it take every ounce of your being not to shout it in someone’s face? ‘I told you so’ is basically saying I was right AND I was right about being right. It’s like right cubed. Exponential rightness. Here’s why this feels so good: Being right is essential for our survival… and we are programmed for it:
The experience of being right is imperative for our survival, gratifying for our ego, and, overall, is one of life’s cheapest and keenest satisfactions.
Schultz
So being right is our reward for trying. We are wired with an internal reward system for our brain to have motivation to seek the right answer. The problem is that we often aren’t right. Or we jump to the wrong conclusions far too fast on far too little info. This tendency often leads to confirmation bias, which causes us to search or interpret information in a way that confirms our preconceptions, leading to statistical errors, gross misinterpretations and snap judgments.
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#2: I’m basically right about everything
Quick, tell me how right you are about:
- ____ How the person in front of you should drive
- ____ How your friends should live their lives
- ____ How to eat healthy
- ____ Your taste in home decor
If you’re like most people, you not only have opinions on each of these things, but you also feel extremely right about those opinions. Nothing says it better than this quote:
Keep a fair-sized cemetery in your backyard in which to bury the faults of your friends’.
Henry Ward Beecher
How about these:
- ____ Your religious views
- ____ Your political beliefs
- ____ Your taste
- ____ Your intellectual convictions
Most of us will say we are 90% right about our beliefs. But how can we all be right all the time? Obviously, we can’t. The question is, why don’t we know this? As smart as we are, why don’t we question our opinions instead of thinking that our word is gospel? Check out the reality of how most people think versus how it should be logically but isn’t:
Reality:
“Ugh, how could they vote for him?! Are they out of their mind?! Are they insane? He is going to drive this country into the ground. I swear, I really thought they were smart people. It’s so disappointing they would make such a dumb decision. We should start a newsletter to send out to our friends about the issues.”
Logic:
“Ugh, how could they vote for him?! Well, I guess I should keep in mind that everyone is different. Perhaps they have different values or ideas than me. Yes, that must be it. I voted for someone else, but I still very much respect their decision and should talk to them about my decision. Maybe they can convince me to change my opinion.”
Decision-making is an emotional process and response. Neuroscientist, Antonio Damasio discovered that people with brain damage in the areas of the brain where emotions are generated had a peculiar commonality. Along with not being able to feel emotions, they couldn’t make decisions. They could describe what they should do in logical terms, yet found it extremely challenging to make a final decision.
While we believe we make decisions and base our beliefs in logic and try to convince others to ‘see things the way we do’, it almost always comes down to our emotional response. According to author Jim Camp, “at the point of decision, emotions are very important for choosing. In fact even with what we believe are logical decisions, the very point of choice is arguably always based on emotion.”
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#3: Why you’re wrong
We swore we saw a turkey. This past Thanksgiving, I went to a potluck Friendsgiving. As everyone was setting out dishes and re-heating pans of sweet potatoes, green beans and rolls, my two friends, husband and I all swore we saw a turkey. Really, it was sitting right there! I swear! Once the buffet line was open, we all moved through it and sat down at the table. My friend whispered, “where did the turkey go?” I shook my head—I hadn’t seen it on the buffet. Perhaps it was lurking in the oven? We all murmured confusedly and finally asked the hostess, “Where’s the turkey?” She replied easily, “Oh we don’t have one, I just made a ham.” Here’s what happened:
Brain-Fill-In-the-Blank: Our brains are efficient. They make snap judgments and then deduce needs and ideas. Here’s the problem: our brains are not recorders. We think we have a very good memory and recollection, but in reality our brains are masters at connecting the dots—whether those dots are actually there or not.
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#4: No way I’m wrong
On December 7, 1941, 13 year-old Ulric Neisser was listening to a baseball game on the radio when he learned that the Japanese attacked Pearl Harbor. This was a memory he recalled throughout his formative years as traumatic and devastating. When he was an adult, he was thinking about the memory again and realized that baseball isn’t a winter sport. There is no way he could have been listening to a game on the radio at that moment. Even though he swore it was the case, it was simply impossible. His mind had tricked him—or filled in the blank. As a professor at Emory University, he decided to test this with his students when the Space Shuttle Challenger exploded in 1986. He asked his students to write down exactly where they were and what they were doing when they learned about the Challenger’s demise.
3 years later, he asked them to recall the experience again:
- Only 7% of the students remembered their ‘memory’ accurately
- 50% got 2/3 of their assertions wrong
- 25% were wrong in every major detail
Our memories and our perceptions are not necessarily reality. This is essential to keep in mind when arguing with a spouse, disputing something at work and discussing memories with a friend. Our brains are not recorders. Dr. Lars Muckli, from the University of Glasgow, has studied visual blind spots and how the brain makes predictions based on our surroundings. He proposes that “the brain’s main function is to minimize surprise – that is what it has evolved to do.” While this aspect of evolution can be an advantage in some circumstances, it’s important to be aware of both physical and emotional blind spots. Read on…
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#5: Your wrong traps
There are many reasons why we end up being wrong more often than we would like. Failures of memory as discussed above are certainly the cause of some, but there are two others I would like to discuss:
- Emotional Blind Spots: The blind spot is the part of the eye where the optic nerve passes through the retina. This prevents any visual processing from taking place in that area. I would like to suggest that all of us have emotional blind spots. These are people, ideas or sensitive topics that render us rather irrational. Have you ever brought up a topic to your mom and she FREAKED OUT at you? Emotional blind spot. Have you ever had someone be far too sensitive or overreact to something out of proportion to the importance? Emotional blind spot. I think it is essential to know what yours are to help prevent against being caught up in a mistake.
- What are topics that you feel overly sensitive about?
- Who are people who you tend to always give the benefit of the doubt to?
- What do you know, but don’t want to really know? Do you have an inconvenient truth?
- Rationalization: We are also very good at rationalizing our wrong opinions and convincing ourselves of almost anything if we really want it. In 1977, Richard Nisbett and Timothy Wilson set up an experiment in a shop in Michigan. They lined up 4 pairs of panty hose on the table and asked shoppers to compare them and pick which one they liked best. Here’s the catch: they were all the same. However, no one said they were the same. Person after person picked up each pair and dutifully explained why one pair was ‘woolier’ or ‘scratchier’ or ‘warmer’ than the next. Even after the experiment when the researchers told the shoppers they were all the same, many of raters simply refused to believe them. This kind of rationalization often blocks important truths and slows down our learning. Read on to find out why…
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#6: I’m right, right away
Sometimes we have to make fast choices. So, we rely heavily on our first impression, our intuition and our gut to make the right decisions. When sussing out Being Wrong for book club, I got hooked by this quote on the 3rd page of the book:
“A whole lot of us go through life assuming that we are basically right, basically all the time, about basically everything… Our steady state seems to be one of unconsciously assuming that we are very close to omniscient.” –Kathryn Schulz
For me, this quote was powerful. Why? I am not exaggerating when I say:
The majority of all relationship failures derive from the fact that everyone thinks they’re right.
Dr. Steven Stosny bewares couples of being right. He hypothesizes that the high rate of divorce is directly related to power struggles in relationships– the persistent need to be right while simultaneously making others wrong. He goes even further to say that high-adrenaline emotions, like anger, make us feel “more right” due to its amphetamine effects. According to Dr. Stosny, “the amphetamine effect creates a temporary sense of confidence and certainty, while narrowing mental focus and eliminating most variables from consideration.”
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#7: You can either be right or be in a relationship
Bananas are the universe’s magic fruit. They are not only delicious, but they are also packed with vitamins and minerals and come in a convenient transportable package. They are also yellow, the color of sun and happiness. My husband, the menacing, banana-hating, banana-bigot, believes that bananas are the devil’s dessert (poppycock) and should banished from this earth (heresy).
My husband and I lovingly fight about bananas all the time—whether we should share a bananas foster or a slice of apple pie, etc. But the thing is, we are both right. He is absolutely justified in his OPINION about bananas. It’s not a fact, it’s an idea. This brings me to the breakdown of wrongness… not all wrong is created equal.
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#8: I feel I’m wrong
Wrong is a big word. It implies that the answer is black and white. Yes or no. True or false. But usually, wrong is a spectrum and the causes are varied. In your relationships, it is incredibly important to understand what you can and can’t argue. Here’s my suggestion:
What if wrong was a spectrum?
You cannot be wrong about an opinion. This is important. Taste, feelings and opinions are perceptions of an experience. Stop arguing about these experiences—you will get nowhere except closer to frustration. Somewhere between fact and opinion is belief. Remember, beliefs are a mix of verifiable facts and perceived feelings. Think of the 3 most common fights you have with your partner (or parent or friend):
Plot your stance for each on the spectrum. Are they closer to opinion or fact? Now plot your partner’s. This idea can fundamentally change how you argue.
Here is an example from one of my couple friends (names changed to protect the innocent):
Tracy and Doug have been dating for 2 years. A huge fight happens every Monday night during Football season. She hates going over to watch the game at Doug’s college buddies’ houses. Here’s how that usually goes:
- Tracy: “I don’t want to go. I hate going over to their houses. It’s loud, the food is terrible for you and you come back drunk.”
- Doug: “It’s the only time I see my buddies during the week! It’s also the best part of Mondays. Look, it’s only 3 hours, why is this such a big deal?”
This happened every. single. week. When they told me about this, I knew exactly what the problem was: They were arguing facts, beliefs and opinions all mixed in one. Let’s break it down differently:
Fact: There’s a football game is every Monday night.
Opinion:
- I don’t want to go.
- I hate going over to their houses.
- It’s the only good thing about Mondays.
Belief:
- Food is terrible for you.
- You come back drunk.
- It’s the only time I can see my buddies during the week.
Facts are not negotiable. Neither Tracy nor Doug can change the game. Opinions are hard to argue, but they can be shifted by beliefs. Let me show you:
Food is terrible for you. –> I hate going over to their houses.
If Tracy believes the food is terrible, she can’t eat anything and hates going over to their houses. Instead of arguing about the game, why not discuss the food choices. For example, Doug can try:
- Let’s grab a quick bite to eat before we go.
- Let’s bring over snacks you like.
- Let’s host next time so you can make what you enjoy eating.
You come back drunk. –> I don’t want to go.
If Tracy thinks her husband gets too drunk, that should be the issue up for discussion, not the game. She can ask:
- Can you limit yourself to 2 beers?
- Can you have a coffee before you head home?
- Can we try a few non-drinking game nights?
It’s the only time I can see my buddies during the week. –> It’s the only good thing about Mondays.
If Doug feels this is his only shot at seeing his buddies during the week, then that should be a point to be changed. If he knows he is seeing his buddies another time, the game becomes less crucial. For example:
- Let’s do happy hour drinks every Friday night with the whole gang—spouses included, so Tracy has someone to talk to.
- Let’s go to Trivia night on Tuesdays.
- Let’s have the guys over for a BBQ on the weekend.
This was a really long point, but I hope it breaks down the idea of ‘being wrong’ into what’s actually wrong and what’s negotiable. Practice this with one of your common arguments with a friend, parent or partner:
Common Argument:
- Fact:
- Your Opinions:
- Partner’s Opinions:
- Your Beliefs:
- Partner’s Beliefs:
Negotiable:
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#9: Wrong is righteous
We have been talking about being wrong as a potentially harmful state of being. This is far from the truth. The capacity to err is a skill. Wrongness is the way of progress. As Schultz says:
Wrongness, not rightness, teaches us who we are.
Schultz
We learn so much about ourselves when we get something wrong. We learn so much about our behavior when something goes wrong. AND we learn so much about other people when THEY are wrong. Here are a few questions for you to ponder:
- Are you good at being wrong?
- What have you learned from your mistakes?
- How did a friend or partner handle being wrong? What did you learn about them?
Putting it another way, if we are willing to be wrong and examine our wrongnesss, we explore. Being wrong is also hard, humbling and sometimes a dangerous journey—but a beautiful one at that.
“To err is to wander, and wandering is the way we discover the world, lost in thought. Right is more gratifying, but in the end it is static.” – Schultz
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#10: Being good at being wrong
One of the parts of the book I found interesting (in the short bit I read) was when Schultz would tell people she was writing a book about being wrong. According to her, people would exclaim: “Oh! You should interview me, I’m wrong all the time!” But then after some prodding, they couldn’t provide her with one example. Why? Schultz calls this a categorization error. That we don’t remember things we did wrong so much as possibly ‘times we were angry’ or ‘experiences I learned from’ or ‘things I used to know.’
- Replacement Ideas: Once we find out we are wrong about something, we typically replace the idea or behavior with what we deem to be the right idea. In other words, realizing we are wrong about a belief almost always involves acquiring a replacement belief at the same time. Something else instantly become the new right.
- This got me thinking about my old beliefs. And I found this exercise to be a lovely mental journey. Fill in the following:
Stuff I Used to Believe:
‘“I know” seems to describe a state of affairs which guarantees what is known, guarantees it as a fact. One always forgets the expression, “I thought I knew.”’ – Ludwig Wittgenstein
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#11: The right way to be wrong
Let me take this last point to sum up all of the right ways to be wrong:
- Being right feels good, but it’s static and boring.
- Wrong is better. It means growth. It means learning. It means adventure.
- Find your emotional blind spots.
- You can be wrong or you can be in a relationship. Remember, opinions can’t be wrong.
- Know the difference between fact, opinion and belief.
- You will always have stuff you used to believe. Your ideas will change. Be open to that change.
Thanks for being ok with my mistake. I was wrong, but I hope we all benefit a bit with this post.
Yesterday I came across a familiar quote on Twitter:
“I haven’t failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that don’t work.”
~ Thomas Edison
Then today I came across an equally interesting quote from another historical figure:
“I haven’t failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that don’t work.”
~ Ben Franklin
Oh.
With the information age in full swing, I see a lot of this nowadays. Two versions of the truth emerge, each as unassuming as the other.
So are we to just pick one? I guess. Which one do you believe, that’s the real question. And once you pick a belief, are you going to call it knowledge?
Pieces of information, particularly quotations, get misrepresented rather easily. One of the most common scenarios is this: 1) somebody hears a quote that they like, then 2) they change the wording to make it more clear or snappy to themselves or others. It doesn’t take a particularly deceitful or vain person to do it. I’m sure I have. That’s why you see:
“A rose is but a rose by any other name.”
~William Shakespeare
much more often than
“What’s in a name? That which we call a rose
By any other name would smell as sweet.”~William Shakespeare
…as it is worded straight out of Romeo and Juliet.
Likewise, you’re much more likely to know
“Religion is the opiate of the masses.”
~ Karl Marx
instead of the more cumbersome but more accurate phrase
“Religion is the sigh of the oppressed creature, the heart of a heartless world and the soul of soulless conditions. It is the opium of the people.”
~Karl Marx
…which of course is not how it appears verbatim in Marx’s Contribution to Critique of Hegel’s Philosophy of Right. The work was in German.
And just what is that stuffy-sounding title anyway? I thought our famous opiate-religion quote was from Marx’s better-known and more snappily-titled work, The Communist Manifesto. I was so sure. Where did I “learn” that?
Culture prefers to embrace the quotable, the snappy, the palatable. Accuracy be damned. If the quoter thinks he can do better, he probably will. After all, for what purpose do we relate these clever quotations to other people anyway? Let’s be honest — is it to provide an accurate history lesson, or to sound clever and make people smile? I know which one is more gratifying to me. It’s okay, poor Karl will never know.
Often a bastardized quote retains its original meaning, but it is still a falsehood. You might even call it slander. You’re saying somebody said something that they didn’t say. Emerson is a frequent victim of this.
I wonder who will be taking liberties with our own words (and deeds) once we’re dead and unable to do anything about it.
10,000 Failures
Now, I am pretty sure it was indeed Thomas Edison who quipped about the 10,000 failures, but the truth is I don’t really know. I think I know, but my knowledge is only hearsay.
After all, I can source them both. Edison said it. Franklin said it.
I am confident that if I were to trace the sources back further I would become more and more sure that it was Edison. He was known for his unmatched persistence, and this quote was a reference to his efforts to create a working light bulb. Yes that’s it. Or at least that seems to be the impression I have.
Trouble is, I don’t remember exactly where I got that impression. Somewhere along the line I guess I bought it, but between you and me I don’t remember where, and I definitely can’t find the receipt.
The only real source, the industrious inventor (or the maybe bespectacled kite-flyer) is dead and gone, completely irretrievable. So all we’re left with is a squabble over the evidence.
Of course I never met the man himself, I’ve just collected a lot of hearsay about him. Confidence is all I can really ever have. I can always find more backup for my belief, ideally from smarter and more scholarly people. I could probably gather so many matching opinions that there would be no doubt in my mind that it was indeed Edison who uttered that cheeky phrase many years ago. But no matter how much evidence I collect, it is nothing but the best guesses of other people — hand-picked because they agree with mine — and their product can never amount to more than a very strong belief. If I gather my hearsay from established and official-looking sources — university texts with big words, or soundbytes from people with PhDs — then I may be able to convince myself (and others) that I actually know for sure.
Yet we can so easily convince ourselves that we know something without doubt, so much so that we’d often rather argue the point with someone else than apply a “maybe” to our claim.
Warning: This Might be Complete BS
Maybe “maybe” is the way out of this conundrum. It does seem to be the responsible way. But it’s just so weak. How do you inspire people with, “It is possible that the great Ben Franklin once said ‘A penny saved is a penny earned.’ Well, it is possible that he was great.”
Obviously, to communicate anything, we have to cheat a little. To some degree, we have to call our opinions facts. But maybe it wouldn’t hurt to remember that there is an asterisk next to everything we say — fine print beneath all spoken and written statements that stipulates, “Warning: This might be complete BS.”
Writer Robert Anton Wilson, self-described as “agnostic about everything” is fond of saying “The universe contains a maybe.” I think that’s a good motto. There is an interesting paradox: whenever you state a fact, qualifying it with a “maybe” instantly makes it more accurate.
The word agnostic doesn’t need to refer to belief in God. Any belief will work. It could apply to the belief that saturated fat is bad for you, or that going back to school isn’t practical at your age, or that you’re not cut out for daily meditation practice. We all build a whole mental environment for ourselves out of beliefs that feel every bit as firm as facts. Not that there’s really a difference between the two.
To take an agnostic stance isn’t deciding not to take a stance, it’s to admit to yourself that somehow, through all the unseen biases and illusions in life — not to mention the fallibility conferred simply by being human — we can’t really be in possession of the truth.
The Objectivity Myth
Science is very helpful. I am a big fan. What it’s good for is removing personal doubt from certain beliefs by convincing you that enough other people — particularly smart people in labcoats who are good at removing biases and testing assumptions — have come to the same conclusion, and therefore you can safely operate with that belief.
The scientific method works by examining a question, stating an existing belief (called a hypothesis), then testing that belief many times to see if it is still worth believing. Eventually, when something has been tested enough, we may become confident enough to add it to what we call the body of human knowledge, which we can all safely draw from in the future. Once we anoint it with the prestigious title knowledge, we tend to remove any maybes from our thoughts about it.
We use science to add to a growing, collective model of the universe that seems to exist outside of any one individual. Over the centuries, many different humans from many different backgrounds have contributed their conclusions to it. As time moves along, new discoveries refine it, and our understanding of the universe becomes more complete and less mysterious.
Science is supposed to be an objective collection of facts, free from individual biases and opinions, because it wouldn’t be science if a lot of different people didn’t come to the same conclusion. Watching the sun rise, you are probably aware that it isn’t really rising and setting per se, it just looks like it from our viewpoint on the surface of the earth. We know the earth is spinning, so the sky appears to spin around us. But we can think about it “objectively” and picture a blue marble spinning and revolving around a yellow ball, though we’d never really see that through our own eyes.
Objectivity, as rock-hard and external as it seems, is really a fallacy. It’s an abstraction that can only be applied by a fallible human being from his or her own subjective viewpoint. As nice and revealing as it would be, we just can’t step out from behind our eyeballs and take an objective look.
That’s okay though, it doesn’t change things all that much. I don’t think it will turn your world upside down. Life will still present itself in the same way it always has, and as I said, we have to cheat a little and pretend for the most part that we’re dealing in facts, otherwise we couldn’t function. We’re used to that anyway. In terms of practical day-to-day operation, the only real difference is your awareness of an ever-present, blinking asterisk, appended to every statement of fact and certainty.
When I remember to think like that, I experience a few differences in interacting with people. The main one is that I bite my tongue whenever I’m about to say something along the lines of “Let me tell you how it is.” I remember that no matter how I word it, I’m never able to offer anything more than “Here’s how I see it.”
And it’s strangely liberating. Finally I can be correct.
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for the time being — перевод на русский
For the time being, the general council calls upon employers to exercise restraint and to avoid provocation.
На данный момент, Генеральный Совет призывает работодателей проявить сдержанность и избегать провокаций.
For the time being yes, but temporary loss of communication is not unusual, for instance when the capsules go behind the moon…
На данный момент да, но временная потеря связи обычное явление например, когда капсулы находятся за луной…
Yes… for the time being.
То есть… в данный момент.
For the time being, I imagine that must do.
Думаю, сейчас ей этого хватит.
For the time being, you are free.
Вьi… сейчас… свободньi.
For the time being, lay low.
Спрячься на какое-то время.
We’re all right for the time being.
Мы продержимся какое-то время.
For the time being. You ready for us?
Да, да… на некоторое время.
For the time being, you will forget everything but your job.
На некоторое время вы забудете обо всем, кроме своей работы.
Take this one for the time being.
Возьмите пока вот эту.
Well, that’s just for the time being, of course.
Это только временно, конечно.
— For the time being.
— Пока нет.
It’s his for the time being.
В данный момент остров принадлежит ему.
Oh, George, that’ll do for the time being.
О, Джордж, пока и так нормально.
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Словосочетания
all the time — всё время
for all the time — на все время
he does it all the time — он всегда /постоянно/ это делает
first last and all the time — раз и навсегда; бесповоротно; решительно
we’re bickering all the time — мы всё время ссоримся по пустякам
first, last and all the time — амер. раз и навсегда
the street hums all the time — с улицы несётся немолчный гул
all the time, the whole time — всё (это) время, всегда
all the time we were working — в течение всего времени, что мы работали
have all the time in the world — иметь уйму времени
in Italy they sing all the time — в Италии все время поют
he’s been watching us all the time — он ни на секунду не упускал нас из виду
at all times, амер. all the time — всегда, во все времена
our mammals are pop ping all the time — наши звери всё время приносят детёнышей /потомство/
the monkeys tumbled about all the time — обезьяны всё время кувыркались
they were with us all the time /the whole time/ — они всё время были с нами
I am tired of doing the same thing all the time — мне надоело делать всё время одно и то же
he’s been watching us all the time /the whole time/ — он не переставая /неотрывно/ следил за нами, он ни на секунду не упускал нас из виду
it is very discouraging to be sneered at all the time — трудно жить, когда над тобой всё время насмехаются
he was getting higher all the time by nipping at martinis — он всё время прикладывался к мартини и всё больше хмелел
the day seemed endless, I was clock-watching all the time — день казался бесконечно долгим, я то и дело смотрел на часы
he seemed to be condescending all the time he was speaking to his staff — он, казалось, снисходил до своих подчинённых, когда говорил с ними
all time — непревзойдённый; небывалый
all-time — годный на все времена; непревзойдённый; незабываемый
all-in time — стандартный срок
at all time — всегда
all-time low — постоянно низкий (о ценах и т. п.)
at all times — во все времена, всегда
all-time high — рекордный, небывало высокий уровень
all time high — наивысшая точка за весь период наблюдений; абсолютный максимум; рекорд
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все время, все это время, все то время, столько времени, все свое время
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all — все, весь, целый, все, целое, все, весь, вся, совершенно, всецело
time — время, времена, раз, период, приурочить, повременный
Примеры
That’s about all the time we have.
Времени у нас почти нет.
The children quarrel all the time.
Дети всё время ссорятся.
My brother haunts me all the time!
Мой брат вечно ходит за мной как хвост!
My old car backfires all the time.
Мой старый автомобиль всё время «стреляет».
I listen to the radio all the time.
Я всё время слушаю радио.
She spaniels round him all the time.
Она всё время вертится вокруг него, подлизываясь.
They rowed about money all the time.
Они ссорились из-за денег все время.
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Unemployment is now near to its all-time low.
Don’t be so worried all the time—just let go!
When I was thirteen or fourteen I had them all the time.
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for the time being
At the present moment; for now. For the time being, our plans remain unchanged until something convinces us otherwise. Let’s just stay focused on this for the time being. We can address other issues later in the meeting.
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for the time being
for the present; until some other arrangement is made.
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for the time ˈbeing
(also for the ˈmoment/ˈpresent) now, and for a short time in the future: He can stay with us for the time being until he finds a place of his own. ♢ I’m happy here for the moment, but I might want to move soon.
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for the time being
Temporarily.
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- for now
- for the present
- leave it at that
- let’s talk
- Let’s dump
- let’s dump (someone or something)
- let’s get out of here
- let’s see
- let’s go
- Let’s rock and roll!