Word for always having to be right

Words can be on the tip of your tongue when trying to explain something. Trying to get the term for someone who always has to be right is good to have in your vocabulary should that situation ever occur for you! Let’s go over some of the best words.

What Do You Call Someone Who Always Has To Be Right?

Someone who always has to be right can be called a “dogmatist” There are plenty of other variations that can be used, like “adamant,” “unrelenting,” and “insistent.” All of these words are great to use if you want to include more options.

According to The Cambridge Dictionary, a “dogmatist” is “a person who believes too strongly that their personal opinions or beliefs are correct.” It’s the best word you can use to talk about someone who always has to be right.

In this article, we’ll look at the following words and how they can apply to the situation:

  • Dogmatist
  • Adamant
  • Unrelenting
  • Insistent
  • Dictatorial
  • Obdurate

Dogmatist

We’ll start with the most appropriate word to use in this list. It’s got the closest meaning to the words we’re looking for that refers to someone always having to be right.

A dogmatist is a person who believes in their personal opinions and beliefs. While this describes most people, a dogmatist will believe strongly that their opinion is correct, and it will be nearly impossible to convince them otherwise.

Generally, dogmatists enjoy arguing their points with other people until they’ve managed to sway them to their own beliefs. It’s not a desirable thing for someone to be, and many people dislike being friends with people who believe this firmly in things.

  • You’re a dogmatist, and you can’t look past your own shortcomings!
  • Why do you always insist that you’re right? You’re such a dogmatist.
  • I can’t stand dogmatists. They think they know better than everyone else.
  • Look, just let me explain this because I know what I’m doing. You’re acting like a dogmatist.

Adamant

Next, we’ll look at “adamant” and how we can use it as an adjective to describe someone. It’s not quite as harsh as “dogmatist,” but it still applies in very similar situations.

Someone who is adamant is impossible to persuade on whatever stance they take. That means they believe their opinion is correct, and you won’t change their minds.

According to The Cambridge Dictionary, “adamant” means “impossible to persuade, or unwilling to change an opinion or decision.”

We can sometimes use adamant in a more positive light, meaning that we admire someone who isn’t willing to accept any decision but their own. Still, in the context of this article, we’re mostly focusing on the negatives of someone thinking they’re always right.

  • You’re adamant about that, aren’t you?
  • I can’t get a word in edgeways; she’s so adamant about it!
  • He’s really adamant, which I admire, but it’s also really frustrating.
  • Are you adamant that you left your car keys with me? Because I don’t have them.

Unrelenting

Unrelenting is a term used to talk about someone who won’t back down from their point. Even if you’ve proved them wrong already, they won’t “relent” and will keep fighting until they eventually break you down.

According to The Cambridge Dictionary, “unrelenting” means “extremely determined; never becoming weaker or admitting defeat.”

There isn’t much you can say when you’re dealing with an unrelenting person. In their own mind, they’ve already won the argument; they just have to wear you down to get there.

  • You’re unrelenting, and I’m exhausted. You win.
  • This argument is unrelenting! I can’t keep going with you.
  • He’s an unrelenting person who simply doesn’t take no for an answer!
  • We’re unrelenting when it comes to things we know about.

Insistent

Insistent can be used to talk about someone who is firm on their stances. They often believe that something is true and “insist” on it being the case.

According to The Cambridge Dictionary, “insistent” means “firmly saying that something must be true or done.”

Like most of the other words on this list, it’s difficult to talk to somebody who is insistent that they’re right. It’ll often lead to an argument that you didn’t want. Simply agreeing with them might be your best course of action.

  • You’re insistent that I stole something from you, but I don’t even remember the last time I saw you!
  • He’s insistent that we go out; I’ll give him that.
  • I wouldn’t say that being insistent is one of your better qualities.
  • They’re insistent that it was us who did it, but we swear we didn’t.

Dictatorial

Calling someone dictatorial is a harsh term. It refers to the state of dictatorships, which is a state of government that give orders over their citizens with very little wiggle room.

According to The Cambridge Dictionary, “dictatorial” means “liking to give orders.”

Calling someone dictatorial means that they’re happy to give you orders no matter what. While this meaning doesn’t directly relate to always being right, one of the qualities of a dictator is believing that what they do is just and right in every way, and no one can tell them otherwise.

  • You’re too dictatorial to talk to in a positive tone.
  • I can’t deal with these dictatorial teachers at this school.
  • I work for a dictatorial boss, and I can’t stand him!
  • I’ve been called dictatorial because of what I believe in.

Obdurate

Finally, we can use “obdurate” in a similar way to “unrelenting.” It means that someone is determined to do something in a particular way and not change, even if someone desperately tells them that they need to.

According to The Cambridge Dictionary, “obdurate” means “extremely determined to act in a particular way and not to change despite what anyone else says.”

You can be obdurate in both positive and negative ways. In this context, we’re looking at it as someone who always has to be right, which is always a negative connotation.

  • You’re such an obdurate mess. I can’t deal with you.
  • You’re obdurate, and you need to change.
  • We’re all a little obdurate when it comes to the things we care about.
  • Why does she have to be so obdurate about all of this?

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Is there a word for someone that always has to be right? The person gets angry if they are not.

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A «dogmatist» is always right. The dogma says «It is like this» and then it is like this. This does not cover the part about getting angry, of course.

answered Jan 21, 2012 at 19:58

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There are many words to describe someone who always needs to be right, including indomitable, adamant, unrelenting, insistent, intransigent, obdurate, unshakeable, dictatorial.

To convey more the sense of getting angry when disagreed with, strident or truculent — eager or quick to argue or fight; aggressively defiant, bad-tempered and always willing to argue with people:
a truculent attitude.

answered Jan 21, 2012 at 21:06

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I’m not sure there is a word that describes exactly that, but the closest ones I found are (both definitions come from the NOAD):

  • Smart alec (also smart-alec, smart aleck, smart-aleck): a person who is irritating because they behave as if they know everything.
  • Know-it-all (also know-all): a person who behaves as if they know everything.

They don’t seem to include the «angry» factor, but certainly «the conviction of being right» is there.

answered Jan 21, 2012 at 21:16

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You can say such a person is contentious or argumentative.

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This kind of person can be described as self-righteous.

(MW) Self-righteous — having or showing a strong belief that your own actions, opinions, etc., are right and other people’s are wrong

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The adjective «pedantic» comes to mind — negative connotation of being concerned with a superficial, rather than a deeper, sense of what is correct.

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Self-righteous is a word for someone who thinks they are always right. Stubborn is the most common word for somebody who refuses to change their opinion about something.

This article describes some of the most accurate words to describe someone who thinks they are always right, plus reasons why people act this way and how to handle the situation.

Words to describe someone who thinks they’re always right

  • Self Righteous – someone who believes they are completely correct or morally superior
  • Stubborn – someone who will not change their opinion
  • Assertive – someone who has a forceful or confident personality
  • Dictatorial – someone who presents themselves in an autocratic manner
  • Adamant – someone who refuses to change their mind or be persuaded
  • Opinionated – someone who expresses conceited assertiveness
  • Insistent – someone who demands in a prolonged way
  • Peremptory – someone who is not open to challenge or appeal
  • Imperious – someone who is arrogant or domineering
  • Authoritarian – someone who favors personal freedom at the expense of strict obedience
  • Emphatic – someone who expresses their opinion forcibly
  • Uncompromising – someone who is unwilling to make concessions for others

Why do some people think they’re always right?

People could present themselves in a self-righteous manner to compensate for something. They could be struggling with low self-esteem that they want to hide from the public. For others, the reason for their egotistic personality may stem from a fragile ego. If they feel that their image has been dented, they make themselves appear bigger or smarter as a coping mechanism.

Another cause of self-righteousness is a personality disorder, such as Narcissistic Personality Disorder. People who suffer from this illness tend to feel that their opinions, ethics, or views are always correct. Generally, they won’t make an attempt to listen or understand the views of another person.

How to handle people who think they’re always right

Stay calm 

The most important thing is to not react in any untoward way. It can be frustrating dealing with people like this, especially if you know that they are in the wrong. However, arguing their point will only escalate the situation. If possible, try and get the person to reflect on their opinions so that they digest them themselves.

Find common ground

For the most part, we can choose the people we are associated with, but not always. If you do happen to come across a particularly self-righteous person, often you can just walk away. But if this person is your boss, a close family member, or a partner, it becomes much more difficult to avoid. You may not be able to change the person’s ways, but ensure that there is mutual respect and understanding in the relationship.

Be understanding

Lastly, understand that generally this person is not trying to be vindictive, but rather their self-righteousness stems from a place of self-doubt.

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  • #1

My son asked me for an adjective that meant «always has the right word for the occasion.» I can think of phrases to say this, but I couldn’t really think of a good single word. I tried «glib» and «articulate», but that didn’t have quite the meaning he was looking for. Obviously the word would not be used to describe me. :)

I’m sure there are probably a few words that match the description, but i’m at a loss to think of any of them. Any suggestions?

    • #2

    all-knowing? ;) It seems like there is a word for it, and I almost have it, but I can’t think of it for sure. :(

    coiffe


    • #3

    If you don’t want «eloquent» or «Ciceronian» because they’re too broad, then how about «pithy»?

    coiffe


    • #4

    And if that fails, you could try «exactolocutionastic.» :)

    • #5

    How about;
    dictionary. Tish boom

    On a more serious note.
    The Collins dictionary;
    wit n 1 the talent or quality of using unexpected associations between contrasting or disparate words or ideas to make a clever or humorous effect. 2 speech or writing showing this quality. 3 a person possessing, showing or noted for such an ability, especially in repartee. 4 practical intelligence (especially in the phrase have the wit to).

    Would wit work?

    .,,

    • #6

    It’s not exactly what it means, but «erudite» can fit the bill — it refers to extremely knowledgeable. I also think of it as extremely well spoken — William F Buckley being a prime example.

    coiffe


    • #7

    It’s not exactly what it means, but «erudite» can fit the bill — it refers to extremely knowledgeable. I also think of it as extremely well spoken — William F Buckley being a prime example.

    No, «erudite» is about KNowledge (emphasize the «K» and the «N»), it’s not about finding the perfect word. «Pithy» and «laconic» get the arena down to the single word, but I don’t think there is a single perfect word for the idea!

    The problem stated is therefore a paradox!

    • #8

    Dunno about Billy Buckley the second.
    I just read a short piece by him.
    http://www.nationalreview.com/buckley/buckley200602241451.asp

    It is not very long yet he manages to cram three postulates and one postulate within the space of three or four sentences.

    This doesn’t seem like a bloke who has a word for every occasion. He reads more like a fella who swallowed a thesauras (or maybe has an overused electronic version)

    I would go with Oscar Wilde as a prime example of a bloke with the perfect word at the tip of his tongue.

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    coiffe


    • #9

    Dunno about Billy Buckley the second.
    I just read a short piece by him.
    http://www.nationalreview.com/buckley/buckley200602241451.asp

    It is not very long yet he manages to cram three postulates and one postulate within the space of three or four sentences.

    This doesn’t seem like a bloke who has a word for every occasion. He reads more like a fella who swallowed a thesauras (or maybe has an overused electronic version)

    I would go with Oscar Wilde as a prime example of a bloke with the perfect word at the tip of his tongue.

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    Thanks for this. I was forced to watch Buckley on TV by my guardians, who worshipped his large vocabulary. When I got a little older (as in, a teenager), I reexamined his putative rhetorical powers and decided that «supposed» was more powerful than «putative,» «roundabout» was more powerful than «circumlocutory,» and «over-refined» was more powerful than «recherché.» As Holden Caulfield would have said, you don’t sound like a master if you have a poker up your ass.

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    • #10

    I thought «laconic» was just about not speaking too much, not about the quality or appropriateness of what you do say.

    «Pithy» also implies brevity, but to me it has more of a «less is more» connotation than «laconic.»

    coiffe


    • #11

    I thought «laconic» was just about not speaking too much, not about the quality or appropriateness of what you do say.

    «Pithy» also implies brevity, but to me it has more of a «less is more» connotation than «laconic.»

    Yes, I think you’re right, which is why they don’t fit the bill. But I don’t know if there is a single word that does ….

    • #13

    Nah, that can almost be a polite euphemism for liar.:)

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    • #14

    Nah, that can almost be a polite euphemism for liar.:)

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    Interestiing! It doesn’t have that meaning here.

    GEmatt


    • #15

    «always has the right word for the occasion.»

    Suave? I think it carries connotations of the person’s general manner, too, though..

    coiffe


    • #16

    How about «exactamundoverbalistic»?

    JamesM


    • #17

    :) What an interesting collection of answers! I’m glad to see that it wasn’t something that was solved in two seconds. It’s strange that we don’t seem to have a precise word for this.

    I think people use «articulate» sometimes to mean «always has the right word», but it’s not exclusively that. Isn’t it odd when you stumble across one of these concepts that surely must have a word for it and then can’t find one?

    cuchuflete


    • #18

    For consideration:

    Fluent-

    able to speak or write smoothly, easily, or readily: a fluent speaker; fluent in six languages. 3.easy; graceful: fluent motion; fluent curves.

    • #19

    Isn’t it odd when you stumble across one of these concepts that surely must have a word for it and then can’t find one?

    English must terrify learners for this reason. English could probably be described as a contrary language.

    I before E except after C but weird has no C.
    Onomatopea doesn’t sound even vaguely like the sound of a word that sounds like the sound it is describing.
    Phoenetic spelling devotees need to start with the word describing the activity.
    Now we trip over the oddity that we probably don’t have the right word for a person who always has the right word so we need to find one of these undiscribed people to have them tell us the word but if they don’t know the word then they don’t exist and neither does the word and I just got a headache.

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    • #20

    I like ‘fluent’ but feel it lacks something which refers to the person’s ability to call up the apt word at the right moment.
    I would offer the word ‘precise’, but that doesn’t describe the ‘always’ part of the question.
    Bewildered!

    Joelline


    • #21

    Is «well-spoken» too obvious or too literal? It was the first adjective I thought of. «Articulate» was the second.

    JamesM


    • #22

    Is «well-spoken» too obvious or too literal? It was the first adjective I thought of. «Articulate» was the second.

    I think a well-spoken person is someone who speaks well, not to be silly about it. In other words, it’s a person whose speech is probably elegantly appropriate to the occasion, but it doesn’t necessarily mean he has that certain knack of selecting exactly the right word to describe something.

    AngelEyes


    • #23

    Word: per·spi·ca·cious

    The problem is that you can be a shrewd and perceptive person and not even know how to spell.

    But a person who was so quick and intelligent that he would always have the right word at the right time would also have to be perspicacious. It would come with the territory. Wouldn’t it?

    This is a fancy word I can’t imagine ever using again after I post this post.

    AngelEyes

    • #24

    English must terrify learners for this reason. English could probably be described as a contrary language.

    I before E except after C but weird has no C.

    .,,

    The ‘verse’ has a second line ‘when the sound is ‘ee’, which it isn’t in the case of weird, though it is in the case of ‘seize’, so this part of your point stands.

    JamesM


    • #25

    The ‘verse’ has a second line ‘when the sound is ‘ee’, which it isn’t in the case of weird, though it is in the case of ‘seize’, so this part of your point stands.

    As I learned it, it was «I before E except after C / and in words that sound «ay», like neighbor and weigh». My son, when he was 11, added one more line which was «but weird is just weird.» :) It’s actually been a great help to have that final line.

    • #26

    The ‘verse’ has a second line ‘when the sound is ‘ee’, which it isn’t in the case of weird, though it is in the case of ‘seize’, so this part of your point stands.

    Weird and seize don’t rhyme for me. Weird has a weird sound all of it’s own.

    I am having trouble improving on the
    portmanteaux, perhaps inelegant, wordsmith.

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    curly


    • #27

    I’d say smart-arse, but it’s perspicacity in a negative way,

    Or Glib

    • #28

    About the closest I can get is the adverb ‘pithily’ as in, «She speaks pithily.»

    • #29

    This is a fancy word I can’t imagine ever using again after I post this post.

    Lisa Simpson feared losing her perspicacity when she could think of only two examples of a word rather than three.

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    cuchuflete


    • #30

    Quick-witted came to mind, but that wouldn’t cover a fluent mute, or a quick-minded blabbermouth in stony silence.

    • #31

    So, let’s move away from the words and offer a different approach.
    Sympathetic?

    • #32

    or a quick-minded blabbermouth in stony silence.

    That looks like a description of a Mad Magazine drawing of an exploding brain.

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    cuchuflete


    • #33

    Politician: One always in search of the occasion for the right word.

    Lexicographer: One always in the right, searching for the occasional word.

    • #34

    hmm…

    How about verbose?

    cuchuflete


    • #35

    hmm…

    How about verbose?

    Verbose: «always has too many words for any occasion.»;)

    • #36

    Is «well-spoken» too obvious or too literal? It was the first adjective I thought of. «Articulate» was the second.

    I would add eloquent or well-expressed.

    cuchuflete


    • #37

    He was well-expressed, having been properly squeezed and filtered, while being converted to juice. Not!

    She was well-expressed, and DHL delivered her to Omaha before noon the next day.

    • #38

    My son asked me for an adjective that meant «always has the right word for the occasion.» I can think of phrases to say this, but I couldn’t really think of a good single word. I tried «glib» and «articulate», but that didn’t have quite the meaning he was looking for. Obviously the word would not be used to describe me. :)

    I’m sure there are probably a few words that match the description, but i’m at a loss to think of any of them. Any suggestions?

    Okay — now that you’ve heard from such a widely read (and well endowed with dictionaries) body of people, I think you can tell your son that he can have the honour of creating a new word for this. :)
    If he offers us a nice one we’ll do our best to promulgate it for him.

    • #39

    eloquent maybe? although this is more a well spoken person than a person who has a word for every occassion

    • #40

    I’ve been racking my brain and agree that there probably isn’t a single word to describe this concept. The closest words I can think of are ‘tact’ and ‘savior faire’. They aren’t exact, but they come fairly close. They have to do with knowing what to do in a given situation as well as knowing what to say.

    mgarizona


    • #41

    There’s ‘wordsman’ … the OED defines it «A man who deals with or has a command of words, a master of language.» And when a wordsman does what he does, it’s called ‘wordsmanship.’

    • #42

    How about this?

    exactoword

    Orange Blossom

    cuchuflete


    • #43

    There’s ‘wordsman’ … the OED defines it «A man who deals with or has a command of words, a master of language.» And when a wordsman does what he does, it’s called ‘wordsmanship.’

    And when he’s done with his tongue, does he put it back in its….

    Oh, never mind. ;)

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