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The Dangerous Woman Podcast for successful high achieving women who feel a disconnect between how good their outward success looks, and what their inner world feels like. It teaches smart, driven women to become the most remarkable versions of themselves without compromising their health, families, social lives or sanity, by giving them the tools to change old patterns of guilt, blame and fear and turn them into new patterns of alignment, fulfillment and harmony. In other words, it’s a place where women come to learn how to become dangerously good.

It’s a place for the woman who is ready to step outside the confines of what society has deemed as “successful” and is wanting to achieve harmony and balance in her personal and professional life. It’s for the woman who is ready to regain control of her emotional self and kick the overwhelm, guilt and imposter syndrome to the curb and gain an edge in every aspect, from the inside out. It’s for the woman who is looking to re-invent herself, elevate her thinking and finally start living on her own terms. By breaking down the best of self-help so you know the actionable steps to creating lasting change, you will walk away knowing the little-known subtle shifts in thinking and acting that will allow you to experience the greatest improvements in all facets of your life. Are you ready to become dangerously unstoppable? Let’s dive in.

The Dangerous Woman Podcast for successful high achieving women who feel a disconnect between how good their outward success looks, and what their inner world feels like. It teaches smart, driven women to become the most remarkable versions of themselves without compromising their health, families, social lives or sanity, by giving them the tools to change old patterns of guilt, blame and fear and turn them into new patterns of alignment, fulfillment and harmony. In other words, it’s a place where women come to learn how to become dangerously good.

It’s a place for the woman who is ready to step outside the confines of what society has deemed as “successful” and is wanting to achieve harmony and balance in her personal and professional life. It’s for the woman who is ready to regain control of her emotional self and kick the overwhelm, guilt and imposter syndrome to the curb and gain an edge in every aspect, from the inside out. It’s for the woman who is looking to re-invent herself, elevate her thinking and finally start living on her own terms. By breaking down the best of self-help so you know the actionable steps to creating lasting change, you will walk away knowing the little-known subtle shifts in thinking and acting that will allow you to experience the greatest improvements in all facets of your life. Are you ready to become dangerously unstoppable? Let’s dive in.

1. • APR 10, 2023

   Trusting Yourself with Jes Landau

   Trusting Yourself with Jes Landau

   If you’re looking for motivation to keep going, even when things get tough, you’re in the right place. In this episode, I’m joined by Jes Landau, a seasoned direct sales professional who has achieved incredible success in her industry. Jes has faced many challenges, including health issues like receiving her first pacemaker at age ten. Jes has led a team of over 7,500 people and has been featured in national podcasts and network television. She’s also a sought-after keynote speaker.
   In this conversation with Jes, you’ll hear about her journey to the top of her industry and the lessons she’s learned. From overcoming adversity to building a successful team, Jes shares valuable insights that can be applied to any industry or personal goal. You will want to catch this episode whether you’re just starting or looking for inspiration to keep pushing forward. So sit back, relax, and get ready to be inspired by Jes Landau’s incredible story of resilience and success.
   Episode Highlights: 
   [00:02:50] Jes shares how she learned to cope with her social anxiety. She’s fine once she gets there, but has social anxiety beforehand.  [00:06:12] How Jes uses her social anxiety as a superpower. She’s led a team of over 8,000.  [00:08:25] The hardest decision that Jes has ever had to make was asking for a divorce. As scary as the moment was, it was also freeing. [00:11:24] Be Brave was all Jes said to herself about 50 times daily. Jes hopes her example will help her daughter seek healthy relationships.  [00:12:42] Jes would tell her younger self to trust herself because she can always figure it out. [00:14:05] She had her last pacemaker replacement three months ago.  [00:14:54] Self-trust came in her early 30s. She kept taking one step forward even when she only wanted to cry.  [00:18:26] Don’t let a bad moment become a bad day. We get to choose how that moment is going to affect us. [00:20:58] Don’t quit. It might feel good in the moment, but it won’t feel good in the long run. [00:23:19] Jes shares how she got into the direct sales business.  [00:24:35] Get Your Hustle Shoes On is Jes Landau’s book on getting past the stigma of direct sales. As professionals, we get to choose how many hours of our day we spend on our business. [00:27:33] Getting over hangups around selling and rejection. We want to feel included. There is a lot of personal growth in direct sales. Use the mindset of I’m sharing.  [00:32:09] We need to take the time to celebrate what we overcome and accomplish.  [00:33:01] Jes shares how her biggest goals revolve around her love for her family. She also knows that her professional life will lead to something huge. She’s also excited to grow as a leader.  Links and Resources:
   The Dangerous Woman Mastermind Dr. Krystal Conner Dr. Krystal Conner Instagram How to Be a Dangerous Woman Facebook Group Dangerous Woman Manifesto Jes Landau Get Your Hustle Shoes On : Kicking Through the Stigmas of Direct Sales Jes Landau Instagram Redefining Joy with Pamela Pekerman

2. • MAR 27, 2023

   Redefining Joy with Pamela Pekerman

   Redefining Joy with Pamela Pekerman

   Pamela Pekerman is the creator of Hustle Like a Mom. She’s a serial entrepreneur, branding and messaging coach, and the creator of the Edit to Expand Planner. She also has a community that empowers moms to move from mom life to entrepreneur life. She talks to the women who are mompreneurs between drop off and pick up time. She’s a mother of two and understands the need for community and connection with like-minded women. 
   We dive into Pamela’s background and entrepreneurial journey. Pamela breaks down what she means by diversifying your joy. We talk about having it all and not comparing our all to other people’s all. We also learn about some misconceptions when it comes to being a mom. We also talk about planning and choosing specific goals for yourself that are realistic and practical. Pamela shares the importance of communities and so much more. If you’re a mom and entrepreneur, this episode is for you.
   Episode Highlights: 
   [02:49] Pamela has always been an entrepreneur. She launched her first business while at NYU. In 2016, she was a traveling brand ambassador. She thought something felt off and had a conversation with herself. [03:53] She realized the ambitions of her twenties were no longer serving her in her thirties. She started a YouTube series called Mommy Moments. She eventually rebranded to Hustle Like A Mom. [08:08] Everyone needs to figure out what diversifying their joy looks like for themselves. [08:36] You’re doing a disservice to yourself if you don’t allow yourself to explore the possibilities of diversifying your joy. [09:30] Having it all is very custom and personalized. We get tripped up when comparing everyone else’s all to our all. [12:55] The comparison is never going to move you forward. It will always keep you stuck. [19:34] Pamela shares how she does quarterly planning sessions with her community where they pick three goals that are very specific for them. [23:33] Pamela shares that her community consists of full-time stay-at-home moms who have a business idea and women who have left their corporate jobs to pursue their side hustles.  [29:15] We learn how to engage in the Hustle Like a Mom community from a free newsletter to a Zoom meeting or in-person mingle. She also has a membership type community called the HLAM Inner Circle.  [32:26] The Edit to Expand Planner was picked up by Entrepreneur which was so exciting it made Pamela cry.  [34:08] Pamela wants to create ripples and possibilities for mom entrepreneurs.  [40:05] Pamela hopes to host a destination summit in the future. She wants it to last two days and keep the family vibe. She is also interested in a 12-woman retreat. [41:59] Advice includes defining what amazing looks like for you as a mom and as an entrepreneur. Define what you value and what anchors your choices.  Links and Resources:
   The Dangerous Woman Mastermind Dr. Krystal Conner Dr. Krystal Conner Instagram How to Be a Dangerous Woman Facebook Group Dangerous Woman Manifesto Subscribe to the Hustle Like A Mom Newsletter Work With Pam Hustle Like A Mom HLAM Inner Circle Check Out the 2023 Edit to Expand Planner Hustle Like A Mom on Instagram

3. • MAR 20, 2023

   Thoughts about Money with Keina Newell

   Thoughts about Money with Keina Newell

   Keina Newell is a financial coach that works with hard-working and passionate women who need help creating clear financial goals. She helps her clients move towards managing their money with joy and possibility. Keina founded Wealth Over Now, where she helps her clients conquer money stress. We discuss Keina’s journey from a teacher to mastering her finances and using budgeting to achieve milestones. 
   It’s essential to address lack and scarcity mindsets to understand individual money experiences. We talk about helping people redefine their relationship with money and align their spending with their values. There is no perfect time to make a money plan. The sooner you start, the sooner you’ll make progress. Keina also shares some of her client success stories and how taking control of our money increases our opportunities and abundance.
   Episode Highlights: 
   [03:19] Keina shares her background and how she went from being a teacher to balancing her finances and knowing her numbers. She was focused on saving money and hitting milestones through budgeting.  [07:15] For Keina, budgeting and knowing her numbers was a tool for expansion, not retraction.  [09:35] People have an underlying fear or flavor of scarcity around money based on their experiences and how they’ve been informed. We need to take into account what people have experienced when it comes to money. [11:58] Addressing the scarcity mindset includes going into why people feel that way. We need to address the underlying belief.  [14:03] Flip your thoughts about the scarcity mindset and unwind what’s holding you back. [15:49] Keina shares how she was able to work for herself and pay herself a salary and meet financial goals.  [18:36] What would it look like to you to be good with money? People have an idea about what holds them back.  [22:58] Some clients have problems with spending. Fundamentally, it’s good to look at your goals and get into the space of how you envision yourself showing up financially and what your values are. [26:03] Different people have different aha moments when it comes to money. [30:27] Money touches every area of our lives. Keina loves the stories that are about life shifts. [31:14] Keina shares money narratives that she doesn’t like, things like shaming and making people feel bad about money. She wants people to have a balance with money.  [35:22] Don’t wait until the perfect time to make a money plan. People procrastinate because they think taking control of their finances includes sacrifice. [37:08] Wealth over now is about the idea of delayed gratification and creating the life that you love. [40:04] Keina shares a financial success story of one of her clients. There is so much to gain and feel better about your money.  [48:14] Take a moment to celebrate your wins and think of three ways that you’ve done something right with your money.  Links and Resources:
   The Dangerous Woman Mastermind Dr. Krystal Conner Dr. Krystal Conner Instagram How to Be a Dangerous Woman Facebook Group Dangerous Woman Manifesto Wealth Over Now Wealth Over Now Facebook Wealth Over Now Instagram Keina Newell LinkedIn

4. • MAR 13, 2023

   Finding Purpose with Gabrielle Smith

   Finding Purpose with Gabrielle Smith

   Have you ever been stuck wondering what your purpose is? Master-certified life and business coach Gabrielle Smith is here to help us understand and find clarity with purpose. Gabrielle spent years trying to find her purpose, now that she’s figured it out, she’s made it her life’s mission to help other people do the same. 
   We talk about discovering your true passion. We discuss the fear involved with change and how to start slowly before diving in. We also talk about overcoming fear and how eventually we need to take the leap. We dive into the safety of working for someone else versus being an entrepreneur. This is the perfect episode for anyone who is looking for a change in spite of fear and doubts. 
   Episode Highlights: 
   [02:33] Gabrielle is my accountability partner.  [03:49] She spent about 20+ years as a software engineer. Gabrielle didn’t feel fulfilled and was searching for her purpose. She discovered life coaching and knew this was how she was meant to impact this world.  [08:26] There’s a difference between knowing your purpose and taking action on it. Gabriel decided to get certified and take the entrepreneurial route. [10:36] Gabrielle talks about how to know your purpose. Feeling uncomfortable can be a clue that it’s time to keep looking for what you really want.  [15:19] It made perfect sense for Gabrielle to become a life coach, but the process took a lot of journaling and discovery. [17:38] Gabrielle also experimented with blogging and starting a clothing line and several other options before knowing that life coaching was the answer.  [21:25] During the adjustment period, Gabrielle coached on the side while keeping her job. She knew when it was time and put in her notice.  [23:26] The limbo and safety of staying at your job as opposed to working on your own business.  [27:16] Gabrielle had first intended to coach for someone else or a school or something, but then she realized that life coaching and entrepreneurship was the route that was best for her.  [29:05] The importance of finding hobbies and things we like. Humans in general evolve and need to explore and discover things that they are interested in.  [31:16] What you can do when you find yourself at that crossroads in life. Acknowledge and trust your feelings. Allow yourself to explore. Dream big and get it out on paper. [35:19] Don’t research forever. You also have to take the next best step and repeat. It’s important to be gentle with yourself. It’s okay to be a beginner. [37:23] Be compassionate and kind to yourself, so you can keep moving forward. Links and Resources:
   Dr. Krystal Conner Dr. Krystal Conner Instagram Dangerous Woman Manifesto How to Be a Dangerous Woman Facebook Group The Thought Trainer Life Coaching Find Your Perfect Niche Call Gabrielle Smith Instagram @thethoughttrainer

5. • MAR 6, 2023

   The 4 Stages to Becoming a Dangerous Woman (replay episode)

   The 4 Stages to Becoming a Dangerous Woman (replay episode)

   Happy New Year! I hope you’ve all had a wonderful holiday season and are ready to turn it up this year. 2022 is going to be your year! If you listened to the first episode of this podcast, you’ll remember that I broke down the four categories of women including the dangerous woman. Each category of woman is struggling in a different area and requires something different to get to the next level. Each week we are going to be working towards becoming dangerous.
   Today, I’m going to help you figure out exactly where you stand and tell you exactly what you need to be focusing on for the next month. We are going to take 30 days to begin to move to the next level. I know that you want to feel like you’re truly thriving in every area of your life. That’s why we are going to do some self-diagnosing and break down exactly what you’ve been doing that isn’t working. Then I’ll tell you what you need to be focusing on in the next 30 days to move closer to becoming that dangerous woman that you are meant to be. 
   Episode Highlights: 
   [02:48] We are all moving towards becoming a dangerous woman. She lives in complete alignment with who she is. She’s learned how to set boundaries and overcome people-pleasing. She’s built beautiful mutually beneficial relationships. She wakes up in the morning feeling good about herself. [03:38]  A dangerous woman embraces her entire range of emotions. She feels purposeful and does exactly what she dreams about doing in her life. She’s confident and bold and knows who she is. [05:00] Don’t you want to live in overflowing abundance with a life that’s bursting at the seams and makes your heart sing? [06:54] The disconnected woman. This stage is defined by feelings of overwhelm, lack of control, and people pleasing. You want to change, but you feel like there’s nothing you can do about it. [10:13] Your willingness to be wrong about yourself is going to be the thing that moves you forward. Challenging and questioning those long-standing beliefs will help you move to the next level.  [10:38] In the next 30 days, start questioning the thoughts you have about yourself. Write out everything you believe to be true about yourself. Ask yourself where is this not true? [11:06] Write out one goal that you want to achieve. The only thing you need to focus on is believing that it’s possible. [12:06] The conventional woman. These are your team players. These women are dependable to everyone else but constantly letting themselves down. You’re motivated and eager for change, until you actually have to implement the changes.  [13:50] It’s not as easy as you thought it would be. One week in and you’re already researching plan b. You fall back into being busy and judge yourself harshly. [14:54] Focusing on everything and trying to change everything all at once is doing too much. [15:40] Over the next 30 days, identify a goal that you have been working on and trust yourself enough to choose one path or way to achieve that goal. Commit to moving towards your goal consistently over this one month. Journal about it. [17:04] The motivated woman. This is where most people feel like they want to be. No matter how much she gains or achieves, she can’t fill that inner void. She’s always in search of something to make her feel complete or whole. [20:29] Things are good, but you’re ready for something amazing. You’re craving high-level accountability, support, and encouragement.  [21:17] 30-day focus: Find support and begin to take decisive high-level action. Your support can be a coach, therapist, or group. Someone other than you who can call you out and keep you in motion. Establish your very own dream team. Invest in yourself and find someone to support you. [22:59] Decide where you are and focus on the assignment for that level. Focus on what you need to do over the next 30 days to work your way through these exercises. [23:17] In the next 30 days, I want to believe that it is possible for me to _________________? [23:43]

6. • FEB 27, 2023

   From Good Girl to Dangerous Woman

   From Good Girl to Dangerous Woman

   Untangling the self-concept of being a «good girl» and why it can hold you back is an important topic that I wanted to share twice. My upcoming book will probably be titled the same as this episode. I’m sharing this episode from last week again because I want you to challenge those long-standing beliefs you may be holding and break free to create that fulfilling and purposeful life you deserve. 
   I hope you enjoy this encore episode because it’s time to stop pleasing others and start making progress toward your own goals. Don’t let the “good girl” in you hold you back. It’s time to be a little bad, even dangerous! Break those limiting beliefs and take the limits off your dreams. Trust me. It’s worth it. Your future you will thank you!
   Episode Highlights: 
   [03:22] Part of upgrading and elevating your self-concept includes the undoing of the cultural indoctrination of the good girl. [03:45] I’m writing a book that will probably have the same name as this podcast. One of the things that I discuss is this concept of society’s good girl. I’m going to read an excerpt from my intro. [05:07] Think about the dream for your life that you wrote out in your homework. Did you think about how you would be viewed by society, family, and friends? Does your role and position as a woman prevent you from achieving your dream? [07:13] Are you people-pleasing, pushing down your dreams, and creating boundaries? Treading water is expending effort to maintain one’s status, but doesn’t make much progress towards a goal.  [08:02] It’s time to unravel that societal programming that tells us our dreams are only partially possible. [08:25] Look at your dreams and see where the good girl in you is holding you back. [10:40] Look at these thoughts that are holding you back. See them and know that they are optional. [11:03] What would you do if you were a bad girl? What would you do if you were a dangerous woman? [11:52] Go back to your homework and look for those thoughts that tell you why you can’t fulfill your dreams. Find those thoughts that are holding you captive. [13:30] Beliefs holding you back whether positive or negative are all under review here. Go back to the scenario in those four areas and take the limits off.  [14:22] If you do this work up front, it makes things so much better when you start creating your dream life.  Links and Resources:
   Dr. Krystal Conner Dr. Krystal Conner Instagram Dangerous Woman Manifesto Optional Excellence How to Be a Dangerous Woman Facebook Group Episode 35 Accidental Beliefs (Part 1) We Should All Be Millionaires: A Woman’s Guide to Earning More, Building Wealth, and Gaining Economic Power