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大好きは I like you
愛しているは I love you



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Thank you for your help😊 Could you give me some ideas of situation about how to use each of them?




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I like you and i love you is used when you’re taking the next step of a relationship like boyfriend/girlfriend, after he/she is your boyfriend/girlfriend they say «i love you» quite often to show that the affect is still there.
Also you can say i love you to your mom/dad
If someone says i like you in a casual way they’re just saying that they like how you are




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«I like you» can be used:

— When you want to tell someone that you enjoy their friendship
— When you want to express a romantic/sexual interest (a desire to become romantic partners)

«I love you» can be used:

— Between family members / relatives at any time
— Between romantic partners in a relationship who are serious and committed to a relationship
— Between very close friends who love to be around each other (it doesn’t have to be romantic/sexual)

Since both «I like you» and «I love you» can have both sexual/romantic and non-sexual/friendly meanings, it’s sometimes important to clarify what you mean or avoid saying these phrases in ambiguous situations (where the intended meaning is unclear).

You have to be especially careful about saying «I like you» or «I love you» to someone of the opposite sex/gender because it may be assumed by default (unless you specify otherwise) that your intentions are romantic/sexual.



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How do you know if you love someone? Is it true Love or mere attraction you feel?

What is the difference between “I love you” and “I like you”?

Many thought they had already found the Love of a lifetime only to end up with so many tears. Some say they do not believe in Love anymore because of painful relationship experiences. So, how do you recognize Love?

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Love vs. Like: 21 Differences between I Love You and I Like You

#1.

Like: Skin-deep.

If you have fallen for the person because of his/her tantalizing eyes, beach body, or alluring tan, then you call that attraction.

Love: It Goes beyond the physical appearance.

Love does not look at the physical characteristics of a person. Although many love stories started with physical attraction, what led them to love is knowing each other deeper.

#2.

Like: You are thrilled to be with the person.

You are excited to be with the person. You feel like you are the luckiest man/woman in the world because s/he is near you.

Love: You find genuine happiness when you are with him/her.

It is more than excitement. You experience unexplainable joy and peace brought by the person’s presence. It feels like you are home.

#3.

Like: You get self-conscious when the person is around.

Your behavior changes suddenly when s/he arrives. For example, you run to the restroom to check yourself in the mirror. You should be impressive.

Love: You want to be true to yourself when you are with the person.

You want the person to see who you are, hoping that s/he will accept you despite your flaws. On the other hand, you do not want to deceive him/her.

#4.

Like: It happens overnight.

You feel you have been swept off your feet the moment your eyes met. It could be Love at first sight or a few hours of knowing the person made you realize s/he is the one.

Love: It takes time.

Usually, you cannot keep track of when it started. You have been around each other for quite some time, maybe as friends or colleagues, and the more you hang out together, the more you get attached unsuspectedly.

#5.

Like: You pretend to be interested in what the person says.

You want to make the person feel that you care about his/her thoughts, but the truth is you barely hear what s/he says because you are preoccupied with how cute the person is. You are also busy thinking about how you can impress him/her.

Love: You sincerely want to listen to the person.

You listen to what the person has to say because you want to understand him/her better. Moreover, you hope you can help in case there is a problem. However, you do not take advantage of the situation to impress.

#6.

Like: It is emotion-based.

You linger around while that giddy, ecstatic feeling about the person lasts. Then, when your heart does not beat fast seeing him/her anymore, you say it is over.

Love: It is decision-based.

You decide to stay with the person, care for him/her, and accept his/her imperfections, whether there is still magic in the air or not.

#7.

Like: You are proud to be seen with the person.

You want to flaunt that this person is with you, especially if s/he is good-looking because you want other girls/guys to envy you.

Love: You are proud of the person.

You do not care about the person’s credentials, whether others consider him/her a good catch or not. Instead, you are proud to be with the person simply because you love him/her.

#8.

Like: You want to be the best, so s/he will notice you.

You dress up, put your best foot forward because you want to catch his/her eyes.

Love: You are inspired to be the best of yourself because s/he deserves the best.

You want to be the best in every area, not just physically, because you want to be worthy of him/her.

#9.

Like: You get turned off.

Once you see his/her awful or embarrassing side, you come back to earth from cloud 9 and realize you do not like him/her anymore.

Love: You accept every flaw of the person.

Even if you see how bad s/he can be, you decide to stay and continue to believe in the person’s goodness.

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#10.

Like: The person is perfect in your eyes.

For you, everything about him/her is flawless.

Love: You are not blind to his/her imperfection.

As the saying goes, “Love is not blind. It does see but it does not mind.”

#11.

Like: You see the person in your dreams.

Since you think about the person all day, it is not surprising that you find him/her even in your dreams.

Love: You see the person in your future.

You can envision building a home with that person because you have decided that s/he is the one for you.

#12.

Like: You get head over heels with the person.

It is like a spell that stops you from resisting him/her. If s/he would ask you to, you would willingly leave everything behind. You cannot accept nasty comments about the person, and you do not listen to advice.

Love: You regard the person levelheaded.

You can make sound judgments when it involves the person or your relationship. You can weigh decisions using your brain, not just your heart.

#13.

Like: You tolerate his/her mistakes.

You do not want to disappoint him/her, so you tolerate everything s/he does, even those not good like vices. What matters to you is his/her approval, not yours.

Love: You rebuke him/her.

It does not matter if s/he gets mad at you. What is important is his/her well-being.

#14.

Like: It fades the more you get close.

As you get to know the person more, the mystery and thrill start to wear off, and so does your feeling.

Love: It grows the more you get close.

The more you get to know him/her, the more you realize that you want to be with him/her.

#15.

Like: You want the person to take care of you.

You pretend to be helpless in the hope that s/he would volunteer to help and care for you.

Love: You want to take care of the person.

It does not matter if s/he returns the favor as long as you get to make sure s/he is alright.

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#16.

Like: You want to be the center of his/her attention.

You get mad whenever s/he finds someone else attractive or s/he spends more time with other people.

Love: S/he is the center of your attention.

Even when there are better and more attractive people around, your eyes and focus are still on him/her.

#17.

Like: It lasts as long as the person is around.

Whenever you do not see him/her, it is easy to turn your attention to someone else.

Love: It endures distance and time.

True Love endures long distances and you are willing to wait.

#18.

Like: Meeting his/her family is not a big deal.

Usually, meeting his/her family does not even occur to your mind.

Love: Meeting his/her family is essential to you.

You bravely want to face his/her family because you are hoping you will be one of them someday.

#19.

Like: You are possessive of the person.

You get jealous when someone else gets close to him/her. However, S/he should be solely yours, so back off.

Love: You understand that you do not own him/her.

You treat him/her as a free individual. His/her happiness matters more to you.

#20.

Like: You desire to make Love to the person.

Because it is more of a physical attraction, there is a strong urge to have sexual intimacy with the person.

Love: Spending quality time with the person is more than enough.

You can still say you love him/her and stay around even without sex involved in the relationship.

#21.

Like: It is easy to move on.

Once the relationship is over, it does not take a long time to get over it. So you do not feel too miserable as well.

Love: It takes a long time to forget him/her.

The person will always have a special place in your heart even after a long time.

So, is it Love or is it like? Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments below.

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The terms Like and love are normally used interchangeably, but these two terms are different. Of course, there can be gray areas when interpreting your feelings for somebody, but it’s essential to know where you stand.

So how do you differentiate both terms? Like vs. love is not a hard concept to grasp if you know the meaning of both terms.               

What does I like you mean? 

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It is easy to wonder what does it mean when you like someone?

Liking someone simply entails being attracted to them on a physical or superficial level. Liking someone boils down to pleasure. What can they offer you, how they make you feel, and so on?

When you like someone, it is not exactly about them as it is about you. When you like a person, YOU come first. So you’re more focused on how they treat and care for you. 

What does I love you mean?                                                                                                    

What exactly is love, and why is this word so hard to deduce? Scientists over the years have conducted various research to dissect the meaning of this word. Even The National Institutes of Health is conducting 18 trials to discover the meaning of love.

So, what does love mean? Love is simply a strong feeling of emotions for another person or an intense feeling of deep affection.  It is the ability to feel positively towards another.

When you love someone, you have their best interest at heart; love is selfless. Loving someone is simply accepting them for who they are, their flaws, and imperfections. You’re interested in building a real commitment with them and creating a connection with them.

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Like vs. love: 25 differences between I love you and I like you

The difference between like and love is hard to comprehend as each concept involves having feelings for another person. However, these concepts differ, and to decipher the feeling you have, you need to know the difference between like and love.

Keep reading to understand like vs. love properly. Irrespective of your feelings for someone, this article tells you where you stand, is it like or love? 

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1. Like: it involves physical attraction

Liking someone involves physical attraction. When somebody likes you, it doesn’t extend beyond your physical appearance. They are attracted to the colors of your eyes or your body. But love extends beyond physical attraction; somebody that loves you is also attracted to your soul.

Love: it extends beyond physical attraction

Their love for you includes who you’re down to your core, not just your physical attributes. Love is profound and also includes the little things. For example, your partner will love your laugh and work ethic and even just having you around.

They love you for who you are and not only how you look.

2. Like: it is easy to get over the person

Moving on from the person is a piece of cake when you like someone. Their absence in your life wouldn’t make much of a difference. You might even start dating weeks after the breakup. This doesn’t mean they meant nothing to you; after all, you liked them.

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Rather it means their feelings for you were superficial.

Love: it is hard to move on

On the other hand, it is difficult to forget about them and move on when you love someone. Every little thing will remind you of them, and the person will always be special to you.  This is a sign of deep attraction. 

3. Like: it’s all about sexual intimacy

Liking someone mainly involves being physically attracted to the person. It’s all about sexual intimacy and sexual love. 98% of the time, you guys hang out, leads to sex. Worse yet, the person hardly spends the night and is always eager to leave.

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Love: spending time with you is enough

Being in your presence and spending quality time with love is enough. They make time for you regardless of how hectic their schedule is.  This is one of the main differences between liking and loving someone. 

4. Like: the person is your source of happiness

When you like someone, the effort you put into making them happy is limited. Instead, they are your source of happiness. You don’t go out of your way to make them laugh; rather, you are happy to be the center of attraction.

Love: you are the source of their happiness

When you love somebody, the spotlight shifts from you to them; you want to make them happy at the expense of yours. So you will aim to put a smile on their face regardless of the cost.

5. Like: it’s all about perfection

Your attraction to somebody you like is probably because you think they are perfect. You have built up this image of them that might not be real in your head. You aren’t curious to see what is under the surface.

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Love: it is all about imperfection

With love, you understand that the person is human and therefore imperfect. You also end up loving the imperfect part of them. You will embrace their flaws and won’t force them to change.

6. Like: you’re nervous around the person

You get nervous and self-conscious around the person. But, on the other hand, you’re eager to leave an impression, even a false one. So when the person you like enters the room, you adjust your outfit and recheck your appearance to ensure you’re perfect.

Love: you’re comfortable around the person

You don’t try to hide the real you from the person you love. You are an open book and won’t pretend to be someone you’re not. Likewise, if you’re around the person you love, you won’t try to hide your flaws from them.

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7. Like: it is at first sight

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You can feel an instant attraction for somebody you just met. You don’t know anything about the person, so your attraction isn’t based on their character or personality. Rather it is based on what you see. 

Love: it takes time to build

Falling in love with someone is not immediate but takes time. With love, you won’t be able to pinpoint when it started. A study reveals that men take at least 3 months to confess to their partner they love them, and women take about 5 months. 

8. You are hardly interested in the person’s views

You pretend to listen when the person you like talks. However, you are barely interested in what they have to say, and you feign interest not to offend the person. You could even be more focused on the person’s physical attributes than their words.

Love: you hang on to every word

When the person you love speaks, you listen to every word. You’re interested in what they have to say because it gives you an insight into who they are.

9. Like: you’re not interested in solving their problems

You can’t go past feigning interest in their problems with somebody you like. Yes, you might wish them peace of mind, but you won’t go the extra mile to make this happen. After all, it’s their problem, not yours. 

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Love: you want to solve their problems

The problems of somebody you love are yours. You’re ready to do everything possible to solve their problem and ensure they are free from any issues.

10. Like: it is out of your control and fleeting

Your attraction to somebody you like is mainly physical and based on emotions. You might even walk away if problems arise in the relationship. However, it is comfortable staying with the person because everything is perfect, and as a couple, you’re yet to face difficulties. 

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Love: it is a choice

You choose to love someone in the bad and good times. You decide to care and stay with the person even when the relationship gets tough. The person’s flaws won’t send you running for the hills.

11. Like: proud to be seen with the person you like

When you like someone, you want to show them off like a prize with the thought that they positively reflect on you. It’s about you and not them. If they are good-looking, you’re always eager to show them off to your friends.

Love: you’re proud of them

When you love someone, you’re not interested in what they can do for you but vice versa. You are simply proud of them, irrespective of how they look or their achievements.

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12. Like: you pursue perfection so they will notice you  

You wouldn’t want them to leave you, so you crave perfection. You are always trying to perfect yourself, even if that perfect person is a false depiction of who you are.

If you want to get the attention of someone you like, you will reveal half of yourself, the half that is always beautifully dressed, says and does the perfect things.

Love: you’re inspired to be the best version of yourself

When you love somebody, you want to be worthy of them. They inspire you to grow and be the best version of yourself. The goal is not to change you but inspire you..

13. Like: you get put off by simple things

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You easily get unimpressed and ready to end the relationship when you see their embarrassing side. You also get turned off when the whole charade of perfection has ended, and you get a glimpse into their real self.

If your attraction for them crashes in this instance, then there is a great chance you just liked them.

Love: you want to know every flaw

You don’t get turned off when you see the embarrassing side of the person; instead, you love them more. Your feelings for the person can’t fade just because you have a front seat to the person’s life, both the good and bad parts.

14. Like: you dream of the person

When you like a person, they are always on your mind and can even appear in your dreams. Unfortunately, you’re stuck in the past, how the person looked or how they dressed. You are not interested in what the future holds for the relationship

Love: you want a future with the person

You not only constantly think about the person, but you also want the person to be part of your future. You are way past daydreaming about the person’s physical attributes and whatnot. The goal is to make the person part of your future 

15. Like: you are infatuated with the person

Your feelings are portrayed obsessively. If you can offer the person you’re attracted to a magical potion to reciprocate the feelings, you will. Your feelings are on the surface level and composed of lust and attraction.

You are likely to make wrong decisions in their presence. 

Love: you are coolheaded

You are rational and well-balanced when you’re with the person. In fact, with the person’s help, you make sound and wise decisions. 

16. Like: you don’t correct their mistake

You are reluctant to rock the boat and raise issues in the relationship. When somebody you like makes a mistake, you overlook or downplay their mistakes. You are more eager to please the person than let them grow into a better version of themselves.

Love: you sincerely correct their mistakes

Irrespective of the effects of your words, you won’t let a person you love continue making mistakes. Instead, you would rather invoke their wrath if that will help them improve. 

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17. Your attraction fades when you get closer

The more you get to know each other, the more your attraction fades. The excitement and thrill of the person start diminishing because they are not a mystery anymore. When you like someone, you’re interested in the façade they put up.

Love: it increases the more you get to know the person

You fall harder when you know what makes the person you love tick. You will grow fond of them and will enjoy their presence.

18. Like: you want to be taken care of

You want to be pampered and cared for. However, you’re not eager to return the favor and might mumble or complain when asked to.

Love: you want to care for the person you love

You’re excited to care for and indulge them when you love someone because love is selfless. It wouldn’t matter if your actions are not reciprocated; what matters is that there is a smile on the face of the person you love.

19. Like: your ego comes first

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A simple fight and you’re out the door without looking back. You’re not prepared to settle or talk things out with the person you like. Your ego determines your response, and if it is bruised, you lose all incentive to stay. 

Love: your ego comes last

A series of fights cannot send you out the door. Losing the person you love is a scary thought, and as a result, you would want to work through the problem. Leaving is not even an option. 

20. Like: feelings fade if you stop seeing the person

You’re only attracted to the person you like, and being unable to see the person will affect that attraction. Your feelings for the person will likely face, and another person can easily replace them.

Love: it can stand the test of time

With love, the heart will grow fonder with time. Even if the person you love is thousands of miles away, your love won’t diminish; instead, you will long for the day you see them.

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21. Like: you’re not nervous about meeting the family

Meeting the family isn’t a big deal. You have one foot out of the relationship and the other in. The family’s feelings towards you won’t be a big deal.

Love: meeting the family is a big deal

You want to be accepted by the family because you want to be a part of it one day. So, putting your best foot forward when meeting the family is the only strategy you will apply.

22. Like: you’re controlling

It’s easy to get jealous if you see the person you like with another. This is because you tend to be possessive and controlling of the person you like.

Love: you know you don’t own the person

When you love someone, you won’t seek to control them. Instead, you will treat them with respect as individuals and be available for them. What you’re interested in is their happiness.

23. Like: emotional intimacy

Liking someone involves only emotional intimacy. Your feelings may even be shallow and only involve physical appearance. If the person changes their look, your feelings will also change.

Romantic intimacy

When you love someone, it transcends surface feelings and looks. You are past fantasy or being enchanted by just their looks. Now, you’re enchanted with every part of them.

24. Like: it is conditional

When you like someone, your feelings are based on many factors, such as physical appearance. Your feelings fade when those factors change.

Love: it is unconditional

When you love someone, it doesn’t come with terms and conditions. It is without strings, and it is offered freely. Little disagreements won’t make you walk away from them.

25. Like: you don’t care about celebrating the little moments

You’re more likely to forget anniversaries and birthdays when the relationship is new, and you like someone. You might not even be interested in celebrating little milestones.

Love: you celebrate every little moment

Whether it is anniversaries, birthdays, or the first time you kissed your love, you are eager to mark a milestone. Those moments are special to you, and you want to celebrate with them. 

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Wrapping up

There is a like vs. love controversy, and it is hard to know where you stand if you aren’t aware of the difference between both terms.

The characteristics of likeness vary, and it doesn’t mean your feelings for the person aren’t genuine. However, when you love someone, your affections are profound and earnest.

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What is the difference between "i like you" and "i love you." beautifully answered by Buddha: "when you like a flower, you just pluck it. but when you love a flower, you water it daily." one who understands this, understands life.

What is the difference between “i like you” and “i love you.” beautifully answered by Buddha: “when you like a flower, you just pluck it. but when you love a flower, you water it daily.” one who understands this, understands life.

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