What do you think about women who word

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My parents usually complain about me doing so, so yeah, kinda sparked some insecurity this time.

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They’re fanfuckingtastic and my goddamned people!

level 2

Took the damn words right outta my fuckin mouth!

level 1

I am one. Couldn’t care less about it. People who say swearing is “unladylike” are boring and don’t know very many awesome ladies, evidently.

level 2

And who said we wanted to be ladylike?

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My Mom said this and is made me want to swear more.

level 1

Who fucking cares if women swear

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I don’t see why this has to be specifically about women, it’s not any different to men who swear. To answer your question tho, yeah nothing wrong with that pretty much everyone does

level 2

I think that’s the point tho — that women are held to the standard of being ‘better than swearing’ but men can just keep doing it cause, sigh, ‘boys will be boys’

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I think it depends on the venue. If someone is swearing up and down at Christmas dinner, I’m going to be a little bothered by that regardless of gender. At the bar on a Friday night? Eh whatever.

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Yeah, it’s a question of context rather than gender

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Exactly, it’s about time and place.

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What is there to think about? Good for them.

level 1

As long as it’s appropriate to context, what could be wrong with it? I swear, although I do like to spare a couple of words from my regular vocabulary, just for when I’m very very angry at something/someone.

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Absolutely place and time matters. It is easy to get carried away and instead of using more colorful adjectives you use “fucking” instead but it gets old really fast too. It also can make a normal conversation sound a bit confrontational and angry, at least that how I perceive it. But my friends and I use swear words more for emphasis and comedic effect

level 1

As a woman who swears, I think “Oh shit I found another person like me.” My family also tells me to stop cursing so casually…

level 2

I generally use them to elevate the intention in my statement. And like, its not like I’m the only one who does so at my family. Frustrating as hell

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YES!!! On the flip side, I’ll drop a bomb when I’m with a new person just to see how they react. I swear that their eyes widen and we become besties.

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Today we bring to your notice a lesson about women’s rights. This year is known for Anti-lockdown protests and virtual climate strikes. Another noted protest was related to International Women’s Day. On March 8, people all over the world spoke up about such condemning issues as gender inequality and gender-based violence. It will be especially useful for teenage and adult students.

Age: 14+
Level: Intermediate and higher
Lesson activities: Speaking, Listening, Reading, Writing
Time: 50 minutes
Number of students: a one-to-one lesson or a group lesson

Task 1. Lead-in

1 Women's rights (lesson plan)

Students look at this word cloud. Have them read the words. Elicit the idea of the lesson from them. Ask the following questions:

What do all these words have in common?

What message do these words communicate? Why is it important to convey this message?

When we talk about “women’s rights” what do we mean?

Task 2. Reading about women’s rights

Students look at the collage with posters and read some facts related to women’s rights

2 Women's rights (lesson plan)
3 Women's rights (lesson plan)

Ask your students to discuss the following questions:

What do these figures and facts tell us?

Are you surprised about the figures?

Do you think it is important to fight for women’s rights after you’ve seen these figures?

In your opinion, can this information persuade more people to help women’s rights organisations?

Do you know any other facts related to women’s rights?

Task 3. Pre-listening about women’s rights

Students look at the picture and speculate about the woman they can see. This exercise will help them get ready for the listening and be more aware of the song’s key idea.

4 Women's rights (lesson plan)

Do you know who the woman in the picture is?

Have you watched Aladdin?

What are your impressions?

What do you think of Jasmine’s character?

Do you think Jasmine’s character resembles the actress’s real personality?

Have you heard the soundtrack of the movie?

Note: Her name is Naomi Scott. She has played the role of Princess Jasmine in the movie «Aladdin». Naomi Scott has convinced the directors of the Disney movie to modernize Jasmine because it was crucial for her to display Princess Jasmine as a brave, independent and strong woman. Naomi is also supporting women’s rights organizations and movements and believes in the empowerment of women of different colors and cultures.

Task 4. Active listening. Watching a video

Students listen to the song once while watching the video. Ask them to grasp the song’s main idea. For higher levels, ask them to summarize the song in one sentence. You can also ask them what the one, most essential line from this song is.

Task 5. Fill in the gaps

Students listen to the song and fill the missing words in the gaps

«Speechless”

(from «Aladdin» soundtrack)

Here comes a wave

Meant to _____ me ______

A tide that is taking me under

Swallowing sand

Left with ________ to say

My voice drowned out in the ______

But I won’t cry

And I won’t start to ______

Whenever they try

To shut me or cut me _______

I won’t be silenced

You can’t _________ me quiet

Won’t tremble when you try it

All I know is I won’t go ________

‘Cause I’ll breathe

When they try to suffocate me

Don’t you ________ me

‘Cause I know that I won’t go speechless

Written in stone

Every rule, every ________

Centuries-old and unbending

«Stay in your place»

«________ seen and not heard»

Well, now that story is _______

Let the storm in

I cannot be _______

No, I won’t live unspoken

‘Cause I know that I won’t go speechless

Try to ________ me in this cage

I won’t just lay me down and die

I will take these broken wings

And watch me burn across the _______

Hear the echo saying I…

Key: wash me away; nothing; thunder; crumble; down; keep; speechless; underestimate; word; better; ending; broken; sky

Taken from: https://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/willsmith/speechlessfull.html

Task 6. Listening and reading women’s rights

Now listen to this song while reading the lyrics. Don’t be shy and sing along

Students discuss the questions:

How does this song make you feel?

Have you found any unfamiliar words in the song? What are they?

Try to find them looking at the text of the song and write them down.

Using https://dictionary.cambridge.org/ figure out the meaning of these new words.

(This task can be modified a little. If you have a group lesson, ask your students to write new words down and then exchange their notebook with another student. Then after figuring out the definitions of the words, they can give the notebooks back to one another)

Task 7. Speaking

Discuss the questions

  1. In general, what are human rights?
  2. Does every human on the Earth have rights, even criminals? 
  3. Why do most organizations talk only about the rights of people, and not about their responsibility?
  4. Why do certain groups, like women or children, need special rights? Does this mean they have more rights than other people?
  5. Who monitors and protects the human rights of women?
  6. Do only underdeveloped countries face problems with human rights and human rights of women?
  7. Do they protect human rights and human rights of women in your country?
  8. What can be done to help promote those rights?

Bonus. You can share this video about women’s suffrage movements with your students. There are also additional activities to complete after watching the video. As an option, you can assign this task to them as their homework.

In a desperate effort to understand what men think about women, you might fantasize about swinging a hammer at a man’s head, cracking it open, and watching in awe as his innermost thoughts spill onto the floor.

[Please don’t do this. There are better ways.]

thinking man

Sometimes he really is thinking about nothing.

It can be extremely frustrating not knowing what men think about women… or what they think about you in particular.

You can drive yourself crazy replaying conversations and situations in your head…

You: Hey baby…whatcha thinking about?

Him: Mm. Nothing.

You: [later] What does that MEAN, “nothing??!” No one thinks about nothing!!

If the male mind is as puzzling to you as a Rubik’s Cube, you’re going to love this video and article.

In today’s video, I’m going to give you what men think about women in five easy bite-sized nuggets. Now, I’m betraying my people a bit, because these are things that men are thinking, but in no way want you ladies to know they’re thinking them.

These are the things that will get us kicked, punched, and generally put on your shit list.

So don’t tell them I told, you, ‘kay? Thanks.

Once you know the deeper psychological reasons behind why men think the way we do…and what men think about women… it’s like discovering a secret door into your guy’s brain.

There’s plenty of benefit for you once you know these five secrets men think about.

Knowing what men think about women can save you the agony of getting sucked into a toxic relationship because you’ll be on top of what’s going on in his crazy twisted head and can get out before you get hurt.

Even better:

It can allow you to relax and leave space for men to truly be themselves. Once you can let go of trying to be a mindreader and figure out what’s going on in that 8-pound hunk of thinking muscle, you change as a romantic partner. You’re more cool and less stressed.

That will make any man uncontrollably addicted to you.

Who doesn’t want that, right?

Check it out and leave me your feedback below!

Your Coach,

Summary: What Men Think About Women Isn’t Always Earth-Shattering

woman nagging man

Bugging him to express his feelings never works.

Here’s the Catch 22. Women struggle to understand what men think about women…and sometimes waste a lot of energy trying to guess or make their dudes tell them.

What are you really thinking? Not “nothing.” Tell me. TELL MEEEEEE!

Guys hate this. They cannot stand a woman poking at them to “talk about their feelings.” And yet, many of us suck at doing so. We know you’d leave us alone if we were better communicators, and yet we don’t know how to be.

And here’s a secret: a lot of the time we really are thinking nothing. I mean, not 100% black hole or anything, but do you really want us to say well, I was thinking that I needed to go home and do laundry or I was regretting eating that bean burrito last night.

Sometimes we’re embarrassed that we aren’t thinking something profound that we could proudly share with you, so we say nothing.

Hey, it’s better than lying and saying, oh baby, I was thinking about how much I utterly adore you.

C’mon. You don’t want us telling you what you think you want to hear, do you? Wouldn’t you rather we be honest, even if we have nothing of consequence on the brain?

And sometimes we’re thinking something that is going to piss you off. Truly.

The whole does my butt look fat thing? There’s no winning that one. So if we know what’s good for us, we’ll keep our big traps shut.

Still, you asked, so I’m going to tell you what men think about women…even if it pisses you off.

So now let’s look at what men think about women, but won’t say out loud.

1. Why is She So Emotional?

emotional woman

What men think about women is that they’re emotional.

You cry when the grandpa hugs the kid on the toilet paper commercial.

You rage like crazy when we forget to put the toilet seat down and you fall in at night.

You coo and talk baby talk to puppies.

It’s true; sometimes we just don’t get why you ladies are so emotional.

Adrianna Mendrek, the lead researcher on a study at the Université de Montréal, found that women were more emotionally reactive to negative images than men, due to their higher levels of estrogen.

Men, on the other hand, proved to have a lower sensitivity to negative imagery due to their testosterone.

So is it any wonder we get accused of being insensitive by you? It’s absolutely true! Don’t discount the role of hormones in the emotional reaction to things. You’ve got it and we don’t.

Men look at how women get emotional at something and wonder why because we can’t see ourselves getting emotional about it. You’re sobbing, watching Jack cling to the piece of wood or whatever Rose is on after the Titanic sinks, and we’re laughing at his blue lips.

Clearly, we are from different planets.

Now if a guy is smart, he will never ask you why you’re so emotional. Yes, some of us are dumb enough to ask are you on your period when you’re extra emotional.

I know, I know. Those guys are jerks. So insensitive.

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Just realize: you are like an alien to us. We are fascinated by what makes you tick (just like you are with us). We want to know what angers you and what makes you weep…mainly so we can avoid doing those things.

If you want to know what men think about women, it’s often what’s going through her head? What’s making her have that emotional reaction?

You can share with us why you’re so emotional, or keep us in the dark. Your choice.

2. Give Me a Hint That You Actually Like Me.

man flirting with woman

You may not give him signs that you like him.

Jared meets Missy at a party. They talk for 20 minutes or so, then suddenly Jared ends the conversation and walks away. Missy is left confused. She thought they’d hit it off. What gives?

When a woman is a little bit nervous or shy, men can mistakenly assume she’s not interested, even if her body language is saying she is.

Missy just didn’t know what to say or how to give Jared any hints that she was available, so he walked away too quickly. She might have thought that smiling and asking him questions was doing the trick, but he wanted more proof before he made himself vulnerable by asking her out.

Men like Jared are looking for that little piece of evidence that you are interested in them. Yes, we have delicate egos sometimes. We want to be 100% sure you are into us before we ask you out because the absolute worst thing we can possibly imagine is that you will reject us.

Him: Well, I really enjoyed our little conversation. Would you want to go out sometime?

You: Uh…I would…except I’m married.

So make sure you’re getting the message across. Touch him now and then on the arm or the chest. Compliment him. Laugh at his jokes. Find a way to let him know you’re available.

3. I Love You…But That Woman Over There is Also Pretty Cute.

wandering eye

If he looks at other women, don’t take offense.

Ug, I know how much you hate it when your guy looks at other women.

But please understand it does not mean he’s going to cheat on you…or break up with you…or sleep with her.

I’m going to once again pull out the evolution card. We men were designed to spread our seed far and wide. Monogamy changed that because now, instead of being cavemen having dozens of cavebabies with multiple women to populate this brave new world, we are boyfriends and husbands who remain with the same woman for years or even a lifetime.

We’re in relationships built on love and trust, not reproduction.

And yet…that deep impulse to spread our seed still exists somewhere.

Now, I’m not telling you that all men cheat because they don’t. What I am saying is that there’s a biological function happening when we see an attractive woman. We get a chemical high when presented with an appealing female. We are usually smart enough not to act on it (like she’d give us the time of day), but of course, if you catch us doing this, you will hit us with your purse.

When you understand what men think about women, you can see that we are simply appreciative of beauty. It could be in an art gallery. In nature. Or in a bar. Sorry. We don’t discern among types of works of art!

I have not met a single guy, regardless of age or relationship status, who can’t help but check out a beautiful woman. Don’t blame us… blame evolution! It doesn’t mean anything. It’s just a simple look and that’s all.

4. Dear God, Stop Complaining!

woman complaining

Guys don’t like it when you complain.

You: Jeez. My hair is so flat. I feel gross today. I just want to stay home in yoga pants.

Him: Gaaaa! You look fine. Amazing even. Stop complaining!

Please stop complaining about your looks. You are beautiful, and we’re with you because we are attracted to you. We all have days where we don’t feel 100% but sometimes, ladies, what men think about women is that they complain. All. The. Damn. Time.

Don’t be that person.

I realize that the media — and even social media — plays a huge effect and messes with your mind. It tells you that you’re not beautiful so that you will go out and spend a bunch of money on the products they’re trying to sell.

Fashion magazines make you feel fat (despite the fact that those models are Photoshopped to look skinny and perfect). Celebrities look flawless on the red carpet (despite you not knowing that they ate only cabbage and beet juice for a week before the event).

So we get that sometimes you don’t feel beautiful.

However, it can be very frustrating when we find you incredibly attractive, but you don’t see that in yourself. Remember: men love a confident lady, and moaning and groaning all the time does not make you seem confident at all.

So screw the media and anyone who makes you feel that you’re not beautiful enough, because you are! And accept our compliments! We don’t throw them around carelessly. If we tell you that you’re beautiful, say “thank you”, not “noooo, I’m hideous!”

5. Oh Baby, You Totally Want Me.

what men think about women

Men may think women want them more than they do.

A study conducted by the University of Texas at Austin found that men tend to over-perceive sexual interest from a woman. This goes back eons, and is because they don’t want to miss out on the opportunity to reproduce.

Think about it: if a guy is overconfident and makes his move — even if she’s not exactly giving off reciprocal vibes — he won’t miss out on the chance to mate. Now, he might not actually score, but if he didn’t try, he would never know, right?

So what does this mean for dating in the 21st century? Essentially, guys who go around assuming that all women want them will actually have more opportunities to get laid.

Yea, sounds a little douchey, but you know you’re attracted to that overconfident guy sometimes.

Women, on the other hand, have evolved to under-perceive sexual interest. Meaning, you don’t think most guys are into you when they really are.

When my girlfriend and I are walking down the street, I’ll tell her that a guy was checking her out. She never believes me! But I see the looks and I know. But she under-perceives what men think about women, and you probably do too.

The evolutionary reason that you probably don’t notice when a man is interested is that you don’t want to have sex with the wrong guy, risk getting pregnant and potentially raising a kid on your own. So you only pay attention to signs of sexual interest when it suits you, aka you’re into him as well.

So if you’re sick of men going around thinking they’re hot shit, then you can blame Darwinism and evolution 🙂

Conclusion: You Might Not Always Want to Know What Men Think About Women

Look, to be fair, there’s a ton of things that women think about men that you don’t want us to know. So don’t freak that what men think about women isn’t always butterflies and unicorns. We’re gross. We’re crass. We think what’s on our mind, even if we don’t always say it.

And you need to let that go, by the way. Let go of your desire to always know what’s on our minds. Because sometimes you won’t like it. And then you’ll be sad or mad, and we won’t know what to do about that. We tried to warn you!

Understand that men and women think about things and process emotions completely differently. And that’s okay. That’s what you like in a guy: the fact that he sees the world totally differently than you do. Let him have his perspective, and you keep yours.

Is there something else in what men think about women that you wonder about? Share in the comments below and I’ll do my best to address it.

Vronsky


  • #1

Hi there!
«What do you think why/what/when …?»
Is that a grammatically correct construction?

For example,

1) What do you think what’s the problem? / or 1.1) What do you think what the problem is?
2) What do you think why it’s so hot today?
3) What do you think who will win the game?​

Is it possible to change them like:
1) What do you think what’s the problem? -> 1.a) What, do you think, the problem is?
2) What do you think why it’s so hot today? -> 2.a) Why, do you think, it’s so hot today?
3) What do you think who will win the game? -> 3.a) Who, do you think, will win the game?

Thanks in advance!

  • Cagey

    post mod (English Only / Latin)


    • #2

    The doubled interrogatives are incorrect.

    1) What do you think what’s the problem? / or 1.1) What do you think what the problem is?
    etc.​

    Your second set of sentences (1.a, 2.a, 3.a) are fine. :)

    Vronsky


    • #3

    Thank you, Cagey!
    The doubled interrogative is only the sentence (1); the others (1.1), (2) and (3) are not, right?

    VicNicSor


    • #4

    Your second set of sentences (1.a, 2.a, 3.a) are fine. :)

    If we remove the commas, right?

    Anyway, I think if «what do you think» is separated with a comma, it would be correct as a doubled interrogative:
    What do you think, what’s the problem?
    What do you think, why is it so hot today?
    What do you think, who will win the game?
    In this case it would be something like an introductory question.

    Or the two parts of the question could be swapped:
    «What’s the problem, what do you think?»
    etc

    RM1(SS)


    • #5

    The doubled interrogative is only the sentence (1); the others (1.1), (2) and (3) are not, right?

    No. They all have two interrogatives.

    2PieRad


    • #6

    Hello

    For example,

    1) What do you think what’s the problem? / or 1.1) What do you think what the problem is?:cross:
    2) What do you think why it’s so hot today?:cross:
    3) What do you think who will win the game?:cross:

    What do you think the problem is?:tick:
    Why do you think it’s so hot today?:tick:
    Who do you think will win the game?:tick:

    Is it possible to change them like:
    1) What do you think what’s the problem? -> 1.a) What, do you think, the problem is?
    2) What do you think why it’s so hot today? -> 2.a) Why, do you think, it’s so hot today?
    3) What do you think who will win the game? -> 3.a) Who, do you think, will win the game?

    If we remove the commas, right?

    Correct :)

    Anyway, I think if «what do you think» is separated with a comma, it would be correct as a doubled interrogative:
    What do you think, what’s the problem?
    What do you think, why is it so hot today?
    What do you think, who will win the game?
    In this case it would be something like an introductory question.

    Or the two parts of the question could be swapped:
    «What’s the problem, what do you think?»
    etc

    I’m not a fan of what do you think, what’s the problem?
    If you really wanted to, I would flip it around and create two sentences: What’s the problem? What do you think?

    It’s still not as natural as just asking what do you think the problem is?

    Vronsky


    • #7

    Thank you very much!

    The question «Why do you think it’s so hot today?» can be ambiguous, can’t it?

    For example,
    1.

    Person A: «It’s so hot today.»
    Person B: «Why do you think it’s so hot?» = «Why do you think so? It’s not hot at all.»

    Or

    Person C: «Why do you think it’s so hot today?»
    Person D: «What makes you think I think so? I don’t think it’s hot today.»​

    2.

    «Why do you think it’s so hot today?» = «Why is it so hot? What do you think?​

    That is,
    1 — Why do you think so?
    2 — What is your opinion?

    Am I right?

    Last edited: Sep 15, 2016

    VicNicSor


    • #8

    Correct :)
    I’m not a fan of what do you think, what’s the problem?
    If you really wanted to, I would flip it around and create two sentences: What’s the problem? What do you think?

    It’s still not as natural as just asking what do you think the problem is?

    Thank you!
    But if we divide it into two short questions, don’t they look like two independent unrelated questions now?
    Maybe it would be better for a long statement (or question) to make it complete sentence and then add the question «what do you think?». What do you think?

    That is,
    1 — Why do you think so?
    2 — What is your opinion?

    Am I right?

    Yes. «Why do you think X?» can be ambiguous. But context usually makes it clear.
    However, it’s only true for «why». «Where/what/who/when do you think X?» are clear.

    2PieRad


    • #9

    Hello

    Thank you very much!

    The question «Why do you think it’s so hot today?» can be ambiguous, can’t it?

    For example,
    1.

    Person A: «It’s so hot today.»
    Person B: «Why do you think it’s so hot?» = «Why do you think so? It’s not hot at all.»

    Or

    Person C: «Why do you think it’s so hot today?»
    Person D: «What makes you think I think so? I don’t think it’s hot today.»​

    2.

    «Why do you think it’s so hot today?» = «Why is it so hot? What do you think?​

    That is,
    1 — Why do you think so?
    2 — What is your opinion?

    Am I right?

    I’m not sure I see the difference. To put it another way, what would the answer be in each situation? If there are different ways of answering the question, would the context help determine which answer you get?
    1) I think it’s hot because I’m sweating profusely and the thermometer reads 35 degrees.
    2) The source of the heat is the sun. Its thermal radiation reaches the Earth and heats up the land, the oceans, and the atmosphere, thus resulting in hot weather.

    I think the context will normally give you an answer like answer 1). If you wanted answer 2), you’d need to be talking about the scientific causes of weather, or it would be better to ask something like What causes hot weather? What do you think causes this hot weather?

    Did I interpret your question correctly?

    Thank you!
    But if we divide it into two short questions, don’t they look like two independent unrelated questions now?
    Maybe it would be better for a long statement (or question) to make it complete sentence and then add the question «what do you think?». What do you think?

    Yes. «Why do you think X?» can be ambiguous. But context usually makes it clear.
    However, it’s only true for «why». «Where/what/who/when do you think X?» are clear.

    Yeah, I think you’re right. This format gets less awkward the longer the question is. Who’s going to win the game? What do you think? isn’t wrong, but sounds so…unnecessary in most situations. Just running a couple of examples in my head, even with longer questions, I think I would still prefer the other format: Why do you think these two groups of people have been in conflict for centuries over their land, their resources, and their wealth, despite the fact that…………………………?

    You can use this format maybe if you were speaking to a group of people. For example, Who’s going to win the game? (pauses, points to Dan) Dan, what do you think?

    VicNicSor


    • #10

    Yeah, I think you’re right. This format gets less awkward the longer the question is. Who’s going to win the game? What do you think? isn’t wrong, but sounds so…unnecessary in most situations. Just running a couple of examples in my head, even with longer questions, I think I would still prefer the other format: Why do you think these two groups of people have been in conflict for centuries over their land, their resources, and their wealth, despite the fact that…………………………?

    You can use this format maybe if you were speaking to a group of people. For example, Who’s going to win the game? (pauses, points to Dan) Dan, what do you think?

    Thank you!

    what do you think about — перевод на русский

    What do you think about his tact?

    Что ты думаешь о такте нашего друга?

    Really, what do you think about Charles’ skin?

    Флоранс, честно, что ты думаешь о коже Шарля?

    -. What do you think about that, that kiss.

    …что ты думаешь о той, которую целуешь.

    What do you think about the fridge ?

    Что ты думаешь о холодильнике, Вилсдорф?

    What do you think about women?

    Что ты думаешь о женщинах?

    Показать ещё примеры для «что ты думаешь о»…

    What do you think about your Mum staying, eh?

    Что скажешь, если твоя мама останется здесь, а?

    What do you think about us two?

    Что скажешь, если мы присоединимся?

    What do you think about that, Paquita?

    Ну, что скажешь, Пакита?

    What do you think about not seeing anyone else but each other?

    Что скажешь на то, чтобы мы встречались только друг с другом?

    What do you think about us going on a real date?

    Что скажешь, если мы пойдем на настоящее свидание?

    Показать ещё примеры для «что скажешь»…

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