1. For indicates a recipient or beneficiary.
Pattern 1: noun + for + noun
I have a present for you.
Nouns often used before for:
answer, cure, gift, idea, job, message, letter, plan, present, project, question, suggestion, surprise, secret
Pattern 2: noun + for + ø noun
We have news for you.
Typical nouns before for:
advice, help, information, news, nothing, something
Pattern 3: verb + noun + for + noun
She sang a song for me.
He only wants the best for you.
Verbs often used before for:
bake, build, buy, care, cook, create, dance, design, do, get, make, perform, play, sing, want, win, work, write
2. For indicates a special purpose.
Pattern 1: noun + for + noun
You need a coat for winter.
He has a bicycle for transportation.
Pattern 2: noun + for + verb in gerund form
They have a special place for washing cars.
The doctor has a machine for measuring blood pressure.
Expression:
room for—enough space for something or somebody
We need room for twenty people for our party.
We don’t have room for a grand piano.
3. For can indicate the intended result of an action.
Pattern 1: verb + for + noun
The boys were screaming for help.
What are you looking for?
Verbs often used before for:
apply, ask, audition, beg, call, campaign, compete, cry, fight, go out, go, hope, long, look, petition, plead, pray, register, run, scream, send, shop, shout, stand in line, strive, study, train, try out, wait, whistle, wish, work, yell
Expression:
run for office—be a candidate in an election
After he ran for president and lost, he said he would never run for office again.
Pattern 2: verb + someone + for + noun
We nominated him for president of the club.
Typical verbs:
ask, need, nominate, send, train, want
Pattern 3: noun + for + noun
I hope they are developing a cure for the flu.
Do you have a good recipe for lemon pie?
Nouns often used before for:
cure, directions, idea, instructions, lesson, need, pattern, plan, program, project, recipe, system
Pattern 4: be + adjective of condition + for + noun
I am hungry for steak and french fries.
They are ready for the ball game.
Adjectives often used before for:
anxious, eager, greedy, hungry, impatient, prepared, ready, starved, thirsty
4. For can explain the reason of an action or fact.
Pattern 1: verb + for + noun
He apologized for his absence.
Pattern 2: verb + for + gerund form of verb
He apologized for arriving late.
Pattern 3: verb + someone + for + noun
They rewarded her for bravery.
They congratulated him for graduating.
Verbs often used before for:
book, chide, cite, compensate, congratulate, criticize, expel, fine, get, honor, pay, praise, punish, reimburse, reprimand, reward, scold, tease
Pattern 4: be + adjective + for + noun
She is famous for her great parties.
She is famous for giving great parties.
Adjectives often used before for:
famous, feared, known, notorious, popular, loved, well-known
5. For can indicate the expected benefit of an action.
Pattern: verb + for + noun
We play soccer for fun.
Typical nouns after for:
exercise, fun, happiness, kicks, money, peace, pleasure, practice, relaxation, security
6. For can indicate the effect of an adjective.
Pattern 1: be + adjective + for + noun
Calcium is good for your bones and teeth.
Adjectives often used before for:
accessible, available, bad, crucial, good, healthy, helpful, important, necessary, unhealthy, useful
Pattern 2: It + be + adjective + for + object + infinitive
It was hard for him to make good grades.
Adjectives often used before for:
bad, better, challenging, customary, crucial, good, helpful, important, impossible, necessary, possible, ridiculous, unimportant, unnecessary, unusual, usual, useful, useless, wasteful, worse
Pattern 3: be + (not) adjective + enough + for + noun
This apartment is good enough for me.
Pattern 4: be + too + adjective + for + noun
That course was too hard for him.
This apartment is too small for three people.
7. For can indicate the recipient of someone’s feelings.
Pattern: be + adjective + for + noun (person)
We are happy for her on her wedding day.
Why are you sorry for yourself?
Typical adjectives before for:
delighted, happy, pleased, sorry, thrilled
8. For can indicate activity or preparation on an occasion.
Pattern: verb + (noun) + for + noun
What do you want for your birthday?
What did you have for dinner?
Typical nouns after for:
one’s anniversary, birthday, graduation
breakfast, dinner, the holidays, lunch
9. For indicates a substitute.
Pattern 1: noun + for + noun
We had to use a newspaper for an umbrella.
I’m sorry, I mistook you for someone else.
Pattern 2: verb + for + noun
He taught the class for our teacher, who was sick.
Verbs often used with this meaning:
act, conduct, direct, drive, fill in, operate, manage, run, speak, stand in, substitute,
10. For can mean available.
Pattern: noun + for + noun
The house is for sale.
The pianos are for use by the students.
Nouns often used after for:
hire, practice, purchase, rent, sale, use
Expression:
up for grabs—available to many people
The chairmanship is up for grabs.
11. For can indicate a destination.
Pattern: verb + for + noun
We are leaving for Spain in two weeks.
Verbs used before for:
head, leave, plan, set out, start out, take off
12. For can indicate representation.
Red is for stop; yellow is for caution; green is for go.
M is for Mary.
13. For can indicate equality in an exchange.
Pattern 1: be + noun + for + noun
The bananas are two pounds for a dollar.
Pattern 2: verb + noun + for + noun
We bought three books for twenty-five dollars.
Typical verbs:
buy, do, exchange, hand over, make, rent, sell, take, trade, want
Pattern 3: verb + for + noun
He works for twenty dollars an hour.
Expression:
for free—without charge
for nothing—without charge
14. For can indicate amount.
Pattern: noun + for + noun
The mechanic sent them a bill for three hundred dollars.
Nouns often used before for:
bill, check, invoice, receipt, request
15. For can indicate length of time.
He was here for ten years.
Expressions:
for good—forever
He came to live in this country for good.
for life—until death
They sent him to prison for life.
16. For can indicate need on a future date.
She needs the musicians for Thursday afternoon.
17. For can mean despite.
Pattern: for + all + possessive pronoun + noun
For all her experience, she’s not a very good secretary.
Nouns often used with this meaning:
education, experience, expertise, knowledge, popularity, qualifications, training
18. For indicates the person or people responsible for an action.
Pattern: for + person + infinitive
Your final grade is for the teacher to decide.
That problem is for you to solve.
19. For can describe a sense or talent.
Pattern: have + noun + for + noun
He has an ear for music.
She has a touch for the piano.
Nouns often used before for:
aptitude, ear, eye, knack, rhythm, talent, touch, voice
Expressions with this meaning:
have a nose for gossip—often hear and spread news about others
have an eye for the girls—often admire pretty women
20. For can indicate an unusual fact.
Pattern 1: adjective + for + noun
That boy is tall for his age.
It’s warm for February.
Pattern 2: adverb + for + noun
She plays very well for a beginner.
21. For can indicate favor or support.
Pattern: verb + for + noun
We are for higher wages.
You have to stand up for your rights.
Verbs often used before for:
be, cheer, push, show respect, stand, stand up
Expression:
to have a preference for—to prefer
She has a preference for the other job.
22. For can mean because of.
We are thankful for your help.
She is grateful for her family.
For as a conjunction means because.
She went home early, for she was sick.
23. Expressions
for once—for the first time, showing exasperation
Would you please be at work on time for once!
once and for all—immediately and forever after
She decided to stop smoking once and for all.
word for word—reading or talking slowly, one word at a time
He read the letter to me word for word.
for the time being—meanwhile; until something happens to change the situation
We can’t do anything now, so for the time being we will act as usual.
for fear of—in order to avoid
He worked and saved for fear of being poor again.
for a change—as usual, sarcastically
It’s raining for a change.
be for the best—even though the situation is unpleasant, it may be good.
I was sad when she died, but it was for the best, because she was suffering a lot.
go for a drive/run/swim/walk—spend a short time doing that activity
We always go for a walk after lunch.
see for oneself—investigate personally
I couldn’t believe her, so I decided to see for myself.
for better or for worse—accepting all conditions, regardless of what happens in the future
He promised to stay with her forever, for better or for worse.
for naught—with no result
Our efforts were all for naught; we lost.
24. Phrasal verbs
go (in) for (nonseparable)—like a lot
The college girls really go for Latin dancing.
go out for (nonseparable)—audition or perform for selection
She went out for the softball team, but she didn’t make it.
care for (nonseparable)—love
She really cares for him.
care for (nonseparable)—want
She doesn’t care for more ice cream, thank you.
fall for (nonseparable)—innocently believe or trust
He falls for all of her tricks.
not stand for (nonseparable)—not allow
The teacher won’t stand for talking during a test.
stand up for (nonseparable)—support publicly
His best friend stood up for him through all his problems.
take for (separable)—consider as
Don’t take him for a fool; he is really quite smart.
Video Transcript
Section 1
Well hey there! I’m Emma from mmmEnglish! Welcome to my channel! Notice that I said, “Welcome to my channel“? Not “Welcome for my channel”
You’re probably here for learning English, right? To learn English, right? Man, those little words ‘to’ and ‘for’, they’re so tiny but when they’re used as prepositions in English sentences, grammar can get quite confusing! Can’t it? I’m sure that you’ve been confused by these words at some point. So in this lesson, I’ll go over them in a little detail so that you can feel more confident using them while you write, while you speak in English.
Prepositions, in general, are pretty easy to confuse. For some of you, part of the problem is that with these prepositions, you’re thinking about the way that you use them in your own language not how they’re used in English and it can be different. For example, Spanish and Portuguese speakers often use the preposition ‘en’ where in English we use both ‘on’ and ‘in’. Two separate words with very different uses in English. So part of the challenge when you’re learning is understanding how to use them separately in English and what the difference is, when to use one or the other.
Some languages don’t really rely on prepositions much at all. I mean sometimes English prepositions don’t have a lot of logic to them. They don’t always make sense. And for all of these reasons, English prepositions must be learned and practised in context with other words. So we won’t focus too much on each individual preposition in this lesson. We’ll look at words that they’re often used with.
And just before we get started, you might be interested in some of the other lessons that I’ve made about prepositions. My playlist’s up there. I’ve made lessons about in, on, at, by. Lots of other prepositions.
But back to these two prepositions we’re talking about today. Sometimes, using the wrong preposition doesn’t affect the meaning of your sentence too much. Native speakers will recognise the mistake, but they probably won’t correct you on it because they’ll still understand you. But with these two prepositions, they can often be used in place of each other and sometimes, the meaning completely changes.
So here’s what I’m going to do in this lesson. I’m going to talk about the uses of ‘to’. I’m going to talk about the uses of ‘for’. And then I’m going to talk about the times when you could use either ‘to’ or ‘for’. And that’s where things get a little confusing! Make sure you stick around until the end of the lesson because later on, I’m going to teach you some common word collocations using ‘to’ and ‘for’ so you can stop guessing which one you need to use and just know which is the right one.
And before we get started, make sure you subscribe to the channel just by clicking that red button down there so that you can keep up-to-date with what’s happening. Okay, let’s start!
When should you use the preposition ‘to’? So, you can use ‘to’ when there is some kind of movement from one place to another. Now keep in mind, this doesn’t only relate to physical movement and action. It could also relate to other types of movement. We can use ‘to’ when there’s some kind of transfer happening or something is being moved from one place to another – a destination. Something is being moved to somewhere or something. Right?
Do you usually take the bus to work?
So there’s movement, of course, in the direction to work. The destination is work. Now I’m going to give you a few other examples and I want you to pay attention to the destination or the direction being described in each one.
If you’re feeling sick, you should talk to a doctor.
Can you quickly run to the shops?
They invited us to their house for dinner.
Now if you’re talking about distance, you should also use ‘to’, since distance is the length or the time from one place to another – to a destination.
It’s only 6 kilometres from my house to the office.
Now we also use ‘to’ when we’re talking about time and the amount of time between two points in time. Of course, we use it when telling the time, right?
It’s a quarter to seven.
It’s five minutes to eight.
When we’re talking about one point in time to another point in time, we can also use ‘to’
The supermarket is open from 9am to 7pm.
I study English Monday to Thursday every week.
From this time to that time. So this is a period from this time to that time. That’s the direction, that’s the movement.
Now if there are two things and you’d like one of those things a little more than the other, you prefer it, right? You prefer one thing to the other.
I prefer chocolate ice cream to vanilla ice cream.
I like chocolate ice cream more than vanilla. It’s way better obviously! And I would rather have chocolate ice cream.
He prefers riding his bike to walking.
Do you prefer tea to coffee?
Not me! I love coffee!
Okay, what about you now? I want you to tell me about some of your preferences in the comments below. So make sure you’re comparing two things and that you’re using the preposition ‘to’.
I prefer summer to winter, for example. Add it to the comments. Now, we can also use ‘to’ to talk about the point where something finishes or ends. It’s the limit that you can’t go past.
During the flood, the water came up to my knees during the high season.
Okay I want to check you’ve been paying attention. Okay? Time for a quick quiz. What are the four different situations where we commonly see the preposition ‘to’ being used? The four situations that I just talked about. Write them in the comments. Quickly! You’ve got ten seconds!
- Direction or destination
- Time, the time between two points
- Preference
- And the limit or the endpoint of something.
Right? Nice! Let’s check out what ‘for’ is used for now. So we can talk about benefits using ‘for’. The positive effects or results of something. So we can use ‘for’. For example, one of the benefits of eating ginger is that it helps your immune system. So..
Ginger is great for your immune system!
Exercising every day is good for your health!
Right? That’s a benefit. We also use ‘for’ to talk about time. We use it when we’re doing something over a period of time. So when something has happened for a number of hours, days, weeks, months, years.. you get the idea, right? We do something for a duration, a period of time.
They’ve been living in the city for three years already.
How long have you been studying medicine for?
I’ve been waiting for twenty minutes already. Where are you?!
Wait a second. Notice how all of those examples are using the perfect tense? ‘For’ is often used when talking about time in this way. You can actually check the lesson that I made about the present perfect tense and using ‘for’ and ‘since’ right here. I’ll link to it at the end of this lesson as well so you can keep watching this one now.
If you do something to help someone out or do something nice, then you are doing something for them.
I baked a cake for my sister.
I need to collect the mail for my grandma.
Hey, can you grab those boxes for me?
You’ll see from these examples that this is an important one to know so that you can ask someone for a favour.
“Can you please do something for me?“
This is a helpful phrase, right? A helpful one to know. It’s a really common expression. Can you help me? Can you do something for me?
What’s this thing’s purpose? What’s its function? What’s it used for? Well it’s used for drinking and filling up with water. Remember that we use ‘for’ when we’re talking about a function or a use. We use the form ‘for’ plus verb -ing
What is it used for?
It’s used for drinking. It’s used for taking. It’s used for driving.
So notice how the verb -ing form is always following ‘for’. Okay things are about to get a little trickier during this lesson but before we do, I want to check that you’ve been paying attention again. We’re going to recap on the different uses of ‘for’. Can you remember them all? Write them down in the comments quickly. You’ve got ten seconds!
We talked about:
- The benefits
- The duration or a period of time
- We talked about helping someone
- And we talked about the function and the use of something, right?
So all of those situations were ones where you can use ‘to’ or ‘for. It’s not a complete list. There are some other uses as well but they are definitely the most common ones.
Now another very common use for these prepositions is one where both of them can be used, which is where things get a little trickier. You can use both ‘to’ and ‘for’ to talk about a reason or a motive. So that is to talk about why someone is doing something, for what reason are they doing it? But in this case, they are not interchangeable. You can’t use either one in the same way but luckily, luckily there are some simple rules to remember that will help you to use them correctly.
Use ‘to’ when the motive or the reason is a verb and use ‘for’ when the motive or a reason is a noun. Make sure you write that down, that’s a super tip! Let’s check it out.
Why is he studying English? He’s studying English to apply for a job.
‘apply’ is a verb so we use ‘to’.
He’s studying English for work.
Now ‘work’ here is a noun so we use ‘for’. So you’ve seen lots of common situations where we can use ‘to’ and ‘for’ but now let’s look at a few examples where you can use ‘to’ or ‘for’. Both of them can be used correctly but the meaning of each sentence changes so this is where you have to be a little careful, okay?
My assistant brought lunch to me.
Okay now remember, ‘to’ is used to talk about destination or direction, where there’s movement involved. So in this example, ‘lunch’ is coming to me. I’m the destination for lunch. My assistant physically carried the lunch and delivered it to me.
My boss brought lunch for me.
So remember, ‘for’ is used to do something nice for someone, right? Or to help someone with something. My boss brought it to me because he wanted to do something nice for me. Both of those sentences are grammatically correct but using ‘for’ or ‘to’ changes the meaning, right? So you’ve got to be careful!
I made a quick phone call to my mum.
So ‘to’ helps us to understand the direction of the action, the destination of my phone call. I called and my mum received my phone call.
I made a quick phone call for my mum.
I’m doing her a favour now, aren’t I? I’m helping her. I’m making a call to someone else because maybe my mum couldn’t call them or maybe she didn’t want to for some reason so I called that person for her to help her, right?
Now there’s a bunch of different situations where you can use ‘to’ and ‘for’, but really, trying to memorise all of those situations is a pretty difficult way to learn them. There are just too many and it becomes really difficult and confusing to try and remember them all.
Now, back at the start of this lesson, I said that learning to use prepositions in context is really important. It’s the best way to learn to use prepositions correctly in English. Learning common collocations is going to be really useful for you. Like I said, it’s best to learn prepositions with the verb or the noun that they’re commonly used with.
Have you heard of collocations before? It means when words are often together in a sentence. They appear often in that way and so you’ll often hear them together, they sound right. They sound natural. And if they’re used incorrectly, they kind of sound weird or wrong. So memorising or becoming familiar with collocations is a really good strategy to help you remember which preposition is the right one to use. So do you want some examples? Let’s talk about some now.
apologise + for (something)
apologise + to (someone)
So with this verb, ‘apologise’, both prepositions can be used but with different results. We can apologise for something, the action. Or we can apologise to someone, so that’s the person receiving the apology.
He’s calling to apologise for missing the meeting yesterday.
He should apologise to his boss for missing the meeting yesterday.
Okay? So you’re sorry for missing the meeting but you need to apologise to your boss. Your boss is the person that you need to apologise to. So try to remember these collocations next time you do something wrong, right? When you’ve messed up and you’ve made a mistake. Try testing them out. You apologise to someone or you apologise for something.
travel + to (somewhere
travel + for (purpose/time)
Now we also travel to somewhere, right?
We travel to Cube for the holidays!
Have you ever travelled to Europe?
Okay, we use ‘travel to‘ but we also use ‘travel for‘ when we’re talking about a purpose or even a time.
I’m travelling for three weeks.
I’m travelling for work.
For the purpose of work, right?
apply + for (something)
apply + to (person)
You apply for something, right?
I’m applying for a scholarship.
I’m applying for a new job.
But we can also apply to a person, okay?
ask + for (something)
We ask for something, right?
I’m asking for a new backpack for my birthday.
Ask for help if you don’t understand!
If you need it. Ask for help.
belong + to (someone/a group)
We use ‘belong to‘ when we’re talking about ownership or being part of something, right?
Do you know whose dog that belongs to?
That car that I smashed belongs to my dad’s company.
Notice that we don’t use ‘belong for‘, right?
care + for (something/someone)
We also care for something or someone.
I’ve taken time off work to care for my mum after her operation.
prepare + for (something
We prepare for something, right?
I need to prepare for my exam tomorrow!
Can you please help me prepare for dinner tonight? There’s a lot of people coming around.
wait + for (something/someone)
wait + to (do something)
Now we use ‘wait for’ something or someone, right? ‘Wait for‘ with a noun.
I’ve been waiting for the bus forever. It’s taking ages!
Can you please wait for me?
All right, we’re waiting for something but we can also wait to do something. Okay, we can ‘wait to buy‘, you know. So ‘wait to‘ is followed by a verb.
If you can learn and remember some of those collocations that we just talked about, they’re really common. They occur all the time. Well, then you’ll be so much closer to using the prepositions ‘to’ and ‘for’ like a total pro! Actually, why don’t you give that a go right now? Right now! Practice makes perfect, right? So in the comments, pick a few of those common collocations, the ones that we just talked about.
Maybe challenge yourself a little by picking the ones that you haven’t heard very much or you don’t use very much yourself. But write a few sentences in the comments below. I’ll be checking to see if you’ve got them right and give you some feedback if you need it okay?
Thanks for joining me today! Make sure you subscribe if you haven’t already and send me a little message down below and say hi. If you want to keep practising though, of course, you want to keep practising, right? Check out this lesson here or this one is the present perfect lesson that I mentioned earlier where I talk a bit more about using ‘for’ Okay? ‘for’ and ‘since’. I’ll see you in the next lesson!
OfUsed for belonging to, relating to, or connected with:
Used to indicate reference:
Used to indicate an amount or number:
ToUsed to indicate the place, person, or thing that someone or something moves toward, or the direction of something:
Used to indicate a limit or an ending point:
Used to indicate relationship:
Used to indicate a time or a period:
ForUsed to indicate the use of something:
Used to mean because of:
Used to indicate time or duration:
[Quiz 23.1] Choose the correct preposition in each sentence. 1)I slept (of, to, for) only two hours last night. |
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Look at these two sentences:
Can you bring some flowers for Mary?
Can you bring some flowers to Mary?
These sentences have different meanings. But maybe you can’t see why.
Some pairs of similar English words like “to” and “for” can be difficult for English learners.
In this post, I’ll explain the main differences between “to” and “for.”
Ready for it? Let’s go!
Contents
- How to Use “To” and “For” in English Sentences
- Using “To” vs. “For” to Talk About Reasons and Purposes
- Other Uses of the Word “To”
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- Use “to” when talking about movement or a change in direction
- Use “to” with English infinitive verbs
- Use “to” when comparing two things
- Other Uses of the Word “For”
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- Use “for” when expressing thanks or gratitude
- Use “for” when talking about a duration of time
- Use “for” when expressing support and agreement
- To vs. For: Test Your Understanding with a Simple Quiz
- More Resources for Practicing Using “To” and “For”
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How to Use “To” and “For” in English Sentences
“To” and “for” are commonly used as prepositions. Changing a preposition, such as using “to” in the place of “for,” can completely alter the meaning of a sentence.
Sometimes, if you use the wrong word, you’ll get a sentence that isn’t grammatically correct.
So, let’s begin by talking about one of the most common (and most confusing) uses of “to” and “for”:
Using “To” vs. “For” to Talk About Reasons and Purposes
We frequently use the prepositions “to” and “for” to talk about why somebody did something. Let’s look at a few examples.
Why did you travel to London?
I traveled to London to improve my English.
Why did she buy a cake?
She bought a cake for her brother’s birthday.
Why are you going home?
I’m going home to feed my cats.
Why did you go to the museum yesterday?
I went to the museum for a lecture on modern art.
In sentences like these, “to” and “for” mean the same thing, but they aren’t used in the same way.
For example, if you said, “I’m going home for feed my cats,” that would be incorrect. You need to use “to.”
So, how do you know when to use “to” and when to use “for”?
It might seem complicated, but the answer is actually very simple. Use “to” when the reason or purpose is a verb. Use “for” when the reason or purpose is a noun.
That’s all!
Let’s look at some more examples of “to” and “for” used side-by-side:
I bought a present to give to Sarah on her birthday. (verb)
I bought a present for Sarah’s birthday. (noun)
I drink coffee to feel more awake. (verb)
I drink coffee for its wonderful taste. (noun)
I’m exercising to stay healthy. (verb)
I’m exercising for my health. (noun)
Once you’ve learned that rule, using “to” and “for” becomes much easier. Now that you’ve mastered the hardest part, let’s look at some other uses of “to” and “for.”
Other Uses of the Word “To”
Here are some of the situations where we commonly use “to.”
Use “to” when talking about movement or a change in direction
“To” is used as a preposition if there’s movement, a transfer or a change in direction from one point to another.
For example,
I need you to take these books to Mary.
We are going to Paris next Tuesday.
In the first example, “to” is used to suggest a transfer of the books from “you” to “Mary.” In the next example, “to” indicates (shows) a change of place from the speaker’s location to Paris.
Use “to” with English infinitive verbs
Any English verb in the infinitive form will include the word “to.” You will frequently see this construction in English sentences.
For example,
Nina loves to talk on the phone.
When do you want to eat dinner?
We’re going to meet the Queen tomorrow!
Use “to” when comparing two things
“To” is often used in comparing two things and expressing one’s preferences (likes).
For example,
I prefer coffee to tea.
She prefers reading books to watching movies.
Other Uses of the Word “For”
Now it’s time to learn about the word “for.” “For” is used as both a preposition and conjunction, but it’s much more common as a preposition.
Let’s learn when to use it!
Use “for” when expressing thanks or gratitude
If you want to thank someone, you’ll usually use the word “for” to explain why you’re thanking them.
The word “for” will be followed by a noun or gerund (a verb that ends with “-ing”).
For example,
Thank you for teaching me to play the guitar.
Thanks so much for the new shoes!
Matthew thanked Brian for coming to his birthday party.
Use “for” when talking about a duration of time
“For” is also used to talk about a length of time during which something happened.
For example,
I waited at the station for two hours.
They have lived in Ohio for eight years.
We’ve known each other for a long time.
Use “for” when expressing support and agreement
“For” is used to indicate agreement with or support of a cause.
For example,
Are you for or against the women’s movement?
I’m all for increasing taxes.
To vs. For: Test Your Understanding with a Simple Quiz
Now it’s time for a short quiz to test your understanding of when to use “for” and “to.” Fill in the blanks with the right word and check with the answers that are given at the end of it.
- Jeet went ____ New York ____ see his favorite rock band perform live.
- I need to give my essay ____ the professor before 5:00.
- He lived in Paris ____ three years.
- I’m looking ____ a new job.
- Are you ____ or against the environmentalist movement?
- Thank you so much ____ your kind letter.
- I prefer Rohan ____ Ben.
- I want ____ eat pizza for dinner.
- His parents sacrificed so much ____ him.
- Will you please take these books ____ the library ____ me?
(Answers: 1. to/to, 2. to, 3. for 4. for, 5. for, 6. for, 7. to, 8. to, 9. for, 10. to/for)
More Resources for Practicing Using “To” and “For”
Learning grammar rules isn’t enough. To properly learn the differences between “to” and “for,” you need to practice. Below are some of the best resources.
Online quizzes and exercises are a quick and efficient way to learn English words. They help you check your English learning progress.
UsingEnglish has a short quiz of 10 questions for beginners, which also comes with a printable worksheet.
Autoenglish.org offers a slightly more difficult exercise. If you do well in it, you’ll never be confused between “to” and “for.”
Finally, both English Super Site and To Learn English have 15-question quizzes that cover a variety of situations where “for” and “to” are commonly used.
Another important way to get to know “to” and “for” is to hear them in use. Use the FluentU language learning program to see the words being used in native English videos like movie clips, interviews, inspirational talks, short cartoons and more.
Search for either word (or any English word) to see videos where it’s being used. FluentU’s contextual dictionary will also show you different examples for different meanings of each word. For example, you can see the word “for” being used to show duration (“for how long”), purpose (“for what reason”), direction of action (“for you”) and all other meanings of the word.
For each meaning, you can see example sentences and video clips from FluentU videos where the word appears naturally. Plus, you can use FluentU’s personalized quizzes to memorize different ways to use “to” and “for.” If you’re on the iOS or Android apps, you can even practice saying these words out loud in speaking questions.
Thanks to the context of all the videos and the detailed dictionary on FluentU, you’ll never confuse the two words again.
I hope the differences between “to” and “for” are clear to you now.
If you make mistakes, that’s completely okay. I made a lot of grammar mistakes when I first started out.
Mistakes are fine, as long as you learn from them. Just keep studying. Come up with your own examples and use the words in your daily conversations. Over time, practice will increase your confidence. Soon enough, you’ll become a fluent English speaker!
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