The most negative word

Four weeks ago, my husband Andrew messaged me.

I’ve tested positive.

He had flown into Singapore from New York two days before. But earlier that day, after feeling particularly fatigued (beyond usual jet lag levels), with a mild fever and occasional cough, we felt it best he get tested for COVID-19.

It’s now been 29 days and I have not seen him since.

While he was quite laid flat for a full week with a high fever, within eight days he had been transferred to one of Singapore’s infectious disease isolation facilities. There he has stayed, in a small room with another person, for the last three weeks. Every four days, he has been given a swab test to check whether his body is still shedding this wretched virus.

And every four days, he has waited 24 hours for the result.

Still testing positive, he has now messaged me multiple times, despite feeling better and stronger and relatively symptom free now for two weeks (though not yet back to full energy).

Singapore requires two negative tests, two consecutive days, to release coronavirus patients back into the community.

Since Singapore went into lock down on April 7th, the ‘community’ Andrew will come back to is not the one he left. We won’t be heading out for dinner to celebrate. Or even joining friends at our favorite bar at The American Club as it’s temporality closed down too.

He doesn’t care. He just wants to get home. To breath fresh air.

Which is why, I clicked my heels (metaphorically, since I’m barefoot a lot these days) and let out an almighty yahoo when I got this message early this morning:

They just came back to test me again. Seems I tested negative yesterday.

Alleluia!

Ever since the first day Andrew went into quarantine, I’ve been doing daily updates on my Facebook page. At the time, I assumed I’d be doing them for two weeks or so. I got that wrong.

But let’s face, we all got it wrong.

None of us imagined the surreal situation we’re currently in even just 6 weeks ago. Our lives locked down in the midst of one almighty war against an invisible enemy we didn’t see coming despite the clear warnings from Bill Gates back in 2015 or the World Health Organization’s in January.

Of course my experience of this pandemic is highly personal to me, and my family, as yours is to you. We are each experiencing it in our own way. Yet none of us is getting out of this without being impacted in some way. And all of us are developing a new relationship to the phrase, testing positive.

In “the good ‘ole days” (like a couple months back), testing positive was imbibed with positive outcomes.

Not now. Not today. Not for me, not for anyone.

In fact, I cannot think of a time in modern history (or any history) where there was such a united global mission toward one single outcome.

To have a world in which no one needed to live in fear of testing positive for this coronavirus (or any coronavirus!) which has, in lightening speed, upended our lives, our livelihoods, and our sense of security so profoundly.

This time tomorrow I will know whether Andrew has tested negative a second day running. If he has, he will return home, thirty days after he left it. And if he hasn’t, we will wait — as patiently as we can (which is testing in itself) for the ‘test takers’ to do their rounds again. Feel free to check-in with me on Facebook for the outcome.

I appreciate Andrew’s and my experience is quite different to anyone in the US, where only the most sick are admitted to hospital and none are kept there once they improve enough to go home. Despite the recent sharp increase in cases among Singapore’s migrant workers, living in crammed dormitories, Singapore’s response to this virus has been swift and comprehensive.

Yet I know that we are all all waiting, yearning, hoping, praying, as patiently as we can, for that day when we no longer have to fear testing positive.

Until then, as I wrote in this column, we must keep faith that good things can come from this difficult time, do our best to find good within it and be a source of good for others… however impatiently we wait.

Margie Warrell helps people & organizations lead with greater courage. Her latest book is You’ve Got This! The Life-Changing Power of Trusting Yourself

What is the most negative word in 2020?

The Most Negative Word In 2020 Is ‘Positive’

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How can I train my brain to be happy?

1. 6 Simple Ways to Train Your Brain for Happiness, According to Science.
2. Ask yourself if you’re thinking positive.
3. Memorize a list of happy words.
4. Use associations.
5. Practice gratitude.
6. Spend a few minutes each day writing about something that made you happy.
7. Celebrate your successes, even the small ones.

What is positive mindset?

Positive thinking, or an optimistic attitude, is the practice of focusing on the good in any given situation. It simply means you approach the good and the bad in life with the expectation that things will go well.

What is positive life?

A positive lifestyle means a positive attitude and taking positive action. It means focusing on solutions, not on problems. It means constantly improving yourself and your life. A positive lifestyle means a positive outlook and viewpoint, expecting the best, and striving to do the best you can.

What are some positive thoughts?

Here are some tips so you can start thinking of positive thoughts every day.

• Be Thankful You Woke up This Morning.
• You Don’t Have to Listen to Haters.
• Don’t Compare Yourself to Others.
• You Must Take a Chance.
• Accept That Things End.
• Don’t Judge Others.
• Don’t do Things for Others That Make You Unhappy.
• Don’t Like Your Job?

What means positive?

In the simplest sense, positive means good — or the opposite of negative. If you have a positive attitude about homework, for example, you’re more likely to get positive feedback on your report card.

What is another word for being positive?

What is another word for positive?

constructive	encouraging
enthusiastic	good
helpful	reassuring
valuable	affirmative
approving	bright

What is positive attitude in simple words?

Having a positive attitude means being optimistic about situations, interactions, and yourself. People with positive attitudes remain hopeful and see the best even in difficult situations.

What mean positive and negative?

The difference between Negative and Positive. When used as nouns, negative means refusal or withholding of assents, whereas positive means a thing capable of being affirmed. When used as adjectives, negative means not positive or neutral, whereas positive means not negative or neutral.

The Most Negative Word In 2020 Is ‘Positive’

Are there rules for prefixes?

A prefix is usually added directly to the base word, but there are several cases where a hyphen is needed. Rule 1: Hyphenate the word when you add a prefix to a proper noun or a numeral. Rule 2: Hyphenate the word when you add the prefix ex meaning former. Rule 3: Hyphenate after the prefix self.

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Any doesn’t have a negative meaning on its own. It must be used with a negative word to mean the same as no. There aren’t any biscuits left..

Why are double negatives bad?

Double negatives are two negative words used in the same sentence. Using two negatives usually turns the thought or sentence into a positive one. Double negatives are generally discouraged in English because they are considered to be poor grammar and they can be confusing.

Do any or does any?

“Do any of you” is much more comfortable and much more usual than “does any of you.” “Any” refers to an indefinite number or amount, including “one.” So, if a person asks, “Do any of you know….” h/she may be thinking about the possibility of more than one response.

Which is correct anyone has or anyone have?

Although “anybody” is in the third person singular, and hence the correct verb form used with it must contain an “s” (as in “anybody who has read the book …”), “have” in the situation described above is the only “correct” option. Why?

Has anyone of you or have anyone of you?

The correct form should be ‘have any of you’ as you is in plural form. ‘Any one of you’ is different. Any one, meaning ‘any single (person or thing),’ is written as two words to emphasize singularity: any one of us could do the job; not more than ten new members are chosen in any one year.

Which is correct each is or each are?

the correct answer to the question, “each of you is or each of you are”, is each of you are, because the people in question are more than one person so in this case ” is”is used for singular ( one person or thing) while “are” is for plural ( two or more persons).

Do you use is or are with either?

If the pairings “either/or” (often the “either” is omitted) or “neither/nor” form part of the subject of a verb and both elements are singular, then the verb is singular too. For example: Neither Mark nor Dawn is at the function. (As “Mark” is singular and “Dawn” is singular, then “is” is correct.

Can we use each and every together?

Although both words refer to something that is singular, each refers to an individual object or person, while the term every refers to a group of objects or people lumped together as one. For example, consider the following sentences: Here’s a tip: Want to make sure your writing always looks great?

Is it correct to say each and everyone?

Everyone (one word) should be used when referring to all the people within a group. A good way to remember this is to note that the pronoun everyone may be replaced by everybody. Every one (two words) should be used when referring to each individual member of a group. …

How do you teach each and every?

1. Each is more usual for a small number:
2. Every is more usual for a large number:
3. Each (but not every) can be used for two things:
4. B/ Compare the structures we use with each and every:

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Words can change the course of your day and your attitude. Negative words can do damage to your self-esteem and cause you to lose hope for the future. By removing these words from your vocabulary, you’ll notice an improvement in your life and overall well-being.

The words you say can influence your thoughts and actions, contributing to your success in life. As the words affect you, they also affect your relationships, career prospects, and all other areas of your life. While you might not think the things you say matter, they’re impactful even if no one else hears you.

Negative words lead to negative energy within, attracting more negativity. If you can remove these words from your vocabulary, you can replace them with positivity. Once you find new phrases, you’ll have positive energy, attracting other positive people and things into your life.

Remove These Twenty Negative Words from Your Vocabulary

If you currently aren’t seeing the results that you want, consider the things that you say. Changing the words that you use can lead to transforming your life. By eliminating negative words from your vocabulary, you can begin attracting the results you want.

The Most Important 5 Negative Words

1. Bad

When you use the word bad, it’s an unspecific description. Most of the time, nothing is bad because that mindset is debatable. Plus, many times, when you feel like someone or something is bad, you are basing that off of resentment or other negative feelings.

If you can remove this and other negative words from your vocabulary, you’ll begin to see things as they are. You’ll find better ways to describe and deal with your feelings, opening up more opportunities and ideas. Best of all, you won’t experience the negativity that comes from using this word.

2. Problem

Describing something or someone as a problem causes feelings of stress. When there is a problem, you must find a solution, so your mind associates it with negativity. This thought process blocks your creativity and critical thinking skills.

3. Hate

This word is one of the most negative words you can use as it encourages aggression and violence. The term ‘hate’ and the negative feelings associated with it disrupt your peace and steal your joy. Using the word even one time can cause issues, and using it frequently can cause constant unhappiness.

Rather than use the word hate, try to focus on acceptance instead. Accept that you can’t change the situation, and then move on without anger or resentment.

4. Ugly

Using the word ugly, especially when describing yourself, is one of the worst things you can say. Even if you have pimples or blemishes on your face, avoid using this negative word. Saying the word ugly can prevent you from finding happiness, and it’ll ruin your self-esteem.

5. If

The word if hints at uncertainty, causing you to sabotage your self-confidence. Using the word ‘if’ implies that you won’t reach success and meet your goals. Try using the word ‘when’ in place of ‘if,’ so remind yourself that you will achieve what you set out to do.

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6. Why Me?

These words will keep you stuck in a victim mentality cycle. This cycle prevents you from resolving the situation because you’re focusing on the negative aspects. While you might not have planned for this situation, you can get yourself out of it by avoiding these words.

7. Should

Don’t tell people what they should or shouldn’t do because it implies that the other person can’t make decisions. They might feel disrespected, or they might avoid making decisions for themselves.

When you use the word ‘should’ toward yourself, it causes negativity to set it. You might experience feelings of frustration, guilt, or regret about your life. Try using the word ‘choose’ or ‘could’ instead.

8. Incompetent

The word incompetent implies you or someone else can’t do something. Eliminating this word from your vocabulary is beneficial because it helps you recognize that everyone has a different skill set. Someone might be good at one thing but not another, and the opposite can be true for someone else.

Everyone is good at different things, so the word incompetent is detrimental and inaccurate. Rather than say the word incompetent, try encouraging the person to focus on things they’re good at instead.

9. Can’t

Using the word ‘can’t’ can lead to failing at a task you could have done otherwise. When you say that you can’t do something, you won’t be able to do it. However, if you say that you can do something, you’ll get it done.

Your mind believes the words you say, so make sure you speak positively about your abilities. Saying that you can’t do something will only hold you back from reaching your dreams. It causes self-doubt and defeat.

If someone asks you to do something and you don’t want to, you should still avoid saying that you can’t do it. Instead, say that you choose not to because it reaffirms that you have control over your life.

10. Life Isn’t Fair

While these words might seem true sometimes, you should avoid saying them. When you use this phrase, you’ll focus on the negative aspects of your life. Eliminating it from your vocabulary can help you focus on positivity instead.

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11. Don’t

When you use the word ‘don’t,’ your brain misses that part of the statement. So, if you say you don’t want to do something, your mind perceives it as something you want to do. Rather than think or talk about what you don’t want to do, focus on the things you want.

12. I’ll Try

Saying that you’ll try might sound like a great phrase, but it’s not. When you say you’ll try, you’re only permitting yourself to quit at the first sign of a struggle. Saying ‘I’ll try’ will make each obstacle seem much worse than it is, and you won’t want to find a solution.

Instead, make a definite choice to do something or not to do it. If you do this, you have a better chance of accomplishing your goal and using less negative words like this.

13. Impossible

Saying impossible sets the tone that you can’t do something. Each time you say it, your mind begins to think you can’t get it done. As long as the goal is possible, avoid using ‘impossible’ to describe it.

If the word impossible comes to mind, replace it with the word difficult. Remind yourself that you can do hard things and that anything is possible if you set your mind to it.

14. Useless

Describing someone or something, especially yourself, as useless is displaying negative words directly. If you feel like you aren’t doing enough, it could simply indicate that you haven’t found your purpose yet. No matter what you’re going through, you’re valuable, and so is every other human.

If you’re calling other people useless, remember that it’s a degrading insult. It could make people not want to be around you, as it’ll cause you to radiate negativity and the negative words that go with it.

15. Just

The word ‘just’ minimizes your efforts and who you are as a person. Don’t use this negative word, especially when you’re describing yourself or your achievements.

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16. Someday

Someday isn’t a day that you can find on the calendar, so avoid using the word. The word ‘someday’ is a way to lie about your level of commitment, and it indicates a lack of belief. It also lowers your sense of worth. Avoid negative words like someday at all costs.

17. But

The word ‘but’ is a way to rationalize your excuses and procrastination. Don’t talk yourself out of anything by using this negative word. Own up to the things you didn’t get done instead so that you can adjust it and move on.

18. Boring

There are many words you can use in place of ‘boring.’ Rather than complaining by saying something is boring, use that time as a chance to relax. Complaining that you’re bored only breeds negative thoughts when you could be using that time for yourself to create less negative words.

19. I Have To

Saying “I have to” implies that you have no choice or control over your life. Negative sayings place you into the role of a victim as you give into restrictions. Instead, say “I get to” when you have something going on.

20. If Only

Using the words ‘if only’ is an excuse to not go after what you want in life. It hides your abilities and forces you to stay in your comfort zone all of the time. You have a purpose in life, so avoid using this term along with other negative words, and you’ll find that more positive things happen for you.

Final Thoughts on Negative Words to Eliminate from Your Vocabulary

Your words are more powerful than you realize. They can make all the difference in your mindset and abilities moving forward. Your words are your choice, so make sure you eliminate these negative words from your vocabulary.

Once you remove the negative words, you’ll notice that you become a more positive person. As you begin to radiate positivity, you’ll attract good things and people into your life. If you’re guilty of using any of these words, start working to make a change right away.