The meaning of the word bitch

Bitch ( bich)^[1] is a pejorative slang word for a person, usually a woman. When applied to a woman or girl, it means someone who is belligerent, unreasonable, malicious, controlling, aggressive, or dominant.^[2] When applied to a man or boy, bitch reverses its meaning and is a derogatory term for being subordinate, weak, or cowardly.^{[citation needed]}

The term bitch is one of the most common curse words in the English language. It has been used as a «term of contempt towards women» for «over six centuries»,^[3] and is a slur that fosters sexism against women.^[4] It has been characterized as «an archaic word demeaning women since as early as the 15th century» that seeks to control women.^[5] The word is considered taboo in mainstream media, and euphemisms such as «the B-word» are used to minimize its negative impact.^[6]

The term bitch literally means a female dog. Its original use as a vulgarism carried a meaning suggesting high sexual desire in a woman, comparable to a dog in heat.^[2] The range of meanings has expanded in modern usage (such as when applied to a man). In a feminist context, it can indicate a strong or assertive woman and has therefore been reappropriated by some women.^[7]

History

According to the Oxford English Dictionary, the term bitch comes from the Old English word bicce or bicge, meaning «female dog», which dates to around 1000 CE. It may have derived from the earlier Old Norse word bikkja, also meaning «female dog».^[8][9]

«Dog» has long been used as an insult toward both women and men. In ancient Greece, dog was often used in a derogatory sense to refer to someone whose behavior was improper or transgressive. This could include shamelessness or lack of restraint, lack of hospitality, lack of loyalty, and indiscriminate or excessive violence, among other qualities.^[10] Over time, classicist C. Franco argues, a «persistent symbolic connection» developed between dogs and women in Greek literature that expressed and reinforced women’s subordinate position in society and their supposedly inferior nature.^[10]

There may also be a connection between less literal senses of «bitch» and the Greek goddess Artemis. As she is the goddess of the hunt, she was often portrayed with a pack of hunting dogs and sometimes transformed into an animal herself.^[11] She was seen as free, vigorous, cold, impetuous, unsympathetic, wild, and beautiful.^[12]

The earliest use of «bitch» specifically as a derogatory term for women dates to the fifteenth century.^[8][9] Its earliest slang meaning mainly referred to sexual behavior, according to the English language historian Geoffrey Hughes:^[13]

The early applications were to a promiscuous or sensual woman, a metaphorical extension of the behavior of a bitch in heat. Herein lies the original point of the powerful insult son of a bitch, found as biche sone ca. 1330 in Arthur and Merlin … while in a spirited exchange in the Chester Play (ca. 1400) a character demands: «Whom callest thou queine, skabde bitch?» («Who are you calling a whore, you miserable bitch?»).

Bitch remained a strong insult through the nineteenth century. The entry in Francis Grose’s Dictionary of the Vulgar Tongue (1785) reads:

A she dog, or doggess; the most offensive appellation
that can be given to an English woman, even more
provoking than that of whore, as may be gathered from the
regular Billinsgate or St Giles answer–»I may be a
whore, but can’t be a bitch.»^[14]

Throughout the word’s evolution into the nineteenth century, it became gradually less offensive. The Oxford English Dictionary in the nineteenth century described the insult as «strictly a lewd or sensual woman».^[15] The word went through many similar phases throughout history. It was not until the 20th century that feminism began to reevaluate the term and its appropriation.^[16]

In the 1920s, bitch became once again a common insult used against women. The term bitch became more popular in common language during this era. Between 1915 and 1930, the use of «bitch» in newspapers and literature more than doubled.^[17] The writing of Ernest Hemingway popularized the more modern meaning of «bitch» in this era. He used it to represent favorable qualities such as ferocity, edginess, and grit.^[18] It was during this time that women began gaining more freedom (such as the right to vote through the Nineteenth Amendment).^[19] The word «bitch» during the twenties meant «malicious or consciously attempting to harm», «difficult, annoying, or interfering», and «sexually brazen or overly vulgar».^[20]

According to Dr. Timothy Jay, there are «over 70 different taboo words», but 80 percent of the time only ten words are used, and bitch is included in that set.^[21] Being called the term bitch has been associated with worsening the mental health of women.^[22]

Modern use

In modern usage, the slang term bitch has different meanings depending largely on social context and may vary from very offensive to endearing,^[9] and as with many slang terms, its meaning and nuances can vary depending on the region in which it is used.

The term bitch can refer to a person or thing that is very difficult, as in «Life’s a bitch» or «He sure got the bitch end of that deal». It is common for insults to lose intensity as their meaning broadens («bastard» is another example).^[13] In the film The Women (1939), Joan Crawford could only allude to the word: «And by the way, there’s a name for you ladies, but it isn’t used in high society — outside of a kennel.» At the time, use of the actual word would have been censored by the Hays Office. By 1974, Elton John had a hit single (#4 in the U.S. and #14 in the U.K.) with «The Bitch Is Back», in which he says «bitch» repeatedly. It was, however, censored by some radio stations.^[23] On late night U.S. television, the character Emily Litella (1976-1978) on Saturday Night Live (portrayed by Gilda Radner) would frequently refer to Jane Curtin under her breath at the end of their Weekend Update routine in this way: «Oh! Never mind…! Bitch!»

Bitchin’ arose in the 1950s to describe something found to be cool or rad.^[24]

Modern use can include self-description, often as an unfairly difficult person. For example, in the New York Times bestseller The Bitch in the House, a woman describes her marriage: «I’m fine all day at work, but as soon as I get home, I’m a horror….I’m the bitch in the house.»^[25] Boy George admitted «I was being a bitch» in a falling out with Elton John.^[26]

Generally, the term bitch is still considered offensive, and not accepted in formal situations. According to linguist Deborah Tannen, «Bitch is the most contemptible thing you can say about a woman. Save perhaps the four-letter C word.»^[27]
It’s common for the word to be censored on Prime time TV, often rendered as «the b-word». During the 2008 U.S. presidential campaign, a John McCain supporter referred to Hillary Clinton by asking, «How do we beat the bitch?» The event was reported in censored format:^[28]

On CNN’s «The Situation Room,» Washington Post media critic and CNN «Reliable Sources» host Howard Kurtz observed that «Senator McCain did not embrace the ‘b’ word that this woman in the audience used.» ABC reporter Kate Snow adopted the same locution. On CNN’s «Out in the Open,» Rick Sanchez characterized the word without using it by saying, «Last night, we showed you a clip of one of his supporters calling Hillary Clinton the b-word that rhymes with witch.» A local Fox 25 news reporter made the same move when he rhymed the unspoken word with rich.

A study reported that, when used on social media, bitch «aims to promote traditional, cultural beliefs about femininity».^[29] Used hundreds of thousands of times per day on such platforms, it is associated with sexist harassment, «victimizing targets», and «shaming» victims who do not abide by degrading notions about femininity.^[29]

Reappropriation

In the context of modern feminism, bitch has varied reappropriated meanings that may connote a strong female (anti-stereotype of weak submissive woman), cunning (equal to males in mental guile), or else it may be used as a tongue-in cheek backhanded compliment for someone who has excelled in an achievement.^[7][31][32] For example, Bitch magazine describes itself as a «feminist response to pop culture».^[33]

Feminist attorney Jo Freeman (Joreen) authored «The BITCH Manifesto» in 1968:^[34][35]

A Bitch takes shit from no one. You may not like her, but you cannot ignore her….[Bitches] have loud voices and often use them. Bitches are not pretty….Bitches seek their identity strictly thru themselves and what they do. They are subjects, not objects…Often they do dominate other people when roles are not available to them which more creatively sublimate their energies and utilize their capabilities. More often they are accused of domineering when doing what would be considered natural by a man.

Bitch has also been reappropriated by hip-hop culture, rappers use the adjective «bad bitch» to refer to an independent, confident, attractive woman. The term is used in a complimentary way, meaning the woman is desirable. One of the first instances of «bitch» being used in this way is in the song «Da Baddest Bitch» by Trina, released in 1999.^[36] This can also be seen throughout multiple different songs from Rihanna’s song entitled «Bad Bitch» featuring Beyoncé which reiterates the line «I’m a bad bitch»^[37] multiple times. Nicki Minaj is another female rap icon who uses the term in her song «Starships» where she says “bad bitches like me is hard to come by”.^[38] This use of the word bitch shows women reappropriating the meaning to be a more positive and empowering word for women.

The increased usage of the word bitch casually or in a friendly way by women has been characterized by Sherryl Kleynman as a result of the absorption of sexist culture by women.^[2] Such usage has been cited by Kleinman et al. as increasing the perception the word is acceptable and excusing men who use it against women.^[39]

Pop culture

In pop culture, the use of the term bitch has increased through media such as television, movies, magazines, social media, etc. The use of the word «bitch» on television shows tripled between 1998 and 2007, which had much to do with the word’s feminist facelift in the previous decade.^[36]

In a 2006 interview titled «Pop Goes the Feminist», Bitch magazine co-founder Andi Zeisler explained the naming of the magazine:^[7]

When we chose the name, we were thinking, well, it would be great to reclaim the word «bitch» for strong, outspoken women, much the same way that «queer» has been reclaimed by the gay community. That was very much on our minds, the positive power of language reclamation.

Pop culture contains a number of slogans of self-identification based on bitch. For example,

• «You call me ‘Bitch’ like it’s a bad thing.»
• «I go zero to bitch in 3.5 seconds.»

There are several backronyms. Heartless Bitches International is a club with the slogan «Because we know BITCH means: Being In Total Control, Honey!» Other imagined acronyms include

• «Beautiful Intelligent Talented Creative Honest»
• «Beautiful Individual That Causes Hardons»^[40]
• «Babe In Total Control of Herself».^[41]

As stated in Scallen’s Bitch Thesis, «As Asim demonstrates with his discussion of the appropriation of the N word by black communities, the term bitch is deployed in pop culture in multiple ways (with multiple meanings) at the same time.»^[42] Derogatory terms are constantly appropriated. Many women, such as Nicki Minaj, refer to themselves as bitches. By calling oneself a bitch in today’s culture, these women are referencing their success, money, sexuality, and power. Asha Layne’s article Now That’s a Bad Bitch!: The State of Women in Hip-Hop, «The change in the meaning of the word thus subverts the tools of oppression used to dominate women to now empower them.»^[43]

Hip hop culture

One early rapper to use the word bitch on record was Duke Bootee on his classic 1983 song with Grandmaster Flash, New York New York. («He says he ain’t gonna pay no child support / because the bitch left him without a second thought.») However, it is sometimes claimed that Slick Rick’s «La Di Da Di» (1985) was the first rap song to use the term.^[44] Since the late 1980s, the word bitch has been frequently used among hip-hop artists and followers of the culture, which can be said as «bee-otch», spelled like Biotch, Beyotch, Beotch, etc.^[45] One of the first artists to popularize the pronunciation as beeatch or biatch as a refrain in the late 1980s was Oakland-based rapper Too $hort.

Reaching back to the dozens and dirty blues, early rappers like Slick Rick established the bitch as a character: a woman, often treacherous, but sometimes simply déclassé.^[46] Adams and Fuller (2006) state that, in misogynistic rap, a bitch is a «money-hungry, scandalous, manipulating, and demanding woman».^[45] However, the word bitch is also frequently used (by male rappers) towards other men in rap lyrics, usually to describe a man who is a subordinate or homosexual, or a man who is supposedly unmanly or inferior in some way.^[47] An example of this is the song Bitches 2 by Ice-T, which gives an example of a male «bitch» in each verse.

Some female hip hop artists have challenged male rappers’ use of the word bitch to refer to women, with Queen Latifah asking in her 1993 song «U.N.I.T.Y.»: «Who you callin’ a bitch?»^[48][49] Other female rappers from the same era frequently used the term to refer to themselves and/or others, notably Roxanne Shante (who even made a 1992 album entitled The Bitch Is Back) and MC Lyte. Popular culture has inspired women to redefine the word bitch as a euphemism for «Strong black woman».

In 2016, Kanye West released his seventh studio album called The Life of Pablo. On the song called «Famous» West raps, «I feel like me and Taylor might still have sex / Why? I made that bitch famous.» This sparked a controversy with Taylor Swift as she «cautioned him about releasing a song with such a strong misogynistic message.»^[50] In response to Swift’s remarks, West went on Twitter and posted a tweet which said how the word «bitch» is an endearing term in hip hop like the word «nigga».

In reference to men

When used to describe a male, bitch may also confer the meaning of subordinate, especially to another male, as in prison. Generally, this term is used to indicate that the person is acting outside the confines of their gender roles, such as when women are assertive or aggressive, or when men are passive or servile. According to James Coyne from the Department of Psychology at the University of California, «‘Bitch’ serves the social function of isolating and discrediting a class of people who do not conform to the socially accepted patterns of behavior.»^[51]

In the context of prison sexuality, a bitch is a lower-hierarchy prisoner, typically physically weak or vulnerable, who is dominated by more senior prisoners and forced to adopt a servile role. According to convention, these inmates are used as sexual slaves or traded as personal property.^{[citation needed]}

A «prison bitch» can also refer to any subservient entity, as in the Douglas Rushkoff description of a Microsoft — Yahoo partnership: «Yahoo is merely hooking up with the most alpha male company it can still find in order to survive. Microsoft will soon turn Yahoo into its prison bitch, and this won’t be pretty.»^[52]

Idioms

Son of a bitch

The first known appearance of «son-of-a-bitch» in a work of American fiction is Seventy-Six (1823), a historical fiction novel set during the American Revolutionary War by eccentric writer and critic John Neal.^[53][54] The protagonist, Jonathan Oadley, recounts a battle scene in which he is mounted on a horse: «I wheeled, made a dead set at the son-of-a-bitch in my rear, unhorsed him, and actually broke through the line.»^[55]

The term’s use as an insult is as old as that of bitch. Euphemistic terms are often substituted, such as gun in the phrase «son of a gun» as opposed to «son of a bitch», or «s.o.b.» for the same phrase. Like bitch, the severity of the insult has diminished. Roy Blount Jr. in 2008 extolled the virtues of «son of a bitch» (particularly in comparison to «asshole») in common speech and deed.^[56] Son of a bitch can also be used as a «how about that» reaction, or as a reaction to excruciating pain.

In politics the phrase «Yes, he is a son of a bitch, but he is our son of a bitch» has been attributed, probably apocryphally, to various U.S. presidents from Franklin Roosevelt to Richard Nixon.^[57] Immediately after the detonation of the first atomic bomb in Alamogordo, New Mexico, in July 1945 (the device codenamed Gadget), the Manhattan Project scientist who served as the director of the test, Kenneth Tompkins Bainbridge, exclaimed to Robert Oppenheimer «Now we’re all sons-of-bitches.»^[58]

In January 2022, U.S. president Joe Biden was recorded on a hot mic responding to Fox News correspondent Peter Doocy asking, «Do you think inflation is a political liability ahead of the midterms?» Biden responded sarcastically, saying, «It’s a great asset — more inflation. What a stupid son of a bitch.»^[59]

The 19th-century British racehorse Filho da Puta took its name from «Son of a Bitch» in Portuguese.

The Curtiss SB2C, a World War II U.S. Navy dive bomber, was called «Son-of-a-Bitch 2nd Class» by some of its pilots and crewmen.

In cards

To have the «bitch end» of a hand in poker is to have the weaker version of the same hand as another player. This situation occurs especially in poker games with community cards. For example, to have a lower straight than one’s opponent is to have the bitch end.^{[citation needed]}

The bitch is slang for the queen of spades.^[60]

Other forms

When used as a verb, to bitch means to complain. Usage in this context is almost always pejorative in intent.^[1]
As an adjective, the term sometimes has a meaning opposite its usual connotations. Something that is bitching (the bitch) is really great. For example, an admired motorcycle may be praised as a «bitchin’ bike».^[61]

See also

• Basic bitches
• «Bitch» (Law & Order)
• Bitch magazine
• «Bitch» (Meredith Brooks song)
• Bottom bitch
• Third-wave feminism § Reclaiming derogatory terms

References

Further reading

• Why Women Who Succeed Are Called Bitch by Leonard Pitts, Miami Herald, November 2007.
• Bitch: In Praise of Difficult Women by Elizabeth Wurtzel
• The B-Word? You Betcha., The Washington Post
• Hughes, Geoffrey. Encyclopedia of Swearing : The Social History of Oaths, Profanity, Foul Language, and Ethnic Slurs in the English-Speaking World. Armonk, N.Y.: M.E. Sharpe, 2006.
• The Bitch in the House: 26 Women Tell the Truth about Sex, Solitude, Work, Motherhood, and Marriage, Cathy Hanaeur, ed., reviews in the Atlantic (magazine) by Sandra Tsing Loh

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The word bitch might seem innocent if it is used in certain contexts, but this word of the day can be very offensive. 

Below, we will teach you all about how the word bitch can be used in offensive and non-offensive ways. To ensure you don’t anger or offend anyone, read on to learn about the correct usage of the word bitch. 

What Does Bitch Mean?

The pronunciation of bitch is bɪtʃ.

According to the Dictionary, the word bitch has a few different potential meanings, many of which are offensive slang terms. 

A Female Dog

First, the term bitch can refer to a female dog. In the dog breeding industry, a breeder might refer to a female canine as a bitch. 

A Lewd Woman

More often, the term bitch is used as a slang term for a lewd woman or shrew. 

This term is considered very mean and offensive. Never call someone a bitch unless you are prepared for the consequences. Never use this term in a formal or professional setting.

Complaining

The slang word bitch can also be used as a verb for complaining or moaning. 

What About Bitchin’?

Funnily enough, people sometimes use the adjective “bitchin” to describe something good. 

As a rule of thumb, try to avoid all forms of the word bitch unless you are referring clearly and specifically to a female dog. 

What Is the Etymology of Bitch?

The word bitch has been in the English language for a long time, before the year 1000! 

Originally, this term was the Middle English bicche and Old English bicce, which come from the Old Norse bikkja.

How Can You Use Bitch in a Sentence?

Below, you will find several example sentences containing the word bitch. See if you can determine which definition of the word bitch is used in each of the following sentences. 

Bitch in a Sentence: Example 1

The man said very mean things about the woman who did not want to date him. He went around town calling her a real bitch and other offensive terms.

Question: What part of speech and definition is the word bitch in the above sentence?

Answer: Bitch is a noun that means a mean woman in the above sentence.

Bitch in a Sentence: Example 2

After the difficult exam, all of the students met back at the dormitory to bitch about it.

Question: What part of speech and definition is the word bitch in the above sentence?

Answer: Bitch is a verb that means to complain in the above sentence.

Bitch in a Sentence: Example 3

The dog owner was so excited to reunite her puppy with his mom, the main bitch at the breeder. 

Question: What part of speech and definition is the word bitch in the above sentence?

Answer: Bitch is a noun that means a female dog in the above sentence.

Bitch in a Sentence: Example 4

After he cut off the drunk people at the bar, the drunkards began calling the bartender a son of a bitch and other mean things.

Question: What part of speech and definition is the word bitch in the above sentence?

Answer: Bitch is a noun that means a mean woman in the above sentence.

What Are Translations of Bitch?

Outside of the English language, people can use the word bitch to refer to a mean woman. Despite gaining knowledge from these word lists, you should still avoid calling people bitches in any language. 

• Hindi: कुतिया
• Turkish: orospu
• Telugu: బిచ్
• Malayalam: പെണ്പട്ടി
• Ukrainian: сука
• Swedish: tik
• Icelandic: tík
• Bulgarian: Кучка
• Portuguese (Portugal): cadela
• Urdu: کتیا
• Catalan: gossa
• Malay: jalang
• Japanese: 雌犬
• Welsh: ast
• Slovak: mrcha
• Marathi: कुत्री
• Bengali: দুশ্চরিত্রা
• Hebrew: כַּלבָּה
• Chinese (PRC): bit子
• Polish: suka
• Finnish: narttu
• German: Hündin
• Vietnamese: chó cái
• Kannada: ಗಡಿ
• Danish: tæve
• Hungarian: kurva
• Russian: сука
• Lithuanian: kalė
• Italian: cagna
• Czech: fena
• Serbian: кучко
• Slovenian: psica
• Dutch: teef
• Latvian: kuce
• Gujarati: કૂતરી
• Filipino: Bitch
• Thai: ผู้หญิงเลว
• Spanish: perra
• Basque: txakur eme
• Norwegian: tispe
• Portuguese (Brazil): cadela
• Tamil: பிச்
• Amharic: ብሬክ
• Romanian: căţea
• Arabic: عاهرة
• Chinese (Taiwan): bit子
• Estonian: lits
• Korean: 암캐
• Croatian: kuja
• Swahili: Bitch
• Indonesian: jalang
• Greek: σκύλα
• French: chienne

What Are Synonyms of Bitch?

Since the word bitch is a slang term and very offensive, it is not always appropriate to use this word. 

If you are looking for a different way to say the word bitch, you can utilize this list of synonyms of bitch from Power Thesaurus. Be careful: many of these terms are also mean or offensive. Do not use offensive terms, or people might be very angry with you.

• backbite
• beef
• bellyache
• bleat
• bowwow
• carp
• complain
• crab
• cunt
• dog
• gripe
• groan
• grouch
• grouse
• grumble
• harridan
• holler
• hooker
• kick
• kvetch
• moan
• pooch
• protest
• she-devil
• shrew
• slut
• squawk
• termagant
• tramp
• virago
• vixen
• whine
• whinge

What Are the Antonyms of Bitch?

People would love to be described as the opposite of a bitch! To learn all of the ways you could refer to someone who is very nice or saintly, you can use this list of antonyms of bitch from Power Thesaurus. 

• angel
• apostle
• apotheosis
• beatify
• blessed
• canonize
• canonized
• consecrate
• enshrine
• hallow
• holy
• holy man
• holy person
• ideal
• martyr
• model
• nonesuch
• nonpareil
• nonsuch
• paragon
• pietist
• sacred
• saint
• sainted
• saintly

Conclusion

The word bitch has a few different definitions, most of which are offensive. 

The only non-offensive definition of the word bitch is a female dog, mainly used in the dog breeding industry. Second, the word bitch is a noun that refers to a shrewish or malicious woman. 

Third, bitch can be used as a verb to mean to complain. Finally, the term bitchin means fun or excellent. Try to avoid using the term bitch, because people can find it very offensive. 

Sources:

​​Bitch synonyms – 1 030 Words and Phrases for Bitch | Power Thesaurus 

Bitch antonyms – 667 Opposites of Bitch | Power Thesaurus 

Bitch Definition & Meaning | Dictionary.com 

Word	BITCH
Character	5
Hyphenation	bitch
Pronunciations	/bɪt͡s/

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What do we mean by bitch?

A female canine animal, especially a dog. noun

A woman considered to be mean, overbearing, or contemptible. noun

A prostitute considered in relation to a pimp. noun

A person in a subservient sexual role, especially an incarcerated male who provides sex to another male under threat of violence or in exchange for protection. noun

A person who is submissive to another, usually by performing menial or unpleasant tasks. noun

A man considered to be weak or contemptible. noun

A complaint. noun

Something very unpleasant or difficult. noun

To complain; grumble. intransitive verb

To botch; bungle. Often used with up. intransitive verb

To reprimand loudly or harshly. phrasal verb

Plural A set of three chains for slinging pipes. noun

The female of the dog; also, by extension, the female of other canine animals, as of the wolf and fox. noun

A coarse name of reproach for a woman. noun

To complain in a whining or grumbling manner; to gripe. intransitive verb

The female of the canine kind, as of the dog, wolf, and fox. noun

An opprobrious name for a woman, especially a lewd woman. noun

An unpleasant, malicious, or offensive person. noun

Something difficult or unpleasant. noun

(dog-breeding) A female dog or other canine, particularly a recent mother.

A promiscuous woman, slut, whore.

A despicable or disagreeable, aggressive person, usually a woman.

A woman.

A man considered weak, effeminate, timid or pathetic in some way

A submissive person who does what others want; a man forced or coerced into a homoerotic relationship.

(of a man) A playful variation on dog (sense «man»).

(used with a possessive pronoun) Friend.

A complaint, especially when the complaint is unjustified.

(usually only used in the singular) A difficult or confounding problem.

A queen (playing card), particularly the queen of spades in the card game of hearts.

Something unforgiving and unpleasant.

Place; situation

One of the most versatile words in the english language; it is used to express a multitude of emotions; anger, anticipation, despair, endearment, envy, excitement, fear, horror, joy, shock, surprise, warning; all achieved by one’s enunciation and intonation. Urban Dictionary

You Urban Dictionary

A bitch is just a bully in a skirt.
Like any bully, she won’t lay off until you stand up to her.
Like any classic bully, she thinks she’s tough until her victim fights back. When a victim successfully fights back, the classy bully’s demeanor turns from wannabe tough to whiny crybaby. i.e. — a classic bitch
And we’ve come full circle. Urban Dictionary

Me, myself, and i Urban Dictionary

Not gender specific. Someone with no moral integrity who is only seeking to further their own agenda. One who makes bitch moves. Cowardly and spineless.
Sucker punching someone when they’re not looking.
Framing someone else for something you did.
Refusing to pay someone what they’re owed just because you can.
Sleeping with your buddy’s girl.
Witnessing the rape or assault of a woman and not doing anything to stop it.
Committing a hit and run.
Picking on the defenseless or any type of bullying Urban Dictionary

A person — who could be of either gender, but stereotypically is a woman — who allows their spur-of-the-moment negative emotional reactions to play far too large a role in their dealings with others.
The most recognizable characteristic of a bitch is a high volume of largely unmerited complaints about others. To qualify for bitchhood, these must be a conspicuously frequent feature of her conversation, and must strike most non-bitches as exaggerated if not completely unwarranted, at least occasionally to the point of making a big deal of things that strike most others as completely innocuous.
Note that a frank but perceptive critic of others is not thereby a bitch, even if completely lacking an internal censor. Bitches frequently think of themselves as such people, but in reality they have the frankness, but not the perceptiveness.
The bitch will often come across abrasive and unreasonable, except to authority figures who can benefit her. Most are narcissistic and/or hypocritical; favourite tactics include characterizing things as horrible moral wrongs which are unobjectionable save that they inconvenience him or her personally, and complaining that someone else has been rude to them, in terms that are vastly more rude than anything the complainee has actually done.
This is not the worst thing you can call someone, but it’s about the worst thing I would call anyone I might nevertheless be willing to voluntarily spend time around. Urban Dictionary

A woman that has the social skills of a Hitler. Urban Dictionary

Anyone who takes pride in pissing you off. Urban Dictionary

A woman that dominates,controls and destroys a mans finances,mental health,self esteem and any hope for happiness Urban Dictionary

To complain Urban Dictionary