Pick one word to live by

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“Epithets for yourself: Upright. Modest. Straightforward. Sane. Cooperative. Try not to exchange them for others.” — Marcus Aurelius

Clemson hadn’t won a conference championship in eighteen years, and they hadn’t won a national championship in twenty-eight years, when Dabo Swinney took over as interim head coach of the Clemson Tigers football team in 2008.

The interim head coach position is one of the most unenviable positions in all of sports. You are the boss, but with no real power and very little control–of the program, of the roster, of your future. None of the 29 interim head coaches in college football before Swinney, for example, were able to turn their extended tryout into a full-time job. Swinney would be different, though. He would make the most of those seven weeks in 2008, finishing with a winning record and starting a journey that would ultimately lead to a Clemson dynasty.

One of Coach Swinney’s secrets was to fix the broken team culture his predecessor cultivated. One of his strategies for achieving that goal was to implement his “one word” practice.

“Every year I choose a word,” Swinney says, “to help me have a specific focus.” He tells his players to do it too. “I tell them to pick a word. I say, ‘I need you to have one word for you that’s going to help you stay locked in, stay focused on being the very best you can be this year.’” Here are just a few examples:

2012: Believe
2016: Love
2018: Joy
2019: Purpose

Your challenge today is to pick one Stoic word to live by this year. One word to help you stay focused on being the very best you can be this year.

In Dabo Swinney’s first full season, he led Clemson to the school’s first bowl win in four years. In his third season, Clemson won its conference. In his seventh season, Clemson lost by five in the National Championship game. The following year, Clemson avenged the loss with a four-point victory over Alabama to claim the school’s first National Championship since 1981. And in his tenth season, Swinney led Clemson to a historic undefeated season—one that has them in the discussion as one of the best college football teams ever.

Such is the power of having your one word. A version of this exists in yoga practice, with the setting of intention. In Hinduism and Buddhism, with meditation, you might call this a mantra. Marcus Aurelius famously called them “epithets for the self”:

Upright
Modest
Straightforward
Sane
Cooperative

There are many others he could have added to his list, that you can choose from:

Honest
Patient
Steadfast
Kind
Brave
Calm
Generous

How should you choose your word? What we learn from both Swinney and Marcus is that you should begin with a destination. For Dabo Swinney, as long as he is a college football coach, that is winning a National Championship. For Marcus, that was being one of the great Emperors. As Seneca said, “If one does not know to which port one is sailing, no wind is favorable.” The one word is a kind of polestar. It is both the port of call and the wind at your back helping you get there. It pushes and pulls you.

Which is what we kept in mind when choosing our Stoic word for 2022. We know what our goals are, but we also know that 2022 is going to be a year where we’re going to need some push and pull. Through the omicron variant and whatever other mutations are coming. Through continuing market volatility. Through tech disruption and job displacement and media distrust. Through all that’s about to happen in 2022, we are going to need “resilience”.

If Stoicism is anything, it’s a formula for enduring the blows of fortune, the whims of life. Stoicism has been there for great men and women in business failure, in grief, in market collapses, in natural disasters and pandemics. It’s what Epictetus and Marcus Aurelius and Seneca were all talking about in their own way: How to not only keep going in a world in which most of what happens is not up to us, but to be made better, stronger, by difficulty. “Misfortune brings this one blessing,” Seneca wrote, “to whom it always assails, it eventually fortifies.” Marcus Aurelius said he was working to be like a fire that “makes flame and brightness out of everything that is thrown into it.” And it was Epictetus who said that difficulty turns us into who we are meant to be. “So when trouble comes,” he said, “think of yourself as a wrestler whom God, like a trainer, has paired with a tough young buck. For what purpose? To turn you into Olympic-class material.”

These are the things we want to come back to throughout the year when we think of our word, “resilience”. Whenever adversity strikes—this is turning us into who we are meant to be. This will make us stronger. This is our sparring partner. Without this, we could never become Olympic-class material.

You can choose “resilience” as well, or maybe there’s a word that is more true to you and your goals. What is important is that the word is not chosen for you in retrospect, by the course of events, because you couldn’t decide. You can see what that looks like if you reflect on where we have found ourselves as a culture these last few years. A lot of us have been calling 2021 “abnormal.” 2020 was “unprecedented.” Search 2016 stories on Google and it isn’t long before you run into the phrase “worst year ever.”

In this way, every year seems to end up with its own word. The idea with this challenge is we choose the word for the year, instead of letting the year choose the word for us after it’s all over.

To do that, we must begin today with some thinking about what port we want to sail to this year. Pretend 2022 is nearing its end—what would have made it a great year? What do you want to create or accomplish or strive towards? What do you want more of in your life? What do you want less of? What do you want to change? When you’re ringing in the new year 360 days from now, what will allow you to say to yourself: “I did it.”

Choosing your word is not about setting a goal for the year, it’s about setting a tone for the year. But inevitably, that tone is aimed at a goal. Again, think of Coach Swinney—his word of the year is working backwards from the goal of winning a championship. His word helps him stay locked in on his goal. So today, you should think about your goals for the year. When those become clearer, your one word will start to reveal itself as well. Because let’s be clear: you are going to choose your word just as much as your word is going to choose you.

Jon Gordon, the author of One Word that Will Change Your Life who works with the Clemson Tigers, says your one word should choose you and not the other way around. “Give it some time,” Gordon writes. “Your word will come! I’ve had people email me saying, ‘I waited and waited and waited and one day, bam, the word hit me. I knew it was my word for the year.’”

Once you have your one word, we encourage you to create a daily reminder of it. It could be as simple as writing the word down on an index card and taping it to your desk. Or if you want to get a little more elaborate, Gordon shares how his coauthors, Dan Britton and Jimmy Page, with the help of their kids, make paintings of their words and hang them in their homes where they’ll see them each day.

In any case, the important thing is that your one word pushes you each day to be the very best you can be this year…and beyond. “If you maintain your claim to these epithets,” as Marcus wrote, “you’ll become a new person, living a new life…Set sail, then, with this handful of epithets to guide you.”

Additional Resources:

  • A MODEL OF LATE STOIC PRACTICE AND GLOSSARY OF KEY TERMS AND PASSAGES
  • One Word That Will Change Your Life by Jon Gordon
  • Jon Gordon – One Word that will Change Your Life
  • Believe: Dabo Swinney’s First Word at Clemson and the Key to the Tigers’ Rise
  • Word of the Year Ideas – One Little Word

Is it possible to condense the wisdom of centuries in a straightforward way? Can the brilliant knowledge millions of people used to live their lives by be summarized in a reader-friendly and manageable way? Let’s try with this collection of the most inspiring words to live by.

Normally, you would have to read through hundreds of good books in order to discover a pearl of wisdom here and there. You would also have to interview some of the greatest minds that ever lived in order to unearth excellent ideas to live by. In short, it’s the work of a lifetime.

Words to live by

It can take a lifetime to discover great words to live by.

You may not wish to invest that much time to collect a number of inspiring statements. Luckily for you, we’ve created a hand-picked selection of the 75 best words to live by. It’s the ultimate list of magnificently inspiring, wise, and thought-provoking quotes you can use to live your life by.

“Count your age by friends, not years. Count your life by smiles, not tears.”
John Lennon

In the following, you can find the incredible quotes that became the fundament upon which millions of people constructed a successful, happy and fulfilling life.

There are many brilliant words that provide motivation and inspiration. But there are certain statements that stand out from the rest. Ideas, words, and sayings that are far more powerful than all the others.

Some of these powerful words will inspire you to reach for the stars. They will ignite the fire within you that fuels your motivation to accomplish a great number of things. But you can also find words in this list that will accompany you during times of great difficulties. These statements will help you to get back up again whenever life pushes you to the ground.

Feel free to select your personal favorites in this list. By integrating your favorite quotes in your day-to-day life, you will be able to gradually transform your entire life. The wisdom that can be found within the lines of these inspiring words provides you with everything you need to know to be equipped for the daily battle of life.

Here are the most inspiring words to live your life by:

1. Robert Downey, Jr. on laserlike focus

„Listen, smile, agree, and then do whatever you were going to do anyway.“
Robert Downey, Jr.

Do whatever you were going to do anyway quote

When pursuing your goals, there will be many people trying to stop you. Some will try to convince you that your very dreams are not worth pursuing. They will tell you that it is impossible for you to accomplish what you’re trying to achieve. Others will advise you that it is better to settle for the ordinary instead of risking something.

No matter what these people are telling you, never let them convince you to stop pursuing your goals. If you listen to them, you will one day wake up living an unfulfilling and unsatisfying life.

2. Paul Brandt on accepting limitations

„Don’t tell me the sky’s the limit when there’s footprints on the moon.“
Paul Brandt

Don't tell me the sky is the limit quote

Have the courage to dream big. Challenge existing perceptions and always seek to set your goals a little higher with every step you take. Doing so will allow you to go beyond every limitation there is.

3. Bruce Lee on enduring difficulties

„Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one.”
Bruce Lee

Do not pray for an easy life quote

Life can be quite a struggle. There are many situations in life where you wish that things would be much easier. During these difficult times, it is necessary to remind yourself how important it is to endure. Don’t allow hardship to break you. Instead, keep fighting and do everything you can to proactively free yourself from the difficulties you’re facing.

Only by wishful thinking, nothing will ever be accomplished. For this reason, see the difficulties of your life as important opportunities that accelerate your growth. Remind yourself that everything that happens to you does ultimately serve you.

4. An unknown hero on an excellent life motto to live by

„Everything happens for a reason. Everything leads to something better.“
Unknown

Whatever happens to you in life can teach you an important lesson. If you are willing to seek for the particular reason why something happened, you will discover meaning in suffering. And once you are able to draw meaning from difficult experiences, you will be able to use what happens in order to grow stronger. This is what life is all about.

Once you’ve internalized these beautiful words to live by, you will understand that everything that happens to you – no matter if positive or negative – leads eventually to something better. If you always seek for the lessons that life teaches you, you will ultimately become a stronger, wiser and better person. Always remember that the strongest characters are seared with scars.

5. Washington Irving on misfortune

„Little minds are tamed and subdued by misfortune; but great minds rise above them.“
Washington Irving

Little minds are tamed and subdued by misfortune quote

It is not so important what happens to you life. All that matters is how you think about it and how you respond to it. When you’re confronted with setbacks, difficulties, and misfortunes, you can always choose to give up. You can always allow these things to break you. In fact, life will not only push you continuously to the ground, but it will also do everything to keep you there.

At the same time, you can also choose not to allow what happens to break you. If you always get back up again, no matter how hard life pushes you down, nothing can ever stop you from pursuing your dreams.

6. Lance Armstrong on pain

„Pain is temporary. It may last a minute, or an hour, or a day, or a year, but eventually it will subside and something else will take its place. If I quit, however, it lasts forever. That surrender, even the smallest act of giving up, stays with me. So when I feel like quitting, I ask myself, which would I rather live with?“
Lance Armstrong

Paid is important Lance Armstrong quote

Pain is not permanent. Giving up lasts a lifetime.

Many goals in life can only be accomplished if you are willing to suffer temporality. In some cases, you will have to make sacrifices to accomplish your dreams. In other instances, you have to overcome challenging obstacles. Whenever it is you’re confronted with, always remind yourself that you’re doing all these things for a purpose. Remind yourself that the pain will eventually subside and something better will emerge from it.

7. Another unknown person on difficulties in life

„When something bad happens you have three choices. You can either let it define you, let it destroy you, or you can let it strengthen you.“
Unknown

When something bad happens you have three choices quote

How you think about difficult times can greatly impact your entire life. If you think that life is designed to punish you, you will never overcome the role as a helpless victim. However, if you are convinced that life is designed to teach you important lessons, nothing will ever bring you out of balance.

8. Dr. Seuss on being who you are

„Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.“
Dr. Seuss

Be who you are and say what you feel quote

The people who truly matter will always accept you the way you are. So why should you try to be someone else for people who don’t even matter?

9. LeBron James on greatness

„Talent is given, greatness is earned.“
LeBron James

Talent is given greatness is earned quote

There are so many people who are incredibly talented, yet make nothing of it. They have become used to relying on their talents, which prevents them from ever accomplishing greatness. Only those who are willing to use their talents in order to pursue greatness will ever accomplish truly outstanding things in life.

10. Rocky Balboa on life

„The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place […] it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about hard you hit; it’s about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward.”
Rocky Balboa

It's about how hard you can get hit quote

I’m always amazed at the incredible motivational power of the words Rocky Balboa, portrayed by Sylvester Stallone, speaks to his fictional son in the movie Rocky. And everything he says in his wonderful speech is absolutely true. There’s no use in complaining about how hard life has hit you. Doing so will never get you anywhere. Instead, give your very best to brace all the energy you have left to push yourself up again from the ground.

11. Mark Twain on regret

„Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do, so throw off the bowlines, sail away from safe harbor, catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore, dream, discover.“
Mark Twain

Sail away from safe Harbor quote

You will always regret 100% of the chances you didn’t take. Even more so, the regret you experience for not doing something will always outweigh the temporary pain a failure causes.

12. Robert Brault on enjoying the little things

„Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.“
Robert Brault

It often times takes quite some work to truly appreciate the little things in life. But once you are able to discover all the small joys and all the small wonders in your life, your entire perception of life begins to change. Instead of ever chasing more, you will begin to realize how beautiful your life already is. It will help you to understand that you already have everything you need to live a happy and fulfilled life. So take yourself some time to ponder about the true value of all the little things in your life. Learn to be grateful about all these wonderful aspects of your life and you will free yourself from the never-ending pursuit of ever more.

13. Steve Jobs on changing the world

„The people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do.“
Steve Jobs

When you are exceptionally ambitious, you will always be confronted with naysayers. They will tell you that whatever you’re trying to accomplish is not possible. These are the people who will greatly insult you for your courage to dream. There will be no word of encouragement from these people – that is until you have accomplished your mission and every single one of them slaps you on the back, telling you that they always knew you could make it.

If people don’t believe in your dreams, show them that you can make your vision a reality.

14. Confucius on things that cannot be done

„Men who say it cannot be done should not interrupt men doing it.“
Confucius

In addition to what was being said in #13, it is also worthwhile to point out to think twice before you tell a friend or a family member that it’s impossible for them to achieve their dreams.

15. Mary Engelbreit on affecting change

„If you don’t like something, change it; if you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.“
Mary Engelbreit

Aren’t these incredibly powerful words to live by?

Change whatever you don’t like about your life. And if you are confronted with something that you cannot change, start thinking differently about it. Ultimately, the way you think shapes your entire life. Your thoughts decide whether you see your failures and imperfections as terrible enemies that drag you down or if you see them as important stepping stones on your road to success. All this shows how incredibly important it is to learn to think positively about in life. Your thoughts can make or break you, so start seizing control of this magnificent power that lies in your hands.

16. Suzy Kassem on having dreams

„A heart without dreams is like a bird without feathers.“
Suzy Kassem

Those who dare to dream are courageous enough to overcome their fears.

17. Albert Einstein on being a genius

„Everyone is a genius. But, if you judge a fish on its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing it is stupid.“
Albert Einstein

Every man and woman holds the potential for greatness. However, this greatness may not always be recognized by others, especially not when only superficial metrics are applied. If you only judge people based on their intelligence, academic accomplishments, or wealth, you may not be able to see the huge potential that lies – sometimes dormant – in all those who are not wealthy and not educated.

18. Kurt Cobain on being ridiculed

„They laugh at me because I’m different; I laugh at them because they’re all the same.“
Kurt Cobain

If you have the courage to stand out from the crowd, you will often be considered “odd” or “different.” But the real question you have to ask yourself is if it is really worthwhile to give up your individuality, to give up everything that defines you, just to be like everyone else.

19. J. K. Rowling on failure

“It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all – in which case, you fail by default.”
J. K. Rowling

Trying to avoid any kind of risk comes at a price: regret. If you allow your fear of failure to stop you from pursuing your dreams, you will sooner or later come to regret that you did not have the courage to overcome your fears. Sometimes in life, you simply have to risk something in order to affect beneficial changes.

20. Confucius on the importance to keep going

„It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.“
Confucius

Every journey – even the longest voyage – starts with one tiny little step. There are some people who are amazed at the beauty of a certain destiny (i.e. a goal), which is why they immediately start running towards it. They might even boast how fast they are coming closer to their destination.

None of this really matters. All that matters is that you continue to pursue your own goals – at your own pace. Don’t let other people’s accomplishments discourage you from taking one step after another. One day you will realize that you have come much further by setting one foot in front of the other than all those who sprinted for some time until they quickly ran out of breath.

21. Ingvar Kamprad on achievement

„The most dangerous poison is the feeling of achievement. The antidote is to every evening think what can be done better tomorrow.“
Ingvar Kamprad

The feeling of achievement opens room for complacency. If you do not continuously seek for opportunities to grow or to improve something, your victories will quickly be outdated.

22. Ray Kroc on forcing luck

„Luck is a dividend of sweat. The more you sweat, the luckier you get.“
Ray Kroc

Luck is not something that automatically comes to you when you’re at home. Many times in life, you have to go out and force your luck. The more diligently you pursue your goals and the more effort you are willing to invest, the more often will your efforts be accompanied by “lucky coincidences.”

23. Paolo Coelho on achieving your dreams

„There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure.”
Paulo Coelho

As was already mentioned, your fear of failure is the greatest enemy that stands in-between you and your dreams.

24. Joshua Marine on challenges

„Challenges are what make life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.”Joshua J. Marine

Without occasionally challenging yourself, you will never grow as a person. Only by confronting and overcoming difficulties, you will become stronger and more experienced.

25. Lao Tzu on patience

„Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished.“
Lao Tzu

Many things in life can only be accomplished when you are patient. If you are willing to invest time and effort, you will eventually bring these things to fruition. However, those who long for instant results will quickly become discouraged by the lack of outcomes.

26. Aldous Huxley on happiness

„Happiness is not achieved by the conscious pursuit of happiness; it is generally the by-product of other activities.“
Aldous Huxley

Happiness cannot be pursued. Happiness is a choice. If you choose to be happy, nothing will ever be able to crumble your long-term happiness. At the same time, if you’re able to find happiness within, changes in the world around you affect your happiness less and less.

27. Michael Singer on inner freedom

„Only you can take inner freedom away from yourself, or give it to yourself. Nobody else can.”
Michael A. Singer

There lies great power in the realization that no person can ever take your inner freedom away from you.

28. Maya Angelou on wonderful days

„This is a wonderful day. I’ve never seen this one before.“
Maya Angelou

Isn’t this a beautiful attitude to live by?

29. Dennis Kimbro on life

„Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it.”
Dennis P. Kimbro

No matter what happens to you in life, it all boils down to how you’re going to react to it. You cannot change what happens. But you can always influence how you respond to it. There are many who allow setbacks and failures to discourage them. Don’t be one of them! Instead, use whatever happens to you as a stepping stone to success. This kind of attitude will help you to realize one day that all the difficulties you were confronted with in your life ultimately became the fundament upon which you build a successful and fulfilling existence.

30. Rae Smith on falling apart

„Never be afraid to fall apart because it is an opportunity to rebuild yourself the way you wish you had been all along.“
Rae Smith

It’s possible that trials and tribulations will rain down upon you during certain stages of your life. Wild storms will wreck havoc in your entire life, leaving nothing but ruins. These situations are incredibly difficult and extremely unpleasant. But one day you will realize that something stronger has emerged from the ashes.

31. Ron Carpenter on ignorance

„A teachable spirit and a humbleness to admit your ignorance or your mistake will save you a lot of pain.“
Ron Carpenter, Jr.

If you go through life with open eyes, if you are always honest with yourself and if you always admit your errors, you can spare yourself many painful lessons.

32. Les Brown on other people’s opinion

„Don’t let someone else’s opinion of you become your reality.“
Les Brown

In many cases, it can be quite beneficial to listen to other people’s opinion. However, if you are not careful, others will impose their – sometimes negative – opinion about you to such a great extent on you that it will seem as if it’s true.

33. Frank Lynn on comparing yourself

„Do not compare. You paint differently because you are different.“
Frank Lynn

Never compare yourself to other people. Comparisons are never just. You are simply far too individual to fairly compare yourself to others. Even further, you almost always lack the right metrics to properly compare your accomplishments with those of another person. As a result, comparisons only cause discontent. The only one you should ever compare yourself with is your former self.

34. John Lennon on the key to life

„When I was 5 years old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life. When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wrote down “happy.” They told me I didn’t understand the assignment, and I told them they didn’t understand life.“
John Lennon

These words to live by are so beautiful that there really is nothing to add.

35. Jackson Brown, Jr. on criticizing others

„Let the refining and improving of your own life keep you so busy that you have little time to criticize others.“
H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

If you spend all your time being obsessed about the imperfections of other people, you may not have enough time to properly address your own.

36. Dejan Stojanovic on walking the talk

„Words rich in meaning can be cheap in sound effects.”
Dejan Stojanovic

There are many people who explain their dreams and goals in the most illustrious ways possible. But only a small minority actually puts these words into action.

37. Henry Ford on having faith in yourself

„Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t – you’re right.“
Henry Ford

If you believe in yourself, if you are convinced that you can accomplish your goals, you are much more likely to succeed eventually.

38. Henry Rollins on scar tissue

„Scar tissue is stronger than regular tissue.“
Henry Rollins

Difficulties and setbacks may leave many emotional scars behind. With time, however, you will realize that these very experiences contributed in a miraculous way to your growth as a person.

39. Robert Greene on treating others politely

„Never assume that the person you are dealing with is weaker or less important than you are. […] If you want to turn people down, it is best to do so politely and respectfully, even if you feel their request is impudent or their offer ridiculous.“
Robert Greene

The way you treat others is incredibly important. Don’t let other people’s misbehavior or misconduct tempt you to behave in a similar way.

40. George Bernard Shaw about finding yourself

„Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.“
George Bernard Shaw

Life is not about learning to discover your purpose. It is about learning to create your purpose in life. No one will hand you a definition of who you are and who you should become. Similarly, it is very unlikely that you will all of a sudden stumble across your purpose in life. It takes time and effort to actively create your purpose in life and to define who you are.

41. The Dalai Lama on not getting what you want

„Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.“
Dalai Lama

Not getting what you want can be quite annoying. But more often than not, there is more than meets the eye. Not getting what you want can prove to be an opportunity to try something new. Perhaps it is even an encouragement for you that you need to try much harder in order to get what you want. Even further, it could also be a chance to pursue more meaningful goals in your life. Many years later you might even come to the conclusion that whatever you desired was not even worth pursuing.

42. Henry Ford on obstacles

„Obstacles are those things you see when you take your eyes off the goal.“
Henry Ford

Where most people see obstacles and difficulties, the great only see opportunities.

43. William Cameron on counting accomplishments

„Not everything that can be counted counts, and not everything that counts can be counted.“
William Bruce Cameron

There are many people who do nothing else in their lifetime than amassing (countable) possessions. Their great successes and accomplishments can be measured pretty accurately. However, only a few of their actions did really matter. At the same time, there are many people performing extremely important services that really matter. These are the people whose lives really count. No matter if these people firefighters, nurses, or paramedics.

44. Eleanor Roosevelt on great minds

„Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people.“
Eleanor Roosevelt

Let’s not focus too much attention on what other people – especially celebrities – are doing.

45. Arthur Schopenhauer on truth

„Every truth passes through three stages before it is recognized. In the first, it is ridiculed. In the second, it is opposed. In the third, it is regarded as self-evident.“
Arthur Schopenhauer

Unfortunately, this is the difficult path that the truth has to take until it is finally revealed to the public.

46. Mark Twain on small people

„Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great makes you feel that you, too, can become great.“
Mark Twain

If you listen too much to those who try to talk down on your ambitions, you’ll eventually wind up believing them.

47. Confucius on finding a profession

„Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life.“
Confucius

Finding a job that you really love is perhaps one of the most rewarding things in life.

48. E. Lockhart on your perception of the world

„See the world as it is, not as you wish it would be”
E. Lockhart

It is quite difficult to see things as they are. In fact, it can even be painful to face the truth. However, this is the only approach that will ultimately set you free.

49. Josiah Holland on finding the royal road

„There is no royal road to anything. One thing at a time, all things in succession. That which grows fast, withers as rapidly. That which grows slowly endures.“
Josiah Gilbert Holland

By taking one step at a time, you will arrive much faster in your destination than by wishful thinking about a royal road.

50. T. Jakes on the past and present

„Don’t allow your past or present condition to control you. It’s just a process that you’re going through to get you to the next level.”
T. D. Jakes

Never look back on what happened in the past. Use the present moment to create a better future.

51. Vicki Corona on measuring life

„Life is not measured by the amount of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away.“
Vicki Corona

Wonderful, just wonderful.

52. Zig Ziglar on greatness

„You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great.”
Zig Ziglar

Always remember that you never start as an expert in whatever you do. All you need to do is to overcome any kind of procrastination that stops you from taking one step after another towards accomplishing greatness.

53. Audrey Hepburn on the word “impossible”

„Nothing is impossible, the word itself says ‘I’m possible’”
Audrey Hepburn

Some challenges may seem impossible to overcome. But if you persist long enough, you’ll be able to see the opportunities that help you to overcome all the difficulties.

54. Ralph Emerson going where the path leads

„Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.“
Ralph Waldo Emerson

If you always go where everyone else is going, you will always accomplish what everyone else is accomplishing.

55. Vince Lombardi on perfection

„Perfection is not attainable, but if we chase perfection we can catch excellence.“
Vince Lombardi

It is not so important to attain perfection. What is important is that striving for perfection allows you to eventually attain excellence and greatness.

56. Farrah Gray on building your dreams

„Build your own dreams, or someone else will hire you to build theirs.“
Farrah Gray

57. John D. Rockefeller, Jr. on making promises

„I believe in the sacredness of a promise, that a man’s word should be as good as his bond; that character — not wealth or power or position — is of supreme worth.“
John D. Rockefeller, Jr.

Another important thought that is tremendously neglected in this modern day and age.

58. James Ray on reaching your destination

„Often what may appear as a detour in life is actually the most direct and empowering path to your destination.”
James Arthur Ray

Not every failure is a negative thing. Sometimes you will realize months or even years later that only with this setback was it possible to finally accomplish your goal.

59. Richard Carlson on the things that matter

„Ask yourself this question, will this matter a year from now?“
Richard Carlson

Most things that upset us won’t even matter a month from now. So why even bother?

60. Frank Zappa on deviating from the norm

„Without deviation from the norm, progress is not possible.“
Frank Zappa

Have the courage to stand out from the crowd!

61. Wayne Dyer on conflict

„Conflict cannot survive without your participation.”
Wayne Dyer

By internalizing these important words to live by you will realize that it lies greatly in your own hands whether or not a conflict starts to arise in your life.

62. Michael Jordan on making it happen

„Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen, others make it happen.“
Michael Jordan

Wishful thinking will never get anything done. If you really want to see a dream realized, it takes diligent work to make it happen. Only by taking a proactive approach you will ever be able to let your dreams become a reality. Otherwise, they will remain what they always were – dreams.

63. Milton Burle on creating opportunities

„If opportunity doesn’t knock, build a door.“
Milton Berle

As already mentioned, there are many situations in life where you need to force your luck. If you don’t see any opportunities in your present situation, become active and create those opportunities.

64. Roy Goodman on happiness

„Remember that happiness is a way of travel, not a destination.“
Roy L. Goodman

Don’t make your happiness dependent on the outcome of your actions. Learn to be happy at this very moment.

65. Albert Einstein on solving problems

„We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.“
Albert Einstein

The mental attitude responsible for many of the world’s problems must be changed first if we want to affect long-lasting changes on this planet.

66. Aristotle on entertaining thoughts

„It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it.“
Aristotle

This approach also helps you to remain open to new ideas and thoughts that are presented to you.

67. Henry Ford on facing difficulties

„When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it.“
Henry Ford

What does this wonderful quote tell us? Well, even though we do not like difficulties, we should come to the realization that challenges and setbacks can often prove to be true accelerators of our growth.

68. Unknown person on true wealth

„The richest man is not he who has the most, but he who needs the least.“
Unknown

The richest person on this planet may not be as happy as the one who has learned to let go of the pursuit of their insatiable desires.

69. Erma Bombeck on making use of your talent

„When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left and could say, I used everything you gave me.“
Erma Bombeck

Don‘t let your various talents lay dormant. Actively encourage their unfoldment.

70. Plato on wise men

„Wise men speak because they have something to say; fools because they have to say something.“
Plato

There are many situations in life where it is better to remain silent.

71. Jamie Paolinetti on limitations

„Limitations live only in our minds. But if we use our imaginations, our possibilities become limitless.“
Jamie Paolinetti

Many of the limitations we are confronted with are self-imposed. If you learn to identify one limitation after another, you can greatly accelerate your growth.

72. Henry Rollins on reinventing yourself

„I believe that one defines oneself by reinvention. To not be like your parents. To not be like your friends. To be yourself. To cut yourself out of stone.”
Henry Rollins

Being yourself is the key to true authenticity.

73. William Ward on discovering greatness

„Greatness is not found in possessions, power, position, or prestige. It is discovered in goodness, humility, service, and character.“
William Arthur Ward

These are the characteristics of truly great people. Possessions, wealth, and power do not necessarily contribute to a person’s greatness.

74. Edward Hale on not refusing to stop

„I am only one; but still I am one. I cannot do everything; but still I can do something; and because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do the something that I can do.“
Edward Everett Hale

Don’t allow feelings of powerlessness to stop you from making a contribution in this world. Just because you can affect little does not mean you’re unable to affect anything. Even the slightest contribution is worthwhile.

75. Maurice Switzer on staying silent

„It is better to remain silent at the risk of being thought a fool, than to talk and remove all doubt of it.“
Maurice Switzer

At the same time, it helps you to avoid overly emotional responses that you may regret later on.

Conclusion quote

„The best way to predict the future is to invent it.“
Alan Kay

I hope you enjoyed this article on the best words to live by.

Stay victorious!

I will be the first to say, my life is a mess, a hot a** mess to be exact! More times than not it is just chaos. I sometimes am in denial that I don’t have my life figured out at 26 years old. Anxiety sets in when I see others my age having so much success and I am over here with no clue what I want to do for the rest of my life. Over the past year I have learned that it is okay, it is okay to not have your life figured out. I mean I’m only 26 right? To be completely honest, 2017 was ROUGH for me personally and I cannot emphasize that enough. I failed every resolution I made, I didn’t make any goals that I set and I struggled financially and mentally all year. I had never been so happy to see a new year come! 

The best thing about a new year coming, is the fresh start! I started out first by NOT making any resolutions (Solely because I knew I wouldn’t keep any of them.) Instead I chose to pick one word to live by! My word for 2018 is FOCUS. I am determined to focus on the things that I need to improve on, focus on my mental and physical state of mine and mainly focus on my financial goals. As mentioned previously, I am 26, so as the average 26 year old living in America my financial struggles purely come from the amount of debt I have accumulated. Student loans, credit cards and just plain stupid decisions. Which later on in this blog I will discuss that and also how I plan to get out of debt! In order to get out of debt, I first need to get my life organized. I will be doing this by using a life planner and tracking basically everything and by everything, I basically mean my whole life. In all seriousness I am super excited to “get my life together”. I am also SUPER excited to share it with all of you!

There are TONS of different planners out there but I personally only have ever “seriously” used one life planner. Any planner will work, I just so happened to use the Erin Condren Life Planner (in the vertical layout.) You can purchase one here at Erin Condren online! (Following this link will give you a 10$ off credit your first purchase!) I’ve used this planner consecutively now for the past three years. However, I normally do not take it serious. My mother in law and I started using these and it has now become an obsession three years later for the both of us. Which makes me super excited to actually take it serious and use it to its fullest potential because they are so fun. (They aren’t the cheapest things on the planet either, that’s for sure!)

In today’s post I simply just wanted to share with you what I am using to get my sh*t together and give you the opportunity to learn what it is I want to work on this year. I hope that within this blog, I am able to connect with all of you reading this on a more personal level. I hope that we can get face daily struggles together that most people don’t like to open up about. (No one ever talks about your finances or how your unorganized life is.) Not only that but I also hope continue to share my love of beauty with you! I plan to begin filming tutorials again and really connect with you all on that aspect of my life as well! I am super excited about this blog and I hope that you are too 🙂

If you could pick ONE word to live by in 2018, what would it be!? Let me know down below!

To end this I just want to say, that if you are reading this. You are beautiful. You are smart. You are loved. Lastly, You are ENOUGH. Let’s kick 2018 in the ass!

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Saturday
Jan 2014

Happy New Year!

I was listening to an interview on the Today Show with motivational speaker and author Jon Gordon (One Word that will Change Your

Life).  He shared that instead of making  New Year’s Resolutions – we should pick “ONE word to live by” for the year.

Did you know that 9  out of 10 of us will fail at our New Year’s Resolutions?  Half of us will fail by the end of January!

Jon Gordon suggests that “ONE word sticks.”  ONE word that will help you be and do your best in the new year. 

Jon added that clarity on the “why” of your word creates meaning and mission behind that word.  This is what will fuel your passion and purpose throughout the year.

Here are the steps Jon shares for Picking Your One Word:

1. Look in: Prepare your heart.  Ask, “What do I need?” “What do I want?” “What is in the way?”  “What do I need to focus on?”

2. Look up: Ask, “Okay, God what is my word?” There is a word that is meant for you.  When you are open to it, it will find you.

3. Look out:  I’m going to live my word now.  I’m going to make the word a part of your life.

My word for 2014 is EXCEL (at growing my business, nurturing the relationships that are important to me, maintaininImageg my health and wellness, and enjoying my life.)

What is your ONE word for 2014?  Share it with me.  Let’s hold one another accountable throughout the year.

Craig Groeschel’s 3 Steps For Finding Your Words to Live By

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Finding Your Words to Live By

Do you ever make new, soon-to-fail resolutions for a new year, birthday, anniversary, new financial year, or after bad medical news? Then, negative thoughts like, “I can’t keep this up,” and, “I never finish,” start tripping up your new routine. Eventually, you look up, and you’ve backtracked to nothing more than good intentions. We’ve all done this.

By the end of this three-step plan, you will have discovered new Words to Live By. Unlike many upstart resolutions, these daily declarations will renew your mind in a way that lasts. Here are Pastor Craig Groeschel’s three steps for finding your Words to Live By.

Step One:

Watch the first section of the video below, and If you haven’t yet, watch Pastor Craig’s Words To Live By message. You’ll also want to schedule a meeting with yourself to complete step two.

Step Two:

Watch the second section of the video below. Then, answer the two questions below. Keep scrolling down through the example Words to Live By to find the spiritual truths you need to answer question two. These are the beginnings of your new Words to Live By.

  1. What negative thoughts are dominating your thinking?
  2. What spiritual truth will demolish these strongholds?

Step Three:

Watch the third and final section of the video below. Revisit the spiritual truths you gathered in step two, and make them your own. If you need to add or change any, just use the list below to find the truths you need. Most importantly, start declaring these truths daily.

The Bible Plan

In this video-based Bible Plan, Pastor Craig will guide you through creating your own Words to Live By. It’s similar to what’s available here, but spread over three days and available in the Bible App.

Example Words to Live By

Sort through each section to find the biblical truths you need to renew your mind and fight back against negative thinking.

Pastor Craig’s

  • Jesus is first in my life. I exist to serve and glorify Him.
  • I love my wife and will lay down my life to serve her.
  • My children will love God and serve Him with their whole hearts. I will nurture, equip, train, and empower them to do more for His kingdom than they can imagine.
  • I love people and believe the best about others.
  • I am disciplined. Christ in me is stronger than the wrong desires in me.
  • I am growing closer to Jesus every day. Because of Christ, my family is closer, my body is stronger, my faith is deeper, my leadership is sharper.
  • I am anointed, empowered, equipped and called to reach people far from God.
  • I am creative, innovative, driven, focused, and blessed beyond measure—because the Holy Spirit dwells within me.
  • I develop leaders. That’s not something I do. It’s who I am.
  • My words, thoughts, and imaginations are under the power of Christ. I take all thoughts captive and make them obedient to Christ.
  • I wake up with purpose, direction, and meaning every day of my life.
  • Pain is my friend. I rejoice in suffering because Christ suffered for me.
  • I bring my best and then some. It’s what I bring after I do my best that makes the difference.
  • The world will be different and better because I served Jesus today.

Because of Jesus …

  • I am a child of God. (Galatians 3:26)
  • I am a spiritual contributor, not a spiritual consumer.
  • I am alive. (Romans 6:11)
  • I am a faith-filled, life-speaking, fully devoted follower of Christ.
  • I am Christ’s ambassador. (2 Corinthians 5:20)
  • I am a masterpiece. (Ephesians 2:10)
  • I am content in Christ alone.
  • I am chosen. (Ephesians 1:4)
  • I am determined to love God and people with everything I have.
  • I am a child of God. (John 1:12-13)
  • I am strengthened by God who upholds me, protects me, and defends me.
  • I am joyful. (Galatians 5:22-23)
  • I am gentle. (Galatians 5:22-23)
  • I am not easily offended and will not hold onto bitterness.
  • I am patient. (Galatians 5:22-23)
  • I am faithful. (Galatians 5:22-23)
  • I am self-controlled. (Galatians 5:22-23)
  • I am kind. (Galatians 5:22-23)
  • I am known—even before I was born. (Jeremiah 1:5)
  • I am steady. (Psalm 91:1)
  • I am not alone—God is with me.
  • I am loved. (John 3:16)
  • I am fierce in confidence and boldness because God is with me.
  • I am free. (John 8:32)
  • I am healed. (1 Peter 2:24)
  • I am unashamed. (Romans 8:1)
  • I am called and equipped to go after the righteous desires God puts in my heart.
  • I am strong. (1 John 2:14)
  • I am fearless. (Isaiah 43:5)
  • I am secure. (John 10:28-29)
  • I am not a people-pleaser because I answer to God first and seek to please Him.
  • I am a new creation. (2 Corinthians 5:17)
  • I am not shaken. (Psalm 62:6)
  • I am not stuck in worry because Jesus offers a peace this world cannot give.
  • I am born again. (1 Peter 1:23)
  • I am more than a conqueror. (Romans 8:37)
  • I am named by God, not labeled by man.
  • I am the light of the world. (Matthew 5:14)
  • I am mighty in His power. (Ephesians 6:10)
  • I am the Church and I exist for the world. (1 Corinthians 12:27)

For Women

  • I am the daughter of the King of all kings.
  • Because of Jesus, I lack nothing.
  • God has given me everything I need to do what He’s called me to do.
  • I speak encouraging, life-giving words and build others up.
  • The joy of the Lord is my strength. (Nehemiah 8:10)
  • I will not compare myself to other women. God made us all beautifully unique.
  • I will hold myself to God’s standards and measure myself with grace.
  • I will love and laugh rather than fight and complain.
  • I refuse to waste my life on meaningless things.
  • I will act justly, love mercy, and walk humbly with my God. (Micah 6:8)
  • Through Christ I am strong, gentle, fierce, and compassionate.
  • I will fight the good fight for what matters most. (2 Timothy 4:7)

For Men

  • I am the son of the King of all kings.
  • I lay down my pride and selfishness, giving all glory to the one true God.
  • I love my family like Christ loved the Church—giving Himself up for her.
  • I fight for purity, guarding my eyes and heart from tempting situations.
  • I seek friendships with other godly men to sharpen my perspective. (Proverbs 27:17)
  • I wait for God to open the right doors and take action when He does.
  • I’m not defined by my failures or successes.
  • I finish what I start.
  • I never give up!
  • I will act justly, love mercy, and walk humbly with my God. (Micah 6:8)
  • Through Christ I am strong, gentle, fierce, and compassionate.
  • I am a warrior! I stand firm, even when the pain is crippling, because God is my strength.
  • I will fight the good fight for what matters most. (2 Timothy 4:7)

For Parents

  • Every child is a gift from God. (Psalm 127:3)
  • God has given me everything I need to teach my kids about Him.
  • I am capable of leading with the love of Christ rather than the fear of punishment.
  • I am intentional to leave my children with an eternal legacy. (Deuteronomy 6:5-9)
  • I will encourage, build up, and instill truth in my children.
  • In our house, we forgive, we give grace, and we always love.
  • I will never give up, even when parenting is hard.
  • I can be patient and kind because the Holy Spirit helps me. (Galatians 5:22-23)
  • I will pray for my children because God hears my prayers.

Everyday Life with Jesus

  • The same power that raised Christ from the dead lives in me. (Ephesians 1:19-20)
  • Nothing can separate me from God. (Romans 8:38-39)
  • Sin has no power over me. (Romans 6:14)
  • I have authority over the enemy. (Luke 10:19)
  • I can resist the enemy. (James 4:7)
  • I can endure all things through Christ. (Philippians 4:13)
  • I have the mind of Christ. (1 Corinthians 2:16)
  • I have everything I need for life and godliness through the knowledge of Him. (2 Peter 1:3)
  • I have eternal life, which is knowing God. (John 17:3)
  • I overcome the world. (John 16:33)
  • Greater is He that lives in me. (1 John 4:4)
  • I have the ability to choose life. (Deuteronomy 30:19)
  • I am kept by the power of God. (1 Peter 1:5)
  • I have the power to tell others about God’s love for them. (Acts 1:8)
  • God meets my needs. (Philippians 4:19)
  • I have access to my heavenly Father. (Ephesians 2:18)
  • I have hope. (Hebrews 6:19)
  • The Lord is my shepherd. (Psalm 23:1)

Friendship

  • I assume the best about others.
  • I am a good friend.
  • My friends and family love me.
  • I am kind and loving.
  • My lovingkindness will speak for itself so I don’t have to.
  • I love because Love lives in me.
  • I shut my mouth when I want to complain.
  • I speak life!
  • I encourage others daily.
  • Joy is my reputation.
  • I represent Christ well to my friends.

Shame

  • I am not defined by what I have done.
  • God’s grace is more powerful than my sin.
  • I am forgiven when I turn to God for salvation because Christ already paid my debt.
  • My record has been wiped clean. (Psalm 103:12)
  • Even when others remind me of my past, I will not let it limit my future.
  • I am a new creation. (2 Corinthians 5:17)

Finances

  • I am irrationally generous because God is irrationally generous. (Romans 5:8)
  • God can do more than I can ask, think, or imagine.
  • God does the multiplying—it’s my job to obey.
  • I am a lender, not a borrower.
  • I give up things I love for things I love even more.
  • It’s an honor to sacrifice for Christ and His Church.
  • It really is more blessed to give than to receive. (Acts 20:35)

Temptation / Addiction

  • God always provides a way out, and I will take it. (1 Corinthians 10:13)
  • I am free from sin’s trap.
  • No temptation is greater than my God.
  • He will help me; I only need to ask. (Matthew 7:7)
  • God is stronger than my appetite.
  • Jesus’ name is above my addiction.
  • I crave the Word of God more than addiction.
  • God has given me the power to stand against temptation.
  • I submit to God and resist the devil. (James 4:7)

Discouragement / Hope

  • When there is no hope, Jesus fills me with hope. (Romans 15:13)
  • I am not a rejected soul because God continuously pursues me.
  • I take my thoughts captive and align them with God’s perspective.
  • I can put my hope in God’s promises because He is trustworthy. (Numbers 23:19)
  • I have a choice—today I will choose life!

Finish Strong

  • I will pick up my cross daily and follow Jesus, no matter the cost.
  • I run the race to finish strong. (1 Corinthians 9:24)
  • In Christ, I can do hard things.
  • God will complete the work He first began in me. (Philippians 1:6)
  • Christ will be my strength and I will persevere.
  • I will not lean on my own understanding, but on Christ.
  • Greater is He who is in me, than he who is in the world. (1 John 4:4)
  • Nothing the enemy throws at me is more powerful than Jesus.
  • The Holy Spirit fills me and shows me the way.

Business

  • I am a faith-filled, big thinking, bet-the-farm risk taker.
  • I will never insult God with small thinking and safe living.
  • I show God’s love to every client, vendor, coworker, and employee. (John 13:35)
  • Neither failures nor successes define my worth.
  • God is my defender, negotiator, and guide.

Offense

  • I am not easily offended because God’s love lives in me.
  • I am able to forgive quickly because God has forgiven me.
  • I keep no record of wrongs. (1 Corinthians 13:5)

He is God

  • You are a good Father.
  • You are my God who keeps His word.
  • You do not lie. (Numbers 23:19)
  • You are faithful throughout all generations. (Psalm 119:90)
  • You have overcome the world.
  • You love me. (John 3:16)
  • In You I have peace, freedom, and no condemnation.
  • You rescue and defend.
  • You brought me the Good News.
  • You bind up my broken heart. (Psalm 147:3)
  • You released me from my prison.
  • You are my comfort.

Fear/Anxiety

  • I will not be afraid because God is with me. (Isaiah 41:10)
  • I turn to Jesus because He offers a peace this world cannot give.
  • I will not be a slave to fear. (Galatians 4:7)
  • I am safe in Christ.
  • God is my shelter and my hiding place. (Psalm 32:7)
  • The peace of God will guard my heart and mind.

Protection

  • I rest in the shelter of the Most High.
  • I remain stable and fixed under the shadow of the Almighty.
  • God is my protection in whom I confidently trust. (2 Thessalonians 3:3)
  • God will save me.
  • God’s truth and His faithfulness are my cover and defense.
  • I will not fear.
  • God commands His angels to guard me in all my ways. (Psalm 91:11)
  • The Lord will rescue and protect me.
  • My God answers me when I call on Him.
  • God is with me in trouble.

Identity

  • I am loved.
  • My value is not based on what I can do, but what Jesus did.
  • My failures do not define me.
  • My accomplishments are because of God in me.
  • My life is a witness, a city on a hill. (Matthew 5:14)
  • I am holy and blameless in Christ.
  • I am safe.
  • I am accepted.
  • I am not condemned.
  • I am enough because Jesus is enough.
  • God is working in me and through me. (Hebrews 6:10)
  • While man may reject me, my God never will.

Healing/Health

  • God’s Word is nourishment to my body and soul.
  • God sustains me. (Psalm 54:4)
  • God is my help.
  • God alone has the power to heal.
  • God says to ask, and seek, and knock, so that is what I will do.
  • I believe that God can. I believe that God will. But even if He doesn’t, I still believe.
  • The same Spirit that raised Jesus from the dead lives within me.
  • The life of God within me restores my health.
  • The devil is already defeated.
  • Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will not fear! (Psalm 23:4)
  • I rely on God’s strength because when I am weak, I am strong. (2 Corinthians 12:9-10)

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