Words for family members and other relatives in German, a West Germanic
language spoken mainly in Germany, Austria, Switzerland and Lichtenstein
Key to abbreviations: m = male, f = female
Deutsch (German) | |
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family | die Familie |
parents | die Eltern |
father | der Vater; Vati; Pa |
mother | die Mutter; Mutti; Ma |
children | die Kinder |
son | der Sohn |
daughter | die Tochter |
husband | der Mann |
wife | die Frau |
brother | der Bruder |
sister | die Schwester |
uncle | der Onkel |
aunt | die Tante |
cousin | der Cousin (m); die Cousine (f) |
nephew | der Neffe |
niece | die Nichte |
grandparents | die Großeltern |
grandfather | der Großvater |
grandmother | die Großmutter |
grandchildren | die Enkelkinder |
grandson | der Enkel |
granddaughter | die Enkelin |
father-in-law | der Schwiegervater |
mother-in-law | die Schwiegermutter |
brother-in-law | der Schwager; Schwippschwager (spouse’s sister’s husband) |
sister-in-law | die Schwägerin; Schwippschwägerin (spouse’s brother’s wife) |
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Are you visiting a friend in Germany? Have you met a special German someone and they’re introducing you to their family? In either case, that’s exciting, and knowing the German vocabulary for family members will make you stand out.
Thankfully as you’ll see, the German family words sound an awful lot like their English counterparts. This will make the vocabulary easier to remember if you need to introduce your family members, such as a husband or wife, parent, child, or sibling. All right, let’s get going and learn these all-important German words!
German Family Culture
In Germany, family bonds are strong. Virtually everyone you meet will insinuate how fundamentally important family is to them. There is, however, a distinction between immediate and extended relations. Direct relatives tend to have much stronger bonds and support compared to relatives by marriage.
When you meet someone’s family members, you’ll want to start off by introducing yourself in German. Be sure to include the person’s name (if you know it) or address them with something like, it’s lovely to finally meet so and so’s mother.
Family Structure In Germany
Within Germany, the nuclear family remains the most statistically common family structure. However, Germans are also excepting same-sex couples and same-sex families living together.
German people are also rather self-sufficing and independent, so you won’t find entire generations of families living under one roof as you would in some other cultures. Grandparents or elderly parents tend to live on their own.
How To Describe Family In German
In the German culture, there is only one term for family, and it’s the die Familie (the family). See how similar that is to English? Quite a few of the words will sound familiar. For those that look tricky to pronounce, click the blue button to hear the correct pronunciation.
Immediate Family Vocabulary In German
English | German | Pronunciation |
The brother | der Bruder | |
The child | das Kind | |
The child | die Kinder | |
The children | die Geschwister | |
The daughter | die Tochter | |
The father | der Vater | |
The grandchildren | die Enkelkinder |
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The granddaughter | die Enkelin | |
The grandma | die Oma | |
The grandpa | der Opa | |
The grandson | der Enkel | |
The half-brother | der Halbbruder | |
The half-sister | die Halbschwester | |
The husband | der Ehemann | |
The mother | die Mutter | |
The parents | die Eltern |
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The siblings | die Geschwister | |
The sister | die Schwester | |
The son | der Sohn |
Extended Family Members In German Vocabulary
English | German | Pronunciation |
Great-grandfather | der Urgroßvater | |
Great-grandmother | die tolle Großmutter | |
Uncle | der Onkel | |
Aunt | die Tante | |
Cousin (male) | der Cousin | |
Nephew | der Neffe |
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Cousin (female) | die Cousine | |
Niece | die nichte |
German Vocabulary For In-laws
English | German | Pronunciation |
The in-laws | die Schwiegereltern | |
Father-in-law | der Schwiegervater | |
Mother-in-law | die Schwiegermutter | |
Son-in-law | der Schwiegersohn | |
Daughter-in-law | die Schwiegertochter | |
Sister-in-law | die Schwägerin | |
Brother-in-law | der Schwager |
German Vocabulary For Step-Family Members
English | German | Pronunciation |
Stepfather | der Stiefvater |
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Stepmother | die Stiefmutter | |
Stepbrother | der Stiefbruder |
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Stepsister | die Stiefschwester | |
Half brother | der Halbbruder | |
Half sister | die Halbschwester |
Other Family-Related Vocabulary In German
English | German | Pronunciation |
Widower | der Witwer | |
Widow | die Witwe | |
Single | Single | |
Married | verheiratet | |
Divorced | geschieden |
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Separated | getrennt |
Questions To Ask People About Their Family In German
You may find it useful or polite to ask someone about their family. Remember to only really attempt this with people you know. To inquire about these questions with complete strangers would be considered odd in German culture and off-putting.
English | German | Pronunciation |
Are you married? | Bist du verheiratet? | |
How long have you been married? | Wie lange bist du verheiratet? | |
Are you single? | Sind Sie single? | |
Do you have children? | Hast du Kinder? | |
Do you have siblings? | haben sie geschwister | |
Where are your relatives from? | Woher kommen Ihre Verwandten? | |
Where are your parents from? | Woher kommen deine Eltern? |
Family-Related Questions To Ask Locals
English Question | German Question | Pronunciation | English Response | German Response | Pronunciation |
Do you have children? | Hast du Kinder? |
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We have 3 children | wir haben drei kinde | |
Are you related? | Bist du verwandt? | We are not related | wir sind nicht verwandt | ||
Who is your mother? | Wer ist deine Mutter? | This is my mother | Das ist meine Mutter | ||
How many siblings do you have? | Sind deine Eltern verheiratet? | I have two siblings | Ich habe zwei Geschwister | ||
Do you have a brother or a sister? | Hast du einen Bruder oder eine Schwester? | Yes, I have two brothers and one sister. | Ja, ich habe zwei Brüder und eine Schwester | ||
Is she your wife? | Wie ist der Name deines Bruders? |
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Yes, this is my wife | Ja, das ist meine Ehefrau |
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Today we are going to talk about German family vocabulary. In German the word for family is “die Familie”. In this lesson, I introduce you to a bunch of vocabulary for family members in German. Then I use that vocabulary in various example sentences talking about the family. By the end of this lesson, you will be able to create your own family tree and write a few sentences about your family in German.
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die Eltern | parents |
der Vater, die Väter | father, fathers |
die Mutter, die Mütter | mother, mothers |
der Stiefvater, die Stiefväter | stepfather, stepfathers |
die Stiefmutter, die Stiefmütter | stepmother, stepmothers |
das Kind, die Kinder | child, children |
der Sohn, die Söhne | son, sons |
die Tochter, die Töchter | daughter, daughters |
der Stiefsohn, die Stiefsöhne | stepson, stepsons |
die Stieftochter, die Stieftöchter | stepdaughter, stepdaughters |
die Geschwister | siblings |
der Bruder, die Brüder | brother, brothers |
die Schwester, die Schwestern | sister, sisters |
der Stiefbruder, die Stiefbrüder | stepbrother |
die Stiefschwester, die Stiefschwestern | stepsister, stepsisters |
der Halbbruder, die Halbbrüder | half brother, half brothers |
die Halbschwester, die Halbschwestern | half sister, half sisters |
Extended Family
der Onkel, die Onkel | uncle, uncles |
die Tante, die Tanten | aunt, aunts |
der Cousin, die Cousins | cousin, cousins (male) |
die Cousine, die Cousinen | cousin, cousins (female) |
der Vetter, die Vettern | cousin, cousins (generic) |
der Neffe, die Neffen | nephew |
die Nichte, die Nichten | niece |
The Older Generation
die Großeltern | grandparents |
der Großvater, die Großväter | grandfather, grandfathers |
der Opa, die Opas | grandpa, grandpas |
die Großmutter, die Großmütter | grandmother, grandmothers |
die Oma, die Omas | grandma, grandmas |
der Urgroßvater, die Urgroßväter | great grandfather, great grandfathers |
die Urgroßmutter, die Urgroßmütter | great grandmother, great grandmothers |
der Enkel, die Enkel | grandson, grandsons |
die Enkelin, die Enkelinnen | granddaughter, granddaughters |
das Enkelkind, die Enkelkinder | grandchild, grandchildren |
In-Laws
der Schwiegervater, die Schwiegerväter | father-in-law, fathers-in-law |
die Schwiegermutter, die Schwiegermütter | mother-in-law, mothers-in-law |
der Schwiegersohn, die Schwiegersöhne | son-in-law, sons-in-law |
die Schwiegertochter, die Schwiegertöchter | daughter-in-law, daughters-in-law |
der Schwager, die Schwäger | brother-in-law, brothers-in-law |
die Schwägerin, die Schwägerinnen | sister-in-law, sisters-in-law |
Example Sentences to Describe Your Family in German
Das ist meine Familie.
This is my family.
Meine Frau und ich haben zwei Kinder.
My wife and I have two children.
Mein Sohn heißt Luke.
My son is named Luke.
Meine Tochter heißt Sophia.
My daughter is named Sophia.
Sophia ist acht und Luke ist drei.
Sophia is eight and Luke is three.
Meine Geschwister sind Aaron und Ashley.
My siblings are Aaron and Ashley.
Mein Vater ist Todd.
My father is Todd.
Sein Vater ist mein Großvater.
His father is my grandfather.
Frank und Virginia sind meine Großeltern.
Frank and Virginia are my grandparents.
Ashley ist Lukes und Sophias Tante.
Ashley is Luke’s and Sophia’s aunt.
Aaron ist ihr Onkel.
Aaron is their uncle.
Virginia ist Lukes und Sophias Urgroßmutter.
Virginia is Luke’s and Sophia’s great grandmother.
German Family Vocabulary from “Beginner German with Herr Antrim”
In this beginner German lesson I teach you a ton of German vocabulary for family (Familie) members. This video includes the basics (father, mother, brother, sister, etc) and some of the more complicated vocabulary (step-siblings, half-siblings, in-laws, etc). Follow along as I describe Bob’s family tree.
This lesson is a part of Herr Antrim’s new e-book “Beginner German with Herr Antrim“. Within the e-book, this lesson includes a worksheet and answer key to practice the skills you are about to learn. You will also get access to online flashcards and a whole lot more. Find out more about the e-book here.
Bobs Familie
Das ist Bob. Bob ist 35 Jahre alt. Er hatte eine Ehefrau, Steffi. 2007 war Bob noch ledig. Dann hat er Steffi getroffen. Zuerst war sie seine Freundin und er ihr Freund. Dann wurde sie seine Verlobte und er ihr Verlobter, da sie sich verlobt hatten. Ihre Hochzeit wurde 2012 gefeiert. Dann wurde Bob der Ehemann und Steffi die Ehefrau. Ehemann oder Ehefrau kann man auch Ehepartner nennen.
Sie haben drei Kinder, Jan, Sophie und Luca. Das sind Bob und Steffies Nachwuchs. Jan ist der ältere Sohn und Luca der jüngere. Sophie ist die Tochter. Sophie ist die Schwester von Jan und Luca. Luca ist der Bruder von Sophie und Jan. Sie sind Geschwister. Ihre Eltern sind Bob, der Vater, und Steffi, die Mutter. Die Kinder nennen Bob entweder Papa oder Vati und Steffi entweder Mama oder Mutti.
Scheidung und Kinder
2016 haben sich Bob und Steffi schieden lassen. 2017 hat Bob eine neue Frau, Katrin, geheiratet und Steffi einen neuen Mann, Christian. Bobs neue Frau ist die Stiefmutter von Jan, Sophie und Luca. Steffis neuer Mann ist der Stiefvater von den Kindern. Katrin war eine Witwe. Ihr Ehemann ist vor ein paar Jahren gestorben. Wenn die Ehefrau von einem Mann stirbt, nennt man diesen Mann einen Witwer. Christian hatte schon zwei Kinder, als er Steffi geheiratet hat. Anna ist die Stiefschwester und Leon ist der Stiefbruder von Jan, Sophie und Luca. Sie sind alle Stiefgeschwister. Christians Kinder sind die Stiefkinder von Steffi. Anna ist die Stieftochter und Leon der Stiefsohn.
Bob und Katrin haben einen Sohn und eine Tochter zusammen. Laura ist die Halbschwester von Jan, Sophie und Luca und Jannik der Halbbruder. Laura und Jannik sind Zwillinge. Sie sind nicht eineiige Zwillinge. Sie sind zweieiige Zwillinge. Das bedeutet, sie sehen nicht gleich aus.
Bobs Eltern
Bobs Eltern sind die Großeltern von Jan, Sophie und Luca. Ihr Großvater und ihre Großmutter haben zwei Söhne, Bob und Daniel und eine Tochter, Nadine. Daniel ist der Onkel von den Kindern. Daniels Ehefrau, Melanie und Bob und Daniels Schwester, Nadine sind die Tanten von Jan, Sophie und Luca. Die Kinder von Daniel und Melanie sind die Vettern von Jan, Sophie und Luca. Julia ist die Cousine und Dennis ist der Cousin. Jan und Luca sind die Neffen von Daniel und Melanie. Sophie ist ihre Nichte.
Daniel ist der Schwager von Katrin. Nadine ist Katrins Schwägerin. Klaus ist ihr Schwiegervater und Birgit die Schwiegermutter. Katrin ist die Schwiegertochter von Klaus und Birgit. Bob ist der Schwiegersohn von Katrins Eltern.
Die Kinder von Bob nennen Klaus Opa und Birgit Oma. Der Großonkel und Großtante von Bobs Kindern sind die Geschwister von Birgit. Die Eltern von Birgit sind die Urgroßeltern von Bobs Kindern, Dieter der Urgroßvater und Elke die Urgroßmutter. Jan und Luca sind die Enkel von Klaus und Birgit und Sophie die Enkelin. Für Dieter und Elke sind sie die Großenkel und die Großenkelin.
Beginner German with Herr Antrim
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Imagine that you’re traveling to good old Germany, and you want the real experience (not just staying in a hotel or hostel like everyone else). Well, this is fair enough, and we definitely encourage going for the full Germany experience. But first, you’ll need to know some basic family terms, like how to say “father” in German.
Why is it so important to know the words for family members in German? Imagine the following situation:
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You arrive at your freshly booked Airbnb, and your host welcomes you with a nice dinner. But there’s one hitch: you find yourself eating with his parents, some friends, his cousin, and his grandmother, too. Your host starts to introduce everyone, pointing to each person as he states their name:
Ich möchte dich meinen Eltern vorstellen. Das sind mein Papa und meine Mutter. Und dort sitzt meine Großmutter und mein Cousin.
Despite your host’s best efforts to familiarize you with his family, you actually find yourself more confused about who’s who. Oh no!
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While learning things like family member terms in German first-hand is always a great idea, you may be more comfortable studying up on this before your trip. After all, when it comes to family in German, words like the one in our example are going to come up all the time, so you should prepare using German lessons about family like this one!
GermanPod101 has prepared a guide just for you, covering vocabulary terms for any family member you may find yourself introduced to! Going through this guide, you can work on your language skills beforehand, so that you can make the most of your first-hand learning experiences in Germany. So let’s get started!
Table of Contents
- Family in German – Die Familie
- List of Closest Family Members + Basic Sentence Patterns
- More Family and Endearment Terms
- How to Talk about Family
- Cultural Insights in a German Family
- How GermanPod101 Can Help You Learn about Family in German
1. Family in German – Die Familie
Familie is the German word for “family.” As you can see, the word is more similar to English than you thought. Might this be because German families aren’t so different from those in the U.S. or other countries? Let’s take a look.
When you look over the demographics of Germany, you can clearly see that we are a dying nation. This means that every year, more people die than are being born, and our average age is getting older and older from year to year. (This is, of course, not exclusive to Germany, and is also happening in other first-world countries.)
I want to give you a short example of the above statistics using my family history. My grandmother was one of six children in her family at the end of the Second World War, and this was considered a normal-sized family. Now, my mom and dad are both one of three children. And today, there’s just me and my sister. From each of my uncles and aunties, I have between zero and three cousins.
Do you see what I mean? German families have become much smaller over the last seventy-eighty years. Today, people tend to think first about their lives and careers, and secondly about kids and family.
Families are the most important reference point for a child until the end of his or her time in college. But for many people, the end of college also represents a diminishing significance for their parents’ home. Keep in mind that I don’t want to say German kids don’t love their parents. Of course they do.
The family is, and will always be, important in Germany, so learn about it and adapt to it!
2. List of Closest Family Members + Basic Sentence Patterns
1- General Terms for German Immediate Family
We created an overview of the most important family in German vocabulary words, such as your siblings, parents, and grandparents. The German is on the left, and the English equivalent is on the right.
die Eltern | “the parents” |
der Vater | “the father” |
die Mutter | “the mother” |
das Kind die Kinder |
“the child” “the children” |
die Geschwister | “the siblings” |
die Schwester die Halbschwester |
“the sister” “the half-sister” |
der Bruder der Halbbruder |
“the brother” “the half-brother” |
der Sohn | “the son” |
die Tochter | “the daughter” |
die Ehefrau | “the wife” |
der Ehemann | “the husband” |
der Großvater der Opa |
“the grandfather” “the grandpa” |
die Großmutter die Oma |
“the grandmother” “the grandma” |
To help you out with some basic words and the pronunciation for family member terms, we created a free lesson in our free-of-charge course. With enough practice, you’ll be able to talk about your parents and siblings in German like it’s nothing!
2- Talking about Family Members
There are usually three situations when talking about family:
- You’re trying to talk about your family
- You’re talking about someone else’s family members
- You’re asking someone about their family
That means you need to describe who’s family you’re talking or inquiring about. This is done with possessives.
Similar to “my,” “yours,” “his” in English, in Germany we use meine, deine, and seine. To prepare you for the upcoming challenges associated with each of the situations outlined above, we’ve provided you with some basic questions and answers.
Wer ist deine Mutter? “Who is your mother?” |
Das ist meine Mutter. “This is my mother.” |
Sind deine Eltern verheiratet? “Are your parents married?” |
Nein, meine Eltern sind geschieden. “No, my parents are divorced.” |
Wie viele Geschwister hast du? “How many siblings do you have?” |
Ich habe zwei Geschwister, zusammen sind wir 3 Kinder. “I have two siblings, together we are three kids.” |
Hast du einen Bruder oder eine Schwester? “Do you have a brother or a sister?” |
Ja, ich habe zwei Brüder und eine Schwester. “Yes, I have two brothers and one sister.” |
Wie ist der Name deines Bruders? “What is the name of your brother?” |
Mein Bruder heißt Peter. “My brother’s name is Peter.” |
Wie alt sind deine Großeltern? “How old are your grandparents?” |
Meine Oma ist 65 und mein Opa ist 70 Jahre alt. “My grandma is sixty-five and my grandpa is seventy years old.” |
Ist sie deine Ehefrau? “Is she your wife?” |
Ja, das ist meine Ehefrau Eva. “Yes, this is my wife Eva.” |
Take a close look at how we used the possessive pronouns. They always have to be adapted to the person you’re talking about.
3. More Family and Endearment Terms
1- German Extended Family
Everybody has family members outside of their immediate family. Below, we give you some family member terms that you’ll face every day while living with a German family. We won’t go into too much detail, as the half-sister of your siblings’ aunt isn’t really interesting anymore.
der Onkel | “the uncle” |
die Tante | “the aunt” |
der Cousin [kuˈzɛŋ] | “the cousin” (m) |
die Cousine | “the cousin” (f) |
der Neffe | “the nephew” |
die Nichte | “the niece” |
This doesn’t seem too hard to understand, does it? With all of the terms we’ve gone over so far, you’re almost ready to talk about your family in various contexts. There are some more things we’ll cover in the next chapters, but what we have so far are the closest family members.
2- Endearment Terms
Families are cute, and you can always hear little grandsons or granddaughters calling their grandparents “granny” or “grandpa.” Those are just a couple examples of so-called endearment terms, and of course we have them in Germany as well.
We’ll show you two quick ways to create endearment terms, and give you some examples. Before we go on, we want to let you know that this doesn’t work with all family members the same way.
1. Adding an i
The first way to create endearment terms in Germany is to cut the last letter(s) of the term, and replace it with the letter i. It’s no mistake that we mentioned it can be the last letter or letters. When the term ends with a vowel, you replace only the last letter. In any other case, you need to replace the last two letters.
Here are some examples:
Mama -> Mami
“mother” -> “mom/mommy”
Mutter -> Mutti
“mother” -> “mom”
Papa -> Papi
“father” -> “daddy”
Vater -> Vati
“father” -> “dad”
Opa -> Opi
“grandmother” -> “granny”
Oma -> Omi
“grandfather” -> “grandpa”
But there are also examples where it doesn’t work, such as:
Onkel -> Onki
Tante -> Tanti
Großmutter -> Großmutti (theoretically this works, but you’re never going to use this)
2. Adding chen to the end of the word
This might be the better-known form for any German learner. This one is a bit trickier and has some special rules. The basic rule is that you just add chen after each term. But be aware that when doing this, in some cases, if the word ends with a vowel, you have to cut this vowel before adding the chen. Or, if the word has a vowel in-between, you change it to ü, ö, or ä (instead of u, o, a).
Good examples are:
Großmutter -> Großmütterchen (grandmother -> grandma)
Onkel -> Onkelchen
Tante -> Tantchen (aunt -> auntie)
Cousine -> Cousinchen
As you can see, sometimes there’s not even a proper English translation for the endearment term you can create in German. The good thing about this way of creating endearment terms is that you can use it with almost everything, and you’re not limited to people or family members. Take a look at these examples:
Bierchen from the word Bier (beer)
Tischchen from the word Tisch (table)
Tässchen from the word Tasse (cup)
4. How to Talk about Family
It’s quite easy to introduce your family to another person in German. Let’s imagine ourselves sitting around a large table, where all the family is eating together, and a friend of yours arrives for the first time. You both stand in front of the table.
Das ist meine Mutter und das mein Papa. | “This is my mother and this is my dad.” |
Dort drüben sitzen meine Großeltern. | “Over there are sitting my grandparents.” |
Neben ihnen siehst du den Bruder meiner Mama, meinen Onkel. | “Next to them, you can see the brother of my mother, my uncle.” |
Mein Cousin, der Sohn meiner Tante ist heute nicht hier. | “My cousin, the son of my aunt, he is not here today.” |
Meine Oma ist leider schon gestorben. | “My granny unfortunately has already passed away.” |
5. Cultural Insights in a German Family
The family is, for most Germans, one of the fundamental aspects of their lives. The family is an important part of every German. Children usually grow up close to their grandparents (who sometimes take care of their grandchildren when the parents are at work). Further, trust is a big thing for German families. But even with this strong bond, Germans are moving out of their parents’ home quite early to study, work, and become financially independent.
We’ve already mentioned that most German families are fairly small compared to those in other countries. Family size strongly depends on where you live, though. For instance, in the countryside, it’s normal for multiple generations to live on a big farm together, or even more than one family from one generation.
So it can be possible to find houses with up to ten people in the more rural areas, but even there, everybody has their own space and flat. You can live there with your parents, your grandparents, and maybe even your uncle’s family.
In the city, the situation is typically different, and families don’t live together. Everybody has their own flat or house, and don’t see each other in daily life.
Traditionally, the man is the head of the family. But let’s face it: this isn’t really how it works anymore. Women enjoy the same rights as men, and all decisions are made as a couple, or even among the entire family including children.
In the old days, it was common for people to get married after living together for a while. Now, you can find couples that stay together their whole lives and never get married. But trends are now coming back to the traditional way.
For some more information about German culture, we’ve prepared another lesson for you.
6. How GermanPod101 Can Help You Learn about Family in German
We hope that you got some helpful insight from our article about families in Germany, such as how to talk about family members. You now know a little bit about the typical family situation in Germany today, and how people are organizing their daily lives.
You should be able to talk about your immediate and extended family, introduce them to others, and talk to someone about them.
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Learn how to talk about your family in the German language. Family is important, so get studying with our list below.
List of Family members in German
No matter where you go, your family always seem to find you. This list included.
“The Family” in German
die Familie
Family is important. That’s why it is important to now how to say “die Familie”. It is time you showed them some of that German love.
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Wie groß ist deine Familie? | How big is your family? |
Ich habe keine große Familie. | I don’t have a big family. |
“Father” in German
Vater
Honor your dad next Father’s day by showing him you care in German. There is no better present.
Here’s how to do it.
He Vater, Glücklicher Vatertag! | Hey father, happy Father’s day! |
Danke mein Sohn. | Thank you my son. |
“Mother” in German
Mutter
Do not forget to show your mom some love as well. Not just on Mother’s day though. Why not use your German to become a better child? Your mom deserves it.
“Ich liebe dich, Mutter.” | “I love you mother.” |
“Ich liebe dich sehr!” | “I love you very much!” |
“Child” in German
Kind
Children are “kind”, at least until they grow up. That should help you remember.
“Hast du ein Kind?” | “Do you have a child?” |
“Nein, tue ich nicht.” | “No, I do not.” |
“Siblings” in German
Geschwister
Even though you probably hated each other growing up, you are still family. If you don’t talk anymore, why not try in German. It could work, you never know.
“Sie sehen sich ähnlich.” | “They look alike.” |
“Sie sind Geschwister.” | “They are siblings.” |
“Brother” in German
Bruder
Oh “Bruder”! It is time to start learning your German vocab. It could be a good bonding experience.
“Ist das dein Bruder?” | “Is that your brother?” |
“Ja, er heisst Klaus.” | “Yeah, his name is Klaus.” |
“Sister” in German
Schwester
Do not forget about your “Schwester”. Sounds like sister, but much more fun to say.
“Hast du Geschwister?” | “Do you have any siblings?” |
“Ich habe eine Schwester.” | “I have a sister.” |
“Uncle” in German
Onkel
Looks like how a kid might try and write uncle in English. Yet, sounds almost the same as in English.
“Ich bin aus New York.” | “I am from New York.” |
“Mein Onkel wohnt in New York.” | “My uncle lives in New York.” |
“Aunt” in German
Tante
Everyone always forgets about their “Tante”. Do not be one of those people. After all, they are usually known as the cool ones in the family.
“Wo ist Tante Petunia?” | “Where is Aunt Petunia?” |
“Tante Petunia ist nicht im Haus gekommen.” | “Aunt Petunia did not come in the house.” |
Terms children used to call their Parents and Grandparents
Ahhh to be a kid again. Learn the vocab below and teach your children how to care for their elders.
“Mom” in German
die Mama
Basically, the same as in English. So you shouldn’t need to spend much time studying.
“Mama, kann ich Eis?” | Mama, can I have ice cream? |
“Ja, meine liebling.” | Yes, my darling. |
“Mommy” in German
die Mutti
Similar to “Mama” but “Mutti” tends to be used more in southern Germany. Be sure to tell your mother. She might find it interesting.
Mutti! Mutti! ich liebe dich! | Mommy! Mommy! I love you! |
“Grandma” in German
die Oma
The person who always spoiled you the most was always your “Oma”. It is time to pay her back a little by learning what to call her in German.
Wie viel Süßigkeiten hat Oma? | How much candy does grandma have? |
Keine Ahnung. | I have no idea. |
“Grandpa” in German
der Opa
Although your “Opa” may not have spoiled you as much as your “Oma”, that’s no reason not to learn this word.
“Schau mal! Wer ist das?” | “Look! Who is that?” |
“Das ist mein Opa!” | “That is my Grandpa!” |
“Dad” in German
der Papa
No troubles here, we have the same word in English. But look at you learning German, your “Papa” would be proud.
Papa ist sehr streng. Weil er dich liebt. | Papa is very strict. Because he loves you. |
“Daddy” in German
der Vati
Another endearing way to address that “Vati” in your life.
Wohin gehen wir Vati? | Where are we going daddy? |
Zum Spielzeugladen! | To the toy store! |
Conclusion
Now that you know all the ways to address all the loved ones in your life in German. Why not give your family a call? Or better yet, take them on a trip to Germany.
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Family gatherings are the subject of many books, reality TV shows and films.
Around them, you can be yourself without fear of being judged.
They’re made up of all different sizes, types and personalities.
And most importantly, family is there through thick and thin!
Whether your family is made up of step-siblings, pets (who could forget them?) or adopted family friends, what matters most are the relationships you create.
While it may be hard to distinguish between aunts and uncles and cousins once, twice or three times removed, we want to challenge yourself to think about your family in a different way—in German!
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What You Need to Know About German Families
Before we get to the terms for families, let’s take a look at what family looks like nowadays in Germany.
German families are typically smaller than the average American family. You might say this is due to space limitations in a country much smaller than the U.S., or perhaps it’s in part related to social values and more intricate aspects of German culture.
Whatever the factors may be, Germans place a lot of value in the distinctions between public and private. You might not see a lot of Germans posting the types of things most Americans post on Facebook, as their values don’t necessarily reflect such an open dialogue.
Couples are more apt to think about the future when considering parenthood, as evident by the low birth rate in Germany (roughly 1.5 births per woman). Germans have something called Kindergeld, a monthly stipend in the vein of what is known in America as child support, given to parents and/or children until the child(ren) reach a certain age.
How to Talk About Your Family in German
Across most cultures, family plays an important, sometimes sacred role. In the days of tribes, family members helped each other stay alive by lending a hand with the daily rituals of survival. Family shows us where we came from. So in a way, speaking about your family is telling the world more about yourself.
At this point in your German language career, you probably know how to introduce yourself, say how old you are and tell others a little bit about what you like or don’t like.
Learning how to speak about your family—your origins—takes you one step closer to Germany fluency.
You can pick up many family words—as well as common German phrases used in the home—just by listening to German speakers use the language.
Let’s begin with family possessives
Before we begin discussing family in German, let’s talk about possessives. When you talk about your parents, you don’t say “the mom” and “the dad.” You say “my mom” and “my dad.” The word for “my” in German is mein- (and we include this dash at the end of it to show that mein needs an ending that matches the case and gender of the noun you’re referring to).
For example, let’s say you wanted to express “my family” in German. The word for family in German is die Familie, pronounced “dee Fuh-mil-e-uh.” If you want to say “my family,” you would say meine Familie, since Familie is feminine (die) and the -e ending denotes that.
Since the gender of Familie doesn’t change when we’re speaking about it in the nominative, you would say:
meine/deine/seine/ihre Familie (my/your/his/her family).
But let’s say you wanted to tell someone about your heritage. The German word for heritage is das Erbe, so you could say:
mein/dein/sein/ihr Erbe (my/your/his/her heritage)
What about your family tree, or dein Stammbaum? You can also say:
mein/sein/ihr Stammbaum (my/his/her family tree)
For more on how to keep your possessives grammatically correct, check out this post.
Terms for the nuclear family
The nuclear family (not to be confused with the typical family, which is much more varied), is comprised of a father, a mother and their child or children.
Note the article attached to each family member. While we don’t often use these designations in English (who regularly says “the father?”), it’s important to note the gender in German. This will come in handy for all kinds of German grammar rules.
der Vater = father
die Mutter = mother
das Kind = child
das Baby = baby
der Bruder = brother
die Schwester = sister
A lot of people don’t necessarily call their parents “father” and “mother,” so the colloquial terms are der Vati (Dad) and die Mutti (Mom).
Think about how many terms we have for parents in English (the ‘rents, old man/lady, ma/pa, etc. )! Understanding these nuances is key to near-native fluency, as it’s akin to slang or idiomatic language.
Vocabulary for the extended family
Here’s where we really get into the family tree. The next time you’re at a family gathering, be it the holidays, special event, what have you, show off your knowledge with the following vocabulary.
Let’s begin with your grandparents:
der Groβ vater = grandfather
die Groβ mutter = grandmother
der Urgroβ vater = great-grandfather
die Urgroβ mutter = great-grandmother
The “great” part about great-grandparents is that you only have to add Ur to signify “great.” Although, if you start saying Ururururur” too many times, your relatives might start to wonder.
You’ve probably heard a lot of people call their German grandmothers Oma. If you haven’t, know that German grandchildren often call their grandparents (die) Oma (Grandma) and (der) Opa (Grandpa).
I’ve put the articles in parentheses because in use, most Germans would say, “Oma, darf ich noch einen Keks haben, bitte?” (Literally: Grandma, can I one more cookie have, please?).
However, you would need the article when saying, “Ich fahre zu meinem Opa.” (Literally: “I drive to my grandpa.”)
What about those aunts, uncles, nieces and nephews?
der Onkel = uncle
die Tante = aunt
der Cousin = (male) cousin
die Kusine = (female) cousin
der Neffe = nephew
die Nichte = niece
Paternal and maternal relationships
It’s one thing in German to say “my father,” but another thing altogether, grammatically, to say “my father’s brother.” These expressions reflect a type of possession that isn’t (arguably) as easy as it is in English. Expressing one’s paternal and maternal relations requires the use of genitive case. Here are a few examples:
der Bruder meines Vaters (my father’s brother; this literally translates to “the brother of my father” )
die Groβ mutter meiner Mutter (effectively, my great-grandmother, on my mother’s side; this literally translates to “the grandmother of my mother”)
Genitive case is a bit more complex than that, but it’s important to at least be aware of it when talking about how your family members are related to you. For a more in-depth look at genitive case, check out this great guide .
Relative-ly speaking
Another great way to distinguish members of your family is to describe them using relative clauses. In English, we use the term “who” to describe someone in more detail:
My aunt Brigitta, who bought me this hat, is visiting us.
I want to introduce you to my cousin, who works as a pediatrician.
German requires you to reference the noun with a relative pronoun that matches the case and gender of the noun as it’s used in the relative clause:
Example:
My aunt Brigitta, who bought me this hat, is visiting us.
This is really a combination of two sentences: “My aunt Brigitta is visiting us,” and “My aunt Brigitta bought me this hat.”
“My aunt Brigitta” is the common element here, which we’re referring to in both sentences.
Therefore, when we translate to German, the relative pronoun will reflect the gender and case of “my aunt Brigitta” (female gender, nominative case, in both circumstances)
Meine Tante Brigitta, die mir diesen Hut gekauft hat, ist zu Besuch.
For the second example, “I want to introduce you to my cousin, who works as a pediatrician,” the common element is “my cousin,” who we’ll say is male in this case.
The two sentences, separate, are: “I want to introduce you to my cousin,” and “My cousin works as a pediatrician.”
Since we’ll be using the masculine form of “my cousin,” we’ll use the masculine relative pronoun, in the accusative form as “to introduce” in German requires using the accusative case.
Ich will dir meinen Cousin, der als Kinderarzt arbeitet, vorstellen.
Practice your German family vocabulary by drawing out a family tree and assigning each family member their proper German title. You might even write down a few practice sentences describing various members of your family.
You might even involve the whole family! Learning a new language is always more fun when others are involved!
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The German word for family is
Familie
Gender
The gender of Familie is feminine. E.g. die Familie.
Plural
The plural of Familie is Familien.
German Definition
family | |
Substantiv: | |
[1] Familie | |
[1] I miss my family a lot. | |
Ich vermisse meine Familie sehr. |
Translations for family and their definitions
Familie | |
n-f. family |
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