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There’s always some reason To feel not good enough And it’s hard at the end of the day
We are manipulated to make us feel not good enough, and therefore ready to submit to the will of another, and to give up our rights.
You don’t have to feel you’re not good enough for us now.
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чувствовать себя недостаточно хорошим
Everyone has times where they feel not good enough.
Always feel not good enough as a mother.
We are manipulated to make us feel not good enough, and therefore ready to submit to the will of another, and to give up our rights.
You are simply manipulated so that you feel not good enough and it means you’ll be ready to submit to his will and reject your rights.
Bc that would def make me feel not good enough for her.
There’s always some reason To feel not good enough And it’s hard at the end of the day
The only person who made me feel not good enough to be me, was me.
Человек, который не давал мне быть счастливым, — был Я САМ.
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not good enough — перевод на русский
I’m not good enough for you!
Я недостаточно хорош для тебя!
— I’m not good enough even for…
— Я недостаточно хорош даже для…
He’s not good enough to dance with girls yet.
Он ещё недостаточно хорош, чтобы танцевать с девушками.
— Here’s Harry giving’ me a hard time. And, uh, this is Harry telling’ me it’s not good enough.
Здесь он сказал, что я недостаточно хорош.
I’m not good enough for the concert hall either.
Я тоже недостаточно хорош для концертного зала .
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I’m not good enough to teach people.
Я не достаточно хорошо могу обучать.
That’s not good enough, Mr. Bowden.
Это не достаточно хорошо, г-н Боуден.
Were you not good enough to remain on the force?
Были ли вы не достаточно хорошо, чтобы остаться на силу?
Not good enough!
Не достаточно хорошо!
Well, that’s not good enough anymore.
— Выходит, не достаточно хорошо.
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But that’s not good enough!
Однако этого недостаточно!
Similar is not good enough.
Быть похожим недостаточно.
— That’s not good enough, doctor.
— Этого недостаточно, доктор.
Not bad for a man fighting a fire in his seat. But not good enough to beat Gary Black, who has avenged his loss to the Lucky Man at Big Sky last week… taking this one with an E.T. of6.62.
Весьма недурно для человека, которому пришлось сражаться с пожаром, но недостаточно, чтобы победить Гэри Блэка, который отомстил Счастливчику за поражение в Биг Скае на прошлой неделе.
I’m afraid that’s not good enough.
Боюсь, этого недостаточно.
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Certainly not good enough. But since I’m in a hurry, it’ll have to do.
Конечно, не достаточно, но поскольку я спешу, придется пойти на это.
I eat ’em on my steak when I’m out and the meat’s not good enough as it is. If I brought you some mushrooms, would you eat ’em?
Ну, я ем их вместо мяса, если я обедаю не дома, и оно не достаточно свежее, чтобы его есть.
— Not good enough.
-Этого не достаточно.
Not good enough.
— Этого не достаточно.
Not good enough?
— Не достаточно?
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This is not good enough!
Этого мало!
Our love’s not good enough for you.
Нашей любви тебе мало?
Well, that’s just not good enough.
Этого мало, мой друг.
That’s not good enough!
Этого мало!
Oh, it’s not good enough that the whole fucking world loves you?
Мало того, что тебя любит весь мир, тьı присвоил себе человека, ..
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That’s not good enough.
Это плохо.
This operation was timed to start at 2:25, you started at 2:35, that’s not good enough.
В координационном центре время начала операции указано в 2.25. Вы начали в 2.35. Вот, что плохо.
It’s not good enough, but it will be.
-Пока плохо, но будет хорошо.
— Not good enough.
— Плохо.
She has talked about the same things again that we are not good enough to look after Deniz, she misses her daughter you should not have got married, mumbo-jumbo. Nonsense.
Она все о своем талдычит — мы плохо заботимся о Денизе, она скучает о своей дочери, тебе не нужно было жениться, и тэ дэ и тэ пэ.
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Fresh fruit not good enough for you?
Свежие фрукты уже не так хороши для вас?
Oooh! What — we’re not good enough for you, Seanie?
Мы что, не так хороши для тебя Шони?
What — we’re not good enough for you, Seanie?
Мы что, не так хороши для тебя Шони?
— Yeah, well, not good enough.
Все не так хорошо.
Not good enough to have a baby yet.
Не так хорошо, чтобы завести ребенка.
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— That’s not good enough.
— Так не пойдёт.
WELL, THAT’S NOT GOOD ENOUGH.
Так не пойдёт.
Not good enough.
— Не пойдёт.
It’s not good enough.
— Так не пойдёт.
Not good enough?
Не пойдёт?
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Not good enough.
Не очень хорошо.
You’ve come prepared. But not good enough.
ты подготовился но не очень хорошо
Not good enough, I guess.
Наверное, не очень хорошо.
Excuse me, her English is not good enough.
Прошу извинить. Она не очень хорошо говорит по-английски.
Months later, kidnaps another redheaded girl, but his planning is not good enough,
Месяц спустя, похищает другую девушку, но спланировал всё не очень хорошо,
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Nah, that’s-— that’s not good enough.
Не, это не подходит.
Bill’s not good enough for the job.
Билл не подходит для должности.
He’s still not good enough for Pam.
Он все равно не подходит для Пэм.
But if it’s not good enough for you, I’ll have to take you shopping.
Но если для тебя это не подходит, предется пройтись с тобой по магазинам.
T omorrow’s not good enough, she needs it now.
Завтра не подходит. Ей нужно сейчас.
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As children, we feared the monsters living in our wardrobes. We begged our parents not to turn the lights out. And no matter what, we never looked under the bed, just in case one was hiding under there.
Fast forward a few years and we learn to rationalize the things that went bump in the night. It was nothing more than our imagination. A game we unintentionally played as we settled down to sleep.
But that’s not to say that monsters aren’t real, for even as adults, we continue to hide from the beasts. And the feeling of not being good enough is by far the biggest and ugliest of them all.
These ‘Not good enough’ quotes can offer some light in the darkness. To help you rationalize those feelings once again. And in time, believe that you are indeed completely and utterly enough.
How Can You Overcome the Feeling of Not Being Good Enough?
Going through a relationship breakup, a job rejection, and even a fallout with family all ignite the same horrible feeling of not being good enough. And it’s a hard one to shake off.
The lack of self-worth worms its way into every aspect of your life. You begin to criticize yourself and find every little flaw, like dinner being 10 minutes late. The small typo in an article you wrote. Or your car being a mess because you couldn’t find time to clean it.
Though your scenario may look different, that ever-sinking feeling remains the same. It’s hard to mentally breathe, as the waves of self-doubt rush over you. And all you can hear is your inner voice, judging and reiterating that you’re not good enough.
Where these insecurities came from may be difficult to pinpoint. But the chances are the people you surround yourself with, intentionally or otherwise, are either breeding or feeding your lack of self-worth.
A partner, your colleagues, or even your parents could be fueling your feelings of inadequacy with ridiculous expectations for perfection. It’s important to recognize the toxic behaviors and distance yourself from them.
Imagine that you’re carrying the weight of their actions around in a rucksack. With each disapproving word, the bag feels heavier, as if filled with rocks. Only you no longer wish to be weighed down by their judgment. And so, you leave the bag on the side of the road, allowing yourself to stand tall and walk freely.
Breaking away will undoubtedly be difficult, especially if the person weighing you down plays an important part in your life. But without the courage to say ‘Enough is enough’, they will only drag you further into the darkness of self-doubt.
Try using some of these ‘Not good enough’ quotes to find comfort, and know that you are not alone. Sometimes, the understanding of another human being is all we need to push forward.
So let’s get started.
- “I understand that feeling of insecurity, like you’re not good enough as you are, and you need to change.” – Shannon Purser
- “I felt so much, that I started to feel nothing.” – Unknown
- “There’s not one human being on the planet earth who has never felt, at some point, unaccepted. At some point in our lives, we feel like we’re not good enough, but we have to step back and realize that we are.” – Jussie Smollett
- “Sometimes, I feel as useless as a white crayon.” – Unknown
- “Nothing will knock you down quicker than offering the best of yourself to someone and it still not being good enough.” – M.W Poetry
- “People will try to label you not good enough, too slow, too old, too many mistakes. You can’t stop negative comments or prevent negative labels, but you can choose to not let them hold you back.” – Joel Osteen
- “It feels like I am living every day trying to impress someone.” – Unknown
- “I put a lot of pressure on myself. I think something’s not good enough, and I won’t stop until I feel like I’ve made it. I’m never satisfied.” – J. Cole
- “And if you don’t like me, as I do you; I understand. Because who would really choose a daisy, in a field of roses?” – Unknown
- “I’m sorry that nothing I do is good enough.” – Unknown
- “All I can tell you really is if you get to the point where someone is telling you that you are not great or not good enough, just follow your heart and don’t let anybody crush your dream.” – Patti LaBelle
- “The worst thing about that kind of prejudice… is that while you feel hurt and angry and all the rest of it, it feeds you self-doubt. You start thinking, perhaps I am not good enough.” – Nina Simone
- “Good enough is never good enough.” – Alfred Bertram Guthrie
- “Every time I looked in the mirror, it was like, ‘You’re not good enough.’ ‘There’s always someone more popular.’” – Brian Welch
- “I did the best I could, and in some arenas, my best was not good enough. I’ve made some bad choices.” – Amy Grant
- “And it is easy to believe you are not good enough if you listen to everybody else.”- Mackenzie Astin
- “Sometimes you might feel like you’re not good enough or unique enough, but everyone is! Everyone has different personalities.” – Astrid S
Sometimes you might feel like you’re not good enough or unique enough, but everyone is! Everyone has different personalities.” – Astrid S
- “And above all things, never think that you’re not good enough yourself. A man should never think that. My belief is that in life people will take you at your own reckoning.” – Isaac Asimov
- “You’ve been criticizing yourself for years and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.” – Louise Hay
- “It’s a lie to think you’re not good enough. It’s a lie to think you’re not worth anything.”- Nick Vujicic
- “I think the worst feeling in the world knowing that someone you used to talk to every day doesn’t care about you anymore.” – Unknown
- “You may never be good enough for some people, but you will always be the best for those who deserve you.” – Unknown
- “Doubt whom you will, but never yourself.” – Christian Nestell Bovee
- “We are afraid of failure, of ridicule, of being rejected. We are afraid we’re not good enough.” – Rhonda Britten
- “Shame is the most powerful, master emotion. It’s the fear that we’re not good enough.” – Brené Brown
- “Don’t let anyone tell you that you’re not good enough. Don’t let anyone tell you that you’re too short, you’re too fat, you’re too thin, you’re too ugly – that’s nonsense.” – Bradley Walsh
- “Rejection doesn’t mean you aren’t good enough; it means the other person failed to notice what you have to offer.” – Unknown
- “At your absolute best, you still won’t be good enough for the wrong person.” – Unknown
- “Sweetheart, the right guy will make you a priority. If you find yourself feeling like you’re not good enough, it’s because he’s not good enough.” – Steve Maraboli
- “I go to sleep every single night thinking I’m not good enough. I really do. I don’t know if that’s healthy or not. But I really do have a fear of not being good, and I don’t like that.” – Diana Taurasi
- “There comes a point when you have to realize that you’ll never be good enough for some people. The question is, is that your problem or theirs?” – Unknown
- “The moment someone tells you or makes you feel like you’re not good enough is the moment you know you’re better than them.” – Unknown
- “Models are some of the most insecure people I’ve ever met. They’re constantly being told they’re not good enough. You’ve really got to practice loving yourself.” – Miranda Kerr
Models are some of the most insecure people I’ve ever met. They’re constantly being told they’re not good enough. You’ve really got to practice loving yourself.” – Miranda Kerr
- “There will always be someone who can’t see your worth. Don’t let it be you.” – Unknown
- “Self-doubt is the anchor that keeps our ships from sailing.” – Unknown
- “Your path is your path. Don’t compare it to others. Everyone’s timeline, obstacles, and triumphs are different.” – Jon Gordon
- “My biggest fear is that I’m not good enough. I have this voice in my head that I’ve been battling for years that says, ‘You’re not really talented enough. You don’t really deserve this.’” – Rachel Platten
- “Everyone’s journey is different. Don’t compare your path to anyone elses.” – Unknown
- “We start to feel not good enough and we withdraw our hearts energy and sensor our authentic expression, and that hurts!” – Agapi Stassinopoulos
- “She questioned her own beauty because of him he left scars on her self esteem…” – r.h. Sin
- “Sometimes all you can do is lie in your bed, and hope to fall asleep before you fall apart.” – Unknown
- “I guess I’m just not good enough for anyone. I can’t make anyone stay. I’m not even good enough for an explanation.” – Unknown
- “Everywhere I look, someone is telling me, ‘You’re not good enough,’ or, ‘You can’t do this or that.’ You can only hear that so many times before enough is enough.” – Baker Mayfield
- “It sucks, doesn’t it? Feeling like you’re not good enough.” – Unknown
- “You are not your mistakes: they are what you did, not who you are.” – Lisa Lieberman-Wang
- “There are times in your life when you realize that no matter what you do for some people, it will never be good enough.” – Unknown
- “I wanted to be all things you loved. yet sadly I am plagued with flaws haunted by the thought that I never met up to your standards.” – Unknown
- “I’m sorry I’m not what you wanted.” – Unknown
- “Who do you turn to when the only person in the world that can stop you from crying is exactly the one making you cry?” – Unknown
- “I could be perfect and it still wouldn’t be good enough.” – Unknown
- “If I asked you to name all the things you love, how long would it take to name yourself?” – Unknown
Final Thoughts on Feeling Like You’re Not Good Enough
If there’s one emotion that’s guaranteed to pull you down, it’s the feeling that you’re not good enough. No matter how quickly you bail the water from your ship, the waves of self-doubt keep coming. And eventually, you sink. But you are enough. Completely and utterly. And the sooner you start to believe that, the happier you’ll be.
Check out these strategies to forgive yourself for past mistakes and always remember to be kind to yourself. Whilst the world may be full of dark clouds, you are all the sunshine you need.
And if you want more inspirational quotes, be sure to check out these blog posts:
- 71 You Are Worthy Quotes to Know You’re Enough
- 73 Overcoming Insecurities Quotes for a Confident You
- 65 Invest in Yourself Quotes to Find Success in Life
Finally, if you want to use these quotes to make a lasting change to your life, then check out and recite these 57 affirmations for success.
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Relationships can be messy. And sometimes we enter into one thinking this will be great and that your partner can do no wrong. But the reality is, after the honeymoon stage has come and gone, your partner will start to show his true colors.
While some people are ready and mature enough for a relationship, there are plenty who shouldn’t be in a relationship … for a while. But we also have to remember that it’s OK for men (and women) to not be ready for a relationship this very second of their life.
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It’s even more important to know that their immaturity does not mean that you aren’t good enough, but when you do feel that way, these not good enough quotes will help you feel less alone.
59 Not Good Enough Quotes For When You Feel Less Than You Are
1. “Nothing will knock you down quicker than offering the best of yourself to someone and it still not being good enough.” — M.W Poetry
Take time to open up to people. You’ll find some don’t deserve you.
2. “I felt so much, that I started to feel nothing.” — Unknown
Feeling inadequate can be too much pressure.
3. “I stopped talking about how I felt because I knew no one cared anyway.” — Unknown
Someone will care.
4. “I guess I’m just not good enough for anyone. I can’t make anyone stay. I’m not even good enough for an explanation.” — Unknown
You are good enough. They just didn’t realize it.
5. “I’m sorry that nothing I do is good enough.” — Unknown
Never apologize for something that isn’t true.
6. “She questioned her own beauty because of him he left scars on her self esteem…” — r.h. sin
Your beauty is within you.
7. “And if you don’t like me, as I do you; I understand. Because who would really choose a daisy, in a field of roses?” — Unknown
I would!
8. “I’m sorry I’m not what you wanted.” — Unknown
We are not here to be wanted, we are here to be loved. There’s a difference.
9. “At your absolute best, you still won’t be good enough for the wrong person.” — Unknown
You are good enough for anyone; some just won’t see it. And that’s their fault.
10. “If I asked you to name all the things you love, how long would it take to name yourself?” — Unknown
A human flaw.
11. “Sweetheart, the right guy will make you a priority. If you find yourself feeling like you’re not good enough, it’s because he’s not good enough.” — Steve Maraboli
Truth!
12. “Stop looking for happiness in the place you lost it.” — Unknown
You should never have to feel those bad feelings ever again.
13. “I think the worst feeling in the world knowing that someone you used to talk to every day doesn’t care about you anymore.” — Unknown
Well then, they aren’t worth thinking about anymore.
14. “I am learning to love the sound of my feet walking away from things not meant for me.” — AG
It’s a beautiful cadence of freedom!
15. “The way you speak of yourself / the way you degrade yourself / into smallness / is abuse.” — Rupi Kaur
Be kinder to yourself.
16. “I can’t even explain how I feel anymore, my thoughts are so messed up in my head that I don’t even understand them.” — Unknown
Maybe because you never did anything wrong in the first place.
17. “Rejection doesn’t mean you aren’t good enough; it means the other person failed to notice what you have to offer.” — Unknown
Amen!
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18. “My problem wasn’t not being good enough. My problem was thinking I had to be.” — Unknown
You don’t have to be good enough for a person who was never good enough for you.
19. “Self-doubt is the anchor that keeps our ships from sailing.” — Unknown
Reel in that anchor!
20. “Don’t allow someone to make you feel like you’re not good enough.” — Unknown
You are good enough.
21. «The person that tries to keep everyone happy often ends up feeling the loneliest.» — Unknown
Can’t please everyone.
22. «Sometimes all you can do is lie in your bed, and hope to fall asleep before you fall apart.» — Unknown
But the morning always brings new possibilities.
23. «Who do you turn to when the only person in the world that can stop you from crying is exactly the one making you cry?» — Unknown
You can always be that person to make yourself happy.
24. «Tears are the words the heart can’t say.» — Unknown
But they don’t have to be the only words.
25. «I don’t think people understand how stressful it is to explain what’s going on in your head when you don’t even understand it yourself.» — Unknown
But you can get help no matter how confusing it is.
26. «I hate that I’m still hoping.» — Unknown
But hope is always stronger than fear.
27. «Today I realized you don’t care anymore. And then I realized, you probably never did anyway. And the saddest part of it all is that you made me believe you did.» — Unknown
But you can be your own support system, you are strong enough.
28. «The worst feeling ever is when you’re crying in silence because you don’t want anyone to know you are.» — Unknown
Don’t be afraid to ask for help.
29. «Today my forest is dark. The trees are sad and all the butterflies have broken wings.» — Unknown
You can be the light that brightens it all.
30. «Who hurt you? My own expectations.» — Unknown
Expectations do not dictate you.
31. «It’s not always just the heart. Sometimes you mind breaks as well.» — r.h. Sin
But it is never fully broken.
32. «When she is happy she can’t stop talking. When she is sad, she doesn’t say a word.» — Unknown
Sad doesn’t have to be forever.
33. «Sick of crying, tired of trying, yes I’m smiling but inside I’m dying.» — Unknown
It doesn’t have to be that way.
34. «Have you ever been so sad that it physically hurts inside?» — Unknown
You can get help to make yourself feel better.
35. «Sometimes all you can do is smile. Move on with your day, hold back the tears, and pretend you’re okay.» — Unknown
You can find help and you can be really okay.
36. «Everywhere I look, someone is telling me, ‘You’re not good enough,’ or, ‘You can’t do this or that.’ You can only hear that so many times before enough is enough.» — Baker Mayfield
37. «The worst thing about that kind of prejudice… is that while you feel hurt and angry and all the rest of it, it feeds you self-doubt. You start thinking, perhaps I am not good enough.» — Nina Simone
38. «I did the best I could, and in some arenas, my best was not good enough.» — Amy Grant
39. «Shame is the most powerful, master emotion. It’s the fear that we’re not good enough.» — Brené Brown
40. «Don’t let anyone tell you that you’re not good enough. Don’t let anyone tell you that you’re too short, you’re too fat, you’re too thin, you’re too ugly — that’s nonsense.» — Bradley Walsh
41. «Every time I looked in the mirror, it was like, ‘You’re not good enough.’ ‘There’s always someone more popular.'» — Brian Welch
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42. «Silly me, thinking I was good enough.» — Unknown
43. “Being good enough never is.” — Debbi Fields
44. “Above all else, never think you’re not good enough.” — Anthony Trollope
45. “When people tell you’re not good enough, don’t mind them.” — Toni Gonzaga
46. “Just doing as well as you did last time is not good enough.” — Michael Jackson
47. “I am learning to love the sound of my feet walking away from things not meant for me.” — AG
48. “And it is easy to believe you are not good enough if you listen to everybody else.” — Mackenzie Astin
49. “It’s a lie to think you’re not good enough. It’s a lie to think you’re not worth anything.” — Nick Vujicic
50. “We are afraid of failure, of ridicule, of being rejected. We are afraid we’re not good enough.” — Rhonda Britten
51. “All you can do is all you can do… If all you can do, is still not good enough, then go do something else.” — Bradford Winters
52. “Don’t let anyone make you feel like you’re not good enough, smart enough, or cool enough. Do your own thing.” — Benji Madden
53. “We start to feel not good enough and we withdraw our hearts energy and sensor our authentic expression, and that hurts!” — Agapi Stassinopoulos
54. “Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful.” — Bob Marley
55. “Sometimes things go wrong, even when you’re doing your best. That just shows that none of us are perfect. So I keep trying with all of my heart, and if that’s not good enough, I’m not going to hang my head.” — Luis Tiant
56. “Good enough is never good enough.” — Alfred Bertram Guthrie
57. «Do not let anyone tell you that you are not good enough or smart enough. Remember that nobody is better than you. Everybody puts on their pants one leg at a time.» — Farrah Gray
58. “You are not your mistakes: they are what you did, not who you are.” — Lisa Lieberman-Wang
59. “Not nice enough. Not pretty enough. Not thin enough. Not talented enough. Not stable enough. Not calm enough. Just not enough.” — Unknown
Why will I never be good enough for him?
We would all much rather pick ourselves apart and bring ourselves down than admit that we picked a bad apple for a boyfriend. And while it’s completely valid to have sad thoughts about ourselves, it’s important to know that a breakup is not a result of “not being good enough.”
It’s much more complicated than that, and more than likely has more to do with the guy’s issues than yours.
When taking a step back from the situation, you’ll find a couple of things to be true: Your grieving process will most likely start with lots of crying and some hurtful thoughts that put the blame on you.
After you cry a lot, you will start to replay his actions through your head. Slowly you will come to see that he had some issues of his own.
If you begin to put blame on yourself because of who you are then the relationship wasn’t worth it in the first place.
No one, and I mean absolutely no one, should be making you feel like you are not good enough for them. Girl, you were too much greatness for him to handle and he was too cowardly to admit it.
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Shelby Henderson is a frequent contributor to YourTango.