Family is just a word

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Asked by Berserker (33548)
December 13th, 2009

Generally, we all love our family members, and overlook, or seek to justify or forgive the actions they may do that, if someone not from our family did, would be quick as lightning to judge and condemn.
Is it just a word, or is family really that important?
What are your thoughts? Aren’t we all just humans?
Things like sexual abuse are usually never forgiven, for good reason, so is it instinctive, or is there something more to family?

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Seems like it is becoming that way to some degree. It is a shame.

@jonsblond The government? XD

Family to me has 2 meanings – Immediate family is the most important thing, when all fails, you’ve still got the family and I’m lucky to have close relationships with most members of my family, screwed up relationships with some and distant with one or two realtions – pretty much a standard family I guerss. I also have a family of people who I have gotten to know – friendships both real and virtual – that can also be deemed a family.
It’s what the word means to YOU though.
I personally think the family unit has changed from even when I was a kid, I dunno if it’s down to lack of respect or what but it does feel different somehow…………

“Family’s just another word for ‘Nothin’ left to lose’”. Not an exact quote per se…

To some it may be just a word. But to others, family is one of the most, if not the most important things to them. To me, I value family very much. My sister is my best friend. Right now my brother is not being the best brother, or son to my parents. Refused to spend Thanksgiving with the family and now refuses to spend Christmas with them. He doesn’t ever talk to our dad dad doesn’t like his girlfriend much, but despite that, I still try to let him know that we all love him and that he’ll always be apart of the family.

@jonsblond: I’m related to a Schwan’s guy…

@MacBean The last Schwan’s guy I knew felt me up and used the cute puppy I was holding as a cover. :/

@jonsblond: The Schwan’s guy I’m related to wouldn’t be smart enough to do that. XD He’s a big, stupid teddy bear.

@MacBean I love stupid teddy bears. They are cuddly.

Family are the people who will help you when no one else will. It is easy to feel like others are family when all is good, but when things get bad and you have lost everything who is going to take you in?

Yes, a six letter word.

Most likely it depends on what kind of ‘family’ you were raised in. To some the true meaning will be illusive, because they never experienced it, so the letters that spell family are nothing more than that. For others, the ‘family’ is a whole life experience, and to us there is a deeper meaning.

No

In some cases, sadly yes. There’s no guarantee that just because we’re related to someone that we will be a “family”. I think family is a state of mind too. I’ve considered some friends I’ve had more family than some of my own relatives. It’s just something that needs to be nurtured and grows as we feel confident that someone will always be there for us and loves us unconditionally.

@ABJustPlainBarb Your answer rules.

There is nothing more important than your family.

We’re a tribal family… (thank you for that @PandoraBoxx ) my two older sisters are married with children and I have a child.. and my parents are round the corner from me, we actually all live within half a mile of one another…it’s pretty cool and yet it can be pretty difficult at times… but those difficult times don’t get in the way of the immense feeling of support that emanates from being physically close.

I have a family, but it’s not the one I was born in. Some of us are, unfortunately, related by blood to people who should never have gotten together, much less procreated. But in my case, I did eventually get a family that has made me a part of itself and I know that we have each other’s backs.

That depends on the person’s experience. It’s easy to say that family is the most important thing in life if one has had a positive family experience, but people who didn’t have a good family life will obviously have other priorities. I believe that the term “family” shouldn’t be limited to biological relatives. Some people mesh well with their family of origin, while some of us will build our own families of choice.