Best one word responses

Well, you shouldn’t, pushing things to find another outcome sucks because you are only hurting yourself only. You will find yourself in a loophole trying hard to receive a different answer and you will waste time and maybe you will be hurt (if this is someone you have feelings for). One word answers may vary the cause but if it is too often then consider to stop talking to those people because on the other side, they may have lost interest or don’t care at all for you. If you want to know why they are cold you should ask what is going on (if before their one words answer you were talking a lot) and then truly know the cause (if they are honest of course), it will save you from a lot of problems and pain. You will be thankful in a future scenario.

Edit; Forgot to say, you may not be the problem of their behavior, people have a lot of problems in their heads and most of them not even know what they want so, don’t take it personal.

Whether she’s your Tinder match, real life crush, platonic friend, or girlfriend…

…I’m going to give you 9 ways to deal with her one word texts.

So by the end of today’s article, you’ll know:

• What do one-word text messages mean?
• #1: Take a breath
• #2: You’re texting her at the wrong time
• #3: The best mindset to deal with one-word texts
• #4: How often does she send you one-word texts?
• #5: Ask more open-ended questions
• #6: Be clear in your tone of voice
• #7: Don’t be too hard-to-get
• #8: Stop selling yourself
• #9: Why you’re getting one-word texts from your girlfriend or boyfriend
• #10: Stop typing like your uneducated
• What to text after a one-word text

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What do one-word text messages mean?

Honestly, it can mean many things.

She could be too busy to tell you more. It could be that your last text was difficult to answer. And it could mean she’s done with your shit.

Yup. More often than not, a one-word text is a negative sign.

But it doesn’t have to be.

So don’t jump to conclusions. It’s not good for your back or your relationship with that girl.

The only time you need to be worried is if you get one word replies a lot.

Then the odds are that you’re doing something wrong.

Find out what you’re doing wrong in the next tips.

#1: Take a breath

One of the most important things to do after you get a one-word text is to relax.

Take a chill pill, dude.

Because if you grab your phone with a heart full of rage, you’ll probably say something you’ll regret.

Something you can’t undo.

So don’t let your emotions get the better of you.

Take a deep breath and put the phone away.

Then do something fun or productive.

Go for a walk, hit the gym, or hang out with a friend.

And remember: her one-word reply may not mean anything.

#2: You’re texting her at the wrong time

Sometimes one word replies make a lot of sense.

You just caught her at the wrong time.

She’s working. Hanging out with friends. Or she’s done talking with you after you blew up her phone with text messages.

So timing is of the essence.

In this next 2-minute video, I tell you exactly what the best time is to text a girl.

#3: The best mindset to deal with one-word texts

One-word texts usually rattle us for two reasons.

• We like the other person so much that their lack of interest hurts
• We have a negative mindset

Story time!

One of the students from my TextGod Mentoring Program was at a girl’s house on a date when he saw something bad.

A trash can with two empty pizza boxes.

“Oh no…” he thought “she probably had a date yesterday and had sex with him!”

Now he felt like a cheap manwhore and the whole vibe of the date was ruined.

Let’s hit rewind.

Did the two empty pizza boxes mean she had a date?

How else could we interpret that?

• She’s had a couple pizzas by herself this week
• She had pizza with a platonic friend
• She’s into modern art and this is her latest art installation (probably not)

In short: there are plenty of innocent reasons why she has a trash can with two empty pizza boxes!

But because my student had a negative mindset, he assumed the worst and was a real Debbie Downer.

So be careful, my friend.

Don’t assume the worst. Instead, assume she likes you and all is good.

• 10 Ways to make a girl like you over text

#4: How often does she send you one-word texts?

Don’t worry if you get a brief reply every now and then.

That’s normal.

And more importantly, it’s probably not a bad sign.

Does it happen more often?

Now it’s time to put on your thinking cap, because we may have found a pattern.

Check your convo. Do the one-word texts have anything in common?

Were they perhaps sent at the same time of day (work hours) or after you said something with a unique flavor (something she didn’t like)?

Look carefully.

Because if you’re the cause of her short replies, you have the power to stop them.

You just need to find out what you’re doing wrong.

Here are some questions to help you identify the problem:

• Was your text easy to reply to?
• Were you talking about the same subject for too long?
• Was the vibe of your text very different from the texts that came before?
• Did you ask a question out of necessity rather than curiosity?

Want to know how to get her more engaged? Check out this article:

• 19 Texting rules for guys to make her interested in you

#5: Ask more open-ended questions

A HUGE reason why people struggle with online dating is this.

They ask bad questions.

Closed questions.

And, of course, this zinger of a question.

What’s the trouble with asking these types of questions?

They lead to one-word answers.

Yes and no.

Sure, she could reply more.

But if you want a rich and fulfilling love life, you need to take responsibility and be proactive.

So start writing texts that lead to long and fun answers.

An easy way is to start asking open-ended questions.

Here are two articles to give you some inspiration:

• 100+ Tinder questions that actually work
• 70+ Questions to ask your crush over text

#6: Be clear in your tone of voice

If you don’t take care of your tone of voice, you’re torpedoing your love life.

Even the most innocent texts can turn off Tinder matches or start fights with your significant other.

Why?

Because unless you clarify the vibe of your text, she’ll interpret the text based on her mood and what she knows of you.

If she barely knows you and she’s in a foul mood, you can guarantee an ambiguous text will go down badly.

So don’t just type up a joke and think she’ll laugh.

Read your text out loud to yourself and ask yourself: “Can I interpret the text in any other way?”

If so, delete that mothatrucka and send it to hell.

Or rewrite the text in a way that it only has one clear meaning. Sometimes the answer is as simple as adding an emoji.

So drop the linguistic puzzles and be clear.

#7: Don’t be too hard-to-get

Playing hard-to-get definitely has its place in seduction.

But it usually backfires harder than a sumo wrestler’s backside on enchilada night.

Why?

Because most people do it wrong.

They’re not hard-to-get. They’re cold.

• They wait forever to text back
• They never ask questions
• And they never give compliments

What type of reaction do you think that type of behavior promotes?

MORE cold behavior in the shape of one-word answers.

So don’t be hard-to-get.

Be warm.

Which starts with smiling in your online dating photos. Click this link for 11 Tinder profile photo tips on how to triple your matches.

Anyway, being warm also means being friendly, genuine and curious in your text conversations.

• If someone actually says or does something you like, tell them.
• Don’t constantly hide behind jokes and witty remarks, be your relaxed self.
• Lastly, be interested in their opinions and who they are.

But be careful you don’t simp for her.

That’s a big turn off.

Check my next article for what I mean:

• 7 Signs you’re a simp over text message

#8: Stop selling yourself

If you’re a guy, you’re in trouble.

You see, when it comes to dating guys are born with a handicap.

A donger.

I’m joking, but only slightly.

Men are genetically wired to procreate and shoot babies into our better halves.

Although we can override that instinct, most dudes don’t even bother.

So the instant they see a pretty lady, they think: “I must have her!”

And all standards fly out the window.

The problem?

They’re already decided they want her and will do and say everything to get her.

Which often turns guys into a pushy car salesman.

Like so.

One simple text turned this guy into doggy listening to its master.

Which communicates to her:

“Man, I really like you. Here’s what I can do for you. Please say it’s enough and like me back.”

Not all girls will be turned off by this behavior.

But to many it’s a buzzkill.

Which they’ll show you by sending you one word texts.

#9: Why you’re getting one-word texts from your girlfriend or boyfriend

This is a serious topic which deserves a quick and serious answer.

First of all, remember that one-word texts aren’t an issue unless you’re getting them regularly.

Are one-word texts common for you?

Here’s what might be going on.

Warning, it’s not pretty:

You like her and the relationship a lot more than she currently likes you and the relationship.

Because you like her so much, you’re likely showering her with texts and affection.

And because she’s in need of some space, she’s being curt over text in the hope that you’ll take the hint.

Does that mean the relationship is over?

No.

Just that you and your partner CURRENTLY have different needs.

So slow down.

If she’s suffering from a you-overdose, you want to give her a little less and give her the opportunity to miss you.

Once your loving strangle-hold loosens, she’ll likely start typing in full sentences again.

Want to make her fall in love with you (again)? Check out this article:

• 14 Ways to make her fall in love over text

#10: Stop typing like your uneducated

If this title didn’t trigger you, then you need to read this tip.

Did the title make you cringe? Great.

Now you know how she’s feeling.

Anyway, the title has a big grammar mistake that will shrivel up a girl’s eggs.

Not all girls will have such a strong reaction. But many of the good ones will.

You know, the girls with diplomas, big ambitions and next level tongue and throat skills. (The last point is made up, but I feel like it makes my point more convincing.)

So while you may scoff at grammar mistakes, others wince at them as if they were hearing the sound of nails on a chalkboard.

And it makes sense.

Proper grammar communicates that you’re smart and probably live the life of a smart dude.

Nice place. Decent job. And a big d- oggo for her to cuddle.

So get your grammar right.

It doesn’t cost much effort and the rewards are big.

What to text after a one-word text

One of the most effective ways to get a woman to open up to you over text is this.

Clickbait.

If you get it right, clickbait is irresistible.

As long as you choose the right topic to get the clicks.

Your safest bet is talking about her.

Why?

Because it’s her most favorite subject in the world.

So to get a good answer, hit her with some questions like this:

Or:

IRRESISTIBLE.

She won’t be able to stop herself from replying.

For more clickbait questions and good follow-up questions, check my clickbait video where I tell you exactly what to do using actual text conversations.

You can find my clickbait video here.

Enjoy.

Blessings,
Louis Farfields

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• #1

You know the deal. You get the coward chick who tries to breakup with you over text.

(I personally would go ghost. No contact. It drives them nuts with wondering..)

But, if you simply could not restrain yourself from replying with a ONE or two WORD reply to a chick breaking up with you over text what would you use to come off as not affected by her attempt before vanishing completely?

A few come to mind. Again I wouldn’t bother replying, but for other dudes who felt they HAD to…

«Ok»

«Aiiight.»

«Dueces kid.»

or simply: «Ghost»

• #2

I always accept rejection gracefully. «No problem. It’s been fun. All the best. x»

I think it’s good to show you can handle rejection because it shows her you’re a strong person and not an emotional liability, so it leaves the door open for anything that might happen in the future.

In my opinion, one word answers don’t convey indifference as they remind me too much of a sulking woman.

• #3

Similar, I broke up with a girl over the phone cause the ***** wouldn’t see me and I said its over. Told her no hard feelings, I wish you the best.

• #4

The word is no word at all.

No Contact. She isn’t giving you what you want so you walk. That is the rule. There is never any whining or nagging her about what she doesn’t do.

As Jarial noted, one of the biggest tests a woman will ever put you through is to see you how handle her dumping you. If you handle it right (and it’s a small chance) you can increase her interest level. While she’ll still do whatever she was going to do, she’ll probably come back within 10 days.

The attitude must be one of abundance. For example, yesterday I texted my gf to confirm whether we were going out last night to celebrate Valentine’s at midnight. At first I was worried she wouldn’t text back. Then I started HOPING she wouldn’t — I would save money and get to go out by myself. Of course, she showed up on time to the minute.

• #6

One reply after she gives the ‘breakup’ keeping it polite etc etc and ignore ignore ignore and move on with your life.

• #7

Two words actually:

Bye Bye

• #8

«Who is this?»

^^^ This is my personal favorite. I call it my infallible text. Use it well.

• #9

Either nothing at all or:

ok

No period, just the two letters. Conveys minimal investment.

• #10

vatoloco said:

«Who is this?»

^^^ This is my personal favorite. I call it my infallible text. Use it well.

Ha ha! Winner.

• #11

If I were to send a one or two word response it would most likely be a wise ass one and that’s it.

Hilarious, cool, or You’re silly. Those would most likely would get a chick extremely pissed especially if you go complete ghost afterward.

Never did that before though. Just vanished. Just a thread for dudes who can’t restrain themselves at having the last word if a breakup is done to them over text.

• #13

«Sounds good. See you around»

Last year around this time I’d been seeing this girl, we weren’t exclusive, but she sure led me like we were. She dropped me hard over text, and being pretty sure another guy was in the picture, I experimented and responded with «that’s fine, I had my eye on someone else anyways» and went NC. She was back in a week or two.

• #14

I’m of the opinion the best thing you can do or say is: NOTHING! Don’t even give them the satisfaction of closure. Keep em wondering.

• #15

Say nothing.

Breaking up over text is tacky. Don’t reward her with any type of closure.

• #16

Jeffst1980 said:

Say nothing.

Breaking up over text is tacky. Don’t reward her with any type of closure.

How about if I do an overdramatic, «Noooooooo» and then never speak to her again?

I’m kind of joking, but now that I think about it, I feel like making fun of her breakup attemp kind of deflates any ego boost she’d get by pulling a move like that.

• #17

Iceberg said:

How about if I do an overdramatic, «Noooooooo» and then never speak to her again?

I’m kind of joking, but now that I think about it, I feel like making fun of her breakup attemp kind of deflates any ego boost she’d get by pulling a move like that.

I Like this one. It would probably get a chuckle. I’ send the «nooooo.. my heart is crushed ahh.» Immediately followed by «Im. Jk. You’re a sweet girl and I truly wish you the best. It was fun.»

• #18

Iceberg said:

How about if I do an overdramatic, «Noooooooo /vader» and then never speak to her again?

There, improved it fer ya!

• #19

gimmeyofonenumba said:

I Like this one. It would probably get a chuckle. I’ send the «nooooo.. my heart is crushed ahh.» Immediately followed by «Im. Jk. You’re a sweet girl and I truly wish you the best. It was fun.»

I actually did something similar once. I went on one date with this girl, and didn’t really like her, but a few days later, I tried to be nice and sent a text saying, «It was nice meeting you.»

An hour later she replied with some 4-paragraph text talking about «I believe in honesty, and I just want to say that I don’t see us moving forward romantically. We can be friend, blah blah…»

First I’m thinking to myself — I met this chick once. Why give me some long-winded break up when I barely know you. Just ignore my text.

Anyway, so I replied in all caps and exclamation points, «WHAT!!!!» Then I said, «Just kidding. Sure, we’re friends.» and that was it.

I don’t know where this fits into the DJ philosophy, but I was just having fun with a girl who, apparently, takes dating way too seriously.

• #20

How about:

Eeheheheh!!

That’ll throw her off